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. by Nobody: 2:32am On May 03, 2020
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Re: . by bukatyne(f): 2:40am On May 03, 2020
You get mind o!

No level headed local man you can find love with?

So you really really know what you are getting.

Goodluck.
Re: . by gaby(m): 3:31am On May 03, 2020
I wish you luck sister because you deserve love no matter what, and being a single mother isn't a love death sentence.

Shine your eye though, so you don't seem overly desperate and setting the ground ready to attract "advantage takers" who would wanna feed off your vulnerability.

Peace.

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Re: . by Asholami: 3:51am On May 03, 2020
lovecode248:
It's really time to move on. I'm a single mother of one. 29years,
Never been married, setting up my own business and developing myself.

If you're matured, you also want to try to love again, you're ready for something serious, you're a Christian and you're sure you can have extra love to extend to my 6years old child without any sentiment, . Then, let's give it a try.
If you have a kid as well, it's fine.

Please, married men, guys looking for sugar mummy stay away.
Thanks



Please can I have your pics?
Re: . by bcbones: 4:06am On May 03, 2020
You'll definitely find love, keep been optimistic.
Chin up and have no regrets. smiley

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Re: . by Johntemmy(m): 4:41am On May 03, 2020
lovecode248:
It's really time to move on. I'm a single mother of one. 29years,
Never been married, setting up my own business and developing myself.

If you're matured, you also want to try to love again, you're ready for something serious, you're a Christian and you're sure you can have extra love to extend to my 6years old child without any sentiment, . Then, let's give it a try.
If you have a kid as well, it's fine.

Please, married men, guys looking for sugar mummy stay away.
Thanks
.


.am a single father of 2 check my signature to get my contact and hi me on Whatsapp

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Re: . by nnamdibig(m): 6:15am On May 03, 2020
You said you are setting up your business and upgrading yourself.
In that case, if you are truly looking for love, don't put your child in of the conditions for someone to love you(to avoid stories of he hates his step child or the real father has been disturbing my marriage).
Take care of your child through your business and if he loves the child along the line fine if not fine too. Look for love for yourself alone and let the lover know you have a child and not with condition to love your child also.

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Re: . by madone: 6:22am On May 03, 2020
nnamdibig:
You said you are setting up your business and upgrading yourself.
In that case, if you are truly looking for love, don't put your child in of the conditions for someone to love you(to avoid stories of he hates his step child or the real father has been disturbing my marriage).
Take care of your child through your business and if he loves the child along the line fine if not fine too. Look for love for yourself alone and let the lover know you have a child and not with condition to love your child also.
listen to this guy

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Re: . by Katier00(f): 6:37am On May 03, 2020
Do you really believe in online dating? Why not fall in love with someone around you and see how it goes. Do not introduce a man to your child until you are sure it is heading somewhere, don't bring random guy home, don't expose your child to such. Last last you will be fine, you see a man that will love you so much that will not be able to breath without you

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Re: . by Nobody: 7:10am On May 03, 2020
Goodluck dear. Just be careful.

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Re: . by Jamesbally: 7:21am On May 03, 2020
Don't mind those bitter ladies who are trying to discourage you. The truth is, you can find love anywhere.

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Re: . by tammie24: 7:30am On May 03, 2020
Be careful cos lots of guys are just looking for a meal ticket

It's easy for scammers to take advantage of you given the situation in the country right now

My number 1 concern is your young child
You really don't have to be with a man to be happy

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Re: . by Bola146(f): 7:33am On May 03, 2020
gaby:
I wish you, luck sister, because you deserve love no matter what, and being single isn't a love death sentence.

Shine your eye though, so you don't seem overly desperate and setting the ground ready to attract advantage takers who would wanna feed off your vulnerability.

Piece.

God bless you, Op this man said it all. Small kids and hungry lions are 95% here. Use your right senses please.

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Re: . by Nobody: 8:00am On May 03, 2020
gaby:
I wish you, luck sister, because you deserve love no matter what, and being single isn't a love death sentence.

Shine your eye though, so you don't seem overly desperate and setting the ground ready to attract advantage takers who would wanna feed off your vulnerability.

Piece.
Desperation is far from here. Thanks

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Re: . by Nobody: 8:03am On May 03, 2020
bcbones:
You'll definitely find love, keep been optimistic.
Chin up and have no regrets. smiley
Yes. Thank you
Re: . by Nobody: 8:16am On May 03, 2020
nnamdibig:
You said you are setting up your business and upgrading yourself.
In that case, if you are truly looking for love, don't put your child in of the conditions for someone to love you(to avoid stories of he hates his step child or the real father has been disturbing my marriage).
Take care of your child through your business and if he loves the child along the line fine if not fine too. Look for love for yourself alone and let the lover know you have a child and nothing with condition to love your child also.
Thanks on your view. Although I don't want too many discussion/drama in the direction you're going on this post
I am not vulnerable, self pited, desperate or lazy young woman looking for a man to shoulders all my problems.
Sorry about that. I know and believe there's someone out there who wouldn't mind to willingly offer what I stated above. Besides, it's just one person I'm looking for. Happy Sunday

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Re: . by nnamdibig(m): 8:33am On May 03, 2020
lovecode248:
Thanks on your view. Although I don't want too many discussion/drama in the direction you're going on this post
I am not vulnerable, self pited, desperate or lazy young woman looking for a man to shoulders all my problems.
Sorry about that. I know and believe there's someone out there who wouldn't mind to willingly offer what I stated above. Besides, it's just one person I'm looking for. Happy Sunday

I understand you. The reason I said so is to avoid being blackmailed with it later in life.
To avoid stories like "I am not the biological father", "My own biological children comes first", "it's you that I love not your child", "take the child to her biological father".

like I said, if he loves the child naturally, fine. if he choose not to fine too but you won't be bordered because you are already taking care of the child with your business.

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Re: . by keenn: 8:47am On May 03, 2020
to men that are now inlove with single mothers, or to single mothers that are now in a good relationship, this will be a time to give out good tips and advise.

thanks
Re: . by Richy4(m): 9:23am On May 03, 2020
Wrong platform smiley.. By the time kids from romance section flood on your thread, u will be asking Y you opened it in the first place..

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Re: . by Kingarthur21: 9:56am On May 03, 2020
As in eh,It is very early that is why those pitiful men have not flooded this thread with blame,shaming etc all in the name of advice
Re: . by Vyolet(f): 10:03am On May 03, 2020
I wish you the best.
In whatever you do, be careful enough to pick someone worthy.
Cheers.

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Re: . by Nobody: 11:59am On May 03, 2020
nnamdibig:
You said you are setting up your business and upgrading yourself.
In that case, if you are truly looking for love, don't put your child in of the conditions for someone to love you(to avoid stories of he hates his step child or the real father has been disturbing my marriage).
Take care of your child through your business and if he loves the child along the line fine if not fine too. Look for love for yourself alone and let the lover know you have a child and not with condition to love your child also.
My dear sister, take this advice to the bank.
Re: . by doitforyou(f): 12:20pm On May 03, 2020
nnamdibig:


I understand you. The reason I said so is to avoid being blackmailed with it later in life.
To avoid stories like "I am not the biological father", "My own biological children comes first", "it's you that I love not your child", "take the child to her biological father".

like I said, if he loves the child naturally, fine. if he choose not to fine too but you won't be bordered because you are already taking care of the child with your business.
Then it’s not true love. Her child is part of her, they are a package. You can’t say you love the woman but not the child that came out of her, sorry that’s no love. People love their adopted children like their own, to talk less of a child borne of the woman you claim to love. The OP is way better off without such ‘love’ and man.

OP, there’s nothing wrong in searching for love or a man on the internet or on a forum. To echo what has been said up thread, do a thorough vetting and protect your child. I hope you find the one.

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Re: . by Nobody: 12:23pm On May 03, 2020
nnamdibig:
[s]You said you are setting up your business and upgrading yourself.
In that case, if you are truly looking for love, don't put your child in of the conditions for someone to love you(to avoid stories of he hates his step child or the real father has been disturbing my marriage).
Take care of your child through your business and if he loves the child along the line fine if not fine too. Look for love for yourself alone and let the lover know you have a child and not with condition to love your child also[/s].


What utter balderdash!
shocked

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Re: . by nnamdibig(m): 12:56pm On May 03, 2020
doitforyou:

Then it’s not true love. Her child is part of her, they are a package. You can’t say you love the woman but not the child that came out of her, sorry that’s no love. People love their adopted children like their own, to talk less of a child borne of the woman you claim to love. The OP is way better off without such ‘love’ and man.

OP, there’s nothing wrong in searching for love or a man on the internet or on a forum. To echo what has been said up thread, do a thorough vetting and protect your child. I hope you find theone.

nothing is wrong in doing that but have you also thought of a case where the real father will start showing up after many years of absence??
and how that could affect marriage especially when the man have accepted and trained the step child. and the real dad is telling the step child that the mum purposely hide the whole thing from him so she can remarry(which might be lie ooo).
Re: . by kapelvej: 12:56pm On May 03, 2020
lovecode248:
It's really time to move on. I'm a single mother of one. 29years,
Never been married, setting up my own business and developing myself.

If you're matured, you also want to try to love again, you're ready for something serious, you're a Christian and you're sure you can have extra love to extend to my 6years old child without any sentiment, . Then, let's give it a try.
If you have a kid as well, it's fine.

Please, married men, guys looking for sugar mummy stay away.
Thanks
Very wrong move , any deceitful man can copy all the attributes you have described. How can you set exam and the questions at the same time. Let love come and see if love will live you together with your child. Please be careful not to end up in the wrong hand
Re: . by ifko: 1:34pm On May 03, 2020
lovecode248:
It's really time to move on. I'm a single mother of one. 29years,
Never been married, setting up my own business and developing myself.

If you're matured, you also want to try to love again, you're ready for something serious, you're a Christian and you're sure you can have extra love to extend to my 6years old child without any sentiment, . Then, let's give it a try.
If you have a kid as well, it's fine.

Please, married men, guys looking for sugar mummy stay away.
Thanks
This is a bold step, i wish you best of luck.......Fraudster step aside u are not needed here shocked
Re: . by murphyrichy(m): 6:12pm On May 03, 2020
nnamdibig:


I understand you. The reason I said so is to avoid being blackmailed with it later in life.
To avoid stories like "I am not the biological father", "My own biological children comes first", "it's you that I love not your child", "take the child to her biological father".

like I said, if he loves the child naturally, fine. if he choose not to fine too but you won't be bordered because you are already taking care of the child with your business.
This man is making sense, infact these are the challenges one faces when he is in love with a single mum, it takes a genuine Love that comes from the heart to love both the Mum and her child. I wish OP, best of luck
Re: . by Raalsalghul: 6:16pm On May 03, 2020
lovecode248:
It's really time to move on. I'm a single mother of one. 29years,
Never been married, setting up my own business and developing myself.

If you're matured, you also want to try to love again, you're ready for something serious, you're a Christian and you're sure you can have extra love to extend to my 6years old child without any sentiment, . Then, let's give it a try.
If you have a kid as well, it's fine.

Please, married men, guys looking for sugar mummy stay away.
Thanks

Where is the father of your child?
Re: . by crackkhaus: 7:11pm On May 03, 2020
After years of research and investigations, we arrived at the scientific conclusion that people who seek for love on the internet fall into two categories:

1. Introverts with little or no social life.
2. Seekers of a saviour (prince-charming/Cinderella) to elevate/alter their reality.

Studies have also shown that most fall into just one of the two categories... but at other times, some fall into both categories at the same time. grin cool

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Re: . by Samfloxin(m): 7:22pm On May 03, 2020
No carry ritualists join your body ooo. Social media is filled with good people and demons

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Re: . by summerset: 7:33pm On May 03, 2020
Richy4:
Wrong platform smiley.. By the time kids from romance section flood on your thread, u will be asking Y you opened it in the first place..
Nothing wrong about this platform

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