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ogorchimeizie:
You did wrong my brother... Apologise to your wife and give her the money to buy it. If she does not buy it, then your wife is a witch....but if she buys and you see yourself complaining, Oga join TB Joshua on the mountain.. There is a perverting demon around you...

Thank you

"I noticed most her clothes were native and worn out. I have given her the money to buy new clothes for the child but she never did".


I guess you didn't skip this statements from the man

You know they say, "when a man buys underwear for a woman, she would likely one day wants to see how good they look in her". You mind could be pure, but perception takes the lead here as your wife reasons. Next time, just give her the money to get stuffs herself.
Thank you.

NextD18:
You might have done something good for the said niece, but you psychologically grew suspicious looks for yourself before your wife.

Imagine your friend buying G-string for your wife or your colleague buying bra for your 15 years old daughter. How will you feel? It is very wrong to do the right things the wrong way.

And if I may ask, how did you know her boobs and ass sizes before buying her underwears?

He said they went for shopping...he bought for his children and niece......

Don't be too suspicious,when become one,there is a problem.

NextD18:
You might have done something good for the said niece, but you psychologically grew suspicious looks for yourself before your wife.

Imagine your friend buying G-string for your wife or your colleague buying bra for your 15 years old daughter. How will you feel? It is very wrong to do the right things the wrong way.

And if I may ask, how did you know her boobs and ass sizes before buying her underwears?

how did he know his daughter's own? What nonsense talk re u saying. He has given his wife money severally to do so, but she didn't. He should be concerned about such wicked wife he has, & not d other way round.

Double wahala for you at home when your wife reads this post.

dingbang:
sense is important bro. Read in between lines, the girl is 15years

You got it twisted , the op mentioned that he got his daughter her first bra and she's 11 , it's the wife's niece who is 15

You did actually the right thing...You have a good heart man.

chatinent:
It's preferrable to give her the money: it's a little suspicious bro. How did you know the sizes ?

Read the post very well, he said he took her with his children out for shopping, so probably the the girl should know and pick her sizes herself.

Semaj77:
You got it twisted , the op mentioned that he got his daughter her first bra and she's 11 , it's the wife's niece who is 15

and who the fvck did you think I was talking about in my comment? The first daughter or the niece?

MrMacinterchi1:
Apologize for looking out for her niece she should have taken the duty of looking after? why has she not bought anything for the little girl for the last two years even after being told by the husband in different occasions .

The woman should ashamed of herself for her neglect and having a dubious mind. She should change her ways.

she should definitely change her ways but what brought op here was d issue of buying undies. He needs to tell his wife that he is sorry about that n explain to her that d girl picked her undies herself while he paid. That's my suggestion.

In as much your assertion to not sleeping with the little kid is intact, and have also shown fatherly love while your wife, probably your knife, has shown a replicate of self egoist woman and self centered, that never bother helping her niece but would used her for house coral like slave girl from the village. You are doing nicely to your family, and applauded for good gesture.

But you self. Why not give your wife money to buy for her?

My dear brother, ur discion was the best and I am giving u 97 % for that bold step.keep it up and let her go to hell.how can some body be stayn with u for two years ,u refuse to buy cloths for her ? U wife is very very wicked. Sorry if I sound rude.but its d fact. That is y I pray every day Almighty God should give me d grace and wealth to take care of my own. And not to allow them stay with any body.
Now ask her ,is she God ? Dose she know tomorrow? If her children go and stay with her niece tomorrow and d same treatment is give to her children, will she be happy? What of u ,will u be happy?
So my brother do what is right to Gods eyes and let her say d worst.I respected u,I would have given her d insult of her life,cos those are bad example of a wife.so put ur self or let her put her self in her niece shoe is a good example I have given u.ur wife is buyn clothes for her children ,do u think d sprite of ur her niece father or mother will be happy, if they are dead or alive and cing what ur wife is dining? Take a bold step my dear friend

U gave her money and she refuse to buy

For two years that's pure wickedness. Do d right thing because life turn around...... Many of them are wicke

jamesbridget13:
she should definitely change her ways but what brought op here was d issue of buying undies. He needs to tell his wife that he is sorry about that n explain to her that d girl picked her undies herself while he paid. That's my suggestion.

It's good to bring peace to the home as u suggesting. Still, He doesn't need to apologise anything. There's no need to enable her attitudes and the way she thinks.
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Rather, they should talk about this issue in a serious manner. If he apologized now ( which I don't even know what for) it will lead her to be more careless with her ways and attitudes - tomorrow now she can even accuse him of sleeping with his kids too.

Your wife is naturally wicked.

Caringfather:
And if I may ask, how did you know her boobs and ass sizes before buying her underwears?

She was with me and my children were there too. She chooses her under wears for herself and I paid for it.

This justifies your actions and your wife hmmm should wake up. No be only 15 year old girl will steal her husband

ogorchimeizie:
You did wrong my brother... Apologise to your wife and give her the money to buy it. If she does not buy it, then your wife is a witch....but if she buys and you see yourself complaining, Oga join TB Joshua on the mountain.. There is a perverting demon around you...

Thank you

Some of you don’t read and when you do, comprehension is a huge problem. Read the story again.

Nextdi

U are wrong

dingbang:
my brother just send me palliative God go bless you

batd guy

dingbang:
and who the fvck did you think I was talking about in my comment? The first daughter or the niece?

In that case the first daughter is 11 and not 15 which still makes you wrong

dingbang:
you didn't make sure she bought it. Like query her or something.. Shout on her and she go get sense

Hmm that one will be the worst if he does that. Her niece will be leaving that house that very day.

End time generation

dingbang:
Yes you did wrong in the mindset of a typical Nigerian woman who thinks buying stuff for your niece is termed as sleeping with her. Very off-track thinking set of people.

I'm tired please.

as in utterly disgusting to think in such a manner

Semaj77:
In that case the first daughter is 11 and not 15 which still makes you wrong

bros you no try at all.. I was referring to the niece..

Ishilove:
Next time just give the money to the niece to buy her underwear herself since your wife doesn't care the girl is shabby. Some women sef

shishilove

Caringfather:
Good evening all

Pls is it wrong for me to buy my wife niece under wears?

I have 3 children 2 girls ages 11, 7 and boy 4 , my wife niece is also living with us. She is 15. I buy my children clothes including their under-wears without my wife complaining I was the one that bought my first daughter her first bras too.

When my wife niece came staying with us it was 2018, I noticed most her clothes were native and worn out. I have given her the money to buy new clothes for the child but she never did. For 2 years now this girl has grown so much and still wearing the same clothes and I really feel ashamed every Sunday when we are going to church. Our kids are looking very cute and this girl is looking unkempt all the time. I have talked to my wife but she doesn’t seem to care about her.

I took all kids out for clothes shopping just before this pandemic and I bought clothes including under wears for all kids but my wife wasn’t happy because I bought bras and under wears for her niece. She said the clothes are fine but I have no right to buy under wears for her. She accused me of sleeping with her niece which is not true. I only did it because this girl was in need of clothes just imagine for 2 years no clothes while she keeps changing our kids wardrobes like every 4-6 months.

I have no intention of sleeping with her niece neither am I sleeping with her. I take her as our first born and am like her father. If I want to cheat on my wife, there are plenty women around me, no way I will stoop so low to sleep with her niece.

I have daughters, sisters and nieces, what I don’t want to happen to my kids then I wouldn’t do it to another person's child. My act was innocent but my wife is angry.

Please be honest with me, was my decision wrong?

You said your wife goes to church ?, she is a devil for her not to tarnish your image just return the girl to her parents

watch these video for tips on how to deal with heart breaks

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9W5a0u4Qkrg

Two years without a new cloth for your niece while you change your children's wardrobe every 4-6 months.
Oga you have failed as the man of the house.
One of the problems I have with Women is their evil and wicked attitude towards their maids/other people's children. I tell you 8 out of 10 Nigerian women have this devilish mindset.
Please our dear young Ladies, if you know you cannot raise/train your niece as your own daughter, better send her home.

HarunaWest:
Your wife accused you wrongly and you stood there speaking English. I will daze her immediately for factory reset what nonsense.. ..or her to accuse you like that, that is a symptom of her emerging rudeness and nagging . You have to nip it in the bud before situation escalates.
First of all, send her niece packing immediately. Some Naija mother's are so wicked and mean to relative kids. Am yet to find a woman like my mum though, she took care of my step siblings and cousins even more than we her biological children.

best reply so far, especially where you asked him to send the niece out of his ous, i like that

Abeg make I hear word. He did wrong?

dingbang:
Yes you did wrong in the mindset of a typical Nigerian woman who thinks buying stuff for your niece is termed as sleeping with her. Very off-track thinking set of people.

I'm tired please.