Hope you are not igbo. They do this most, Treat innocent female members as nobody with the feelings that they are protecting their husbands.

If that is the case, continue to be patient, with time your wife would understand, but sincerely, it would take a long walk.

it is good to marry more than one wife.

dingbang:
Yes you did wrong in the mindset of a typical Nigerian woman who thinks buying stuff for your niece is termed as sleeping with her. Very off-track thinking set of people.

But then again, you should have given your wife the money to buy the bras herself for your niece.

Use your head when dealing with women.

I think u didn't read it well



He said he used to give her money for it but she wont buy the stuffs...

Ahhh,

Caringfather:
Good evening all
Pls is it wrong for me to buy my wife niece under wears?
I have 3 children 2 girls ages 11, 7 and boy 4 , my wife niece is also living with us she is 15. I buys my children clothes including their under-wears without my wife complaining I was the one that bought my first daughter her first bras too.

When my wife niece came staying with us it was 2018, I noticed most her clothes were native and wear out , I have given her the money to buys new clothes for the child but she never did. For 2 years now this girl has grown so much and still wearing the same clothes and I really feel ashamed every Sunday when we are going to church ,our kids are looking very cute and this girl is looking unkempt all the time , I have talked to my wife but she doesn’t seems to care about her.

I took all kids out for clothes shopping just before this pandemic and I bought clothes including under wears for all kids but my wife wasn’t happy because I bought bras and under wears for her niece . She said the clothes are fine but I have no right to buys under wears for her . She accused me of sleeping with her niece which is not true , I only did it because this girl was in need of clothes just imagine for 2 years no clothes while she keeps changing our kids wardrobes like every 4-6 months.

I have no intention of sleeping with her niece neither am I sleeping with her. I take her as our first born and am like her father. If I want to cheat on my wife , there’s plenty women around me , no way I will stoop so low to sleep with her niece , I have daughters , sisters and nieces what I don’t want to happen to my kids then I wouldn’t do it to another person child. My act was innocent but my wife is angry. Please be honest with me was my decision wrong ?

with all due respect, the writing pattern is similar to the man who said his side chic got pregnant for another guy and he wants to get back to his wife.
I mean all written by same person.
Even the side chic who came to counter the story is having the same writing pattern.

Caringfather:
Good evening all
Pls is it wrong for me to buy my wife niece under wears?
I have 3 children 2 girls ages 11, 7 and boy 4 , my wife niece is also living with us she is 15. I buys my children clothes including their under-wears without my wife complaining I was the one that bought my first daughter her first bras too.

When my wife niece came staying with us it was 2018, I noticed most her clothes were native and wear out , I have given her the money to buys new clothes for the child but she never did. For 2 years now this girl has grown so much and still wearing the same clothes and I really feel ashamed every Sunday when we are going to church ,our kids are looking very cute and this girl is looking unkempt all the time , I have talked to my wife but she doesn’t seems to care about her.

I took all kids out for clothes shopping just before this pandemic and I bought clothes including under wears for all kids but my wife wasn’t happy because I bought bras and under wears for her niece . She said the clothes are fine but I have no right to buys under wears for her . She accused me of sleeping with her niece which is not true , I only did it because this girl was in need of clothes just imagine for 2 years no clothes while she keeps changing our kids wardrobes like every 4-6 months.

I have no intention of sleeping with her niece neither am I sleeping with her. I take her as our first born and am like her father. If I want to cheat on my wife , there’s plenty women around me , no way I will stoop so low to sleep with her niece , I have daughters , sisters and nieces what I don’t want to happen to my kids then I wouldn’t do it to another person child. My act was innocent but my wife is angry. Please be honest with me was my decision wrong ?

Don't allow her kill the caring spirit in you

If she feels you are sleeping with her, tell her to send her home

aeion:
You did the right thing to buy her niece new clothes and underwears after two years, plus you also bought for your own kids. Don't let her accusation deter you from being good to the girl again. You're a good man and you've done nothing wrong.

The man is a good man! Some women can be frustrating at times

Your wife is wicked, that's all.

Watch out for the poor girl or ask her to send her home. Your kids are at least close to the age she was when she came and should do fine without her around.

You did nothing wrong sir, but why do you have to wait for 2 years for you to buy clothes for the girl since you are aware that your wife is not helping matters? You could have bought clothes for her within the first few months of when she arrived to your house.

ogorchimeizie:
You did wrong my brother... Apologise to your wife and give her the money to buy it. If she does not buy it, then your wife is a witch....but if she buys and you see yourself complaining, Oga join TB Joshua on the mountain.. There is a perverting demon around you...

Thank you

Will you shut up pls! What wrong did he do. He has been giving the wife money for two whole damn years to get the clothes and she always eat the money. I could understand the man's position- all you children are looking good but the niece is looking so unkempt. Any good man will be worried.
But i have come to understand That many Nigerian women can't treat other people's children right. Why are naija women like that sef?

The wife has not right to be angry. She needs to apologize to the man asap for calling him a paedophile. If na me yswa go gas o. No one dare insult me such!

Pls give your wife the money this time to buy the stuff and if she fails, give the niece the money to go buy it herself. I5 yrs pikin can handle that

dingbang:
Yes you did wrong in the mindset of a typical Nigerian woman who thinks buying stuff for your niece is termed as sleeping with her. Very off-track thinking set of people.

But then again, you should have given your wife the money to buy the bras herself for your niece.

Use your head when dealing with women.

Reread again

Next time if you want to buy things for the girl I recommend going through another female such as your sister.
Give her money let her buy clothes and underwater for your daughter and the girl and bring it as gifts.

everything is WRONG.is she ur Val?Why not give ur wife the money/the girl in question to buy it? U probably asked her for size,style she preferred (catapult or em)

She has to be not only angry but wary of you. How is she sure that one day you won't ask her niece to show you the fitting of the pant around her waist.

Op, You well so

You are clueless. Marriage is not for children...

So for your mind this one na talk abi?

dingbang:
Yes you did wrong in the mindset of a typical Nigerian woman who thinks buying stuff for your niece is termed as sleeping with her. Very off-track thinking set of people.

But then again, you should have given your wife the money to buy the bras herself for your niece.

Use your head when dealing with women.

Didn't you read what he said. He had given her money before and she didn't buy the clothes. Women can be so heartless. God will surely reward the man for sth good.

Caringfather:
Good evening all

Pls is it wrong for me to buy my wife niece under wears?

I have 3 children 2 girls ages 11, 7 and boy 4 , my wife niece is also living with us. She is 15. I buy my children clothes including their under-wears without my wife complaining I was the one that bought my first daughter her first bras too.

When my wife niece came staying with us it was 2018, I noticed most her clothes were native and worn out. I have given her the money to buy new clothes for the child but she never did. For 2 years now this girl has grown so much and still wearing the same clothes and I really feel ashamed every Sunday when we are going to church. Our kids are looking very cute and this girl is looking unkempt all the time. I have talked to my wife but she doesn’t seem to care about her.

I took all kids out for clothes shopping just before this pandemic and I bought clothes including under wears for all kids but my wife wasn’t happy because I bought bras and under wears for her niece. She said the clothes are fine but I have no right to buy under wears for her. She accused me of sleeping with her niece which is not true. I only did it because this girl was in need of clothes just imagine for 2 years no clothes while she keeps changing our kids wardrobes like every 4-6 months.

I have no intention of sleeping with her niece neither am I sleeping with her. I take her as our first born and am like her father. If I want to cheat on my wife, there are plenty women around me, no way I will stoop so low to sleep with her niece.

I have daughters, sisters and nieces, what I don’t want to happen to my kids then I wouldn’t do it to another person's child. My act was innocent but my wife is angry.

Please be honest with me, was my decision wrong?

Our people have a saying....... When you buy a lady a paynt, one day, one day..... You would be tempted to ask/see how the paynt fits.........

From seeing the appropriate fitment, the devil would use you........

You're a caringfather and as such, there's nothing wrong in what you did.

Caringfather:
Good evening all

Pls is it wrong for me to buy my wife niece under wears?

I have 3 children 2 girls ages 11, 7 and boy 4 , my wife niece is also living with us. She is 15. I buy my children clothes including their under-wears without my wife complaining I was the one that bought my first daughter her first bras too.

When my wife niece came staying with us it was 2018, I noticed most her clothes were native and worn out. I have given her the money to buy new clothes for the child but she never did. For 2 years now this girl has grown so much and still wearing the same clothes and I really feel ashamed every Sunday when we are going to church. Our kids are looking very cute and this girl is looking unkempt all the time. I have talked to my wife but she doesn’t seem to care about her.

I took all kids out for clothes shopping just before this pandemic and I bought clothes including under wears for all kids but my wife wasn’t happy because I bought bras and under wears for her niece. She said the clothes are fine but I have no right to buy under wears for her. She accused me of sleeping with her niece which is not true. I only did it because this girl was in need of clothes just imagine for 2 years no clothes while she keeps changing our kids wardrobes like every 4-6 months.

I have no intention of sleeping with her niece neither am I sleeping with her. I take her as our first born and am like her father. If I want to cheat on my wife, there are plenty women around me, no way I will stoop so low to sleep with her niece.

I have daughters, sisters and nieces, what I don’t want to happen to my kids then I wouldn’t do it to another person's child. My act was innocent but my wife is angry.

Please be honest with me, was my decision wrong?

a woman who is nice to the husband but not nice to the waiter is not a nice woman

Because you bought underwear for her, your wife accused you of sleeping with her niece. And you're asking us what to do?

A woman that you should have kicked out back to her father's house let her mother give her home training.

I must say.......
You married a very stupid and an evil woman
Fortunately, they are always blessed with good men in marriage.
One mystery of the world
Mtcheeeew
How sad!!!!

emeijeh:
Jeez! Where have I been? 11 year old girls now wear bras?
DAMN!!!

those that had rapid growth......I know of some who started wearing at 10

Ishilove:
Next time just give the money to the niece to buy her underwear herself since your wife doesn't care the girl is shabby. Some women sef

Wrong advice

dingbang:
Yes you did wrong in the mindset of a typical Nigerian woman who thinks buying stuff for your niece is termed as sleeping with her. Very off-track thinking set of people.

But then again, you should have given your wife the money to buy the bras herself for your niece.

Use your head when dealing with women.

When my wife niece came staying with us it was 2018, I noticed most her clothes were native and worn out. I have given her the money to buy new clothes for the child but she never did.

You need to go through the stuff again.

Ishilove:
Next time just give the money to the niece to buy her underwear herself since your wife doesn't care the girl is shabby. Some women sef

Ishi the woman would still claim she's been given money because of sexual relationship with the man

I no blame her, naso e dey start

NextD18:
You might have done something good for the said niece, but you psychologically grew suspicious looks for yourself before your wife.

Imagine your friend buying G-string for your wife or your colleague buying bra for your 15 years old daughter. How will you feel? It is very wrong to do the right things the wrong way.

And if I may ask, how did you know her boobs and ass sizes before buying her underwears?

You're very stupiid for this comment. They went freaking shopping together!

emeijeh:
Jeez!
Where have I been?
11 year old girls now wear bras?

DAMN!!!

Read well and understand before you comment.

NextD18:
You might have done something good for the said niece, but you psychologically grew suspicious looks for yourself before your wife.

Imagine your friend buying G-string for your wife or your colleague buying bra for your 15 years old daughter. How will you feel? It is very wrong to do the right things the wrong way.

And if I may ask, how did you know her boobs and ass sizes before buying her underwears?

He did nothing wrong, he took her as his own child. If he can buy pants and bras for his daughter why can't he do the same to the wife's niece.