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He flirts but is married? Wondering if the innocent flirting is turning into something more? Look for these signs a married man is in love with you.

Before you even go looking for the signs a married man is in love with you, here’s some advice you need to know. When it comes to married dudes, I really only have one thing to say: stay away from them! Yes, I know you like him, and he likes you, but he’s married. He has a wife, possibly even children; this just screams “mess.”

I understand it’s a tough situation to be in, especially if you think he’s in love with you. Women are told time and time again by married men that he’s going to divorce his wife and leave his family for them. But you know that hardly ever happens. And it’s not because they don’t want to be with you, they do, but they also don’t want to destroy their family.

See the dilemma they’re caught up in? But let’s not jump too far ahead. Right now, you need to figure out where his feelings are? Is this just innocent flirting? Or is this something much more serious? In other words, is he in love with you?

Either way, the ball is in your court with how you choose to handle this situation. Yes, you can have an affair with him, but you need to remember that it won’t necessarily work out in your favor, and you will get hurt.

Or, you can end the flirtatious behavior and communication, allowing yourself to find someone who’s actually available and open to fully love you. But first, let’s see what’s really going on.

The most obvious signs a married man is in love with you

His eyes aren’t on his wife; they’re on you. Here are 13 of the most obvious signs a married man is in love with you, and wants you to fall in love with him.

#1 You feel it. I always say this when it comes to people’s feelings. We’re humans created with instinct; you know when someone has feelings for you. It’s in their eyes; it’s in the energy, it’s in the way they laugh or smile at you. You just know there’s something more going on inside of them. Don’t doubt yourself or what your instinct is telling you.

#2 He spends his free time with you. He should be spending his free time with his wife and kids, but instead, he’s spending his free time with you. Now, this is a huge sign he has deeper feelings for you. You’re single; you can spend your free time however you please. But for him, he has a family he should be spending time with, but he’s not.

#3 He tries to be close to you. Some married men are more aggressive, while other married men are scared to make a move *as they should be*. So, they won’t necessarily make any physical contact, but they’ll try to get closer to you. Whether it’s sitting close to you, standing next to you, or leaning over you, they will do whatever they can do close the gap.

#4 He touches you. I’m not talking about highly sexually touching; for example, he grabs your ass. You would know right away what his intentions are. What I’m talking about is subtle touching, for example, when he opens the door on your and places his hand on your lower back. He brushes the hair out of your face, rubs your shoulders.

Read more: https://examprestige.com/13-signs-a-married-man-is-in-love-with-you

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Make dem leave anoda woman husband alone..go find their own.

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donbachi:
Make dem leave anoda woman husband alone..go find their own.

But if he is married, it means you cannot really know if he loves you or not. It is really jjst that simple sometimes.