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Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by Justbehave(m): 9:11pm On May 11, 2020
Only a fool will love and trust a woman.

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Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by Doyou2019: 9:11pm On May 11, 2020
Exc2000:


yes.. the plural "they" in my comment is referring to women, especially the ones who maltreat step children,

Oops got you now.

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Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by Nobody: 9:12pm On May 11, 2020
Nwodosis:
A woman was the only creature that saw and had one on one physical discussion with the Devil, we are yet to know all they discussed.
Only the devil wants what a woman wants.... power!

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Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by Cloud007: 9:12pm On May 11, 2020
Women and trust are two parallel line .

And its worse now.

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Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by lichocho(m): 9:13pm On May 11, 2020
And WhatsApp group neva de dat time ooooo...if to say WhatsApp group de i for say dem don promise am admin..

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Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by back2sender: 9:14pm On May 11, 2020
bukatyne:


Is paternity fraud the only thing committed in marriages? undecided
Childs fraud her caused by women in marriages.
There is no way a man an decieve a woman but it's very easy for a woman to lie about a child status to the man

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Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by dialajenni(f): 9:14pm On May 11, 2020
Evergreen4:
After God, fear women

issokay
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by cococandy(f): 9:14pm On May 11, 2020
My mama never required a DNA test. NL has interesting stories
eyinjuege:


Exactly.
I've never heard DNA requirement for parents or even siblings.
They do it for your children, if they're in Nigeria and you want to bring them to the US.

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Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by tunize(m): 9:17pm On May 11, 2020
bukatyne:


Is paternity fraud the only thing committed in marriages? undecided
To me deceit is the highest fraud. Do you know what it means to be deceived for years into fathering anoda man's child only to find out its not urs? In this case not jst child but children.

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Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by maishai: 9:17pm On May 11, 2020
It would really be unkind of mother nature not to leave men with tools to detect this fraud.....Truth be said I can only do a dna test if i were battling paternity with my brother or near coursin...... I still enter my village and people are wowed at how I replicate my dad and grand dad in their youth, even behaviourally they way we react get people saying stuffs like "dem dem na their way"........



As a man a woman can only fool you on the paternity of a child the 9 months the child is hidden in her body........After 9 month the half gene you contributed would start manifesting, trust Nature Garbage in Garbage out.........I cant sow maize and reap beans, its only human magicians that expect that

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Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by Chonchin: 9:17pm On May 11, 2020
cococandy:
My mama never required a DNA test. NL has interesting stories

It’s not your mama that will require a dna test. It is they that will. Did you undergo clinical processing your immigration visa? If yes, why do you think they didn’t test for your dna. They don’t have to collect your blood before your dna can be tested for. Anything from you body will do. Also if your mother is already in the US. They already have her dna sample unless she never visited an hospital ever over there.

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Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by 11doubledee: 9:17pm On May 11, 2020
Cuddlebugie:
Wayo Allah na! shocked
These recurring cases of women pinning the biological children of other men on their husbands is unbecoming
I am a woman but I fear women o. cheesy cheesy
Love your sincerity.
What wickedness...

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Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by Ghostrye: 9:20pm On May 11, 2020
Sometimes I actually believe that the devil didn't tempt the woman to eat of the forbidden fruit. The woman planned it all and blamed it on the devil

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Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by grandstar(m): 9:21pm On May 11, 2020
bukatyne:
Tragic.

Where will the father start from?

He should just embrace the kids as his.

The father may know. He might be sterile and maybe a pact between husband and wife.

The innocent man may also be unaware.

At the US embassy, when DNA test results are being released, there are guards on the ground to prevent fights grin grin grin.

Someone go die today!

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Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by grandstar(m): 9:23pm On May 11, 2020
Mariangeles:
The possibility that he was adopted without him ever knowing should also be taken into consideration.

If they were not his biological siblings, the test will show. The test just said their dad, ain't their dad!

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Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by meetme01: 9:23pm On May 11, 2020
funmike83:
Honestly, men sometimes contribute to this .most men abandoned their wife hanging out with friends not thinking that body no be wood. Find out abt the family well

Not men. The society we live is the bane of these paternity fraud. Alot of men are sterile, they fail to accept. They put the blame on women who is handicapped but just have to find a way out. It's really sad how we stigmatize women who are yet to birth. Both parties are guilty.

Until we change our mindset and accept children are from God, paternity fraud has come to stay in our society.

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Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by Monday60655(m): 9:23pm On May 11, 2020
iwaeda:


Same people will go to Church and ask for blessings.
Nkan Mbe

What if "same people" (sic) as you rightly put are Moslem or belong to other religion, then they will go to mosque or their place of worship and ask for curse or problems right!

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Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by ajebuter(f): 9:25pm On May 11, 2020
StreetFight:
Anywhere the devil is too busy to go, he sends a woman.

Oya, bring your head make l konk am... cheesy cheesy
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by grandstar(m): 9:26pm On May 11, 2020
doitforyou:

True. The DNA part though...

The DNA scandal story usually trends the opposite. A birth certificate is what is required. Since he filed same time then all birth certificates showing a common parent is all that is needed. The definition of parent or sibling isn’t only biological.

They do demand a DNA test if you claim the children are biologically yours. They just want to confirm you are not lying by sneaking out someone else's child which is very common.

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Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by ajebuter(f): 9:26pm On May 11, 2020
Nwodosis:
A woman was the only creature that saw and had one on one physical discussion with the Devil, we are yet to know all they discussed.

Oya, you too..

Bring your head make l konk am! cheesy cheesy
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by bestguycheat: 9:28pm On May 11, 2020
Space booked
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by Cuddlebugie(f): 9:31pm On May 11, 2020
Edopesin:


Are you Edo?
Why do you ask?
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by jrusky(m): 9:32pm On May 11, 2020
bukatyne:


Is paternity fraud the only thing committed in marriages? undecided

Its worst crime in marriage. It combined 2 heinous crime at once

1.She flirt------Adiltery

2. She lied-----'-- By bringing another man kids to be raised by her husband for 38 years.

Sis this is a punishable offense.
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by kingsleyds(m): 9:35pm On May 11, 2020
When a woman want to be mean and wicked, even the devil sits and take notes

After God, fear woman.

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Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by holicupp(m): 9:36pm On May 11, 2020
no be small thing chai e don happen
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by zeuss: 9:38pm On May 11, 2020
bukatyne:


grin

Only women are bad abi?

No husband does wrong? undecided

On this thread, the wife is wrong. In another, it could be the husband.

Shift!!!

talking rot..how can a man pull this grand selfish deceit off. 4 lifes totally shattered. The victims will never really trust any reality relying on another human's words

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Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by Amhappy(f): 9:38pm On May 11, 2020
meetme01:


Not men. The society we live is the bane of these paternity fraud. Alot of men are sterile, they fail to accept. They put the blame on women who is handicapped but just have to find a way out. It's really sad how we stigmatize women who are yet to birth. Both parties are guilty.

Until we change our mindset and accept children are from God, paternity fraud has come to stay in our society.

For all the children not to be his then its clear that this man was sterile. To protect his ego wife has to go and get pregnant elsewhere to save his name and keep his lineage. This was very common in the 80s. Mother in law will even threaten her if she exposes her son to ridicule by telling the truth. Thus the man may not know.
These days most wives will not agree to that pact at least not without husbands consent. I have a friend with such experience. She walked out of the marriage when MIL proposed she get pregnant for another man for her son. May God bless families seeking for the fruit of the womb.

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Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by CuteYvonne777: 9:39pm On May 11, 2020
Chaie
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by Galactico4ever(m): 9:40pm On May 11, 2020
lilyheaven:
she is aware
You can't be sure. maybe they were aftermaths of one night stands
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by Modarun(m): 9:41pm On May 11, 2020
You dont need to be a DNA specialist to know that woman is from S/West. ���

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