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My brother met a girl two years ago at a friend’s bachelor’s eve. They were kinda dating and some months after the girl said she was pregnant, at first she said the pregnancy wasn’t for my brother, some weeks later she came back and said the pregnancy is his.

My bro accepted all responsibility and took care of her while she was pregnant. We even went to the family to let them know my bro is responsible for the pregnancy.

During delivery my bro paid all medical bills which was a bit high because she delivered through C.S, now my bro has been taking adequate care of the child and mum.

When the child was about 3 months old, a friend of my brother’s baby mama called and asked my brother to conduct a DNA test on the boy, my bro was surprised, when he told me about it I adviced we conduct the DNA, when we informed the girl we want to conduct a DNA she sounded confident and was like “una get money to waste na”. We travelled to her city and did the DNA and about a month later the result came out, surprisingly my brother is not the father.

Now my bro is demanding a Total refund of everything he has spent on the boy, the girl’s family has been begging. Should my brother just forfeit everything and move on or press charges?

I FEAR WOMAN SHA, with this experience even if I born 30 children for this life, I go do DNA for all of them one by one.

Nobody is above mistake.

Biko, just forgive and leave everything and move on. Can’t you see how catastrophic the economy is How do you expect a nursing mother to pay you back when she also has a baby to cater for

Learn to forgive!!

May God help us.

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At first she said the pregnancy wasn't his,
Later she claimed it was his
Your brother didn't see red flags at that moment

Well he should just move on

I guess Your brother came to this world to waste money on unnecessary thing..you too read what you wrote,she initially said your bro is not responsible for the pregnancy,in which she later came back to announced to your bro that he is the one that own what is not his,if both of you could have apply brain you would have sence it that the person responsible for it was not ready and that made her gave your bro what is not his

I don't think Sunny My neighbor is the father of that his first born. He never realize the shock wen dey wait for am

Maybe your brother and the real owner did the knacking same day, that's why the lady was confused.
Your brother should just move on.

Some people are wicked.

Your brother is a man of honor. If it was my brother, I would tell him to try to recover at least some of the money. However, he shouldn`t commit any crimes while doing so. Chances are low he will get any of it back so he also shouldn`t waste too much energy on it.

100% refund should be demanded. That's a criminal act. If you must sleep with different men in the same week or month, be "responsible" enough to do your maths.

Jennyclay:
Nobody is above mistake.

Biko, just forgive and leave everything and move on. Can’t you see how catastrophic the economy is How do you expect a nursing mother to pay you back when she also has a baby to cater for

Learn to forgive!!

May God help us.

This one no be talk abeg.....When she pin the pregnancy on him she doesnt know that economy is hard that time. Make she go look for the father of the baby to pay the money.

LOGICALKEN:
My brother met a girl two years ago at a friend’s bachelor’s eve. They were kinda dating and some months after the girl said she was pregnant, at first she said the pregnancy wasn’t for my brother, some weeks later she came back and said the pregnancy is his. My bro accepted all responsibility and took care of her while she was pregnant. We even went to the family to let them know my bro is responsible for the pregnancy. During delivery my bro paid all medical bills which was a bit high because she delivered through C.S, now my bro has been taking adequate care of the child and mum. When the child was about 3 months old, a friend of my brother’s baby mama called and asked my brother to conduct a DNA test on the boy, my bro was surprised, when he told me about it I adviced we conduct the DNA, when we informed the girl we want to conduct a DNA she sounded confident and was like “una get money to waste na”. We travelled to her city and did the DNA and about a month later the result came out, surprisingly my brother is not the father.
Now my bro is demanding a Total refund of everything he has spent on the boy, the girl’s family has been begging. Should my brother just forfeit everything and move on or press charges?

I FEAR WOMAN SHA, with this experience even if I born 30 children for this life, I go do DNA for all of them one by one.

Instead make ur brother eey thank his star and forget everything about the girl

Na me fear pass u
Abeg move on person mak never eat Na she won refund
Some people have trained wrong blood that later killed them

This OP sha Knowing the recent story around mohbad .... See the kind yeye title .
I actually thought this was about Mohbad ... fear don grab me .

Eh eh...

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Too many mumu boys in this CornTree.

OP I hope say your brother mumuness no go dey contagious to wuna sha.

Was he forced to pay the bills? He can go to court to declare that he is not the father of the child so that he does not have to be held responsible for the child's upbringing.

As for refunds, I doubt he can claim that except there was an agreement during the pregnancy.

Ok

If they force all the people in Nigeria to do DNA test, u go see say na like 98% de raise another man pikin 🤣

The person wey de raise bastard sef fit be bastard himself

Hmmm

The daughter of Eve

LOGICALKEN:
My brother met a girl two years ago at a friend’s bachelor’s eve. They were kinda dating and some months after the girl said she was pregnant,[/b] at first she said the pregnancy wasn’t for my brother[b], some weeks later she came back and said the pregnancy is his.

My bro accepted all responsibility and took care of her while she was pregnant. We even went to the family to let them know my bro is responsible for the pregnancy.

During delivery my bro paid all medical bills which was a bit high because she delivered through C.S, now my bro has been taking adequate care of the child and mum.

When the child was about 3 months old, a friend of my brother’s baby mama called and asked my brother to conduct a DNA test on the boy, my bro was surprised, when he told me about it I adviced we conduct the DNA, when we informed the girl we want to conduct a DNA she sounded confident and was like “una get money to waste na”. We travelled to her city and did the DNA and about a month later the result came out, surprisingly my brother is not the father.

Now my bro is demanding a Total refund of everything he has spent on the boy, the girl’s family has been begging. Should my brother just forfeit everything and move on or press charges?

I FEAR WOMAN SHA, with this experience even if I born 30 children for this life, I go do DNA for all of them one by one.

Case closed naa.

Check my write up

He wants refund? Lmao.

He should get her arrested. If anybody put mouth, arrest the person join.

Ensure you get a WOMAN lawyer to handle your side of the case. (Women hate women more than they hate men)

Seize everything and anything you can get now that they're begging before they start the normal victimisation.

Heeeeeeyah

deewhydoski:
This one no be talk abeg.....When she pin the pregnancy on him she doesnt know that economy is hard that time. Make she go look for [/b]the father of the baby to pay the money[b].

And what if the father refuses?

DNA TEST SHOULD BE A MUST IN THIS COUNTRY. I WANT NATIONAL ASSEMBLY TO PASS THE LAW ASAP.

One can no longer trust all these generational coded SLÚTS and OLOSHŌS.

They said 1 out of every 4 DNA TEST in Nigeria is usually negative...

You can't marry a girl that's:

Not a virgin

You don't know her sexual history

You don't know her true bodycount

You don't know if she's done abortions etc and still be trusting her!
ARE SOME MEN CHRONICALLY AND GENETICALLY DAFT?

As long as a girl is not a virgin, NEVER EVER TRUST HER OR ANYTHING SHE SAYS ABOUT ARE SEXUALITY. IT'S USUALLY 99.9% LIES.

The earlier men wise up, the better.

One thing we can start doing to make all these loose hōes accountable for their promiscuity, is to START BEING TRADITIONAL. Don't give them a hint during dating that you'll do. Even if you'll 50m on the wedding, make sure you don't pay that bride price or don't pay what's required. E go pain dem for life.

A girl that's not a virgin does not deserve bride price! What are you paying bride price for?
Her father raised a hõe and does not deserve any respect as bride price.
At worst, FIND OUT HER TRUE BODYCOUNT (VERY DIFFICULT), and divide her bride price by the number of her bodycount.
If her bride price is 100k and her bodycount is 10, WHAT SHE DESERVE AS BRIDE PRICE IS 100K/10 = 10K.

2, If you didn't marry her as a virgin, YOU SHOULD NEVER HAVE REST OF MIND UNTIL YOU DO DNA TEST ON ALL THE CHILDREN SHE MAKES FOR YOU.
Even if you marry her as a virgin and you suspect or see signs that she might be misbehaving, PLEASE DO DNA TEST!
DNA TEST IS NOT AS EXPENSIVE AS IT USED TO BE BEFORE, WITH BELOW 200K, IT CAN BE DONE AND YOU'LL HAVE REST OF MIND FOR LIFE.
A man who comes to this difficult and struggling world to raise another man's child because he was deceived is a complete failure and disaster to existence.

3, Cheating has never and can never be a mistake. Cheating is also different for both genders. When it becomes normal and legal for woman to have multiple surnames, then you can start forgiving them when they cheat.
One of the worst thing a man can do on this earth is to forgive a cheating wife. It's a suicidal and no man should do it. The moment she cheats, everything you ever have with her should completely end, even if you have children with her. You can take your children and take care of them or get another wife... BUT NEVER TAKE HER BACK.


A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE....

Jennyclay:
Nobody is above mistake.

Biko, just forgive and leave everything and move on. Can’t you see how catastrophic the economy is How do you expect a nursing mother to pay you back when she also has a baby to cater for

Learn to forgive!!

May God help us.

You are mad!

Catastrophic economy yet the LovePeddler made him pay huge money for another man's child.

Also, the guy is a big fool. A girl told you the pregnancy isn't yours, then came back after the REAL owner sent her packing and you welcome her back.

Common sense should have told you the bitch is a remorseless cheat who belongs in the gutter.

He should collect EVERY penny. Then give the friend who recommended a DNA test 25%.