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Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by GofGs: 9:53am On May 13, 2020 |
My brother, I congratulate u for the partial deliverance u have now. However, to have your full deliverance, you still have a lot to do. For instance, you will need to know how to operate in the Baptism of Fire. Not only that, you need to know things that are inconsistent with your destinies which your hands are glued to at the moment. These are just few of what u need to know b4 your full deliverance. I counsel you not to use any drugs. The Power of God shall complete your recovery in Jesus name. |
Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by beauty7: 9:56am On May 13, 2020 |
junior20202020: Even if your erection has not been restored,you can still sleep with your girl/wife. Your prick does not have to be erect/hard for you to sleep with her.Just put it as it is. Do not be under any pressure. In fact,if you are not under any pressure to deliver sexually,you will discover that your prick will start being erect/hard. The problem may be psychological:You are worried that your prick will not be erect,and so it will not be erect/hard. But if you are not worried and you just sleep with her even when your prick is not erect/hard, and you do other things like romance,spanking,massaging,sooner or later,your prick may become erect/hard. Just relax. Tell her what gives you pleasure and ask her to practice it on you. Even if what gives you pleasure is masturbation,you can ask her to masturbate you. Even if what gives you pleasure is spanking on buttocks,you should ask her to practice it on you, or you can practice it on her if it gives you pleasure. If your pleasure is in sucking your prick,ask her to suck your prick. By so doing,you prick may become hard. But even if it does not become hard,there is no problem,sleep with her as it is. I know that if a man does not become hard during pre-intimacy/sex,it does NOT mean his girl/wife is not attractive enough. There could be many reasons,one of which could be that the man is afraid of not satisfying his girl/wife. That fear can spoil many things. It could be excess sugar. So try as best you can to reduce sugar intake. My elder brother use to masturbate a lot(he did not use to hide his masturbation from me),but he is now happily married. He masturbated because he was not getting any girl and he was shy. It did not mean he did not like girls, In fact he love girls so much. So masturbating has nothing to do with hatred for females. Just like when we(girls) masturbate,it does not mean we hate men. And his(my brother) masturbation did not ruin him. I think your problem could be sugar. Please do not return to masturbation and reduce your intake of sugary foods. You can also try herbs if you like. 1 Like |
Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by Nobody: 9:56am On May 13, 2020 |
Simple matter avoid soapy for one month eat lots of banana groundnut and honey your girlfriend will leave you because of too much sex not erectile dysfunction. |
Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by LifeOfTrigga(m): 10:03am On May 13, 2020 |
Make you and the girl watch better porn together bro... her toto go hot |
Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by Efobiandrew83(m): 10:05am On May 13, 2020 |
Problem shared they say is half solved.. My brother, U have started the first thing to do which is prayer! Of course, we only remember to prayer whenever we are in trouble, but only if u pray repentantly God will hear u. Secondly, try to change your mindset. Your mind/brain is so much addicted to sex than your prick, may be as a result of pornography or frequent masturbation. So you need to restructure your mind. Your phone shouldn't be an avenue for porn. Take that totally off ur mind if u want to help urself. Thirdly, total abstinence from sex. It took you so many years to weaken the sex organs, it will also take you years to revive it at least 2years total abstinence and then make sure you eat fruits enough, do exercise every day. Can I tell you something good, you are still a man OK? Nothing happened to you. What happened to u is just that u abused your dick, which like I said will come to normal if u adhere to the above. Moreover, u can seek for a personal doctor as you adhere to my advise, there could also be health deformations linking to that. Thanks, Amend your ways and be strong. |
Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by afroxyz: 10:15am On May 13, 2020 |
Read up masturbation and dopamine. By constant masturbating you have built your tolerance level for pleasure so high that normal femal stimulation through sex or smooshing is not enough for you. Chronic masturbators have been known to masturbate to reach that pleasurable state despite being married or having girlfriends. You have to recondition your brain and mind by first stop masturbating totally. Also take food and fruits that would boost your sexual hormones. Abstain from pornography totally. Do all these for 6 months and you would be fit to get back into the game 2 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by Benreu(m): 10:19am On May 13, 2020 |
omocalabar:That's true ..had similar experience and d doctor said it was psychological... |
Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by CeCeEkol(f): 10:19am On May 13, 2020 |
Oga please go for medical checkup. |
Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by Samakus(m): 10:27am On May 13, 2020 |
Mj1958: Of who? Use the link and check the thread. I got no business there |
Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by femijamz: 10:32am On May 13, 2020 |
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Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by Realist2: 10:36am On May 13, 2020 |
junior20202020:DONT GO FOR THIS DRUGS Viagrx plus is Sidenifil citrate 200mg fortified with vitamins its only stimute blood supply to veins around the di.ck, it's good for old men. It's side effects include blindness and erectile dysfunction when you're not on the drugs. My advice is consume More water melon and banana. Get honey, neem seeds(ripe one) and water melon seeds consume 3seeds each daily with a teaspoon of honey for ten days, then, continue with praying to God. Thanks me after 10days. |
Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by babakingsto(m): 10:44am On May 13, 2020 |
I want you to know that,this is not out of place. You are not alone on ds, is gonna be ok if u do take care of ur intakes and seek medical advice. I have a friend who's own is quick ejaculation, im mediately he sees a girl sexy body,he cums. Once he takes a girl with him, in secs he's ejaculated. Too much anxiety contribute to his situation. He womanize a lot. He's never relaxed wen he meets a lady, he's already having d imaginary sex wt her, before u kw it, he cums without laying ✋ on her. Believe me,u kw how it feels wen u cum after sex ryt, u won't ERECT after a while even wen ur with a prostitute like u said. So, pls check urself very well, there is nothing too big for God to correct. Like I said everything is gonna be ok. |
Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by harmargedon: 10:45am On May 13, 2020 |
It happened to me, I started having sex late and I had problems with erection. After long research I found that that it was due to anxiety, so I was directed to buy Viagra a sex stimulant drug. They use it to control erectile dysfunction. I took the drugs one per pay. Immediately I took it I had sex with my girlfriend. By the time I finished with the drug, the anxiety of first time sex was gone. There's nothing wrong with you apart from what I just told you. Go to a good pharmacy and get the drugs. |
Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by Benreu(m): 10:47am On May 13, 2020 |
dsdwaya:Had similar experience...I just recovered from sickness then I realized I didn't have erection for two days...hyper anxiety set in I thought am having ED....that broke me until the doctor told me it's psychological. I should relax not think of it and eat fruits esp water melon... though it was difficult not to think about it but after two days I overcame it and had erection from just seeing some ass in the street... |
Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by ArchAngelos999: 11:07am On May 13, 2020 |
touching 1 Like |
Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by Priwillo: 11:10am On May 13, 2020 |
Work out at least 3 times a week,blend 2 bitter kola and mix it with hot water and lemon. Take it for 7 days. Then after that week chew at least 2 bitter kola daily. Morning and night |
Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by benoly(m): 11:12am On May 13, 2020 |
MUST READ In recent time, watching porn and practice of masturbation has increase drastically in our society especially among the youth. This can be trace down to the easy access of pornographic materials in the internet through computer and mobile phones. And a lot of porn website are available for accessibility with daily updates of assorted porn videos, and the more you watch, the more you want to watch and before you know it , you are trapped to it, it becomes a habit difficult to break. Porn and masturbation are like brothers, they go hand in hand. Porn viewers are prone to masturbation. A lot of young people (mostly men ) indulge in this act without knowing the implication. They end up suffering from the ugly side effect without even knowing the root of their problem. Below , I will tell you some side affects of watching porn and masturbation and a natural way to cure yourself from them if you are already a victim . 1. Erectile dysfunction : This is the inability of a man to obtain a full erection when about to have sex with a woman. Excessive porn and masturbation does mess with your ability to get turned on in real, intimate situations. You discover you only get a full erection while watching porn but when with a woman you will have a weak or no erection. This is because your brain has been wire through excessive porn and masturbation to believe that all you need to satisfy your sexual urge is to feed yourself with porn and masturbate . Our brain is like a fertile land, whatever you plant on it (whether good or bad ) is what you will harvest. Some guys when they experience this porn induces erectile dysfunction ( which is very embarrassing ) feels the best thing is to forget about women and focus on further watching of porn and masturbation thereby causing more damages . 2. Premature Ejaculation (5seconds man): This is a situation whereby a guy ejaculates too early when with a woman. Here, ejaculate can take place sometimes even before penetration ( during pre-intimacy ) or too soon after penetration, after which the man becomes weak and unable to achieve another erection. This problem is likely experience by people who stating masturbation at an early age. This is because you have train your nervous system to ejaculate very quickly (or while partially erect). When you are younger, while masturbating you want to ejaculate quickly because of the fear of being caught by your parents or siblings. So you teach your mind that when you are hard your job is to ejaculate as quickly as possible and not relax and enjoy the long sensation. Over the years of masturbation, your brain has been wire to believe that the response to an erection is quick ejaculation. When with a real woman you will notice you still experience same thing. 3. Delay ejaculation (low sensation) : This is a situation where a man is unable to achieve orgasm/ejaculation when having sex with a woman. Delay ejaculation often go in hand with weak erection and it's cause by prolong porn and masturbation coupled with holding back ejaculation. Holding back ejaculation while masturbation is when a man stimulates his p**is with his hand or whatever he does that with to a point of release and then stops, wait until the sensation comes down, after which he resumes again and repeat same for several minutes or hours before finally allowing himself to ejaculation , this act is called EDGING . This is done to elongate the masturbation session to enjoy it more. The reason you're unable to ejaculate during sex with a woman is because you are completely desensitized. The level of sensation which you are suppose to have while having sex with a woman is low due to over-stressed sexual nerve. When you wash a new cloth all the time (whether it's dirty or not) it fades away or depreciate and becomes like an old cloth. That's it . 3. Weakness (low testosterone) : In men testosterone is a hormone produced primarily in the testicles. It is what makes a man to be a man. Testosterone in men is responsible for larger muscles, stronger bone, hair growth, deeper voice and a stronger sex. Women also produce testosterone in the ovaries and adrenal glands , but at a lower levels than men, that's why they have smaller muscles, softer voice, less hairy and a weaker sex drive. Testosterone as said is produce in the testicles in men , that's why if a man is castrated he loses all the powers of a man and becomes like a woman. When a man ejaculates, he loses some amount of his testosterone. That is the reason why you experience weakness after ejaculation. People who indulge in excessive masturbation are likely to suffer a low testosterone. That is when you see a man of 27yrs looking like a 17yrs old boy, or a man with a behavioral attributes of a woman. 4. Loneliness: People (man/woman) who indulge in watching porn and masturbation often end up lonely and depressed. They rather prefer to stay indoor for a week or more with their computer or phone viewing all assorted sets of porn and masturbating on them rather than go out to meet real people. Due to this they grow to be uncomfortable around real people especially the opposite sex. 5. Severe social anxiety: This is the inability to be confidence and relax while in public. People (male and female) who are into acute porn and masturbation are prone to have low self esteem. They have problem of inferiority complex when among their peers. This is as a result of all the above other listed problems induce by porn and masturbation, it puts the victim in a life of shame and embarrassment. You hear your peers talking about their different real sex experiences , you feel bad because you know it's embarrassing to share your own porn and masturbation sessions with them. You know you are having problem but you are ashame to discuss it with anybody. The above problems as long as it is induce by porn/masturbation cannot be cured medically by drugs. It is a psychological problem and can only be correct by a psychological treatment. Your brain has been sexually wired wrongly and needs to be rewired correctly to it's normal form. The method of re-wiring your brain here is known as REBOOTING . It is a system whereby you wipe out from your brain all the wrongs you have input in it about sex . When your brain is now neutral , you can then input the right things about sex and you will see that all your problems will vanish. It is practically like formatting a phone or like clearing the weeds on a fertile land and replacing it with good plants. Sounds magical? Don't worry I will tell you how it is done. In case you are waiting for me to give you set of rules you will not find them - other than: "No porn/ No masturbation/No sex/ No any kind of artificial sexual stimulation for 90 days" By artificial I mean sexual pix, audio and literature. Also no porn substitutes allowed, such as: surfing woman pictures on Facebook or dating sites, cruising Craigslist, underwear ads, YouTube videos, "erotic literature", etc. Some people might say that's very difficult or impossible, how can I not watch porn, masturbate or have sex for a whole 90 days ? Yes, it's difficult but not impossible, Once you know how something works and how it affects you, it's much easier to muster the willpower to make a change if you so wish. You have to do what it takes to help yourself get better and have a normal life. To achieve a good result, any time you lose yourself and watch porn/masturbate/sex during your rebooting , you have to start all over , by starting all over I mean if you lose yourself on day 13 ,you have to start all over from day 1 again. What to experience during/after rebooting: 1. Flat-line period: This occurs within the 90 days rebooting. During the flatline period you will observe that you had lose total interest in sex, there will be no early morning erection, your pen*s shrinks and becomes smaller as such that sometimes you will feel like you have no pen*s, you only remember you have a pen*s when you want to urinate. Whenever you experience this, do not panic but be happy because it's a sign that your re-booting is working. The flatline signifies that your brain has wiped out all the sexual data you installed in it and now restoring to its original settings. The period of flatline may last up to several weeks or months depending on individuals. The flatline period ends with a sudden early morning erection ( full erection) , this signifies that your rebooting was successful and you can then go on and enjoy a normal sex life absent of erectile problem, premature ejaculation, delay ejaculation e.t.c . More things to notice during or after your rebooting include: a deeper voice , you become attractive to the opposite sex, you no longer panic when around the opposite sex, your self confidence increases, your social anxiety disappears, change in character( the way you talk ,walk, sit and stand show a new confidence ) e.t.c NOTE: If after adequate rebooting for 90 days , your sexual problem persist, you can then seek a medical help. Different people get cured at different time within the 90 days reboot, as long as you have experience the flatline period and then the sudden early morning erection, know that you are cured, you can stop the rebooting if you like . This means that it's not a must that you will reboot for 90 days . But, after 90 days of rebooting , if your sexual problem persist (then it's not a psychological problem) , seek a medical help. Follow those recovery steps OP and thank me later. SOURCE: https://www.nairaland.com/2077982/side-effects-porn-masturbation-how#29524078 1 Like |
Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by Adinoyi2020(m): 11:14am On May 13, 2020 |
Contact me with this number 08034112594 I will give u book to photocopy.. After u go through the book and practice the exercise u will understand their is nothing like impotency. |
Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by raymondhill: 11:16am On May 13, 2020 |
Go to Opm in port harcourt and take prayer assignment on water spirit. You can do that after the lock down on churches is left |
Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by raymondhill: 11:17am On May 13, 2020 |
Go to Opm in port harcourt and take prayer assignment on water spirit. You can do that after the lock down on churches is lifted. |
Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by melbergalex25: 11:19am On May 13, 2020 |
Stop taking tramadol |
Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by chila99: 11:27am On May 13, 2020 |
AmbFitsaint:when you masturbate to porn it does |
Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by leobenz: 11:41am On May 13, 2020 |
In my own opinion, aside from the spiritual aspect, i believe ur veins are now too weak to erect ur di*k. Please seek some medical help |
Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by Silla007: 11:43am On May 13, 2020 |
[i][/i] Thank God you have repented. God says he will forgive you of all your sins. He will because He is God and does not lie. But let me ask, have you received Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior? That's were to start from if you have not. Just confess that you now believe that Jesus is Lord and ask him to come into your life as your Lord and Savior. Believe it he will come. And your manhood will be restored immediately. God bless you. |
Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by tymicjay77: 11:44am On May 13, 2020 |
Samakus:Op you are okay ,if you didnt have erection it does not mean you have fault or issue,.... Why will you start with prostitutes in the first place.. Look for one babe whey u fit used to reset your body functions. |
Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by Samakus(m): 11:46am On May 13, 2020 |
tymicjay77: People don't read again abi na understanding be the problem? Oga quote the poster not me. I'm asking the op to clarify his post |
Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by mentored: 11:50am On May 13, 2020 |
junior20202020: Don't get another girl friend for now. Do not try to prove anything to anybody. Just face your God, read the BIBLE often and genuinely turn to God. If you find yourself going back to your vomit, never mind. Pick yourself up and continue the fight. You need God now more than ever. YOU HAVE MOVED FROM HABIT TO COMPULSION. But remember God said that HE will never leave nor forsake you. When you feel you are ready, get someone who is spiritually mature and ready for a serious relationship and open up to her. By the time God sees your genuine heart of repentance, your wife will enjoy. THERE IS NO GREATER WAY OF CLEANSING YOUR SPIRIT , SOUL AND BODY than using the cleansing WORD OF GOD. 1 Like |
Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by mentored: 11:56am On May 13, 2020 |
junior20202020: THE DEVIL THRIVES IN SECRECY As soon as someone close to you knows about this, His hold on your life is already halved. Do not hide this from your next serious relationship (not Bleep mate-you dont need another one) Speak to a pastor if you will (genuine man of God I mean) |
Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by Mmgboji(m): 11:58am On May 13, 2020 |
junior20202020: Try not to masturbate for 2months. After the 2months see a Doctor and narrate all these to him. He will run some ED tests and make further recommendations. It is not a big deal. I have been there before. |
Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by osilamah77(m): 12:08pm On May 13, 2020 |
You never know the gods are broke abi... No food for them that's y they no remember u junior20202020: |
Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by BonPatrick(m): 12:09pm On May 13, 2020 |
Lol my Tommy oo JhayJoe: |
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