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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Stacyomolola(f): 1:01pm On May 16, 2020
Ningen:


You call physical abuse & wrongful accusations techniques by AFRICAN MOTHERS to ostracize laziness?? shocked

Guy, don't try to normalize and generalize abuse with your toxic view against women. Just stfu.



Thumbs up

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by gunners160(m): 1:01pm On May 16, 2020
I put it to you that u are a thief or you have been a thief. Are u the only one in that house? Why are you always being singled out? I no even belief your story self because I can confidently say that you are one of those jobless youths who parade the streets disturbing people who carry out there activities

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Theundertaker(m): 1:02pm On May 16, 2020
Aboks:


At age 19 I was on my own it depends on the guy I can't remember last when my parents bought clothes for me

The only thing they for me was when they sent me to skill acquisition program

NATIONAL DIRECTORATE OF EMPLOYMENT
because ur parents were that way don’t mean that’s the way it’s supposed to be

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Stacyomolola(f): 1:04pm On May 16, 2020
vanida6:
Shey no be u dey steal money why leave nah,,,if u leave dat means u re guilty,,,,infact why will a grown man like u been stayin in dsam place wit ur mum,,,just pay her 2k back nd find anoda place to enjoy ur life dear
Why so dumb, u keep saying trash in all ur post and u are a lady.

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by gunners160(m): 1:05pm On May 16, 2020
Preshieben:
sharrrup if you don't know what to say
Hypocrite undecided
why will you tell him to shut up for saying the obvious fact? did you even comprehend the story and try to dot the "I 's " and cross the "T's that guy is a thief and I will say it loud without and iota of doubt

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Stacyomolola(f): 1:07pm On May 16, 2020
Oluromantic:

21 is not too old to stay with his parent

After they'll say guys are bashing girls too much on this forum. Is there sense in what this one said now?
U shouldnt be surprised, check all her post she/he always spills garbage

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Drizzy5001(m): 1:07pm On May 16, 2020
vanida6:
Shey no be u dey steal money why leave nah,,,if u leave dat means u re guilty,,,,infact why will a grown man like u been stayin in dsam place wit ur mum,,,just pay her 2k back nd find anoda place to enjoy ur life dear
Lol. He's just 20 na.
Some of his mates sef still dey Ss2 in secondary School. grin

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by flyingpig: 1:09pm On May 16, 2020
vanida6:
Shey no be u dey steal money why leave nah,,,if u leave dat means u re guilty,,,,infact why will a grown man like u been stayin in dsam place wit ur mum,,,just pay her 2k back nd find anoda place to enjoy ur life dear

Just shut it!

Who gives you right to question where he chooses to use as shelter?

Do you give him money for rent, or you're his older sister or you gave birth to him?

Awon opinion makers be talking like they are shareholders in your life

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Drizzy5001(m): 1:12pm On May 16, 2020
Bros no reason am na , na normal thing e be like say we get d same type of mother sef grin my mother don accuse me tire , no be once ,no be twice , and whenever she finds out the culprit she go begin apologize, and me sef go form hard man, Till she appease me grin
E Neva reach to leave the house.
Just endure na 2 years remain u go comot 4 her house.

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Fidelismaria: 1:32pm On May 16, 2020

op don't even think of moving out yet


stay with your mother for now

believe me when I say this you still need her







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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by prettysassygirl(f): 1:49pm On May 16, 2020
samicine:
Greetings one and all. I'll try to make my lamentation as short as possible.

My mother accused me of stealing her 2k, but I assure you, I didn't, the money got missing on Thursday night according to her and my 13 year old brother. I won't do such a thing, because the times are hard and the pandemic is fueling this hard times. I'm not lazy, I kind of work from home, I write for opera news hub and to some extent I get money from there, currently I have 19k in my account. I have no motive of taking her money, but she insists I took it, and is currently threatening to throw me out of the house. This is not the first time such thing has happened. When I was still in secondary school, money got missing often and she'll blame me, beat me and starve me for stealing her money, but God helped me and the culprit was found, my other brother was caught, he is 18 now and doesn't stay with us anymore. He stays with my dad. She never apologized for what she did and the scars of that emotional and physical abuse still ripples across my body. But this time I'm not sure I will forgive her if the money is found. I'm planning on leaving home and starting my life somewhere, it's hard, it might just be my naivety speaking, but I need your advice.

The only skill I have is writing and web designing, which I'm almost getting good at. I just need help and guidance. I'm a 200level student and I major in psychology. I'll be 21 by November.
Just hang in there dear. As far as your life isn't threatened , just swallow her rubbish till you can fend for yourself, then you leave.

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Icechillz(m): 2:35pm On May 16, 2020
vanida6:
Shey no be u dey steal money why leave nah,,,if u leave dat means u re guilty,,,,infact why will a grown man like u been stayin in dsam place wit ur mum,,,just pay her 2k back nd find anoda place to enjoy ur life dear
You are foolish and senseless

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by KristaPretty(f): 2:41pm On May 16, 2020
Give her 2k let her leave you alone.
Some mothers are witches!

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by PARlS(m): 2:45pm On May 16, 2020
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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Nobody: 2:56pm On May 16, 2020
Davash222:

There's nothing sad here. It happens in most average families.
So because it happens, it ain't sad?? Fk u

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Nobody: 2:57pm On May 16, 2020
KristaPretty:
Give her 2k let her leave you alone.
Some mothers are witches!
U mean ur mum??

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Davash222(m): 2:59pm On May 16, 2020
Inyikalum:

So because it happens, it ain't sad?? Fk u
Your verbal diarrhea is unnecessary. Embrace sense!

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Yongsiggz(m): 3:04pm On May 16, 2020
vanida6:
Shey no be u dey steal money why leave nah,,,if u leave dat means u re guilty,,,,infact why will a grown man like u been stayin in dsam place wit ur mum,,,just pay her 2k back nd find anoda place to enjoy ur life dear




Read this slowly- you are mumu and a big fool..your post define who you are n what you are facing bcuz of your wayward life....nonsense!!!!!!

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Nobody: 3:04pm On May 16, 2020
gunners160:
why will you tell him to shut up for saying the obvious fact? did you even comprehend the story and try to dot the "I 's " and cross the "T's that guy is a thief and I will say it loud without and iota of doubt
Ok mr crosser. I pray when next u r in a position that u r accused for doin something, even if u r not guilty, no one on this earth would believe u.
Idiota

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Jackossky(m): 3:37pm On May 16, 2020
Writing this here might seem off topic but let me write it anyway.


You do hear that no one owes you anything, I'm telling you, that statement is false.
There is someone that actually owe you something and that's your PARENT.


They owe you education, they should have planned before birthing you; they owe you a memorable childhood, they owe you an edge in life, they should motivate you, now, instead of reminiscing on all that your parent owes you, why not be self conscious and acknowledge that you owe your child those same goodies of life.


Please, don't birth a child if you can't chart his course, if you can't take care of him, I'm fed up of seeing people not having enough and wallowing in poverty, I'm fed up of cries and atrocities committed by those who had wrong parenthood...


You owe your Child G, same way your parent owed you.


Maybe I should add this to my diary.

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by konchesky01: 3:37pm On May 16, 2020
You have 19k in your account.
Please do giveaway nw

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by excanny: 3:44pm On May 16, 2020
Leave if you want to leave nau.


You are due for leaving.
Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by TheManofTomorrow(m): 3:51pm On May 16, 2020
@Samicine

I believe you should stick with the major advice being doled to you on this thread. You don't have the financial muscle to move out of your parent's house yet. 19k will do you little to no good on your own in this harsh economy.
Some parents can't get really angst at you for feeding away on their resources while comparing you with u mate( some of whom are into illegal business). I believe that's whats really happening. That doesn't mean she doesn't love you. Just stick with her for some years more till your graduate and get start getting more money.


BTW, how can one write for this said Opera News Hub?

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by DONFRANSKID(m): 3:56pm On May 16, 2020
vanida6:
Shey no be u dey steal money why leave nah,,,if u leave dat means u re guilty,,,,infact why will a grown man like u been stayin in dsam place wit ur mum,,,just pay her 2k back nd find anoda place to enjoy ur life dear
If he pays the money it means he stole the money

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Harrykn: 3:59pm On May 16, 2020
samicine:
Greetings one and all. I'll try to make my lamentation as short as possible.

My mother accused me of stealing her 2k, but I assure you, I didn't, the money got missing on Thursday night according to her and my 13 year old brother. I won't do such a thing, because the times are hard and the pandemic is fueling this hard times. I'm not lazy, I kind of work from home, I write for opera news hub and to some extent I get money from there, currently I have 19k in my account. I have no motive of taking her money, but she insists I took it, and is currently threatening to throw me out of the house. This is not the first time such thing has happened. When I was still in secondary school, money got missing often and she'll blame me, beat me and starve me for stealing her money, but God helped me and the culprit was found, my other brother was caught, he is 18 now and doesn't stay with us anymore. He stays with my dad. She never apologized for what she did and the scars of that emotional and physical abuse still ripples across my body. But this time I'm not sure I will forgive her if the money is found. I'm planning on leaving home and starting my life somewhere, it's hard, it might just be my naivety speaking, but I need your advice.

The only skill I have is writing and web designing, which I'm almost getting good at. I just need help and guidance. I'm a 200level student and I major in psychology. I'll be 21 by November.



Yours is good oh.....
She's only asking about her money, not trying to throw you out because all these boys in 20's that have small change in account una too dey misbehave.

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Nobody: 3:59pm On May 16, 2020
If she had always treated you like this since you were younger, then it goes way beyond what you are experiencing.

My advice :Look for a day she's sober and ask her why she treats you with so much hate. Whatever story or excuse you hear, don't take it to heart. Draw inspiration from it and focus on your future.
As for moving out, not yet Brother. Not yet. And if at all you must, go to your DAD.

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Harrykn: 4:04pm On May 16, 2020
Ariza:
If she had always treated you like this since you were younger, then it goes way beyond what you are experiencing.

My advice :Look for a day she's sober and ask her why she treats you with so much hate. Whatever story or excuse you hear, don't take it to heart. Draw inspiration from it and focus on your future.
As for moving out, not yet Brother. Not yet. And if at all you must, go to your DAD.



This is mom, she might not have enough money and tries to be calculative at times.

Do like me: Talk from morning till night e no touch me.

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Geminvert(m): 4:05pm On May 16, 2020
I would advise you to ignore her excesses till you're sure you can be comfortable on your own, it's a jungle outside

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Nobody: 4:05pm On May 16, 2020
gunners160:
why will you tell him to shut up for saying the obvious fact? did you even comprehend the story and try to dot the "I 's " and cross the "T's that guy is a thief and I will say it loud without and iota of doubt
if op was a girl
Will you say same?

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by cruzydal(m): 6:27pm On May 16, 2020
Ningen:
Harsher reality awaits out there.
If you want to fly, grow wings first.

You've 2 or 3 years to graduation.
Stay put, cope and get your degree.

Spread your wings & fly out during your NYSC.
This is the best advice . It’s harsher outside . Man up you are 21, Just try and be successful @ op that’s the best way to gain respect

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