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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Westernlove: 6:31pm On May 16, 2020
Oluromantic:

21 is not too old to stay with his parent

After they'll say guys are bashing girls too much on this forum. Is there sense in what this one said now?

The most useless of advices and things do comes mostly from nigerian female beings......A lot of them reason with what's between their leg.....empty skull Idiots...

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Westernlove: 6:37pm On May 16, 2020
BigJoe19:
You think it's easy for a 20year-old to live on his own in this country, it's like you are not from Nigeria. Most under 22years old that do not stay with their parents are mostly yahoo boys and drug addicts.

You be confirm street and you are absolutely In touch with reality and first class Information In Shiithole. I know some 30years+ still staying with their parents and to make the matter worse, Some of them are still doing mommy put lol.....Some of them are even baby daddy....

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Nobody: 6:43pm On May 16, 2020
Harrykn:




This is mom, she might not have enough money and tries to be calculative at times.

Do like me: Talk from morning till night e no touch me.
I don't understand this.
Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by seanwilliam(m): 7:58pm On May 16, 2020
Aboks:


The bottom line is he still depends on his mother
una go dey talk as if una sabi everything.. see, to be Frank, there is no way a 20 years old will be financially buoyant without doing fraud or dubious stuffs in this present nigeria. . He no dey easy atall to be financially stable without support at tha age..so there is nothing bad if he still dey chop mama food at that age..and besides the guy no lazy. Na ur type go make person do wetin e no one do..
If you no come from wealthy family, e harddddd!..



.

And to the op, u better chop the insult wellwell till you go dey ready financially and psychologically.. and besides we never hear your mama side of story... u self fit be one kind stubborn boy but your mum took it far..

Husle, buy wetin boy suppose get for house.. now husle another money wey fit sustain you ( after rent) close to 6 months..

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And you self, dey drop small small change for your mama.. like 3k, 5k.. make she dey use am hold body.. u see all those small small money dey count.. even u fit just wake up in the money and hand over 5h to her..

Na the way God wire all women .. they love money. but dey love it differently...
No go think of staying with your friends if you are not financially capable because you might not be able to deal with peer pressure..

My mama no fit tell me da talk , she no say me na agbero.. grin but I dey do normal for her sha.
No be everyone go survive moving out early abeg
Me na one leg for house, one leg outside, she respect me no be small..

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by seanwilliam(m): 8:08pm On May 16, 2020
cruzydal:

This is the best advice . It’s harsher outside . Man up you are 21, at that age I was already paying rent in Lagos . I love what your mum is doing she will make u a man . Just try and be successful @ op that’s the best way to gain respect
ogbeni, meself paid for house rent when I was 19... and that did not make me financially ok then.. 20 years na still parent responsibility.. abeg make we dey talk matter as he be jare...

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by SweetCunt97(f): 8:14pm On May 16, 2020
Ningen:
Harsher reality awaits out there.
If you want to fly, grow wings first.

You've 2 or 3 years to graduation.
Stay put, cope and get your degree.

Spread your wings & fly out during your NYSC.
And you don't know some emotional hurt can damage one for life? Pls let him leave d nest, he's an adult already. Atleast for his own sanity.
Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by SweetCunt97(f): 8:16pm On May 16, 2020
seanwilliam:
ogbeni, meself paid for house rent when I was 19... and that did not make me financially ok then.. 20 years na still parent responsibility.. abeg make we dey talk matter as he be jare...
So what age no b parent responsibility? Personally we should have a law that grants 18 yrs the freedom to leave home and be independent if they want just like d west.
Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by cruzydal(m): 8:22pm On May 16, 2020
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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by seanwilliam(m): 8:26pm On May 16, 2020
SweetCunt97:
So what age no b parent responsibility? Personally we should have a law that grants 18 yrs the freedom to leave home and be independent if they want just like d west.
baba before parent go start to dey expect you to leave house person fit don reach like 26( for boy) upward... no be even the money matter alone self, some are not psychologically and emotionally stable at that age self.. so leaving house depends on how quickly u mature in cash and in sense

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by SweetCunt97(f): 8:30pm On May 16, 2020
seanwilliam:
baba before parent go start to dey expect you to leave house person fit don reach like 26( for boy) upward... no be even the money matter alone self, some are not psychologically and emotionally stable at that age self.. so leaving house depends on how quickly u mature in cash and in sense
Seems Nigerian parents over indulge their kids for them not to be emotionally and psychologically mature these days. I doubt any of our grandfathers was living with their parents at that age then
Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by seanwilliam(m): 8:30pm On May 16, 2020
cruzydal:

Look nobody is competing with you . See ur mentality 20 years is parent responsibility when your mates abroad at that age have moved out and even gotten a car . Op the only way to impress your mum is to make money . Forget this rubbish this ass*ole quoted me . Make money and you would turn to her loving son . She is tired of u . Go and make money
ani oo ni opolo rara ati rara.. u no get iota of sense atall.. so u one dey compare abroad to nigeria.. shey na the same standard of living we get??

Abi na same currency value?
Abi na same employment opportunity?
Abi na same job assurance?
Abi na same job security?
Abi na same favorable environment?
Abi na same economy)
Abunu oshi grin
Funnily enough, e fit still be say na your mama dey feed you like dat at 30 oo...
Una go just dey open mouth gbaga gbaga, without thinking angry
Before you go talk , carry mirror for front, talk and look at yourself.. idiotic entity!

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by seanwilliam(m): 8:33pm On May 16, 2020
SweetCunt97:
Seems Nigerian parents over indulge their kids for them not to be emotionally and psychologically mature these days. I doubt any of our grandfathers was living with their parents at that age then
even in the olden days, if you leave house, your parents would still be checking on you time to time till you are almost balance in all aspect of life..
Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by PeacenLove2: 8:34pm On May 16, 2020
Theundertaker:
Humble ur self .

Op, this advise here might seem too little or too much but for now, it's all you can do. Believe me, it may be hot in your mama's house right now, it is war out there. Calm down and humble yourself to the core until you at least graduate and secure a decent job.

For now, it's good you earn some little change, try to contribute to the house small small if you aren't before. Your mama's aggression towards you will reduce. Just be calm and make sure to help around the house. It's her house, her rules. Some day soon, you will be man enough to get your own place and she will be proud of you. Pele. Patience.

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Nobody: 8:36pm On May 16, 2020
Davash222:

Your verbal diarrhea is unnecessary. Embrace sense!
Fk u again

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by SweetCunt97(f): 8:38pm On May 16, 2020
seanwilliam:
even in the olden days, if you leave house, your parents would still be checking on you time to time till you are almost balance in all aspect of life..

Simply groom your kids in a way to make them independent and strong to brave the hardship of life.

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by SweetCunt97(f): 8:40pm On May 16, 2020
cruzydal:

Look nobody is competing with you . See ur mentality 20 years is parent responsibility when your mates abroad at that age have moved out and even gotten a car . Op the only way to impress your mum is to make money . Forget this rubbish this ass*ole quoted me . Make money and you would turn to her loving son . She is tired of u . Go and make money
Lol. Wish naija dey like abroad sha
Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by seanwilliam(m): 8:40pm On May 16, 2020
SweetCunt97:
Simply groom your kids in a way to make them independent and strong to brave the hardship of life.
sure na.. and I go teach him how to cum inside and watch it flow like a boss too grin
Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by SweetCunt97(f): 8:43pm On May 16, 2020
seanwilliam:
sure na.. and I go teach him how to cum inside and watch it flow like a boss too grin
Perv
Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by seanwilliam(m): 8:44pm On May 16, 2020
SweetCunt97:
Perv
I go make him take over dose of red pills too... lol ..

How your end?
Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Exmilitant(m): 8:45pm On May 16, 2020
Kylekent59:
shocked

You are a thief!!!!

You stole your mum's 2k and you still had the guts to post it here.
Why did you play Aja ere with it, stop paying visual with your mum's hard-earned money.

It is virtual... But if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all.
Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by SweetCunt97(f): 8:45pm On May 16, 2020
seanwilliam:
I go make him take over dose of red pills too... lol ..

How your end?
We cool here
Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Ningen(m): 8:46pm On May 16, 2020
SweetCunt97:
And you don't know some emotional hurt can damage one for life? Pls let him leave d nest, he's an adult already. Atleast for his own sanity.

I hope you'll there for him when he creates a thread in the future begging for aid or protection.
Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Solsix(m): 8:51pm On May 16, 2020
Aboks:
Hmmm what a sad story
Very sad!
Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by 1234IKECHhukwu: 8:57pm On May 16, 2020
cruzydal:

Look nobody is competing with you . See ur mentality 20 years is parent responsibility when your mates abroad at that age have moved out and even gotten a car . Op the only way to impress your mum is to make money . Forget this rubbish this ass*ole quoted me . Make money and you would turn to her loving son . She is tired of u . Go and make money
Oga,stop the nonsense talk,how can u ,be comparing abroad,even as an unemployed person,or a student u re being paid every month to a society like Nigeria,were roaming the streets after 4 years as graduate is the norm,not talk of still being an undergraduate.

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Theundertaker(m): 9:10pm On May 16, 2020
cruzydal:

Look nobody is competing with you . See ur mentality 20 years is parent responsibility when your mates abroad at that age have moved out and even gotten a car . Op the only way to impress your mum is to make money . Forget this rubbish this ass*ole quoted me . Make money and you would turn to her loving son . She is tired of u . Go and make money
fraudster shut up
Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Joshmuch: 9:12pm On May 16, 2020
That's not good
Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Theundertaker(m): 9:13pm On May 16, 2020
SweetCunt97:
Simply groom your kids in a way to make them independent and strong to brave the hardship of life.
that’s it o!! Most respect to my parents!! Hopefully I would do better for my kids.
Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Theundertaker(m): 9:16pm On May 16, 2020
SweetCunt97:
And you don't know some emotional hurt can damage one for life? Pls let him leave d nest, he's an adult already. Atleast for his own sanity.
our parents only tell us the hard truth!! U think they hurting but speaking facts and want u to be a better person !!
Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by Theundertaker(m): 9:19pm On May 16, 2020
Friends hurt ur feelings , there is no one that won’t say stuff that won’t hurt ur feelings,, but ur Mum no matter what has ur best interests at heart more than anyone out there . Feel bad n get over it .. I know how fustrating it can be ,, I honestly do , just look for something to get little income that’s all u can do at this stage . Stay put

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by DanDeeBoss(m): 9:33pm On May 16, 2020
vanida6:
Shey no be u dey steal money why leave nah,,,if u leave dat means u re guilty,,,,infact why will a grown man like u been stayin in dsam place wit ur mum,,,just pay her 2k back nd find anoda place to enjoy ur life dear
undecidedundecided
Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by EMILO2STAY(m): 9:50pm On May 16, 2020
vanida6:
Shey no be u dey steal money why leave nah,,,if u leave dat means u re guilty,,,,infact why will a grown man like u been stayin in dsam place wit ur mum,,,just pay her 2k back nd find anoda place to enjoy ur life dear
this just even confirms my observations the more that many women especially Nigerian women are soo brainless. Spitss

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Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by EMILO2STAY(m): 9:51pm On May 16, 2020
vanida6:
Shey no be u dey steal money why leave nah,,,if u leave dat means u re guilty,,,,infact why will a grown man like u been stayin in dsam place wit ur mum,,,just pay her 2k back nd find anoda place to enjoy ur life dear
this just even confirms my observations the more that many women especially Nigerian women are soo brainless.

Spitss

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