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My marriage is one year and six months. I was having issues( I complain of her change in behavior, like not sweeping home cleaning kitchen etc) with my wife which makes her to live my house to her parents house. To make her return to me I kneel down to beg her in the presence of her siblings and neighbors. Now she is back to my house. Was my action( to kneel down) right or wrong?

When a lady summons courage to return to her parents after a quarrel with her husband, she finds it difficult to go back when they settle. It takes extra boldness to walk back into the husband's house. After reconciliation, she still feels ashamed to return. She will have cold feet. ...but when the husband goes begging, she will feel elated and return with pride.

Oga, you did well oh. You just saved your wife from the shame of returning by herself.

omohanet:
My marriage is one year and six months. I was having issues with my wife which makes her to live my house to her parents house. To make her return to me I kneel down to beg her in the presence of her siblings and neighbors. Now she is back to my house. Was my action( to kneel down) right or wrong?

It depends on what you did exactly
What was the issue ?
If you give person belle, you need to lie down sef


Seriously now, what was the issue ?
I am guessing Domestic violence ?

Talk to us, we might be able to help

Donald3d:
It depends on what exactly you did
What was the issue ?
If you give person belle, you need to lie down sef


Seriously now, what was the issue ?
I am guessing Domestic violence ?

Talk to us, we might be able to help

swears .

Donald3d:
It depends on what you did exactly
What was the issue ?
If you give person belle, you need to lie down sef


Seriously now, what was the issue ?
I am guessing Domestic violence ?

Talk to us, we might be able to help

Lol exactly! OP, what did you do?

Donald3d:
It depends on what you did exactly
What was the issue ?
If you give person belle, you need to lie down sef


Seriously now, what was the issue ?
I am guessing Domestic violence ?

Talk to us, we might be able to help

Exactly! It seems like he is leaving out the juiciest part of what actually happened

omohanet:
My marriage is one year and six months. I was having issues( I complain of her change in behavior, like not sweeping home cleaning kitchen etc) with my wife which makes her to live my house to her parents house. To make her return to me I kneel down to beg her in the presence of her siblings and neighbors. Now she is back to my house. Was my action( to kneel down) right or wrong?

you just applied for a new job and CONGRATULATION you were successful in your application and got the job... now, go to the bathroom, look in the mirror and say hello to your new housecleaner

RIGHT ko, SPRITE ni!

omohanet:
To make her return to me I kneel down to beg her in the presence of her siblings and neighbors. Now she is back to my house. Was my action( to kneel down) right or wrong?

WTF??
Guy, you deserve to be stoned in public.

That's the only way to appease your ancestors.

You sacrificed your self worth, self esteem and confidence. Shít. That's totally dishonourable!!!

There is likely more to this

Ningen:
WTF??
Guy, you deserve to be stoned in public.

the OP's photo must be under the dictionary definition of COKCHOLD!

omohanet:
My marriage is one year and six months. I was having issues( I complain of her change in behavior, like not sweeping home cleaning kitchen etc) with my wife which makes her to live my house to her parents house. To make her return to me I kneel down to beg her in the presence of her siblings and neighbors. Now she is back to my house. Was my action( to kneel down) right or wrong?

Forget about whether you are right or wrong!

Atimes you need to be a Fool or Mumu for Peace to Reign in your Home..

She is your wife!
It's your Home!
Leave all these unnecessary Contentions!

Don't be swayed by what people think. As long as there is Happiness, My Brother forget any other thing!

Be happy she is back!
Live peacefully

Bro you married a baby

u will soon start to wash her pants

Stupid man you are officially worthless, simp.

[color=#1980BC] Congratulations... You're now F.U.B.A.R... F**ked Up Beyond All Recognition...[/color]

How would u kneel down in presence of her siblings and parents.na wa for u o,e be like the woman go dey control u.u just gave her upper hand.what I have learned on how to treat a woman is don't be a begi begi type of guy when issue comes up.never ever give a woman the upper hand if not ur own don't finish.

omohanet:
My marriage is one year and six months. I was having issues( I complain of her change in behavior, like not sweeping home cleaning kitchen etc) with my wife which makes her to live my house to her parents house. To make her return to me I kneel down to beg her in the presence of her siblings and neighbors. Now she is back to my house. Was my action( to kneel down) right or wrong?

first of all, the role of cleaning belongs to your both and not a ground for quarrel. Secondly, you didn't send your wife away, she went in her own volution. So there was no reason to beg. You have made mockery of youreelf. She would now use it as a weapon to hold you down to her terms.

Hmmm!! You have set a new pace man.. I will be disappointed if you were not from that state in Nigeria known as the Pace setter...

You have set a new precedence for men to follow.. You have successfully rewritten the self esteem laws of the brotherhood that lots of us cherished.. Even your wife's dad, I doubt if he can do this...

You will be a reference point in years to come by families, neighbours etc... If truly she left because u asked her to clean the house...

This is how it will play out when a man have misunderstanding with his spouse in that neighbourhood...

Woman: what do u mean I can't clean or wash anymore? Haven't I washed enough? if I hear one single word from you, I will go in there, pack my things and go back to my father's house. And I don't want you to come kneeling and begging for me to return..

Man: why should I do that?

Woman : why can't you? Are u better than Bimbo's husband? She frog jumped and rolled on the floor in front of the whole village just to beg Bimbo to return.. why because she refused to sweep, wash and clean

On a serious note though, if it will make your marriage work, why not? But be prepared for future exit on any slight problem / provocation..
After the lock down, just go and buy kneeling pads because u will need it a lot... u go knell taya in future

There's gotta be more to this but if what you wrote up there is truly what happened, then it isn't a healthy way to lead a marriage. But whatever works for you.

omohanet:
My marriage is one year and six months. I was having issues( I complain of her change in behavior, like not sweeping home cleaning kitchen etc) with my wife which makes her to live my house to her parents house. To make her return to me I kneel down to beg her in the presence of her siblings and neighbors. Now she is back to my house. Was my action( to kneel down) right or wrong?

Did you beat her??

Buckle up! You have more kneeling to do ahead!

Kneeling down in front of her siblings and neighbours was unnecessary. By the no woman will pack out of her home because you simply reprimanded her. Confess! wetin you do?

Nothing way Musa no go see for gate...

When Sarah in the bible was calling our father Abraham my Lord you are here kneeling down to beg your wife with tears kai this is unacceptable just bury your head in shame cos you just disappointed your masculinity am sorry.
You can love your wife but behaving this way is uncalled for cos you have given her an expectation if kneeling down to beg when things go wrong between both of you in future which is not encouraging.

You knelt down to save your marriage.. Okay, but from what exactly?

Because if the ONLY thing you did was to complain about her inability to sweep and clean, which then prompted her to move back to her parent's house...then you're a degenerate for going to beg for her return.

Simping

Ningen:
WTF??
Guy, you deserve to be stoned in public.

That's the only way to appease your ancestors.

You sacrificed your self worth, self esteem and confidence. Shít. That's totally dishonourable!!!

You see this guy with ego and pride under the disguise of self worth? I pity their wife.

It depends on what you did that made her leave.

There are crimes that even If you lie down and beg, there is no comming back.

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