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I have a previous thread about this man. We started dating like a month now. When I was at his place one time like that, he wanted to show me something on his phone and a whatsapp message popped up from MY LOVE, obviously I wasnt the one that sent the message.
I didnt say anything immediately, I got home and asked him about who that person was, and he said the lady is his ex. He is not in his twenties anymore and it's hard to see a man in his 30s that is actually VERY SINGLE, so I asked him if there is any woman in his life and he told me about a ex that his mum said he cannot marry.
This same ex was the lady that sent him the text that day, they are still in touch and constantly talking.
I was surprised last week when we saw again, fortunately I got to see that he saved my own name as VICTORIA BENIN. I didnt say anything either.
I got home and talked to him about it then he said "with time that will change" what's all that? He knows am not too happy with him, then two days ago he said he called his mum to talk to her about this same ex, whether he can still marry her or not. He then said his mum said NO that am the only lady in his life, that he just called to co firm things from his mum.
This is crazy

Do you really want to keep dating a 30+ year old momma’s boy who is still in-love with his ‘ex’?

My dear, just be praying for him. God will change his heart towards you. Just say Amen.

Hian...I pray for your legs"receive the strength to run in Jesus name".

Some guys can be heartless sometimes,his friends will know who the main chick is but when the side chick comes around cooking and cleaning, they'll be hailing the girl"our wife", you will even hear "iyawo Ori mi"ekushe.

odikwa very risky

chii8:
Hian...I pray for your legs"receive the strength to run in Jesus name".

Lol
Waste of prayers. Allow the young girl to be deceiving herself.

Should I send u a dm?


So we could cheat on him back?

He would have left you if the mom had said yes.
You are a second option my dear. You were never relevant to him.

Righteousness89:
As they say here!

It will End in Tears!

You are likely being used as a Spare Part to a Married Man.....

Any lady who needs a Man Ready for Marriage to Marry Her, Simply Lock your Legs...

Oga u forgot to type the real message na like "its only in a relationship with Jesus that you wount be played"

Don't mind men who will save your number with a weird name and say with time they'd change it o. He still loves the ex.

Righteousness89:
As they say here!

It will End in Tears!

You are likely being used as a Spare Part to a Married Man.....

Any lady who needs a Man Ready for Marriage to Marry Her, Simply Lock your Legs...

So all the couples getting married didn't sex before saying "I Do"? Lock legs indeed

That fucker must be a Igbo.

You are not a serious person. After the last thread you still stay put. Keep dating yourself

I remember your previous thread. You're back again.

Victoria Benin...you better be wise. How can you not know that you're the side chick when the ex is still ...My Love.

It is well.

It would end in tears sis.

Even me I still save my ex Girlfriend name as Queen of my heart for whatsapp for my other phone
For these Phone na Favorite cause her name is favour

Davash222:
My dear, just be praying for him. God will change his heart towards you. Just say Amen.

Ebelebe!

What did he use to save yours? If your name is saved by your first name, it means you have entered a wrong route

He's still in love with his ex and not ready to let go. It is as simple as that.

ednut1:
You are not a serious person. After the last thread you still stay put. Keep dating yourself

No. I haven't been to his place since that day, I have seen this during my first visit too. I only got to see my name saved on his phone that way when he came to my workplace last week.

Vikky1425:
No. I haven't been to his place since that day, I have seen this during my first visit too. I only got to see my name saved on his phone that way when he came to my workplace last week.

like I said stop dating yourself

sisisioge:
Victoria Benin...you better be wise. How can you not know that you're the side chick when the ex is still ...My Love.

It is well.

Who knows how many more Victorias are there...

Vikky1425:
I have a previous thread about this man. We started dating like a month now. When I was at his place one time like that, he wanted to show me something on his phone and a whatsapp message popped up from MY LOVE, obviously I wasnt the one that sent the message.
I didnt say anything immediately, I got home and asked him about who that person was, and he said the lady is his ex. He is not in his twenties anymore and it's hard to see a man in his 30s that is actually VERY SINGLE, so I asked him if there is any woman in his life and he told me about a ex that his mum said he cannot marry.
This same ex was the lady that sent him the text that day, they are still in touch and constantly talking.
I was surprised last week when we saw again, fortunately I got to see that he saved my own name as VICTORIA BENIN. I didnt say anything either.
I got home and talked to him about it then he said "with time that will change" what's all that? He knows am not too happy with him, then two days ago he said he called his mum to talk to her about this same ex, whether he can still marry her or not. He then said his mum said NO that am the only lady in his life, that he just called to co firm things from his mum.
This is crazy

You have not found a boyfriend.

Next

@Op; another angst about this same BF again . You obviously don’t have any self-esteem/respect for yourself; hence, you keep taking trash from this so called BF of yours. YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED ALREADY by a few about the ways and silly antics of this BF of yours. Don’t come back here crying foul if you eventually end up marrying this obviously mums boy and he carries on with his trashy treatment against you. ENOUGH SAID.

He is in a relationship, there is no ex anywhere.

jidamsel43:
What did he use to save yours? If your name is saved by your first name, it means you have entered a wrong route

My first name and location

Vikky1425:
I have a previous thread about this man. We started dating like a month now. When I was at his place one time like that, he wanted to show me something on his phone and a whatsapp message popped up from MY LOVE, obviously I wasnt the one that sent the message.
I didnt say anything immediately, I got home and asked him about who that person was, and he said the lady is his ex. He is not in his twenties anymore and it's hard to see a man in his 30s that is actually VERY SINGLE, so I asked him if there is any woman in his life and he told me about a ex that his mum said he cannot marry.
This same ex was the lady that sent him the text that day, they are still in touch and constantly talking.
I was surprised last week when we saw again, fortunately I got to see that he saved my own name as VICTORIA BENIN. I didnt say anything either.
I got home and talked to him about it then he said "with time that will change" what's all that? He knows am not too happy with him, then two days ago he said he called his mum to talk to her about this same ex, whether he can still marry her or not. He then said his mum said NO that am the only lady in his life, that he just called to co firm things from his mum.
This is crazy

Madam you are dating yourself... That his ex is his main babe.

Vikky1425:
I have a previous thread about this man. We started dating like a month now. When I was at his place one time like that, he wanted to show me something on his phone and a whatsapp message popped up from MY LOVE, obviously I wasnt the one that sent the message.
I didnt say anything immediately, I got home and asked him about who that person was, and he said the lady is his ex. He is not in his twenties anymore and it's hard to see a man in his 30s that is actually VERY SINGLE, so I asked him if there is any woman in his life and he told me about a ex that his mum said he cannot marry.
This same ex was the lady that sent him the text that day, they are still in touch and constantly talking.
I was surprised last week when we saw again, fortunately I got to see that he saved my own name as VICTORIA BENIN. I didnt say anything either.
I got home and talked to him about it then he said "with time that will change" what's all that? He knows am not too happy with him, then two days ago he said he called his mum to talk to her about this same ex, whether he can still marry her or not. He then said his mum said NO that am the only lady in his life, that he just called to co firm things from his mum.
This is crazy

Red flags everywhere

Not only does he love someone else, he is also a mama's boy. Did you say in his 30s? And he needs to ask his mother's permission who to marry? I see lots of trouble.