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In addition to love, a female needs conversation. She enjoys talking with others. This sounds simple, but it is a real need based on her nature. A woman needs to have a man talk with her.

Notice that I said with her and not to her. Because males have a leadership mindset, sometimes their conversations with their wives amount to instructions rather than a give-and-take dialogue.
The man should always make a point to converse with the woman. Costly gifts don’t mean anything to a woman if the man just leaves them with her and then walks away. She’d rather have the conversation.

The man can fulfill a woman’s need for intimate conversation by continually making a point to communicate with her. To truly meet her need, he should talk with her at the feeling level and not just the knowledge and information level. She needs him to listen to her attitudes about the
events of her day with sensitivity, interest, and concern. All of his conversations with her should convey a desire to understand her, not to change her. This means that he should not
necessarily immediately try to solve her problems for her. He needs to resist the impulse to
offer solutions and instead offer his full attention and understanding.

After giving her plenty of time to express her feelings, he should conduct his end of the
conversation with courtesy and openness, looking her in the eyes and telling her what he really thinks and feels. He should share his plans and actions clearly and completely, because he regards himself as accountable to her, and ask for her input. This will enable her to trust him and feel secure.
Some men say, “What am I going to talk about with my wife?

They don’t realize that the woman has a need to express herself and therefore has much within her that she wants to share. A man can simply say, “What’s on your mind?” and she’ll usually have no problem
carrying the conversation. All he has to say in response is, “Uh-huh. Oh, I see.” However, he has to make sure he is really listening!

A woman can create opportunities for conversing with her husband by developing and interest in his job, his activities, and his hobbies, such as sports, music, or computers. As much as the woman needs conversation the man needs to share his interests with her. These related needs are a natural bridge of communication between them.

*Men, one of the greatest virtue you need in a courtship/marriage is ability listen and converse with your spouse.*

Source: http://www.lovebird.com.ng/2020/05/a-woman-needs-conversation-in-addition.html?m=1

I like involving myself in intelligent conversation, something most 9ja girls know noting about

Deicide:
I like involving myself in intelligent conversation, something most 9ja girls know noting about

bros low the volume, you are shouting �

wendyberry:
bros low the volume, you are shouting �

I swear I once chat with a South African girl and I enjoyed myself, I was like wow this girl seems to know a lot the maturity, the sense of humour A1.

I have never experienced something like that with a Nigerian girl since the day I was born..

Most conversation I enjoy are mostly with foreigners

And money o

Alwaysachick:
And money o

we know

wendyberry:
we know

It was a harmless reminder for males that hate to hear women mention money but love to date good looking women

That makes her own money? save that story for the next life time when God eventually switch genders.

Alwaysachick:
It was a harmless reminder

same here dear��

The conversation have to be about money and shopping or else no headway at all

One day my friend was chatting with his girl. Babe was replying with one word replies. You know those lol, k, wow, hmmn, replies (like say you no get game)

Next thing he said send your account number. Dropped X amount.

If you see the enthusiasm that followed

Abeg dating for most 9ja girls na business. I no fit kill myself.