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| My Sister's Friend Is Becoming Hostile.. by oebakare: 3:40pm On May 31, 2020 |
I'm sorry for any typo error... Well I'm an undergraduate of a federal university, but I have been home with my older sister for a while now due to he pandemic and all... I've also been trying to secure a job for the past two months as I'm not someone that likes been idle. The problem is my sister has a friend who stays with her, well I wouldn't lie she has had her good days too.. but recently I noticed she just switched up on me (mood swing kinda).. one minute we're vibing and the next she's keeping malice or giving irritating attitude... PS : this is like the longest we've been home together... I don't know if it's familiarity or just a lady's thing.... and it's tiring seriously..... I need to know what to do please.... |
| Re: My Sister's Friend Is Becoming Hostile.. by xcabczyxabczzzz: 3:42pm On May 31, 2020 |
She was expecting you to make a move but you are too of a chicken to try. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My Sister's Friend Is Becoming Hostile.. by FlordFlorez(m): 3:47pm On May 31, 2020 |
Girls are generally jealous, naggy and keeps malice alot. I dont know what else to say to u o. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Sister's Friend Is Becoming Hostile.. by Ningen(m): 3:57pm On May 31, 2020 |
You are a threat to her comfort. I am pretty sure because of your presence, “rationing” is now in the equation; less things and privacy for her.  2 Likes |
| Re: My Sister's Friend Is Becoming Hostile.. by GraGra247(m): 4:11pm On May 31, 2020 |
xcabczyxabczzzz: Op don't listen to baseless illogical statements like this. They'll lead you to a costly mistake. 8 Likes |
| Re: My Sister's Friend Is Becoming Hostile.. by bukatyne(f): 4:14pm On May 31, 2020 |
oebakare: Are you male or female? |
| Re: My Sister's Friend Is Becoming Hostile.. by oebakare: 4:16pm On May 31, 2020 |
xcabczyxabczzzz: She has a boyfriend already, and I'm not the type to do stuffs like that .... 1 Like |
| Re: My Sister's Friend Is Becoming Hostile.. by oebakare: 4:16pm On May 31, 2020 |
bukatyne: Male |
| Re: My Sister's Friend Is Becoming Hostile.. by oebakare: 4:18pm On May 31, 2020 |
Ningen: This is logical, maybe the privacy aspect.. but I try as much to feed myself not depending on their food... 1 Like |
| Re: My Sister's Friend Is Becoming Hostile.. by bukatyne(f): 4:19pm On May 31, 2020 |
oebakare: You know the answer na. Just try to be out of her way till you have to go back. While your sister would be comfortable with you,her friend would have to go through radical adjust3to accommodate you. Also try to be useful. Don't be the type of guy that expects them to cook and pack his plates or finds it hard to clear the sink. Find something to do around the house. 3 Likes |
| Re: My Sister's Friend Is Becoming Hostile.. by Pavore9: 4:20pm On May 31, 2020 |
oebakare: What is the size of the apartment? Is she paying part of the rent? |
| Re: My Sister's Friend Is Becoming Hostile.. by Professorcplus(m): 4:27pm On May 31, 2020 |
Op just don't get too intense when handling issues with her. Respect yourself around her and she do same to you. And remember her problem, her mood, not yours. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Sister's Friend Is Becoming Hostile.. by ultimateyankee: 4:30pm On May 31, 2020 |
Do your thing and leave her to her mood. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Sister's Friend Is Becoming Hostile.. by oebakare: 4:33pm On May 31, 2020 |
bukatyne:thanks... really appreciate this. 1 Like |
| Re: My Sister's Friend Is Becoming Hostile.. by oebakare: 4:34pm On May 31, 2020 |
Pavore9: 2 bedroom flat... I don't think so. |
| Re: My Sister's Friend Is Becoming Hostile.. by Pavore9: 4:55pm On May 31, 2020 |
oebakare: I believe there are things she used to feel free to do around the apartment before you joined them which she no longer can, you being male. Like someone suggested earlier, make sure you apply yourself in helping out in maintaining a clean apartment. It is only for a while . 1 Like |
| Re: My Sister's Friend Is Becoming Hostile.. by merieam16(f): 5:05pm On May 31, 2020 |
Op guess u dont respect her enough |
| Re: My Sister's Friend Is Becoming Hostile.. by xcabczyxabczzzz: 5:22pm On May 31, 2020 |
GraGra247:What is the worst that could happen? |
| Re: My Sister's Friend Is Becoming Hostile.. by Acidosis(m): 5:22pm On May 31, 2020 |
oebakare: When you say "this is the longest we've been home together", are you referring to your sister's home or her friend's? Who pays the rent? |
| Re: My Sister's Friend Is Becoming Hostile.. by oebakare: 6:04pm On May 31, 2020 |
Acidosis: My sister's 1 Like |
| Re: My Sister's Friend Is Becoming Hostile.. by Acidosis(m): 6:49pm On May 31, 2020 |
oebakare: Okay. I think you should ignore her friend. You don't owe her anything. 1 Like |
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