₦airaland Forum

merahki:
Victim blaming is one of the various ways people apologise for evil-rape.
You are unrepentant and bold in your folly. You should be done, here, and everywhere on the topic of rape, I nugo? Go to the nearest police station and say all that you have said on here. And see how you won’t be rocking a carton as your bed tonight.

Someone posted this the other day on the internet.
Would it be surprising if that poster has a Nairaland account spewing the same type of drivel?

The most dumbfounding bit of it was obviously highlighted but was there any bit of his post that is not classic NL rape apology script?
Indecent dressing, music, etc. everything but the rapist is the cause of rape.

See what we are up against on this issue of rape? It’s a tiring battle.

I feel sick reading some comments here...
You will do everything to advise a rape victim who may not be alive to read your 'sensible' advice yet say nothing, absolutely nothing to the perpetrators and aspiring rapists like yourself...

@Aku whatever, I can't even quote those posts of yours but I need to say this... You ought to hide your face in shame and try never to engage in a public discuss like this.
You are highly unintelligent.
Damn!

cococandy:
Someone posted this the other day on the internet.
Would it be surprising if that poster has a Nairaland account spewing the same type of drivel?

The most dumbfounding bit of it was obviously highlighted but was there any bit of his post that is not classic NL rape apology script?
Indecent dressing, music, etc. everything but the rapist is the cause of rape.

See what we are up against on this issue of rape? It’s a tiring battle.

It's tiring because you all have chosen to fight your battles on the internet, nairaland in particular.
Perhaps if you organize, go into the streets and do the leg work, maybe just maybe you can make a change that will count.

Graxie:
The hijab wearing lady that was killed recently because she refused being raped in her house made most of your arguments flawed. Of course you will have those that will applaud you, a woman who doesn't see rape in marriage will definitely fault girls for being rape victims. Keep applauding rapist, some day, most of your theories will become void by the time you witness first hand experience of being a victim.

The hijab lady clearly falls under violent rape that I removed from ‘preventable rape’. All the cases of “I went to his hotel or I slept over at his place” flying about isn’t preventable? What do you want me to say? Girls should keep sleeping over while trusting criminals not to rape them?

That part when people can feel comfortable blaming toddlers for rape is really scary. Ofcourse they are seductive from the womb to the insane which makes them punishable by being raped but not exactly raped. Psychos

cococandy:
Someone posted this the other day on the internet.
Would it be surprising if that poster has a Nairaland account spewing the same type of drivel?

The most dumbfounding bit of it was obviously highlighted but was there any bit of his post that is not classic NL rape apology script?
Indecent dressing, music, etc. everything but the rapist is the cause of rape.

See what we are up against on this issue of rape? It’s a tiring battle.

Gloriagee:
That part when people can feel comfortable blaming toddlers for rape is really scary. Ofcourse they are seductive from the womb to the insane which makes them punishable by being raped but not exactly raped. Psychos

Scary

Akunwafor:
Hmm

Why do you tell someone to avoid cultism if he knows he doesn't want to be killed?

See ehn, you women are simply stupid and retarded.

Nobody is supporting rape but have you not heard that PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE!!!

The facts of the Uwa case may be shrouded in mystery but check it;

1) The Nigerian government instituted a total lockdown. As such, crowd density in many areas were reduced in many areas, it was especially 0 in churches.

2) In a whole Lagos state, Lagos state o, people were moving house to house to rob people.

Let me rant this one in pidgin: boys start to dey go person house one by one to dey thief, dem no even fear sey street full o or sey police fit show, dem enter street dey rob. Some even send letter before hand.

3) In Abuja and some other states the story was the same.

Prior to the lockdown, ASUU was even on strike.

Now this church was in benin. I fathom it's location is remote and there may be thick bushes around. It may be situated such that the distance may be a distance away from the nearest building.

But the girl went all alone to be doing night reading in a church that has been deserted for months in a remote location.

I mean haba!

Let's call a spade, a spade.

I settle down to read some rape stories and just at the beginning of the story, it's already evident that the crime could have been prevented.

*Don't give your pin code to anyone
Why?
They may empty your bank account.*

*Don't put generator close to your window
why?
It's poisonous fumes may kill you*

*Don't leave your doors open at night
why?
You may be visited by robbers*

*Don't walk around in dark, lonely places at night
why?
You may be mugged, hurt or worse, raped*

The world is not all fairytales and unicorns, police and security agents exist for a reason.

With all the laws, rules and punishments in existence, there is still and there will always be crime.

IT WAS UNFORTUNATE THAT UWA HAD TO FALL PREY TO THIS DISGUSTING, DARK, SENSELESS, VILE, EVIL AND PAINFUL CRIME. And sadly, sometimes, some of these evil things happen beyond our control too.

But the narrative would have been very different if she'd stayed in her house.

oga Ladies do get rape in their homes

cococandy:
Someone posted this the other day on the internet.
Would it be surprising if that poster has a Nairaland account spewing the same type of drivel?

The most dumbfounding bit of it was obviously highlighted but was there any bit of his post that is not classic NL rape apology script?
Indecent dressing, music, etc. everything but the rapist is the cause of rape.

See what we are up against on this issue of rape? It’s a tiring battle.

If you check out this man, you might find out he is one of those 'deliverance pastors'. Their wives are everywhere on facebook, supporting rapist while claiming the rape victims have seductive spirit. Terrible fake Christians. You can imagine such a man living with a minor and claiming he was seduced by her. Ndi uchu.