Just recently (last 2 weeks), my girlfriend broke up with me and gave no tangible reason, we have been planning to get married. I kept pestering her for the real reason she broke up, she just keep on saying the relationship is not going to work out.
Just yesterday evening, I asked her again, she said she broke up with me cause my best friend always beats his wife and I would also end up beating her when we get married. I don't know how she got to know my friend beats his wife, but does that mean I would also be hitting my wife when we get married. I have never been a violent person, I am so disappointed with her, we having been dating for long and she doesn't know who I am.

I honestly don't blame her, the two of you would surely have quarrels when married and one day you would ask your wife-beater best friend for advice and he would advice you to beat your wife. One of those days you might take his advice and give someone's daughter a black eye.
I like her.

Save yourself the troubles. Mentally she has already left, women do that before telling you about the break up.
Let her go simple as that.

chivera018:
I honestly don't blame her, the two of you would surely have quarrels when married and one day you would ask your wife-beater best friend for advice and he would advice you to beat your wife. One of those days you might take his advice and give someone's daughter a black eye.
I like her.

Really?!

djoe21:


Really?!

Yes!

chivera018:
I honestly don't blame her, the two of you would surely have quarrels when married and one day you would ask your wife-beater best friend for advice and he would advice you to beat your wife. One of those days you might take his advice and give someone's daughter a black eye.
I like her.

So you already know what will happen in the future? You know how the friend will advise him to beat her?
What an absolute dickhead you are.

Your best friend always beating his wife and you not being violent, how do you think that when you have issues with your wife this friend of yours will advise you not to beat your wife as he does his?

She may be feeling you have become desensitized towards a man beating up his wife.
If she has moved on, also do while hoping you would meet a lady who would not feel scared by how your best friend beats his wife.

"Birds of a feather flock together"

Your girlfriend probably took this proverb to heart.


It's well.

TUANKU:

So you already know what will happen in the future? You know how the friend will advise him to beat her?
What an absolute dickhead you are.

She is not far from the truth, it is 100% possible.

RoyalBlu:
"Birds of a feather flock together"

Your girlfriend probably took this proverb to heart.


It's well.

She sure did

That explanation is just a decoy, you have never beaten her before and then suddenly she equate your relationship with that of your friend, not even your brother
She doesn't want to hurt you by telling you the truth
And it took her days to come to the explanation

OP just forget her, women sabi dump men for any yeye reason way come their soft head. Funny thing be say she fit end up with serial wife beater....& e go surely end in tears.

Biancah:
She is not far from the truth, it is 100% possible.

and another 100% that he won't do that. Do you copy everything your friend (s) does?
That's a lame excuse based on stereotype and sentiments, no logic. Does it mean every wife beater learned it from close friends?

chivera018:
Yes!

Lol. I still want to believe you were joking with that your comment.

chigoziri2403:
That explanation is just a decoy, you have never beaten her before and then suddenly she equate your relationship with that of your friend, not even your brother
She doesn't want to hurt you by telling you the truth
And it took her days to come to the explanation

The girl don port go another guy yet this simp can't see it.
She doesn't want to hurt him by telling him directly so she just found any excuse.
Manipulative af.

I kept pestering her for the real reason she broke up, she just keep on saying the relationship is not going to work out.

You pressured her to give you a reason for the break-up and she had no choice but to conjure something up to fill the gap. That's what I think.

If I am to guess why, I believe she is probably in love with another man and she wants to be with that person but cannot tell you this to your face.

TUANKU:

and another 100% that he won't do that. Do you copy everything your friend (s) does?
That's a lame excuse based on stereotype and sentiments, no logic. Does it mean every wife beater learned it from close friends?

She is not taking chances, since she has known him for long maybe she knows he takes a lot of advices from his friend, or she knows he is someone easily influenced by friends, some people are just like that.
Either way, it's her choice and life to live.

You should be happy she left now. Assuming she waited till wedding preparations were ready?

The truth is She never really loved you. She probably fell in love out of pity for you after you chased her and spent on her for a long time. But when you started talking marriage she discovered you weren't the one for her and decided to end things...

I can't tell you I know how it feels but I can tell you this: Move on bro, no time!

djoe21:


Lol. I still want to believe you were joking with that your comment.

Probably, the OP might be a troll. Many fake stories are been made up these days.

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Biancah:
She is not far from the truth, it is 100% possible.
She sure did

Many things are 100% possible, hope you know. For a start, it is 100% possible for him not to beat his wife even though his friend is a wife beater.

And when something is 100% possible doesn't even mean it is probable let alone the eventual outcome.

chivera018:
Probably, the OP might be a troll. Many fake stories are been made up these days.

So if the story is confirmed to be true, would your initial comment change?

chivera018:
I honestly don't blame her, the two of you would surely have quarrels when married and one day you would ask your wife-beater best friend for advice and he would advice you to beat your wife. One of those days you might take his advice and give someone's daughter a black eye.
I like her.

Lol
Why do you girls reason this way

TUANKU:

The girl don port go another guy yet this simp can't see it.
She doesn't want to hurt him by telling him directly so she just found any excuse.
Manipulative af.

her excuse is very lame

AlexF:
Just recently (last 2 weeks), my girlfriend broke up with me and gave no tangible reason, we have been planning to get married. I kept pestering her for the real reason she broke up, she just keep on saying the relationship is not going to work out.
Just yesterday evening, I asked her again, she said she broke up with me cause my best friend always beats his wife and I would also end up beating her when we get married. I don't know how she got to know my friend beats his wife, but does that mean I would also be hitting my wife when we get married. I have never been a violent person, I am so disappointed with her, we having been dating for long and she doesn't know who I am.

Listen my boy,

Whatever she told you about your friend beating his wife is a blatant lie.

She actually met someone much better than you (As she feels).

The truth is, she hastily left you for the new man because she felt she was going to have it all. But right now, the truth is starring at you in the face. The grass is not greener at the other side.

She is hoping you will press further and reassure her that she will be fine if she eventually returns back to your arms.

Believe me, most young females do this without remorse. It's like a strategy.

If you ever accept such indicisive woman back into your life, you will forever regret it.

Let's look at it this way.

So because her best friend once cheated on her spouse is an assurance that it will not work out between you both?

or

Because her mother couldn't grow a business or birth a male child, then it's an assurance that such fate will befall her?

or

Because non of her family members ever travelled overseas, then such fate will befall her despite all it takes is a visa, plane ticket and decision to move?

I hope her folks will learn to analyze topics without sentiments before they comment.

Cheers!

Biancah:
She is not taking chances, since she has known him for long maybe she knows he takes a lot of advices from his friend, or she knows he is someone easily influenced by friends, some people are just like that.
Either way, it's her choice and life to live.

No one is putting a gun to her head to make a choice.
No substance just based on probability.

Your brothers in the Red Pill Industry are coming to answer you... Just camdan

Her life I s important to her. Maybe she had raised your friends issues and you ignored her so she knows you might be sympathetic to the abuse.

AlexF:
Just recently (last 2 weeks), my girlfriend broke up with me and gave no tangible reason, we have been planning to get married. I kept pestering her for the real reason she broke up, she just keep on saying the relationship is not going to work out.
Just yesterday evening, I asked her again, she said she broke up with me cause my best friend always beats his wife and I would also end up beating her when we get married. I don't know how she got to know my friend beats his wife, but does that mean I would also be hitting my wife when we get married. I have never been a violent person, I am so disappointed with her, we having been dating for long and she doesn't know who I am.

Move on brother.

Billy Graham thanked the women who broke up with him so he could marry his destined wife, Ruth.

It might be a blessing in disguise or not.

Dust yourself up to be a better man, it is either her lose or her gain.

Ningen:


You pressured her to give you a reason for the break-up and she had no choice but to conjure something up to fill the gap. That's what I think.

If I am to guess why, I believe she is probably in love with another man and she wants to be with that person but cannot tell you this to your face.

You are correct bro...will she tell or do that to Davido...op pls take heart that's women for u. They are harder to decode than mathematics.

AlexF:
Just recently (last 2 weeks), my girlfriend broke up with me and gave no tangible reason, we have been planning to get married. I kept pestering her for the real reason she broke up, she just keep on saying the relationship is not going to work out.
Just yesterday evening, I asked her again, she said she broke up with me cause my best friend always beats his wife and I would also end up beating her when we get married. I don't know how she got to know my friend beats his wife, but does that mean I would also be hitting my wife when we get married. I have never been a violent person, I am so disappointed with her, we having been dating for long and she doesn't know who I am.

You should be doing thanksgiving in church, you just missed a bullet...

She found herself another guy, pls move on with your life.

chivera018:
I honestly don't blame her, the two of you would surely have quarrels when married and one day you would ask your wife-beater best friend for advice and he would advice you to beat your wife. One of those days you might take his advice and give someone's daughter a black eye.
I like her.

you self how are you friend to a wife beater this 21st century . Haba better friend don finish for town.

chivera018:
I honestly don't blame her, the two of you would surely have quarrels when married and one day you would ask your wife-beater best friend for advice and he would advice you to beat your wife. One of those days you might take his advice and give someone's daughter a black eye.
I like her.

Gbam!!!