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My Major Concern (s) by 5stardude: 4:43am On Aug 31, 2011
Marriage is not by force rather by choice we all know that. But in some aspect it is necessary

Spending the rest of your life with her is not the problem.

Making love to the same woman for the rest of your life is the big deal.

Even after child birth when the v.hole will never remain the same again.

My concern. . What are yours?

Any remedy for that
Re: My Major Concern (s) by tpia5: 4:51am On Aug 31, 2011
Re: My Major Concern (s) by Nobody: 5:07am On Aug 31, 2011
5stardude:

Marriage is not by force rather by choice we all know that. But in some aspect it is necessary

Spending the rest of your life with her is not the problem.

Making love to the same woman for the rest of your life is the big deal.

Even after child birth when the v.hole will never remain the same again.

My concern. . What are yours?

Any remedy for that
actually, dont assume.some of your concerns are wrong, after a woman gives birth,in a short while,the v comes back to original size.thats how God made it.
Re: My Major Concern (s) by 5stardude: 5:14am On Aug 31, 2011
@Platnum thanks, but it heard it ain't gonna be the same again? *scary*
Re: My Major Concern (s) by nassiwa: 7:25am On Aug 31, 2011
My concern especially about marriage is putting up with someone from a different background, have children together, leave together for a whole life time, and putting up with his/her funny behaviors. Not easy at all
Re: My Major Concern (s) by Nobody: 8:32am On Aug 31, 2011
Any cure yet for HIV? undecided
Re: My Major Concern (s) by Tosinville(m): 8:40am On Aug 31, 2011
^^Are you living with one?
Re: My Major Concern (s) by Nobody: 8:45am On Aug 31, 2011
^^ Helping YOU out here boy!
Re: My Major Concern (s) by Tosinville(m): 8:46am On Aug 31, 2011
After giving births to ur satisfaction, you can still resize ur spouse v-area to the size of ur dick with glue from doctors to keep enjoying your wife for more.
Re: My Major Concern (s) by MrCork17: 10:07am On Aug 31, 2011
5stardude:

Marriage is not by force rather by choice we all know that. But in some aspect it is necessary

Spending the rest of your life with her is not the problem.

Making love to the same woman for the rest of your life is the big deal.

Even after child birth when the v.hole will never remain the same again.

My concern. . What are yours?

Any remedy for that

5stardude <<<<<(REALITITY101). Bro, are u having 2nd thoughts about your boyfriend? wink
Re: My Major Concern (s) by 5stardude: 4:05pm On Aug 31, 2011
Bleep you Mr. Cork


@Tosinville no bro I ain't living with any. .
Re: My Major Concern (s) by Nobody: 4:11pm On Aug 31, 2011
5stardude:

Marriage is not by force rather by choice we all know that. But in some aspect it is necessary

Spending the rest of your life with her is not the problem.

Making love to the same woman for the rest of your life is the big deal.

Even after child birth when the v.hole will never remain the same again.

My concern. . What are yours?

Any remedy for that
Is your concern only connected to sex?
Re: My Major Concern (s) by pendo89(f): 4:16pm On Aug 31, 2011
Ever heard of kegel exercises? Google. I read a thread funny thread here about a hubby complaining that the wife is too tight and she has kids?
I think she did a lot of kegel.

Nway If you still cant take that there's CS.I think a good  no.of women who fear natural childbirth and those with hubbys harbouring unfounded fears like yours opt for that. Whether baby comes out thru nose or mouth its still baby.

If you cant keep your vows then become polygamous.Its still acceptable in some societies.
Other option is, shorten your lifespan by becoming promiscous.

If you do not fancy all that then remain a bachelor.Its not a must and your correct.

lastly marriage is more than sex.
Re: My Major Concern (s) by 5stardude: 4:25pm On Aug 31, 2011
Not really hon, putting up with ladies issues, nosy, inquisitive and so many more
Re: My Major Concern (s) by 5stardude: 4:31pm On Aug 31, 2011
@pendo89 your talking bout C Section right? All the same. Sorry polygamy is not allowed in my society
Re: My Major Concern (s) by pendo89(f): 4:38pm On Aug 31, 2011
5stardude:

@pendo89 your talking bout C Section right? All the same. Sorry polygamy is not allowed in my society

yep exactly.

5stardude:

putting up with ladies issues, nosy, inquisitive and so many more

If the lady you are are dating right now is nosy, inquisitive and nagging,then she will double in measure when you marry.
People dont change at all.They become worse or their true selves pop up.
That is why its called marriage. Otherwise it looses its worth and meaning.
Its for people who are willing and ready to account for each other.People who are able to tame their desires by loving their spouses more.
The reason its not just a fairy tale but hardwork to keep the flames burning and taming the wild desires.
If you are nt ready to be accountable and responsible, then you are not ready to marry so wait.

Ok lemmie just tell you this.You can have a very adventourous wife that wl make you wanna come home at 6 pm every day.
And even if shes had child am sure there are several ways to sexually keep the fire burning.
C'mon check out some of this blazing marriages.Full of fun and life.Get your eyes off the pathetic ones cz you aint helping urself by doing that.
Re: My Major Concern (s) by 5stardude: 4:43pm On Aug 31, 2011
The girl I'm dating is perf I will say. But the earlier is my concern
Re: My Major Concern (s) by pendo89(f): 4:53pm On Aug 31, 2011
The best proven and well known exercise that gets women back to shape are kegel exercises.
Ask her to talk to women that have done that and let her hear from the horses' mouth. Talk even to the best doc.
Women slack down there cz they do nothing but seat after natural childbirth
Most modern women go for C-S.

disadvantages

Its expensive and takes longer to heal.Besides it leaves one scarred at the bikini area.
You can't have many cs cz they weaken your tummy muscles.
Its difficult for a woman to get rid of the tummy fat but with natural birth its quick and easy.
Ok I could be wrong but I dnt think so.

If a woman fears natural then cs is available. Weigh the advant and disadv.

from pendo [s]certified obstetrician and gynaecologist[/s]
Re: My Major Concern (s) by Nobody: 4:59pm On Aug 31, 2011
pendo89:

yep exactly.

If the lady you are are dating right now is nosy, inquisitive and nagging,then she will double in measure when you marry.
People dont change at all.They become worse or their true selves pop up.
That is why its called marriage. Otherwise it looses its worth and meaning.
Its for people who are willing and ready to account for each other.People who are able to tame their desires by loving their spouses more.
The reason its not just a fairy tale but hardwork to keep the flames burning and taming the wild desires.
If you are nt ready to be accountable and responsible, then you are not ready to marry so wait.

Ok lemmie just tell you this.You can have a very adventourous wife that wl make you wanna come home at 6 pm every day.
And even if shes had child am sure there are several ways to sexually keep the fire burning.
C'mon check out some of this blazing marriages.Full of fun and life.Get your eyes off the pathetic ones cz you aint helping urself by doing that.


Respect Pendo. wink wink Respect mannh.

Great advice.
Re: My Major Concern (s) by 5stardude: 6:15pm On Aug 31, 2011
Thanks ma'am I guess she knows about all that stated above. So when we settle down I believe she gonna know what's best for her.

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