I have this incredibly clear idea of exactly how my wife should be, her mannerisms, her height, what she would look like on our wedding day, what our children would look like etc

This June makes it exactly a year have been searching for a girl to marry, you can tell by my very first post hear on NL was about getting married, COVID ruined the year for me big time....

Haved tried finding my better half online, NL, at work, church, religious gathering, prayers inclusive, you name it... even considered moving to a new state entirely.. much as i feel am the one who tend to be excessively picky when it comes to marriage, I had to admit I was tired and decided to give it a rest.
People often say that the right person will come along when you stop looking,this is so deep caused it literally happened to me!
Last 4 months, when I gave up on searching, I met a charming tall slim girl we became very close friends within this time frame,infact she has all I ever wanted in a woman to call her my wife, to cut the long story short I have told my parents about her and they approve.

Now the problem is, there are men who are attracted to Women who cannot see their legs because of their tummy (fat) and there are also men who are attracted to slim women(not thin) i fall in this category, one mans food another mans poison. With that said, am not attracted to her sexually because she is thin but she's someone I want to call my wife...
Criticism, observation, advice and comments are all welcome

Wahala yazokwem.




this your matter eeee big pass zuma rock.






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U said many things.but,did not say anything.

donbachi:
U said many things.but,did not say anything.

as in eh

So you're getting married to Dija Congratulations!


_{Don't worry, I READ everything you wrote}.

donbachi:
U said many things.but,did not say anything.

Oga what I said is simple! am not sexually attracted to her but she would make a good wife and I don't want to let her go ..

Dija Is off limits

Pls leave her... Incase you think you are doing her a favour by marrying her. Leave her so you don't make her miserable.
Wait, your perfect height and weight is coming, in 2030.

D only thing I ll say to you is, that thin lady might become slim or fat when she begins to give birth to ur babies. No give up, U can't get complete package.

VickyRotex:
So you're getting married to Dija Congratulations!


_{Don't worry, I READ everything you wrote}.

She looks like her

ieemmanuel:


She looks like her

So the picture up there is your girlfriend

VickyRotex:


So the picture up there is your girlfriend

Thin wise

ieemmanuel:


Thin wise

ieemmanuel:


Thin wise

Am not sure if that's the word for it
But all I need right now is a candid advice not to let resentment set in followed by regrets

ieemmanuel:
Choosing a better half is one of the most important decisions a man must make in his life..

I have this incredibly clear idea of exactly how my wife should be, her mannerisms, her height, what she would look like on our wedding day, what our children would look like etc

This June makes it exactly a year have been searching for a girl to marry, you can tell by my very first post hear on NL was about getting married, COVID ruined the year for me big time....
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Haved tried finding my better half online, NL, at work, church, religious gathering, prayers inclusive, you name it... even considered moving to a new state entirely..
much as i feel am the one who tend to be excessively picky when it comes to marriage, I had to admit I was tired and decided to give it a rest.
People often say that the right person will come along when you stop looking,this is so deep caused it literally happened to me!
Last 4 months, when I gave up on searching, I met a charming tall slim girl we became very close friends within this time frame,infact she has all I ever wanted in a woman to call her my wife, to cut the long story short I have told my parents about her and they approve.

Now the problem is, there are men who are attracted to Women who cannot see their legs because of their tummy (fat) and there are also men who are attracted to slim women, i fall in this category as some wouldnt think of going on a date with a slim girl (not thin). one mans food another mans poison. With that said, am not attracted to her sexually because she is thin but she's someone I want to call my wife...
Criticism, observation, advice and comments are all welcome

Too slim?

Squillaci:

Too slim?

Yes

Selfish man. Shes what you want as a wife but shes thin. You cannot eat your cake and have it.
Your patner cannot have 100% of what you want. It's either you leave her or marry her for who she is.
Some women gain weight after childbirth. Look at bam bam of big brother. Check her family too, are they slim like that? It could be hereditary. If her mum is fat then there is a chance that will put on weight had time goes on.

rockstarB:
Selfish man. Shes what you want as a wife but shes thin. You cannot eat your cake and have it.
Your patner cannot have 100% of what you want. It's either you leave her or marry her for who she is.
Some women gain weight after childbirth. Look at bam bam of big brother. Check her family too, are they slim like that? It could be hereditary. If her mum is fat then there is a chance that will put on weight had time goes on.

Like I said criticism are totally welcomed
Thank you for your brutal unbiased response..I truly appreciate

It's well with your soul, radarada

you want to marry someone that you are not sexually attracted to
one thing is certain ..............
it will end in "PREMIUM" tears

List the must haves in the woman of your dream and the good to haves. If sexual attraction is a must have and being slim is a no no for you, I'll say cut her loose. Let her go. You'll make life miserable for her if you marry her.

If it's a good to have, I'll say focus and dwell your attention on the good qualities that attracted you to her in the first place. Energy and love goes where attention goes.

My 2 kobo.

One man's food is another man's poison

Op so wat do u want us 2 do? To give her multivitamins so she can get fat or wat?

Everything is happening so fast.
Right now m just overwhelmed...I have many questions that don't seem right to ask on this platform!! If I asked my parents they would be biased they already in love with her...I don't want too involve my friends yet cause men will always be men is a no go zone!

ieemmanuel:
Everything is happening so fast.
Right now m just overwhelmed...I have many questions that don't seem right to ask on this platform!! If I asked my parents they would be biased they already in love with her...I don't want too involve my friends yet cause men will always be men is a no go zone!

?like these
If she would add up? her mum is a bit on the fat side due to the number of children she has. her siblings are thin too..

thin women are more likely to have underweight babies, they are no more likely to give birth prematurely or to have their babies die in the first week after birth, how true is this

Please do not quote me

Please am looking for a thin, i mean thin fair lady to marry.
I have been saying it here since on nairaland.

I have a weakness for a fair, well behaved, thin, tall girl.
Promise her she wont regret it.
Please send her to me.

No one is perfect, mind you almost all women add some weight after childbirth, except they control it. She would likely add up in future and become your kind of woman, that's if you are 100percent sure the reason you aren't attracted to her is her thin frame. By the way, I bet if she also were asked to give full details of her kind of man, you wouldn't fit in , she would definitely see numerous faults to point at, love overlooks such minor flaws. If you don't want her, don't waste her time.

ieemmanuel:


?like these
If she would add up? her mum is a bit on the fat side due to the number of children she has. her siblings are thin too..

thin women are more likely to have underweight babies, they are no more likely to give birth prematurely or to have their babies die in the first week after birth, how true is this

False! Totally false.

ieemmanuel:


?like these
If she would add up? her mum is a bit on the fat side due to the number of children she has. her siblings are thin too..

thin women are more likely to have underweight babies, they are no more likely to give birth prematurely or to have their babies die in the first week after birth, how true is this

U r complaining she's thin, what will happen if u finally marry her and she becomes fat after child birth? U know what u want for ursef tho!

So na dija u wan come marry