Freetruth:
When you have known Christ, it will be hard to Sin.

I nearly slipped off feet during courtship but with God and determined disciplined l pulled through.
Am happy today....

Lust and lack of self control is the problem of young people.

I am just so astonished that people here will bring holiness into issues of flesh and blood. Back in my days in Uniben, Omo na fellowship pastors bang 100level students wellla ooo and from taking her round the school, buying her snack and lunch . Boom off to night class, na from there romance and sex go take place. If u like trust pastors, u re on your own.

EXLOVER:
The only day i wanted to make excuse just to escape sex. I rejected her advances and turn to the other side of the bed, facing the wall, immediately she cuddled me with her breast touching my back, my preek just immediately wake up from sleep. Kpakam na so fvck start oh.

Lol.. My Gee..u b real nigga


Make I hear say I reject sex

paulolee:

na u be dt na..me i even fear pass fowl o...i b boi for the game and de give those hard men chance oo

try get military guys as friends, them no born cultist well make them ride u

darfay:
Seun and Nairaland stop changing Hor.ny to hot or are we boiling water here?

Lol. They also changed flat heads to igbo. What type of stereotype is that. Are igbos flatheaeds ni? Se.unn has turned banters to reality.

Abfinest007:
why will you avoid sex

Abeg help me ask them oh

sayso:
Unintelligent kids everywhere. Food and sex always.

Gbenu oshi e soun

Abfinest007:
why will you avoid sex

I guess because she does not want to deal with unwanted pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases or create soul ties. If she is a believer, then she should know that God hates sexual immorality AKA fornication. Sex was created for married people only. Nobody should bother quoting me please. I have a right to state my opinion.

Joycekkh:
Menopause threat dont get me to me uncle, I am very much young and have my life to live, at the appointed time, I will find the right one and sex won't keep him.

Keep irrup hon.

I'm proud of ya.

jimenyo:
Honestly,I don't know why many ladies feel every man can easily fall for them when it comes to sex!
Imagine a married woman,with three kids,almost succeeded in forcing herself on me.
We lived in the same compound(face me I face you)
.On three occasions she had borrowed money from me,that the husband would pay anytime he returned from work.But I never got my money back!
One night,around 12am,she entered my room while I was sleeping.Somehow,I managed to wake up and saw mama Tope in my bed with me.Ah....ah!
Me:wetin happen mama T?
Her:No,I just came to while away time with you.
Me:by this time of the day?
Her:My dear,I actually come to tell you that I haven't forgot I am owing you.Please,no vex,I go pay you when my husband comes....
Me:You don't need to bother yourself about that.
Please,you can go and sleep;we would see tomorrow.
And please,I will appreciate if you will not come to my place at this time ever again....
Look at the way you dress.If anybody sees you leaving here now,it will be concluded something has happened fa!Abeg,no put me for trouble oo!In fact, I don't need the money again;I dash you,abeg!
Honestly,she entered my room with night gown and just green pant....can you imagine!

But how did you know her pant was green

Majesty33:
I am just so astonished that people here will bring holiness into issues of flesh and blood. Back in my days in Uniben, Omo na fellowship pastors bang 100level students wellla ooo and from taking her round the school, buying her snack and lunch . Boom off to night class, na from there romance and sex go take place. If u like trust pastors, u re on your own.

I don't trust any human being because all humans are fallible. I trust in God alone.

Majesty33:
I am just so astonished that people here will bring holiness into issues of flesh and blood. Back in my days in Uniben, Omo na fellowship pastors bang 100level students wellla ooo and from taking her round the school, buying her snack and lunch . Boom off to night class, na from there romance and sex go take place. If u like trust pastors, u re on your own.

Na ur fellow teenagers for uni wen win fellowship presidency elections you dey call Pastors?

Oga carry time o.

Even the truly spiritual ones and the ones that passed through rigorous selection processes fit to still misbehave.

Shine your eyes.

@ Post

I don't need to take any extreme measures to avoid sex because I don't take part in any kind of relationship that will require that I participate in genital merging and exchanging of stinking bodily fluids. I also don't want to put myself at risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases.

itzmarvyx:
We were playing rough play and senses were already going, my earphone was in my ear just one ear but not playing anything, when I realised that in the next 5 minutes I may do something I regret, I just played one Man of God's message sharperly, it was Apostle Selman. Immediately I heard his voice, my senses came back and my body relaxed.

When the action wanted to progress further, I just halted it and stood up to take my leave. She stood up and just slapped the earpiece from my ear almost cutting it. She immediately became very surprised at her actions and apologised, said she didn't know what came over her. A gentle lady like her?? I just smiled, told her I understood and that was how I saved myself.

That thing that came over her was a spirit contrary to the Holy Spirit of God. They are all around us looking for bodies to inhabit.

Think I'm joking ?? The next time a guy or lady comes and sex wants to happen, just play one Don Moen's song and watch what will happen.

What if Nepa come take light and she come dey feel hot, take her close off come dey look you eye ball to eye ball? Na sound track and instrumental you go come dey hear by then

Brytesp:
Went to my friends house to passed the night.. to my surprise when it was noon his sister came and sat on the same couch where I was sleeping and was gently used her nails to rub my chest, I jumped up with fear thinking it was a rat, then I saw her smiling in a very naughty way.... then she brought out her phone and wrote a text asking me that she's very hot nd always fantasized abt us F-ing and she showed me the text... I was so so tired cause me and her brother came back from a party that day. so I was kinda wasted.. I thought about ignoring her oo cuz her brother and i are best of friends... but nah I didn't ignore.... gave myself a second thought and F**ed her right on the couch... NO EXTREME MEASURES...

you did well, my brother. You did well

Temhellen:

Aswear, d guy Bleep up. When washing n fucking Dey.

Don't tell me you're a lady?

Aitty:
I played along as if I was going to have sex with him because I saw how dangerous he was becoming and he has edge over me interm of size and strength. One massive fellow like that. He was carried away in his lust, I just kept reminding of the aftermath of his action and since he has reputation to protect, he stopped and allowed me go. This has worked for me twice.

Hey my Ibadan babe!

Personally, I've never been in a situation where I have to make excuses for not wanting to have sex.

The last time I had sex was in primary two, over two decades ago.

No girl has ever slept over in my house or even visited me for unserious reasons.

Ain't having no sex till marriage.

Don moen songs will affect only those who want Don Moen songs to affect them

itzmarvyx:
We were playing rough play and senses were already going, my earphone was in my ear just one ear but not playing anything, when I realised that in the next 5 minutes I may do something I regret, I just played one Man of God's message sharperly, it was Apostle Selman. Immediately I heard his voice, my senses came back and my body relaxed.

When the action wanted to progress further, I just halted it and stood up to take my leave. She stood up and just slapped the earpiece from my ear almost cutting it. She immediately became very surprised at her actions and apologised, said she didn't know what came over her. A gentle lady like her?? I just smiled, told her I understood and that was how I saved myself.

That thing that came over her was a spirit contrary to the Holy Spirit of God. They are all around us looking for bodies to inhabit.

Think I'm joking ?? The next time a guy or lady comes and sex wants to happen, just play one Don Moen's song and watch what will happen.

themaestro08:


We ain't some 7 year old kids here. Your lie has the force to fire a rocket to space.

LOL

U know every. Instead of her to say the guy finished her

You die?

Chatflick:
Hmmm. I turned down seven stunning girls that offered me sex... In fact, one bin wan rape me but I no gree. Last last, one igbo girl use juju get me. Chai!

Years back some chick I had a fling with showed up at my place unannounced. She's been dying to fùck me again for weeks but I kept posting her. I had just started dating the girl of my dreams then so I didn't want to mess things up. She stripped in front of me and dangled her ass to the bathroom to freshen up. I knew where it would all lead to so like a coward I ran out to go chill with my guy. I had to engage him for over 4 hours in the hope that when I would get to sneak back in, she should be fast asleep by then.

Around 11pm my guy left me with my wahala and retired to his room. I had no choice than to face my fate. We must have layed still in bed for about an hour,
I was busy forming sleep while she stayed patient bidding her time, then out of nowhere baby sprung to life; tried kissing me, I brushed it off feigning sleepiness. I felt hands under my shirt caressing my every every, then she reached inside my boxer and grabbed me. It took everything from me to not succumb, because all she needed was an erection for her to pounce on me. I had to think of my gf, how hurting her would wreck me and all that to really damp the sensations. Finally she saw she couldn't get it up, she got tired and let me be. I stayed awake all night fam, I couldn't sleep. As early as 6:30AM I showed her where to drop off my key and I got TFOT.

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OBelz:
So ladies & Gentlemen
What's the most extreme measure you've taken just so you could avoid having sex with a guy?..
For which ever reason possible..

Mine was
it was getting all heated up and I could tell he wasn't taking NO for an answer, so pretended I needed a glass of water and headed to his kitchen, got a knife and slightly cut my index finger, I bled and I stylishly told him I was on my period and I needed to use the restroom ..I could see his face

�Babe! you deserve an Oscar.

paulolee:
m a guy thou...she was all over me stack naked dt i must sex her bt i told her that i dnt want to have sex with her bcoz am a virgin dude and I jus told her i wana go buy c.d n viagra n dt was how I ran away from her dt day... the reason i refused her was that she was on a revenge mission after catching her guy cheating with another bea and she decide to do same using me as the bait but I jus have to run away because her guy is a cultist and no want make them use me settle matter or count scores oo

Lol
Mine was the job was too easy
And she wanted me to smash without CD
And I started suspecting the whole thing, like she was preg and wanted to nail this fine tall boy...
I sha told her ive not eaten let me buy food for both of us asked her wat she wanted and she entered the job
I just leave her go de drink double red some were
Told her I no wan do

OBelz:
So ladies & Gentlemen
What's the most extreme measure you've taken just so you could avoid having sex with a guy?..
For which ever reason possible..

Mine was
it was getting all heated up and I could tell he wasn't taking NO for an answer, so pretended I needed a glass of water and headed to his kitchen, got a knife and slightly cut my index finger, I bled and I stylishly told him I was on my period and I needed to use the restroom ..I could see his face

story. wetin be period. Guys de swim Red Sea far back comot. nothing de happen.
try another excuse

ValCon888:
This OP is lucky. She has not met a guy that will check her pant to see if she's on her period.

or a guy that will swim with the flow. . .

Lightman300:
I'm in my 40s.
At 18, I put myself under an oath that if I ever have sex outside marriage, God should take me out right on the spot.
Today, i wont encourage anyone to go through that route.

Expatiate sir.

the person behind the OP's account is a known old member on NL


what I find mysterious about the guy is how he keeps coming creating new monikers with the same girl's pix on his dp.



pls, how do u not find it tiring by creating new monikers up and down?

I stopped going to Church where I ought to see her for up to 2 months, but I regretted it... When my eyes cleared, it was too late...