Lawly:



Madam nobody stops you from also providing for the family so that you people can live beyond poverty line. That's one annoying problem with Nigerian ladies. 99% of them have liability mentality. then when the children are growing up, she will infest their mind against their father so that it will be only her selfish self they will remember. then when the children get married and have their own selfish wives too and start giving their wives all the attention, their selfish mother will make life miserable for their selfish wives. that's why 99% of Nigerian ladies always have issues with their mothers in law but never with their fathers in-law. Nigerian ladies are just too selfish.
I'm single and still searching not bcs I have not found, but bcs all of them want already made man. none of them is ready to make the man.
For me ooo, if you cannot accept me now I'm poor, you have no right to be with me when things get right. simple. I will take my time to keep looking for that right lady for me biko.

MoodyQueen:
Whatever.
Call me devil sent. I can't endure it.

Mariangeles:


It is not a woman's duty to bear children for the man and still provide for them.
You want her to die young? Are you wicked?

As for you, don't go and hustle you hear? Keep looking for a woman you'll scam into "I'll make it in future" marriage.

saucecode:

When it comes to money,the children are for the man. When time reach to settle scores, they will become the woman's children.

Confusion + Poverty is a terrible combination

Mariangeles:

You made no sense at all.
Whose name do the children bear?

dominique:


. With time, all the prayers and networking started yielding results and he started getting contracts. One of the first things he did when he became rich was to kick her out and bring in another woman whom he claimed was already pregnant for him.

No one is saying you should not struggle with a poor man ooo, just don't expect loyalty in return.

saucecode:

Well I think you're right, children that came from your uterus are not for you and not your responsibility. What was I even thinking,you're just a holding chamber to be used and discarded.

saucecode:

Well I think you're right, children that came from your uterus are not for you and not your responsibility. What was I even thinking,you're just a holding chamber to be used and discarded.

Mindlog:


There is nothing heroic about living in poverty.

CHoccolaTE:


Oga you be atheist ni?

Because if you are either christian or Muslim I dont know why you are here arguing against someone saying its not womans job to provide for the family.

Biblically and Islamically you men were ordained to provide, your wife can decide to assist you but it's not her duty or an obligation for her.

Ezemust:
ur words show the kind of girl u are and the woman u will become.

omoharry:
Oga try and work harder a bit and make life comfortable for urself and plan for your future family , so that they will not be denied the basic things of life ok? No woman will soak garri with if you cannot even afford to feed urself properly .even the Bible says that a man that cannot feed his family is worse than an infedel.
Your defense to this way of life shows that you were not catered for properly by your parents . For if your parent did provide for you and made life ok for you such that you could go to school , stay in a clean environment and access care when you were sick .Then I am wondering where your sense of poverty & irresponsibility is coming from .
Maybe you were not cared for and was denied all basic needs that a child need while growing up .That will be the only reason why you will dreaming of bringing children into a world of poverty and hardship. It is not normal.

Pls stop ur stupid blackmail of single ladies .Thinking the only ticket to thier happiness is marrying into poverty & marrying mentally lazy and persimistic men who feels that it's only a woman who soak garri with then in his poverty stricken life and bear him children are God sent. It is a sick way to think like that .
Abeg look at all the street orchin in our society, The agberos , child hawkers, out of school children, whos' parent could not afford thier education due to poverty and sometime die due to lack of fund to pay for haspital bills.
Some of these out of school children get pregnant along the way and the poverty circle continues..and the boys might become a conductor or become a nuisance in ye society .What kind of life is that ? Tufiakwa..

Lawly:



Madam nobody stops you from also providing for the family so that you people can live beyond poverty line. That's one annoying problem with Nigerian ladies. 99% of them have liability mentality. then when the children are growing up, she will infest their mind against their father so that it will be only her selfish self they will remember. then when the children get married and have their own selfish wives too and start giving their wives all the attention, their selfish mother will make life miserable for their selfish wives. that's why 99% of Nigerian ladies always have issues with their mothers in law but never with their fathers in-law. Nigerian ladies are just too selfish.
I'm single and still searching not bcs I have not found, but bcs all of them want already made man. none of them is ready to make the man.
For me ooo, if you cannot accept me now I'm poor, you have no right to be with me when things get right. simple. I will take my time to keep looking for that right lady for me biko.

Ezemust:
madam try and make enough money to support ur man.dont stay at home waiting for him to feed u every day.get enough money and pray that your ready made man never meet hard time one-day cuz it's obvious u will leave his ass ASAP.it is a waste of time talking to kids in this forum.

Mariangeles:


It is not a woman's duty to bear children for the man and still provide for them.
You want her to die young? Are you wicked?

As for you, don't go and hustle you hear? Keep looking for a woman you'll scam into "I'll make it in future" marriage.

omoharry:
I wonder the kind of environment you are writing from ? Jesus oga . Wake up. Women are working and independent in recent times . They are careers ladies and they support thier husbands . Even those that are in the informal sector are equally working hard to make sure they make money and support the home front .
You really need to wake up from the viallge where you are .. oo! I think you must be from the north .Because that is the only place we have uneducated women that wait hand and foot for thier husband to provide for them . Here in the south, We support our husbands and the homes but we make sure to marry men that are positive thinkers and dream of a better world for thier families .
If they are born into middle class home , then they are looking at ways to make it even better with great support from thier wives . Forward ever and backward never.
As for you , you can remain in your poverty stricken cave and be looking for a beautiful educated lady that is well brought up from a decent home to come and soak garri with you in your poverty stricken hut becos you have a dick in between your legs with nothing to offer.
Remain there while the world leave you behind with your battalion of children that you cannot afford to feed properly .
You have a poverty mentality.To you suffer is a way of life. You would rather your wife use a grinding stone than use a blender becos you think that is the way to go ... you are poor at heart .

omoharry:
Dont mind him.a Broke &Bitter man with low self exteem problem.Now he has started preaching for a good woman to marry him as a poor man so that they can enjoy thier reward in the future.
Then after the poor woman must have suffered with him for many years ,she will now start seeing another side of him when he eventually becomes rich .That is when his tentacles will be revealed .Now he looks humble and meek, clamouring for a woman's that will take him like that. His kind are humble and loving now when they are broke with nothing to offer but by the time they become rich that is when they will now realize that thier wives are not the slay queen that they see every day in society or not educated enough for thier new found class .They start frolicking with the very women that they had once dispice as lovers of money .I don't not believe any broke guy that professes love . They are pretenders And ungrateful when they become rich.

Mariangeles:


It is not a woman's duty to bear children for the man and still provide for them.
You want her to die young? Are you wicked?

As for you, don't go and hustle you hear? Keep looking for a woman you'll scam into "I'll make it in future" marriage.

Lawly:


Madam you too do you want the man to die Young? are you wicked? if you like don't assist ur hussie and ur family. keep waiting for that man that will inherit all ur life problems and make his own for life just to prove that he loves you..

Westernlove:


Cheapened? You were making some sense Until you started displaying your "Typical African Female Shiiithole Stupidity" Who do Nigerian Female Beings like this make the person forgive una so una go fit reason like sensible and normal human beings......Well I blame the Stupid Simps Idiots who Worship what Is In between una Leg forgetting that they also have a Precious Delicious Instrument Treasure between their own thighs as Well....

Ybaby:


Sit down jo. GET MONEY!

Westernlove:


Most of you female beings feel so much about yourselves. I don't even see anything special about your pancake faces, your body or that watery hole between you peoples thigh again. That was then.....The only small respect I have for you people Is just for pregnancy sake and scientists are already creating artificial WOMBS. Mind you I'm not gay nor perhaps I'm a misogynist but I hate too much presence and arrogance, It's just that I'm too strong and evolved now to be carried away with mere illusions. I swear, If many men be like me, Walahi una no go see customer and your malfunctioned senses will revert back to normal......Dey your dey, Make I dey my dey......

Ybaby:


I know !! You prefer men but most men prefer women.

Mariangeles:


It is not a woman's duty to bear children for the man and still provide for them.
You want her to die young? Are you wicked?

As for you, don't go and hustle you hear? Keep looking for a woman you'll scam into "I'll make it in future" marriage.

Ybaby:
Pucci should be the last thing on a man living in this kind of state mind.....
That place is a wilderness for fasting, solitude, planning and prayers not mating.
Such a man should not be able to draw a pucci talkless of even seeing it.
Women have cheapen this weapon given to us to move humanity forward and motivate men to toil.... it is now accessible to Tom, dick and harry..
I blame the wife.
As for the children: did you not look in heaven before you leaped into this 2 people mess