MASTERCHIEF0847:

Please don't listen to this person.

Can you explain why he should not listen....... and by the way i dont expect everyone to see things the way i do.

Wow

E dey sweet am na. Body no be firewood jorrr

MASTERCHIEF0847:

Fear monger calm down.

Hahaha. I will calm down but make she no rape your neighbor's son.

Crystalom3:
Hello Everyone

I have a little problem and it's really killing me.

As almost is a custom in our house, you don't get a phone until you're out of secondary school.

Lately, my little sister has been begging me for my phone to use. Sometimes for Facebook, sometimes for assignments or just browsing and stuffs.

But the problem is, she's always searching for porn. She's 17 now. I don't know if it's out of curiosity or if she's addicted to it.

Everytime I get my phone from her and I check the browser history, I'll see Google search for 'porn' 'pornography' and then website clicks.

She also searches for lesbian porns with many click through.

I don't know if she's just curious or if I should be concerned. I've stopped giving her my phone even though she do ask for it sometimes.

I've thought about talking to her but I really don't know where to start or how. We lost both of our parents already and are staying with my uncle and his wife and I don't really want to talk to the wife about this.

Please any advice?

This shud tell u she’s becoming aware of her sexuality or sexual sides and is curious for knowledge which is normal and I’m sure u went through that phase of curiosity also the problem is most of us especially Nigerians are hypocritical even with our family. Bt let me tell u this clearly if u don’t explain and guide her sm1 else will and may even mislead her.

She needs guidance.

Please don't allow her to kill herself before her time. There more spiritually to sex than physically pleasing the flesh. TALK TO HER SPEEDINGLY.

MOnkeyBabe:
Don't mind posteR. Was thinking he was referring to a Real young giRl chilD nwata

The poster probably has sex with his sister

VenumX:
If you also watch p0rn and she knows, there is nothing you can do about it because she will not listen to you.

There is nothing you can tell her that she doesn't already know.

Its far worse for a male to be an addict than a female. Once males are hooked, they rarely stop. Many are presently bestiality addicts.

Shame.

You no get any sense,the worse she will do is masturbate which won't affect anything about her,women knows better than to Bleep any man because of their urge.

jaxxy:


This shud tell u she’s becoming aware of her sexuality or sexual sides and is curious for knowledge which is normal and I’m sure u went through that phase of curiosity also the problem is most of us especially Nigerians are hypocritical even with our family. Bt let me tell u this clearly if u don’t explain and guide her sm1 else will and may even mislead her.

She needs guidance.

Nigerians are truly hypocritical. Go to church but evil as anything.

Very judgemental animals.

DatAbujaBoy:
Your sister is a lesbian, though she's just learning the trade. Keep your eyes on her, my younger sister does the same thing
Is like 80% of our girls now are lesbians

So what?

Mumu cave person

Enculer:


The poster probably has sex with his sister

You really are ill

Favoritedealer:

You no get any sense,the worse she will do is masturbate which won't affect anything about her,women knows better than to Bleep any man because of their urge.

Did you read my post at all or are you a blind bat?

Didn't you see where I said it's worse if it's a male that's an addict?

Swerve with your mouth odor!!!

MOnkeyBabe:
See your mouth like I have to Pay people. Me wey never ChOP since moRninG. Ah go soon use PePpeReye face u Release mess wehy go DeStRoy for that your PhOne

What is hard to understand in what i type........ Why do you think drug addicts go REHAB CENTERS... they want to be free from drugs but they cant stop themselves so they seek help and do you think it is free..........

Obedinho130:
Don't expose my secret

What part hit you? Are you addicted to bestiality p0rn?
Shame.

You better give her your phone and talk to her about the porn she is watching. Nor go let another guy give am phone collect kpekus from her ooo. Teenagers are always curious about sex. Just ensure you tell her about the plenty risks and how she can practice safe sex.

youngest85:
What do ladies even gain from porn?

If not Masturbation what else

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Enculer:


Nigerians are truly hypocritical. Go to church but evil as anything.

Very judgemental animals.

Very and it’s setting us backwards. Because of no genuine guidance we make mistakes and many unnecessary ones.

U better educate her
She is obviously curious

plz make sure say no be lesbian sits she dey visit o.

because girls of nawadays and lesbian are like 6&9.

My bros you have every right to be concern. This is indeed very serious. Just imagine what your parents will say if they were alive. You are her parent now. Do what daddy will. If you don't your parent's will be sad in their grave. THIS THING MUST STOP.
If she isn't addicted already, she is surely on her way to addiction. Don't give her your phone. Talk with her. She really need to be talk to. You may be shock to know how far she has gone already. May God grant you courage and wisdom.

Involve your uncle and wife ASAP.

Talk before it is too late

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She's trying to train herself become a potential sex addict.

callmeRichie:



It's normal bro, curiousity coupled with teen hormonal sexual rush.

Just tell her watching those things might get her into doing what she won't like and would hate herself afterwards.

Just simple sex edu needed, mind you, you've gat to do this please, as you are the only she could trust most presently.

And whatever the OP does, he shouldn’t condemn her. He shouldn’t lose her trust because that is what matters most at this stage.
My students usually make sexual comments while I teach them (I teach in a girl’s school), I don’t shush them or act surprised. I just keep a straight face and counsel them. I tell them that I’ve passed through that and I know everything they might be referring to but this is not the time to get distracted as their Educational and intellectual well-being is paramount at this stage.
It makes them to be very comfortable with me and not hide anything from me.
Of course I relay everything they tell me to school authorities and there’s a CCTV camera in every class so I’m covered.

VICTOR4U2C:
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What happens when the bulb dies?

DaInferno:
forget that talk.. e sweet every generation, this generation no just lowkey

Lies, e sweet dis generation pass because of the availability of more immoral clothings, nowadays dresses can turn you on even when its still on a manequin.

DaInferno:
forget that talk.. e sweet every generation, this generation no just lowkey

Lies, e sweet dis generation pass because of the availability of more immoral clothings, nowadays dresses can turn you on even when its still on a mannequin.

I need to furrrrk the heck outta her puccy. will make her surrck my 8.2inches big black hard banana. bring her to me

Brother. It is your duty to guide her at her teens age.

Always remember, curiosity kills the cat. Who knows maybe that's what she and her friends discuss in class.


And she wants to have a picture of what they discuss since she might be the only novice amidst them while most of her friends might have been tasting it.



You have to stop it before it stops her.


Counsel her and tell her the danger attached to it.


Let her know that she will definitely have a taste of it when time is ripe for it but for now, she should at least calm down.


Engage spiritual fathers or religious authority that you trust in educating her about sex education.



Also, try to speak to your uncle about it but it should be handled maturely because you never can tell maybe she is already doing it with her peers outside.



The way you will scold her now will be different from when she was still 10years old.



You need to work on her to at least reduce the curiosity in her or if possible alleviate the urge in her.


If care is not taken, the one she has watched has already stamped permanently in her brain.


Further watching will refresh the settled pictures in her brain and she will look outside the house to practice it even with her peers or someone that's not up to her in age.


progesterone of ladies starts to pick up during teens age.


'If a child is secure during that age, she can actually hold herself after the age of 20' research shows.


Also, most ladies you see out there that has strong and untamed libido has bad experience of dick when they are at their teens. They actually have too much sex experience when they are at their teens.


That's why most of them cannot hold themselves when they are above 20 now and look for way out to satisfy the urge.



If the urge can be maintained by chanelling the energy to something else, like her o'level exams, and she can hold the urge before 20, believe me after 20, she can hold herself afterward.


Last but not least, you need to go online and download some articles and ebooks that talks about sex education and danger attached to early sexual practice.


If you don't mind I can give you some site that can be of help or I download them for you to send to her.


Proactiveness is the key.


If it boomerang later in life, you will be blamed along with her.


My take on this though.