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I broke up with a girl I love dearly and dated for close to a year the day I asked to see her WhatsApp. I never held her phone until that very day.

Is it wrong to suggest a no phone privacy rule in my new relationship, especially one i intend to make my wife?

Her phone, her property. To hand it over to you, her choice.
You disagree? Get yourself another girl.

There's no big deal in handling a partner's phone if only if there's no hidden agenda and a corpse in the cupboard.

Buh doing it is at doer's risk, cuz it always ends in premium tears

Lol. Date a girl you're compatible with, simple. Some girls don't mind if you go thru their phones than they go thru urs just as some men too don't mind their girls going thru theirs more than they go thru hers. But when you chose a girl who's wisdom is limited to my phone, my right, equal right, my privacy, my thing, my own, you're dating future wahala. Marriage is more than that. One of them is this one that named herself craziestgirl. Of all adorable monikers a girl can bear...you'll know she's trouble and she can only advice towards trouble.

May phone doesn't have a password, it's normal to be trustworthy in a relationship. If both of you can't trust each other, what is the benefits of being in that relationship

You have full access to your spouse's privacy after marriage abeg

Craziestgirl:
Her phone, her property.
To hand it over to you, her choice.

You disagree?
Get yourself another girl.

If I can't have access to her phone then she is not ready to be my wife. I can't marry who I don't trust.

callmeRichie:
There's no big deal in handling a partner's phone if only if there's no hidden agenda and a corpse in the cupboard.

Buh doing it is at doer's risk, cuz it always ends in premium tears

Yes I agree and I feel a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage

Oluromantic:
Lol. Date a girl you're compatible with, simple. Some girls don't mind if you go thru their phones than they go thru urs just as some men too don't mind their girls going thru theirs more than they go thru hers. But when you chose a girl who's wisdom is limited to my phone, my right, equal right, my privacy, my thing, you're dating future wahala. Marriage is more than that. One of them is this one that named herself craziestgirl. Of all adorable monikers a girl can bear...you know she's trouble and she can only advice towards trouble.

A girl you introduce to your family saying her phone is her private property.it sounds absolutely absord

Blitzeee:
You have full access to your spouse's privacy after marriage abeg

Okay,but what if you find out after what you would have found out before?

purelyobjective:
A girl you introduce to your family saying her phone is her private property.it sounds absolutely absord

Honestly it does

purelyobjective:
Yes I agree and I feel a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage

That's it bro, playing safe is the deal.

Do you trust her fully or what

Stephenmoka4:
Do you trust her fully or what

The more reason why there should not be phone privacy in a serious relationship.

purelyobjective:
The more reason why there should not be phone privacy in a serious relationship.

Which is better, she clear her suspectable chats and hands it to you or keeps her chat and her phone too.

Stephenmoka4:
Which is better, she clear her suspectable chats and hands it to you or keeps her chat and her phone too.

No one can be smart all the time.Know who you are dating for marriage except it's just a fling you want.

purelyobjective:
No one can be smart all the time.Know who you are dating for marriage except it's just a fling you want.

Sure no one can, I don't do such but, if I'm a player my cards are all aces

I just feel trust is more important than privacy.