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Females don't hear the word "no" a lot, so giving them a "no" in any capacity fvcks with em. .. it messes em up ...

showing a female that she can't always get her way is attractive because she sees that you're above her feminine wiles / charms

Simps and my nice guys can’t relate .. Cos they want validation from these females and some beta males are after pussy crumbs

Learn to say the word “no”. You will save yourself a lot of heartache and time with that magic word “no”. ,,,Grow a spine. Consider this saying “yes” 9 out of 10 times sets you up for exploitation by her .

I support you Op.

I think it's high time we stopped making these females feel special.
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they always think they are the central control button of every guy...
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But it's not their fault.

It's because many men have let their guards down by always looking for validation from women....
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such men are the cause of the female superiority problem we have in the male-female community..

It's easier for Seun to become a pastor than for most Nairaland males to do this in the real world.

OP if only some guys will get to know the power an the magic in that simple word "NO"

ObaKlaz:
It's easier for Seun to become a pastor than for most Nairaland males to do this in the real world.

True though cos of the so called NICE GUYS wanna be

no liea bro...a man dt can said no to any kinda bea, have solved half of his life problem...i do say no atims bt go kum pity them wen they start to cry and feel bad..

Meatballs:
But some go start to dey cry

if u tell dem NO

That's emotional blackmail, their next tactic. It makes me even more resolute whenever I see their tears. I just smile and calmly add another "No" to the one I've said before.

Henry22:
True though cos of the so called NICE GUYS wanna be

...then they'll hop online to moan about how females feel entitled, something they gave ground to in the first place.

paulolee:
no liea bro...a man dt can said no to any kinda bea, have solved half of his life problem...i do say no atims bt go kum pity them wen they start to cry and feel bad..

They use cry to manipulate you it is very easy for ladies to cry don't fall for their tricks if she uses cry after you say no she will continue to use cry to manipulate you...use your head bro

Factfinder1:
They use cry to manipulate you it is very easy for ladies to cry don't fall for their tricks if she uses cry after you say no she will continue to use cry to manipulate you...use your head bro

yes i kno wr u are coming from...de cnt manipulate me tl get cash from me....its jus sex alone bt i do resist dm atims wen m nt in d mood or gat work to do...but some kinda strange or new catch go jus show hood with sweet package for front n bacl n dt kain temptation jus too hard to pass oo

Factfinder1:
Females don't hear the word "no" a lot, so giving them a "no" in any capacity fvcks with em. .. it messes em up ...

showing a female that she can't always get her way is attractive because she sees that you're above her feminine wiles / charms

Simps and my nice guys can’t relate .. Cos they want validation from these females and some beta males are after pussy crumbs

Learn to say the word “no”. You will save yourself a lot of heartache and time with that magic word “no”. ,,,Grow a spine. Consider this saying “yes” 9 out of 10 times sets you up for exploitation by her .

This is exactly the problem. Girls are always telling us guys that we should know that no means no. But they're not ready to accept that same condition for guys too. A girl will come to your house and start seducing you, you'll say no, next thing she'll get more aggressive and try harder, even going as far as exposing herself and touching your private regions in order to break down your guard. If the guy resists further they'll switch to insults, questioning the guys manhood and his ability to perform sexually. It's irritating and we guys should try as much to make sure that girls understand that no means no, no doesn't mean try harder, it doesn't mean "show me your breast and maybe I'll consider", and it doesn't mean touch me well. No means NO. Sexual assault is a serious crime and should not be ignored or downplayed no matter the victim's gender.

Depressedkidd:
This is exactly the problem. Girls are always telling us guys that we should know that no means no. But they're not ready to accept that same condition for guys too. A girl will come to your house and start seducing you, you'll say no, next thing she'll get more aggressive and try harder, even going as far as exposing herself and touching your private regions in order to break down your guard. If the guy resists further they'll switch to insults, questioning the guys manhood and his ability to perform sexually. It's irritating and we guys should try as much to make sure that girls understand that no means no, no doesn't mean try harder, it doesn't mean "show me your breast and maybe I'll consider", and it doesn't mean touch me well. No means NO. Sexual assault is a serious crime and should not be ignored or downplayed no matter the victim's gender.

Women are selfish beings they always want what they want at their will but will make men wait to get what they want from them....have you heard about how women hate men that they can not control or manipulate through sex?

ObaKlaz:
...then they'll hop online to moan about how females feel entitled, something they gave ground to in the first place.

They lick girls assesses 4 a living

Men say no to women?

In this world abi another one?