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Ugmama:
But I still don't get it when one even has money job, house etc... Still not married.

Is it that they don't see anyone they love... Till 45yrs o

Hope you know marriage is d coming together of 2 individuals from different backgrounds to start a life together. Many might not b willing to share such space with another yet.

I was 26

SweetCunt97:
So one should marry someone who will torment their souls and probably lead to an early grave because they "night newspapers"? Hope you see the senselessness in ur post

My love, leave too much talk, let's get married and start having babies like no man's business.. No time.

SweetCunt97:
Ok ok, early 30s is fine. Mid is a stretch.

marrakech:
I was 26

Wow... How did you do it.

At 26 am yet to get a job.... Kidding

I bet you're a She

SweetCunt97:
Hope you know marriage is d coming together of 2 individuals from different backgrounds to start a life together. Many might not b willing to share such space with another yet.

I am telling you... Some people can be literally greedy.

They want it all for themselves

Kriss216:
My love, leave too much talk, let's get married and start having babies like no man's business.. No time.

Lol. Thank you.

Got married at the age of 30. 3months after my birthday

bluebay:
Got married at the age of 30. 3months after my birthday

God bless your marriage bro. 30 is bae

When I read people saying 26,27 I feel bad about myself... I'm still young tho... Planning on having my wife before 30 or 31

SirWhiteFish:
When I read people saying 26,27 I feel bad about myself... I'm still young tho... Planning on having my wife before 30 or 31

One step at a time bro.

Everything will fall in place.

Please more views and comments guys!

20 and 8months, hubby was 26.

Cut your coat according to your cloth. I avoided friends and even family with unrealistic/pressuring advice, why dont your husband do this, why dont your husband do that, tell him to do this etc.

Work hard, support the way you can dont leave everything for him to do. eg. I buy small basic things that one cannot really do without.
Im handy too, i fix and replace leaking taps, sockets. Na me dey on generator mostly because I feel he dey tired (person just come back from outside dey begin draw gen, yiish)when he is not he puts it on.

This is the little I do, especially when he is stressed or doesnt have money (when man no get money he character dey change, so be calm loving and supportive).

This is not to say we are not deeply flawed people oo, we have our moments. Just love, pray, respect each other, know your triggers and red buttons.

HeyHey:
20 and 8months, hubby was 26.

Cut your coat according to your cloth. I avoided friends and even family with unrealistic/pressuring advice, why dont your husband do this, why dont your husband do that, tell him to do this etc.

Work hard, support the way you can dont leave everything for him to do. eg. I buy small basic things that one cannot really do without.
Im handy too, i fix and replace leaking taps, sockets. Na me dey on generator mostly because I feel he dey tired (person just come back from outside dey begin draw gen, yiish)when he is not he puts it on.

This is the little I do, especially when he is stressed or doesnt have money (when man no get money he character dey change, so be calm loving and supportive).

This is not to say we are not deeply flawed people oo, we have our moments. Just love, pray, respect each other, know your triggers and red buttons.

Apt. God bless your marriage dear

How can this post be moved to front page??

Those who knows or who can should assist.

If it's snake that was killed now... Front page since yesterday

Ugmama:
Wow... How did you do it.

At 26 am yet to get a job.... Kidding

I bet you're a She

I bet you I'm a HE.

Na courage o...and my wife was understanding

marrakech:
I bet you I'm a HE.

Na courage o...and my wife was understanding

Great! I wish you both a happy marriage!

[Thanks..and i pray you find it easy too sometime soonquote author=Ugmama post=90920600]

Great! I wish you both a happy marriage![/quote]

HeyHey:
20 and 8months, hubby was 26.

Cut your coat according to your cloth. I avoided friends and even family with unrealistic/pressuring advice, why dont your husband do this, why dont your husband do that, tell him to do this etc.

Work hard, support the way you can dont leave everything for him to do. eg. I buy small basic things that one cannot really do without.
Im handy too, i fix and replace leaking taps, sockets. Na me dey on generator mostly because I feel he dey tired (person just come back from outside dey begin draw gen, yiish)when he is not he puts it on.

This is the little I do, especially when he is stressed or doesnt have money (when man no get money he character dey change, so be calm loving and supportive).

This is not to say we are not deeply flawed people oo, we have our moments. Just love, pray, respect each other, know your triggers and red buttons.

Lovely! Are you Igbo? And where you a graduate at the time?

SweetCunt97:
My dad married at d age of 35 so calm down, get your priorities right.

I just knew you were going to say something different smh

CsRockefeller:
Lovely! Are you Igbo? And where you a graduate at the time?

No, I am not Igbo. I was in Year3 at that time scholarship student (170k) at a Federal Uni. (20k sch fees)

HeyHey:
No, I am not Igbo. I was in Year3 at that time scholarship student (170k) at a Federal Uni. (20k sch fees)

Nice. Congratulations.

After going through all the comments, I vow not to marry later than 30years.

Who's with me?

I married at the age of 36. Wify was 26 plus few months then. I am igbo.

The greatest gift God gave me in this life is my wife.

If you can avoid late marriage please do. However, if you marry at the age of 29 as a man, and your first child came after 5 years, will you be said to have married early?

HRHQueenPhil:
am not yet married, I guess I need to change my mentality that a man that would love u enof to call once a day, generous enof to be dere for u wen u are in trouble, take God seriously and say NO to pre-marital sex are a rare find

Did you call Me??

HeyHey:
20 and 8months, hubby was 26.

Cut your coat according to your cloth. I avoided friends and even family with unrealistic/pressuring advice, why dont your husband do this, why dont your husband do that, tell him to do this etc.

Work hard, support the way you can dont leave everything for him to do. eg. I buy small basic things that one cannot really do without.
Im handy too, i fix and replace leaking taps, sockets. Na me dey on generator mostly because I feel he dey tired (person just come back from outside dey begin draw gen, yiish)when he is not he puts it on.

This is the little I do, especially when he is stressed or doesnt have money (when man no get money he character dey change, so be calm loving and supportive).

This is not to say we are not deeply flawed people oo, we have our moments. Just love, pray, respect each other, know your triggers and red buttons.

hmm, what more can a man ask for? no sense of entitlement. hope you are not making mouth sha

I married at the age of 24.

Its one of the best decision I have not regretted taking. Neither my family nor in-law were rich, but God Almighty put blessing on it.

HeyHey:
No, I am not Igbo. I was in Year3 at that time scholarship student (170k) at a Federal Uni. (20k sch fees)

did the birthing of children started while you were in university or when you were done?

Naijabad:
I married at the age of 36. Wify was 26 plus few months then. I am igbo.

The greatest gift God gave me in this life is my wife.

If you can avoid late marriage please do. However, if you marry at the age of 29 as a man, and your first child came after 5 years, will you be said to have married early?

Smiles... No one prays for such my brother.

If it comes, then nobi our fault. The main thing is marrying the love of your life. Child or no child, you guys got one another.

Haywhymido:
did the birthing of children started while you were in university or when you were done?

Yes, it started and likely ended sef

Guys let's revive this thread.

It's very insightful.

I got married at the age of 21+, during my final year. I bless God for his Grace and presence all through these years..

obyikye:
I got married at the age of 21+, during my final year. I bless God for his Grace and presence all through these years..

Nice, how old was hubby?