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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by OriOko88(m): 10:00am On Jun 21, 2020
Rozz:
Some ladies will not listen, not all men that approach you likes you, most are just after your body but it's painful how some ladies do get easily played by these randy men with herbally energized organs looking for people's daughter to devour, very painful.
''Herbally energized organ''. O kare lai
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by AntiWailer: 10:04am On Jun 21, 2020
All men want sex.

You will be the one to let them know u are not a dumping ground.

And show u bring more than sex to the table..

Sit down and ask Ur self , what else are u bringing to the table apart from spreading your legs ?
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Nobody: 10:06am On Jun 21, 2020
PrimadonnaO:
You know, I shake my head when a young girl gets carried away by the number of men propositioning her, whereas 80% of them are looking to truncate her destiny.

Keep your head up. Don’t get carried away. They don’t all have noble intentions for you. Sift them very carefully. Your time should be precious to you. You mustn’t accept to go on a date with every Tom, Dick and Harry, because as they say “na from clap e dey enter dance.”
How many women have noble intentions for men?
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by ogwuche4u(m): 10:09am On Jun 21, 2020
We are who we are. Sex is the best thing God created. The feeling is something else. In as much as we know formication and adultery is sin, the Op should not negate other sins. Who are we to even judge for God? People like this OP are the mofos collecting punna inside the church then coming to public space to claim saint. We are who we are and only God is the judge.
Until the last day, I will advise OP to live his life to his own terms. I pray I see you in heaven OP.
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by MrNipplesLover(m): 10:11am On Jun 21, 2020
Thank you, father.




your name is exalted.
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by helpfindbolu: 10:13am On Jun 21, 2020
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Olarewaju89: 10:16am On Jun 21, 2020

Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Eileene(f):
Hmm
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:29am On Jun 21, 2020
isthatso:
How many women have noble intentions for men?
It’s up to each man to discern for himself.
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by BoboKush(m): 10:29am On Jun 21, 2020
Buliwyf:
Sounds like you are talking from experience. Which one dem use for you? Shey na Opa Eyin abi na Burantashi? cheesy cheesy
I guess opa eyin if na Burantashi..... She would be able to type that cheesy grin
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by eagleeye259: 10:37am On Jun 21, 2020
Interesting15:
Today, it is not uncommon to see women that are always complaining about how they keep meeting men who are only interested in their bodies. In fact, some women now thinks there are no responsible men out there that still have full control over themselves and don't fornicate or commit adultery (or other immoral acts)

If you are a single lady out there who has been dumped by several guys because of your no-sex-till-marriage stance, and you are now getting tired (or about to compromise), my message is meant to strengthen you not to settle for less, and not to allow any guy make you sin against God your Creator.

What God has instructed is that sexual pleasures should only be shared between a married man and his wife inside the safe circle of their marriage institution. So, if you have made a decision to honour Jesus with your life (and body) by adhering to His commandments, then you should not allow anyone make you feel sorry for your purity stance, and you should not allow anyone push you off the path of sexual purity.

Many ladies do ask, "why do I keep meeting men that want sex before marriage?".. The answer is simple: "You keep meeting men who are ungodly".

I can assure you that there are still lots of God-fearing men out there who themselves are honouring God with their bodies. When I say God-fearing men, I'm talking about men that have made Jesus Christ their Lord and Savior, and are serving God in spirit and in truth. These are the type of men you should associate with. Unlike the "bad boys" out there, a born again Christian won't regard you as a mere tool for bodily pleasure, but will even contribute to your growth in important areas. In fact, a sure way to enjoy your marriage is by marrying a genuine born again Christian, where the foundation of your home is built on Christ. Such a man, who himself is Christ's bride, will know how to please God by treating you as the queen you are meant to be

I see some ladies today living anyhow they want and will always say, 'I want a God-fearing man' (or will always complain that all the men coming to them are only irresponsible sex-chasers). Well, likes will always attract likes. A born again Christian will want to marry a child of God like himself, and won't go for a lady that lives anyhow (indulge in acts contrary to God's Will).

Therefore, to attract a God-fearing born again Christian, you must be a guniune child of God too (God won't give any of His true sons to just any kind of lady that will ruin his sonship). So, you must make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior and start living a life devoid of sin and iniquity. Focus on serving God in spirit and in truth, and He knows how He will connect you with a responsible God-fearing man that will ensure you have a joyful marriage

Please, don't compromise your purity stance. I know you are getting older and many of your mates are already married. But listen to me, God is about to do something great in your life if you will continue holding to His Word. You are facing those temptation because the devil already sensed your greatness, and he is doing all he could to hinder you from being the great woman God has destined you to be.

Men that are disturbing you for sex are majorly agents of satan that were sent to ruin your life. Please, don't allow them. If you are currently in a sinful relationship where you and the guy are already indulging in immoral activities, quit the relationship immediately, and ask God for forgiveness.

This is a generation where God is raising women (especially young women) that He will grant great authority and power to enact great influence in various spheres and sectors, with the aim of bringing Glory to His Name and establishing the Kingdom of God on earth. Don't allow any randy guy hinder you from becoming the Queen you are destined to be. Worship God in spirit and in truth through Jesus Christ our Lord.
Good writeup. Though I think there is a huge difference between your definition of God-fearing and that of many ladies these days. From the threads on NL, I understand God-fearing is a term that means they have only one sex partner who is the person they are involved in a relationship with. Most of the specifications they want in the "God-fearing" guy is at variant with those of a true believer.
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Automatic3444(m): 10:37am On Jun 21, 2020
Glink2018:
See story. ....
How many ladies have any valuable things they want to bring to the table except boobs and butts...they are few....if I buy iPhone for a lady, what value would you give back to me other than sex...
Money opens the legs of Naija ladies faster than 5G internet.
truth is bitter...to so many women
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Nobody:
What you women don't even know is that the men that marries you does so because of your body - To have his own personal sex partner to satisfy his sexual need.

As if you don't also want the man's body. Later you'll be complaining that they don't satisfy you, he can't get it up, they only last 2 seconds, the dick is too small. E. T. C.
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Nobody: 10:42am On Jun 21, 2020
PrimadonnaO:
It’s up to each man to discern for himself.
And likewise for women. The dating and matching game is transactional, everybody wants something out of it. Sex, marriage, emotional or financial security, children. There is always something every party is looking for.

And by the way women like sex too, many more than men!!!
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Nobody: 10:42am On Jun 21, 2020
the only thing I know is this world is a mystery that no man can unveil. the wisdom of God is far and bigger than man. all those who knows who are going to heaven or hell. it's just guess. until u can tell the day u will die that's when I can believe what ever u say if not keep your view and opinions to your self. only believe in God's direction because he creates me and he has known me even when before I was formed. anyone who wanna be a judge. judge your self and not me.
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by JohnsonJohnson2(m): 10:45am On Jun 21, 2020
You check yourself, may you are only sexual attractive
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by iswallker(m): 10:47am On Jun 21, 2020
sotall:
lipsrsealed

Relationship is meant to be about Love. Love is all about giving and sacrifice.

In relationship, both parties should do the giving and sacrifice.

Many ladies who carry the badge " no sex before marriage " unfortunately do not have anything to offer in the relationship but wants the guy to be doing the spending.

Its really rare to meet a Nigerian girl who takes his boyfriend for shopping and fun and do the spending. Almost all of them are wired to think it's a man's responsibility to take care of them.

In essence, if you are a born again and a broke girl, dont bother going into relationship if you wont give him sexual pleasure.


Stay in your father's house till you are ready for marriage. Then get married.
The irony is many of them will remain there forever - today's marriage is nkt about how decent or God fearing you are - it's about how marketable you are - and unfortunately life revolves around sex and money.

Anyway - many of then are cashing out with what they can offer and getting married along the line.
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by ablejesus26(m): 10:47am On Jun 21, 2020
CODEIN:
Same children of God who wear outrageous dressing to church in the name of fashion. You all are sick and confused with all the codeine consumption in your head.

Evil country, no morals, no cultural values, everything god this everything god that, yet country is racing backward everyday.

Go on Instagram, what and who sells there, nigeria christians and muslims competing in senseless show off of skin, fashion and material. Your slave-approving and blood-loving gods of the bible and kran is confused and as confused you alll.

You all need start taking Sensediene
the bane of Africa's development is not religion but rather this sort of mindset of absolute disregard and intolerance

why not practice your atheism in peace and respect the fact dat others want to practice religion

must everybody be and accept what goes with you

black life matters let's start by respecting each other
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Dalby(m): 10:47am On Jun 21, 2020
Interesting15:
Today, it is not uncommon to see women that are always complaining about how they keep meeting men who are only interested in their bodies. In fact, some women now thinks there are no responsible men out there that still have full control over themselves and don't fornicate or commit adultery (or other immoral acts)

If you are a single lady out there who has been dumped by several guys because of your no-sex-till-marriage stance, and you are now getting tired (or about to compromise), my message is meant to strengthen you not to settle for less, and not to allow any guy make you sin against God your Creator.

What God has instructed is that sexual pleasures should only be shared between a married man and his wife inside the safe circle of their marriage institution. So, if you have made a decision to honour Jesus with your life (and body) by adhering to His commandments, then you should not allow anyone make you feel sorry for your purity stance, and you should not allow anyone push you off the path of sexual purity.

Many ladies do ask, "why do I keep meeting men that want sex before marriage?".. The answer is simple: "You keep meeting men who are ungodly".

I can assure you that there are still lots of God-fearing men out there who themselves are honouring God with their bodies. When I say God-fearing men, I'm talking about men that have made Jesus Christ their Lord and Savior, and are serving God in spirit and in truth. These are the type of men you should associate with. Unlike the "bad boys" out there, a born again Christian won't regard you as a mere tool for bodily pleasure, but will even contribute to your growth in important areas. In fact, a sure way to enjoy your marriage is by marrying a genuine born again Christian, where the foundation of your home is built on Christ. Such a man, who himself is Christ's bride, will know how to please God by treating you as the queen you are meant to be

I see some ladies today living anyhow they want and will always say, 'I want a God-fearing man' (or will always complain that all the men coming to them are only irresponsible sex-chasers). Well, likes will always attract likes. A born again Christian will want to marry a child of God like himself, and won't go for a lady that lives anyhow (indulge in acts contrary to God's Will).

Therefore, to attract a God-fearing born again Christian, you must be a guniune child of God too (God won't give any of His true sons to just any kind of lady that will ruin his sonship). So, you must make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior and start living a life devoid of sin and iniquity. Focus on serving God in spirit and in truth, and He knows how He will connect you with a responsible God-fearing man that will ensure you have a joyful marriage

Please, don't compromise your purity stance. I know you are getting older and many of your mates are already married. But listen to me, God is about to do something great in your life if you will continue holding to His Word. You are facing those temptation because the devil already sensed your greatness, and he is doing all he could to hinder you from being the great woman God has destined you to be.

Men that are disturbing you for sex are majorly agents of satan that were sent to ruin your life. Please, don't allow them. If you are currently in a sinful relationship where you and the guy are already indulging in immoral activities, quit the relationship immediately, and ask God for forgiveness.

This is a generation where God is raising women (especially young women) that He will grant great authority and power to enact great influence in various spheres and sectors, with the aim of bringing Glory to His Name and establishing the Kingdom of God on earth. Don't allow any randy guy hinder you from becoming the Queen you are destined to be. Worship God in spirit and in truth through Jesus Christ our Lord.
While at it advise them not to be dumping all their problems on the guy in the guise of a relationship...
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by i124k(m): 10:48am On Jun 21, 2020
CODEIN:
You dey mind them? Na for online and when together dem dey sabi show holy holy, but na dem do rubbish pass, commit the same sin they always preach against pass. All the brothels and olosho bars and all the bad morals that have corrupt this country no be christians and muslims bring am. All the corrupt politicians and looters for nigeria govt who dem behuh na babalawo dem be? no be xtian and mslim dem dey claim. Confused pipu wey codeine don scatter dem head. I dey tell dem to dey manage buy take Sensedeine small small but na lie, na so so codeine.
hummm...
no b lie sha....
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Stephenmoka4(m): 10:48am On Jun 21, 2020
Rozz:
Some ladies will not listen, not all men that approach you likes you, most are just after your body but it's painful how some ladies do get easily played by these randy men with herbally energized organs looking for people's daughter to devour, very painful.
Sorry for the bad experience and don't mind those guys trying to counter you to justify their deeds.
Seriously that bolded part is quite disturbing, did he hurt you with it. sad
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Nobody: 10:49am On Jun 21, 2020
I concurr.

Its sad to see a lot of people compromising their stand just so they won't be tagged "evening newspaper" funny though.

If only many knew that marriage is their destiny, they would wait on God's time to go into it and not rush into it and destroy their destiny. I can't imagine being unhappy the rest of my life. Even God wishes us to prosper in every aspect of our lifes.

Thanks Op for resounding it.
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Harbey92(m): 10:49am On Jun 21, 2020
grin
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Nobody: 10:49am On Jun 21, 2020
Stephenmoka4:
Sorry for the bad experience and don't mind those guys trying to counter you to justify their deeds.
Seriously that bolded part is quite disturbing, did he hurt you with it. sad
cheesy grin
My niggar my niggar, shey u want to help her massage the place ni.
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Nobody: 10:52am On Jun 21, 2020
The only reason a man wants a woman is for sex and procreation......



...... Make sure you're not doing this for free!


STOP wasting your time! Time is money!!!
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Stephenmoka4(m): 10:57am On Jun 21, 2020
kokaneprodigy:
cheesy grin
My niggar my niggar, shey u want to help her massage the place ni.
No, why. That line she wrote there is having an uneasy feeling when you think about it.
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Nobody: 10:59am On Jun 21, 2020
Stephenmoka4:
Sorry for the bad experience and don't mind those guys trying to counter you to justify their deeds.
Seriously that bolded part is quite disturbing, did he hurt you with it. sad
did I tell you i have any experience?work on your mindset
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Nobody: 11:00am On Jun 21, 2020
Stephenmoka4:
No, why. That line she wrote there is having an uneasy feeling when you think about it.
Lol GTFOH
I’ve thought about it and didn’t feel uneasy.
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Goodplace: 11:02am On Jun 21, 2020
Who are you quoting now... Making vague statement... IDIOT.
blogger10:
Oga shut up. Adam was God-fearing till Eve came along. We all know how this ends... these temptresses won't rest till the God-fearing man is no longer God-fearing. Ask your pastor!
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Eileene(f): 11:03am On Jun 21, 2020
let me not go spiritual on this one cos I know lots of folks like to be Free minded,moreover
the spiritual empowerment op is talking about only works for guys who are spiritually inclined as well.
The circle u move in matters in a lot.
As a lady u should work on your intellect, u should not just be concerned abt being sexually appealing but also try to be personality appealing that will attract the ryt kind of pple to u.I mean sit down and ask urself wat differentiates me from millions of girls out there,if u think ur pussy is swt there will surely be one sweeter than urs.so wat is unique abt u.This is where personality comes in.There should be this irresistible aura arnd u dat keeps pple on their toes.
I am not gonna judge if u decide to go into a sexual relationship but pls do not let it be all about the sex he's getting from u and the money u are getting from him, try and push him forward.if he spends on u and he has a business,give him business ideas,add to his life. a guy will neva 4get a girl who make him a better man neither can he spill thrash abt u if u eventually brk up.
That is y its better to delay sex in a new relationship cos a relationship built on friendship lasts longer than that built on bodily desires.
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by StUriah(m): 11:07am On Jun 21, 2020
Today young ladies and women enjoy sex more than the so called randy men. Women are too pretentious. What they portrayed in the public is not what they act in their closet. Go to worship centers and find out what I mean. Among the choir, fortification is the order of the day. Pastor & Pastor Mrs are not left out in what we called immoral acts. Sex here, sex there. Everyday, what we hear in the news is sexual exploitation and manipulations that go on in different churches particularly in Nigeria. Homosexuals are also taking over because people want to explore new methods and styles. Imagine when a devoted Christian lady asked you to penetrate her annus with your pennis because she wants to know how it feels. This happened to me when I dated a church member who always professed to be thorough bred Christian. And that was the experience i had with her. Because MouthAction is enjoyable to her, she doesn't feel it is a sin if you are not ready for marriage. Only God knows how many organs some born again Christian have sucked in their lifetime.

The fact that many worshippers don't act inappropriately in public doesn't mean many of them are not promiscuous in real life.
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