I can only blame her idiotic friends who knew of her troubles and didn’t absolutely nothing.


This is wrong. Totally wrong!


If u are strong try to help the weak. Don’t mock them.

People in need of money to feed mustn't go online begging. All of them are liars.

Are there no human in their neighbourhood or no relations or no religious brethren or no no menial jobs around their localities.

It's great to help the needy of course, but not online beggars pls.

Be warned! There are many needies around your houses.
Thanks

Artiiclebeast:
Such a heart-rending story.

So sorry.

You can see how hypocritical we humans can be.

Someone was subtly crying out for help or just someone to give her a few encouraging words of " do not despair or give up hope, all will be well". For where?

Na now when she no fit hold am again kukuma and everything dem go begin write their fake long stories and rubbish tributes.

We are all too frigging self-centered and selfish, but at the end of the day, when you take a proper and cursory look at life and all the struggle therein, it becomes all glaring how fleeting it truly is, and our struggles for accumulations are nothing but utter greed cum vain insatiability.

Rest on pretty woman.

We dey wait for our own time but before then, we want try see how much of an impact we fit make for this life.


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Oga shut it! Shut it already! Do not act like you're some fvcking saint that would do otherwise. For starters, that looked like a harmless post until she decided to take it a notch higher by taking her own life. Tons of posts like that have i seen on facebook and whatsapp status with non ending their lives and receive hilarious replies! Maybe if she wanted help she shouldn't have masked under being happy-evidence with the emoji, she would have reached out to sincere friends!

The moment we continue supporting depressive act like this by saying rubbish like these without asking them to speak up, is just enough to give them reasons why they should end it. So don't blame her innocent facebook friends for their act, blame the lady for not passing across her message well.

if you're battling with depression, social media isn't always the best resort. Talk to concerned friends and family members. Most times, your social media friends aren't really friends. You can have over 3k+ friends and only 50 concerned friends. Facebook even filters your timeline so even some concerned friend will not see her post and the ones that may see aren't always online.

All these 'hello, hope you're good?' that sounds like a normal everyday question can be used as a medium to cry out.

May she R.I.P

Suicide rate is now very high.

Nothing is worth taking your own life.

Absolutely nothing!

blackpanthar:
Oh lord, I want to help people like this, I wish I saw her post earlier and I responded. Yes many out here are scammers but a few are genuinely depressed. I am so pissed and broken right now.

Oya epp me biko

Very painful. but the truth is that she won't make heaven by killing herself.

Built2last:
So the spirit of Suicide is back to Naija.

Bible calls it Spirit of heaviness. We were promised garment of joy for spirit of heaviness.

Its a spirit that starts with voices in your head.

when ever you hear that voice dont ignore it, open your moth and scream, i shall not die, i shall not kill myself, i will get over this.

If you keep quiet, you will take your life cos the voice will never stop

it's better to play timaya I can't kill my self.

Why didn't any of the people close to her make effort to reassure her of better days ahead.

A simple 5minutes counselling could have saved her life and given her hope.

ITS ALWAYS A MISTAKE TO ASSUME YOU HAVE COME TO THE END OF THE ROAD IN YOUR LIFT JOURNEY.
JUST LIKE A PERSON WITH A BUNCH OF KEYS TRYING TO OPEN A DOOR. THE NEXT KEY MAY JUST BE THE ONE THAT OPENS IT FOR YOU.

WHY GIVE UP?

JESUS SAVES. COME TO HIM ALL WHO ARE WEIGHED DOWN BY LIFE ISSUES.
HE WILL GIVE YOU A PERFECT REST THAT GIVE YOU JOY, FOREVER.

F*ck her and all people like her! People dying in war torn Syria, Yemen. People straving on the streets of Africa, people living with HIV, some people have lost their entire family due to Covid 19 and yet they find a way to push on. Cowards take the easy way out, this life is not meant for the faint of heart. Life that you did not create what gives you the right to end it....F*ck you!

Kimzy56:
I am actually in this situation now I have a lot of debts after loosing my job coupled with my illness I owe many loan companies and they're after me
I feel like leaving this world
I feel someone somewhere could just come to my rescue
I wish God could use someone
Don't come and type RIP when am gone
Please help now

Don't do that boss. Hold on. It's just a phase believe me. You will surely get back on your feet. I can help with the little i have not by giving you money but by empowering you with online biz skills. if u don't mind. Chat me up on 08062402552. U will stand again. Cheers

life

Now, how do we know who actually need help? Some of them who claim to need help after giving them what they want they will block you in all social network thinking that they have gotten one fool

From what I can deduce from her post, I think someone promised her marriage and failed.

Suicide is not the way peeps, always talk to someone very close to you, someone you also hold in high esteem.

Pretty woman, may her soul RIP and may God take care of her son.

Human are tripartite being, constiting of spirit, soul and body. we most times concentrate on feeding the body with food, make-ups, artificial attachments etc, the soul with books, researches, exploring other planet, and other mind blowing inventions and discoveries. However when it comes to satisfying the spirit, we turn our back and would have nothing to do with religion, so we say. Unfortunately, the spirit of man(woman) is the most important part of himself and any deliberate act of neglect immediately hand its control over to the devil, who would seldom reliquinsh such control.
Our deliberate obfuscation of God's right over our life often comes with a very high price we can hardly imagine or are willing to pay.

As much as i dont subscribe to online begging..
But this days even your friends that you confide in will not help you ..Sometimes you just have to cry out when you are at the edge of loosing it

This life no balance at all.
May my helper find me and help me out of this situation in Jesus name(Amen)

*Drops mic*

GOFRONT:
Where are the "Suicide is not the best option crew"...

Well, something must kill a man or woman.

Rip Folashade. Someone would have intervened financially but in this present day Nigeria where everybody wants to be or claim to be financially smarter than the other.....

Where an Only one man has 58 bank accounts, 42 facebook names, 67 twitter handles, 44 Nairaland Monikers, 78 Email accounts, then it would be Difficult to Distinguish the REAL NEEDY from the FAKE Needy.....This is the Nigeria we found ourselves...

Meanwhile, while Folashade's tragic demise is understood, I'd never understand why Steve Bing had to commit suicide.

u sounding like NwaAmaikpe

Did u drink his urine for impartation?
Lol

So sad dearie.

Heylius:
RIP to her

I pray we overcome every challenges we're facing. so that we won't ask people that will mock us for help

people can cross the ocean just to attend your funeral but can't cross a street to help you.
that's the generation we found ourselves in

Maybe it's because the people you look up to for help are also in need of help themselves. We all know how difficult it is to survive in this country. May God help us all.

DarkJeddi:
Guess that's what you have to so,until it's your family members..
It's so easy to throw words,until your loved one is involved..

My stance remains the same even if my loved one is involved

May her soul rest in peace!

Someone has been promising to marry or be with her for intimacy and support but kept breaking the promise.

Read the last two sections of her last facebook post....it says it all!

It may be depression

BlackfireX:
See lips, see boobs, see fine lady....wasted

For real. I wouldn't have minded dating this lady with that her kid sef. So beautiful...and and she looked like someone with a beautiful soul too.

Jughead29:
We the private school teachers are mostly hit this particular period. no salaries no help no gov interventions. currently am only having N50 as the last money in my hand and nothing to even eat.

i do give when i have. But now seems nobody even care.Lets help ourselves because life no matter what is turn by turn.

Send me a PM

Built2last:
So the spirit of Suicide is back to Naija.

Bible calls it Spirit of heaviness. We were promised garment of joy for spirit of heaviness.

Its a spirit that starts with voices in your head.

when ever you hear that voice dont ignore it, open your moth and scream, i shall not die, i shall not kill myself, i will get over this.

If you keep quiet, you will take your life cos the voice will never stop

It has always been here ooo... It didn't come back oo..

ifko:

Even if u saw her post, u will ignore it. Africans are inhumane generally.

Exactly! Don't mind the guy saying he would have helped...he would have most likely ignored the post.

mightyleks:
I was almost getting to this State.......... I thought friends will come through but NOoooooo.
My Family came through...

Forget it people. When it becomes very rough your family is all you've got.

Depression is real

RIP

I swear to God. No matter how long you have known that friend, don't ever think he/she will always have your back. Family is everything!

Funny truth is teachers in private are really suffering all over Africa...
No one cares so if we see suicide as option.. So be it...

Switch07:


In reality it take alot of courage to take your life, they're very courageous

Very true. If I had courage like them, I would have done it since. But I don't have the mind to drink sniper and go through the horrifying pain that I would go through before I die.