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I Think Am Loosening It by missvaj2015(op): 6:14pm On Jun 24, 2020
This is my first time doing this but I would be very fast. Please don't mind my typo errors.
I have been with this guy for over 7 years now. He was the one that trained me from my jss 3 to university level and I can proudly say that been a graduate today was his work. He clothes me, feed me and lots more. But the problem started when another woman came into the picture. I didn't care because, am from a polygamous family and am use to seeing women having mate . he also is from a Muslim home and I didn't see anything wrong with him having some else. I even told him that he can even bring in more women as far they don't give me troubles. We live together in a 3 bed room flat and the other lady moved in with us. Me I don't care oh because I have other things to do with my time.
Now the girl is giving me issues everyday. She keep giving me side talk every minute. My man and this girl is having issues right now and the whole thing is on my head. He said am the one giving this girl the mind to insult him. And mind you the girl doesn't talk to me even if I try to make friends with her, she snube me. I was even reminding my man that her birthday is in too weeks time and what's the plan and he told me that I would be the one to bake her cake. We planed a surprise birthday for her.
The problem now is that: hubby is mad at me. What did I do?
He said am the one that so making the girl to insult her that I was supposed to oppose him when he brought the girl to the house. Am confuse and I don't know what to do. Plz I need advice
Re: I Think Am Loosening It by Nobody: 6:17pm On Jun 24, 2020
Pls enjoy what you agree and approve of peacefully.
Re: I Think Am Loosening It by Nobody: 6:27pm On Jun 24, 2020
Rozz:
Pls enjoy what you agree and approve of peacefully.
Thank you! grin .
I don't know what she wants us to do now? huh
Re: I Think Am Loosening It by Chicent(m): 6:27pm On Jun 24, 2020
Sorry I didn't read where you stated you were married but I sure read where you called him hubby... Moreover in your third sentence I saw where you said you have been with the guy for 7years.... Hmmmm
Re: I Think Am Loosening It by xxxtedyxxx(m): 6:34pm On Jun 24, 2020
Are you guys married?
Ansa first
Re: I Think Am Loosening It by Millennialaku(m): 6:45pm On Jun 24, 2020
are you Nigerian huh huh
Re: I Think Am Loosening It by bukatyne(f): 6:52pm On Jun 24, 2020
missvaj2015:
This is my first time doing this but I would be very fast. Please don't mind my typo errors.
I have been with this guy for over 7 years now. He was the one that trained me from my jss 3 to university level and I can proudly say that been a graduate today was his work. He clothes me, feed me and lots more. But the problem started when another woman came into the picture. I didn't care because, am from a polygamous family and am use to seeing women having mate . he also is from a Muslim home and I didn't see anything wrong with him having some else. I even told him that he can even bring in more women as far they don't give me troubles. We live together in a 3 bed room flat and the other lady moved in with us. Me I don't care oh because I have other things to do with my time.
Now the girl is giving me issues everyday. She keep giving me side talk every minute. My man and this girl is having issues right now and the whole thing is on my head. He said am the one giving this girl the mind to insult him. And mind you the girl doesn't talk to me even if I try to make friends with her, she snube me. I was even reminding my man that her birthday is in too weeks time and what's the plan and he told me that I would be the one to bake her cake. We planed a surprise birthday for her.
The problem now is that: hubby is mad at me. What did I do?
He said am the one that so making the girl to insult her that I was supposed to oppose him when he brought the girl to the house. Am confuse and I don't know what to do. Plz I need advice
Are you guys married?

Since you are both fine with polygamy, can he rent a separate apartment for the lady? Or lay down ground rules afresh.

Except I am wrong, the husband usually stays with the first wife/ woman abi?

Or discuss with your man to know what his expectations are and pick up from there.
Re: I Think Am Loosening It by HarunaWest(m): 7:10pm On Jun 24, 2020
Is he married to the lady in question?

Are you married to your man?

Answer this two first before we proceed.
Re: I Think Am Loosening It by missvaj2015(op): 7:13pm On Jun 24, 2020
is he married to the lady in question?

Are you married to your man?

Answer this two first before we proceed.[/quote]Yes we are married but to the other lady nop they are not married
Re: I Think Am Loosening It by missvaj2015(op): 7:14pm On Jun 24, 2020
]Are you guys married?

Ansa first[/quote]Yes we are
Re: I Think Am Loosening It by callmeRichie(m): 7:14pm On Jun 24, 2020
You like polygamy buh u don't know like the wahalas attached bah?grin don't be confused nahgrin
Re: I Think Am Loosening It by SweetCunt97(f): 7:17pm On Jun 24, 2020
missvaj2015:
]Are you guys married?

Ansa first

Yes we are
I think you all should go for party to heighten the bond and stop d quarrels
Re: I Think Am Loosening It by MJBOLT: 7:35pm On Jun 24, 2020
it seems the other lady is not ready to share Oga with you undecided
Re: I Think Am Loosening It by MJBOLT: 7:38pm On Jun 24, 2020
how can you allow your husband bring a woman he's not married to into your home? undecided

missvaj2015:
is he married to the lady in question?

Are you married to your man?

Answer this two first before we proceed.

Yes we are married but to the other lady nop they are not married
Re: I Think Am Loosening It by poshestmina(f): 7:42pm On Jun 24, 2020
You accepted it ...Live with it!!!
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