OChimex:


That is childish.

Swear that you haven't stolen/taken what was not yours all your life. does that make you an armed robber or thief now?

doing something bad once doesn't make one a horrible person.

you haven't you done something so bad in the past once and later regretted your actions? did that make you a bad person?

... I swear I ve not Why are you finding it difficult to answer a simple question?

Ayemileto:


According to the story, she was the one that deposited the money herself, but the bank credited much more than her deposit.

So, it's not about "someone's money" mistakenly getting sent to another person's account.


But the most reasonable thing is for her to refund the money.

now i get it. The error is from the teller then. However what is bad is bad

CsRockefeller:
Look at comments up there figuratively tying d lady to a stake and calling for her head on a spike.

So, this is d reason he wants to call off the wedding? I have no words, posterity will judge.

Sir, it is enough reason.
It is a bad thing if you can't trust money with your partner. Man or woman.

Greediness is a very bad trait. A greedy person is capable of doing many evil.

JONNYSPUTE:
....Can you do all these if it was your husband to be that did it?

YES!!! I'm all abt making impacts...

....Funny how people find it difficult to answer a simple question if they can marry an exposed criminal

But want the guy to go ahead and marry her.

The same people will still advice their brothers or sisters never to marry a person with such criminal tendency.

She might change.

But this is very risky.

SmartPolician:


For defending her, you must be a hardened criminal too

yes of course. Hardened enough to kill you son of a bitch. Better watch your back

Lovelyn451:
YES!!! I'm all abt making impacts...

....Good luck to you and be ready to spend your life in jail with him as an accomplice.

Biglittlelois:
Invictus Obi's sister.

Invictus Obiageli

The lady has Buhari's type of integrity.

JONNYSPUTE:
....Ok. Good.

Can you knowingly marry a man or a woman who has been exposed to have criminal tendency just because you are not perfect?

That's a good question.Yes,i will.take note that marriage is an institution,courtship and marriage are miles apart ladden with different experiences.having said that,if you ask any young boy/girl that is looking for a partner,they will always tell you that they are looking for a better/good person,the question is,how can you know a better person when you 're not even good or pretends to be good.do you also know that 90% of failed marriages made the best choices but it ended in a fiasco.love is the key.

SSpeter:
A friend is calling off his wedding plans because he thinks his girlfriend lacks integrity. They have known for about 3years and he has not complained about her to me or any one.

Problem started when he got a call from the bank pleading with him to tell his girlfriend to reverse/return the excess amount credited to her account when she visited the bank to make a deposit into her account. He called his account officer to investigate the issue. The account officer confirmed that she got excess of what she wanted to deposit and she has moved all the funds to another bank.

She used the guy as her next of kin that was how they could contact him. He called his babe who denied initially but reluctantly agreed when he divulged that the bank contacted him. Dude became angry and paused all wedding plans.

The lady s begging and has cried her eyes out...what do you think? can you compromise integrity...?

I got permission to write about this here incase you think xyz and my friend is a Nairalander!

Such wedding should be called off ASAP. it is obvious who she is. Her hubby's finance is not save. She lacks integrity.
Na this type dey steal for outside, then bring problem to her husband.
I was credited in excess last week but I left the money in my account. After two days, in the night, the money was debited to the last kobo. I hate people that takes undue advantage. They won't think of the person that made that mistake that his or her job is at stake.

Saintinoo:

I will think about what she does right, and if it outweights d wrong, i will forgive her, but warn her not to try it again.
You can't just end your marriage plans because of this, we all are criminals one way or the other. I believe you friend is not 100% pure.

to me there is nothing to forgive apart from the fact that she hid it from me. Those banks should go and sit down. Do you know how much of my money they've stolen through failed POS transactions? Tell them to refund it they say after two weeks which will now enter months and might even get missing. The banks too should wait. Thunder fire Nigerian Bank. The babe put the guy as her next of kin, how many girls can do that? The boy should go and marry sister Magdalena

luminouz:


You need to shut it with your lame excuses.

Are you not ashamed to defend this rubbish? That means you are nothing but a poetic thief.

The fact that you're even arguing about it is disgusting.

Mr. Integrity are you related to the mofo that returned some millions found in a carton of indomie?? Wait! Manner will fall from heaven on the 12th of July... How come we have so much honest people online yet our society is corrupt and rotten..

coputa:
That's a good question.Yes,i will.take note that marriage is an institution,courtship and marriage are miles apart ladden with different experiences.having said that,if you ask any young boy/girl that is looking for a partner,they will always tell you that they are looking for a better/good person,the question is,how can you know a better person when you 're not even good or pretends to be good.do you also know that 90% of failed marriages made the best choices but it ended in a fiasco.love is the key.

...Keep it up.Thats your choice.

As for me,I ve never taken what does not belong to me and I can't marry such a person.

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If she refuse to pay, you have to pay, it was because of you the incidence happened in the first place, God works in a misterios way, Run for your life dear

kalufelix:
you talking crap oga ...she didnt steal from anybody...just take a deep breath and think

There is no free money anywhere.

A bank staff will be held responsible for the error and will pay from his/her sweat, and possibly lose their job. So, effectively, she has stolen money and possibly means of livelihood from the staff.

Imagine the pain if the staff is your wife,sibling or parent.

After 3 years, you want to take such drastic action for a first time offence?

Unless you are tell me she has been doing such, since she has shown remorse, forgive and move on.

What's the guarantee that another won't have worse character

JONNYSPUTE:
...Keep it up.Thats your choice.

As for me,I ve never taken what does not belong to me and I can't marry such a person.

take note that a dishonest woman during courtship can make a good wife,ditto,a honest woman during courtship that latter tears her marriage apart.have you not seen a pastors wife stealing and telling lies,did the pastor make the wrong choice at the onset,NO.

I think the issue here is not just uphelding the money by the lady in question but denying it is what brought the misunderstanding. Am not perfect, when am wrong and cautioned I don't try to deny the truth but acknowledgeing your fault makes you a better person

SSpeter:
A friend is calling off his wedding plans because he thinks his girlfriend lacks integrity. They have known for about 3years and he has not complained about her to me or any one.

Problem started when he got a call from the bank pleading with him to tell his girlfriend to reverse/return the excess amount credited to her account when she visited the bank to make a deposit into her account. He called his account officer to investigate the issue. The account officer confirmed that she got excess of what she wanted to deposit and she has moved all the funds to another bank.

She used the guy as her next of kin that was how they could contact him. He called his babe who denied initially but reluctantly agreed when he divulged that the bank contacted him. Dude became angry and paused all wedding plans.

The lady s begging and has cried her eyes out...what do you think? can you compromise integrity...?

I got permission to write about this here incase you think xyz and my friend is a Nairalander!

Dump the thief, she might also be a bitch. He wld find that out in marriage

Why is she begging and crying her eyes out?
She should use the excess funds go search for another spouse!

Nonesense!!!


These are the kind of wifes that will ruin their husbands finances.

She didnt even tell the guy when she got the excess funds. Someone she was going to marry.

She'll most likely cheat for pleasure, money or career without remorse.

The guy's in the right. I'm sure there's been several similar instances in the past.

Criminals dey this Nairaland o. see them justifying the babe. As if that money would not finish one day.

Nairalandmonika:

If god was even real n I was in is present, he has alot of questions to answer.

Its on niaraland you will be able to make mouth.......I'm sure you can't even look your parents in the eyes.....

ezugegere:
She should have learned her lesson. He should forgive her

He should forgive her, but don't marry her

The guy no love that lady ,...

The matter Don red ooo

coputa:
Indomie generation,so,because your fiancee of three years refused to return another persons money,she's now a thief and lacks integrity.the action of the girl does not make her a bad person,marriage is a different ball game,women of yore,used half of what they were given by their husband to buy food for their family and use the rest for esusu,but they lead a happy married life,emotion forms the integeral part of a womans actions.You ain't see anything yet,you think marriage is a tea party.

THAT'S WHAT MEN THAT HAVE SENSE WANT TO CORRECT. WHEN A WOMAN DO WRONG. U COME AND PREACH EMOTIONS TO US.

oga it's STALE

CANCEL AND NEVER THINK TWICE ABOUT IT