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Mariangeles:


Original Biglittlelois come ooo
You've been cloned!

I see that, and I've reported whoever it is, thanks for the heads up.

Mariangeles:

How were you able to register a new account with an existing monicker?

I saw that and also wanted to ask too.

It is a security breach if someone can register with an existing moniker.

Cc: Seun, Mynd44, Lalasticlala, dominique

bukatyne:
I saw that and also wanted to ask too.

It is a security breach if someone can register with an existing moniker.

Cc: Seun, Mynd44, Lalasticlala, dominique

As in...

They should sharpaly do something ooo...or else na to deactivate 'cause most nairalanders are crazy

Mariangeles:
Is that like a frat?
I do mind.

I don't think you've what it takes to be a full member, at least not at the moment. It's actually a decentralized non-religious and non-organizational Order, its name notwithstanding, so it's not a frat too.

LordKO:
I don't think you've what it takes to be a full member, at least not at the moment. It's actually a decentralized non-religious and non-organizational Order, its name not withstanding, so it's not a frat too.

I agree sir.

Good morning.

Biglittlelois:
Correction, Gods standard is for the husband to love his wife, then wife should submit to her husband, if a man thinks because he is simply a man therefore the wife would automatically submit, without him loving her and showing it whole heartedly, he is delusional, it can never happen, especially for one undeserving of it,

good you know it is God's standard but why do you oppose it? A man doesn't even need to earn it. Are you saying a man should not love his wife except she earned it?

Feminism is Rebellion against God.

1 Samuel 15:23 For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft, and stubbornness is as iniquity and idolatry. Because thou hast rejected the word of the LORD, he hath also rejected thee from being king.

It is a command from God not subject to debate

[s]And pls, do not compare the marriage institution to everyday attributes we have to adhere, totally different 100%


As for God comparing his love for the church to that of the husband to the wife, he gave up his life for us all, that is how much he loved us, how many men will love and give up their life for their wife? Let's not even go that far, how many men would give up a part of their organ to save the life of their wife? Can he take a bullet for her? Go to prison for her? This is the biblical standard for a Christian marriage and how it should be, and we all know it can NEVER happen, and if it did, maybe one in a billion,

See, I believe this marriage thing is very dicey, in my opinion, everyone should just do what works for them, it is not a sin, husband and wife can agree to be equal partners because it works for them, there is nothing wrong in that, and a wife can agree to be submissive regardless or being loved or not, na her problem, no one should try and coerce a man/woman to do/be/act in ways unsuitable for their kind of person, it is a recipe for disaster, this is also one of the problems in marriages today, do what works for you.[/s]

solite3:
[s]good you know it is God's standard but why do you oppose it? A man doesn't even need to earn it. Are you saying a man should not love his wife except she earned it?

Feminism is Rebellion against God.

1 Samuel 15:23 For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft, and stubbornness is as iniquity and idolatry. Because thou hast rejected the word of the LORD, he hath also rejected thee from being king.

It is a command from God not subject to debate[/s]

You lack basic understanding, where did I say he should earn it? The condition for a man to get total submission from his wife is for him to totally love her, anything less of that is rubbish,

So what and where the hell is the feminism and rebellion you are on about Even quoting verses to suit your warped thinking, smh.

Biglittlelois:
[s]You lack basic understanding, where did I say he should earn it? The condition for a man to get total submission from his wife is for him to totally love her, anything less of that is rubbish,

So what and where the hell is the feminism and rebellion you are on about Even quoting verses to suit your warped thinking, smh.[/s]

who put such condition there? madam basic understanding. you don't even understand what you wrote. smh

UjuJoan2:
Not Nairaland men oh. Ha!

They want a woman to earn more and cater more but remain submissive. That's only when she can earn the price of being called a virtuous woman.

Very unrealistic expectation if you ask me.
I mean COME ON!
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Norano:
How long would women keep massaging men's ego ?
The advice is clearly for her generation.
WTF
Mtchew.

Are you a woman or a man? What the op pointed out is the truth for all generations. With your mindset you will age quickly because you would have a lot of burden to carry.

Geminita1:
Are you a woman or a man? What the op pointed out is the truth for all generations. With your mindset you will age quickly because you would have a lot of burden to carry.

What is true in the advise below? That a woman should 'reduce' herself to make her husband shine?

"Don't learn how to do things better than your husband. A man needs to think he knows more than his wife so she will respsect him and depend on him. It makes him feel more like a man. "

bukatyne:
What is true in the advise below? That a woman should 'reduce' herself to make her husband shine?

"Don't learn how to do things better than your husband. A man needs to think he knows more than his wife so she will respsect him and depend on him. It makes him feel more like a man. "

The question is can a man marry a woman who he knows is more intelligent and wiser than him? I've always wondered...

Mariangeles:
The question is can a man marry a woman who he knows is more intelligent and wiser than him? I've always wondered...

How does a man determine a woman 'wiser' and 'more intelligent' than him?

In what areas is this wisdom and intelligence measured?

And this question is to women also. I have read and heard women say they don't want to marry a man they are wiser and more intelligent than. That is usually the lure of women who like wide age gap in addition to the money.

It is a two way street with men and women walking on it.

Maybe if we are talking exposure, it could be somewhat measurable.

So just how men don't want to marry women wiser than then, women too do jot want to marry men they are wiser than.

In retrospect, the OP is the reality for a set of people.

bukatyne:
How does a man determine a woman 'wiser' and 'more intelligent' than him?

In what areas is this wisdom and intelligence measured?

And this question is to women also. I have read and heard women say they don't want to marry a man they are wiser and more intelligent than. That is usually the lure of women who like wide age gap in addition to the money.

It is a two way street with men and women walking on it.

Maybe if we are talking exposure, it could be somewhat measurable.

So just how men don't want to marry women wiser than then, women too do jot want to marry men they are wiser than.

In retrospect, the OP is the reality for a set of people.

It'll make an interesting topic of discussion don't you agree?

Mariangeles:
It'll make an interesting topic of discussion don't you agree?

If trolls don't ruin the thread with their textbook and internet arguments like they don't observe stuff around them.

bukatyne:
If trolls don't ruin the thread with their textbook and internet arguments like they don't observe stuff around them.

Just create one... it'll might be interesting

There's always something to learn, derailment regardless.

Mariangeles:

Just create one... it'll might be interesting

There's always something to learn, derailment regardless.

It will or it might?

My threads always have something to learn.

That reminds me, I have a funny thread in mind.

bukatyne:
It will or it might?

My threads always have something to learn.

That reminds me, I have a funny thread in mind.

Oops!
It might will.

Anticipating the thread...

Mariangeles:
Oops!
It might will.

Anticipating the thread...

Hahahahahahahaha

Happy anticipation.

bukatyne:
What is true in the advise below? That a woman should 'reduce' herself to make her husband shine?

"Don't learn how to do things better than your husband. A man needs to think he knows more than his wife so she will respect him and depend on him. It makes him feel more like a man. "

We all know where this mindset of showing of your super intelligence and wisdom before your man leads to. It never ends well for the woman. So many depressed and tired women around, trying to prove what? That they are capable like men. Men are wired to provide and protect so its natural for them to be more intelligent and wiser. If they want to provide, then they would also desire to be the more intelligent ones.

Even if you are the more capable one deep down your man would appreciate if you keep it to yourself so he doesn't feel emasculated. Flexing your intelligence is a masculine thing to do. Women should rest and let men take the lead. Most times, the ancient paths are the right paths.

Geminita1:
We all know where this mindset of showing of your super intelligence and wisdom before your man leads to. It never ends well for the woman. So many depressed and tired women around, trying to prove what? That they are capable like men. Men are wired to provide and protect so its natural for them to be more intelligent and wiser. If they want to provide, then they would also desire to be the more intelligent ones.

Even if you are the more capable one deep down your man would appreciate if you keep it to yourself so he doesn't feel emasculated. Flexing your intelligence is a masculine thing to do. Women should rest and let men take the lead. Most times, the ancient paths are the right paths.

Am I permitted to ask for practical examples or scenarios?

bukatyne:
Am I permitted to ask for practical examples or scenarios?

Just look around you. Apart from toxic masculinity which could have been addressed properly, our parents and grand parents were on the right path.

Geminita1:
Just look around you. Apart from toxic masculinity which could have been addressed properly, our parents and grand parents were on the right path.

I want practical Scenarios of this situation.

I know men and women say they don't want to marry women more intelligent/ men less intelligent, how do it really play out?

Mariangeles:
The question is can a man marry a woman who he knows is more intelligent and wiser than him? I've always wondered...

Or Will a Woman marry a Man who she's more intelligent than? Lol I doubt that o.

Geminita1:
We all know where this mindset of showing of your super intelligence and wisdom before your man leads to. It never ends well for the woman. So many depressed and tired women around, trying to prove what? That they are capable like men. Men are wired to provide and protect so its natural for them to be more intelligent and wiser. If they want to provide, then they would also desire to be the more intelligent ones.

Even if you are the more capable one deep down your man would appreciate if you keep it to yourself so he doesn't feel emasculated. Flexing your intelligence is a masculine thing to do. Women should rest and let men take the lead. Most times, the ancient paths are the right paths.

Why do I feel like my grandmother typed this? Are you her?

bukatyne:
I want practical Scenarios of this situation.

I know men and women say they don't want to marry women more intelligent/ men less intelligent, how do it really play out?

How much wiser or intelligent you are determines to a large extent how much resources you will acquire. How much strength whether physical, mental you have would determine how much harsh conditions you are able to withstand. Women would suffer more physically and mentally because in these areas they are weaker. They might scale through but not without the cost.

We are wired to take on subtle roles. Men love the thrill of proving to us that they are wiser.

So if you happen to appear wiser and stronger than your man, he would feel defeated already, at the very place he wants to prove his strengths.

Ariza:
Why do I feel like my grandmother typed this? Are you are?

Lol your grand ma is wise. Keep listening to her.

Geminita1:
Lol your grand ma is wise. Keep listening to her.

Yes She is. However you don't keep doing the same thing same way and expect different result. The old way of doing things isn't that perfect, if it was there wouldn't be need for change.

A woman should be allowed to express herself, broaden her horizon,live a purposeful life , achieve her goals and be very intelligent. However this shouldn't be at the detriment of her home or husband. Only a petty Man will feel threatened by his wife's achievement. A woman is a Being not a Statue.

Ariza:
Yes She is. However you don't keep doing the same thing same way and expect different result. The old way of doing things isn't that perfect, if it was there wouldn't be need for change.

A woman should be allowed to express herself, broaden her horizon,live a purposeful life , achieve her goals and be very intelligent. However this shouldn't be at the detriment of her home or husband. Only a petty Man will feel threatened by his wife's achievement. A woman is a Being not a Statue.

yes a woman should pursue her dreams from home, there are simply some dreams that should be left alone or for the husband because every woman has one mind that cant be stretched too far. Else, she has to count the cost. The cost is not pretty or let me say worth it many many times.

Ariza:
Yes She is. However you don't keep doing the same thing same way and expect different result. The old way of doing things isn't that perfect, if it was there wouldn't be need for change.

[b] A woman should be allowed to express herself, broaden her horizon,live a purposeful life , achieve her goals and be very intelligent. However this shouldn't be at the detriment of her home or husband.[/b]Only a petty Man will feel threatened by his wife's achievement. A woman is a Being not a Statue.

@bold:

What does this mean?

Where's Pocohantas my Woke-Christian sista. Come and flex more muscle for me.