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Is It Bad To Be Good To People? by latyph(m): 8:22am On Jul 11, 2020
I don't know why no matter how committed financially or morally I am to people in their time of need, when they will show there other side , they will do it without any remorse or care about how committed I have been in their days of need.

I even visited a prophetess, she told me I shouldn't even get angry at whatever they do or say after helping them that I should even do more and that my spirit man doesn't tolerate keeping people in mind.

I have had the same experience again. I feel used and I hate myself.

I am terribly confused. Please I need words of encouragement.
Re: Is It Bad To Be Good To People? by Nobody: 8:23am On Jul 11, 2020
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Re: Is It Bad To Be Good To People? by donbachi(m): 8:25am On Jul 11, 2020
Keep doing,ur reward is in heaven.

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Re: Is It Bad To Be Good To People? by Omihanifa: 8:28am On Jul 11, 2020
Just continue your act of kindness after all whatever you sow you will reap

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Re: Is It Bad To Be Good To People? by 77Craze: 8:29am On Jul 11, 2020
Your problem is that you do good and expect something in return. Human being are dynamic, reliable to change. When you do good, do it without expecting something in return, then when they misbehave you won't lose anything or feel hurt.

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Re: Is It Bad To Be Good To People? by thesicilian: 8:31am On Jul 11, 2020
Stop expecting something in return when you help them. Just do what you can do and take good care of yourself as well.

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Re: Is It Bad To Be Good To People? by ModestGal(f): 8:40am On Jul 11, 2020
Lol, spirit man ko, spirit man ni

Sometimes I wonder if someone people are in this century with myself

Anyway, chat me up if you need help to boost your business

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Re: Is It Bad To Be Good To People? by Professorcplus(m): 8:58am On Jul 11, 2020
O, people like you are uncommon. Help people if you can and never expect anything in return. And pls, don't let their actions change you from your good deed.

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Re: Is It Bad To Be Good To People? by Nobody: 9:09am On Jul 11, 2020
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Re: Is It Bad To Be Good To People? by Mandela27: 9:55am On Jul 11, 2020
Check my signature,and wake ur sleeping ideas

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Re: Is It Bad To Be Good To People? by Ejenavi18(f): 10:00am On Jul 11, 2020
It's not a bad thing to be good to people.
But sometimes, most people take your good for granted and end up being ungrateful.
I have had my own fair share of experiences that am no longer bothered.

Just keep doing good without expecting anything in return..

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Re: Is It Bad To Be Good To People? by latyph(m): 10:06am On Jul 11, 2020
ModestGal:
Lol, spirit man ko, spirit man ni

Sometimes I wonder if someone people are in this century with myself

Anyway, chat me up if you need help to boost your business

Please be nice!
Re: Is It Bad To Be Good To People? by nana228(f): 4:58pm On Jul 11, 2020
No good deed goes unpunished. Most people will walk over a nice person than a wicked person

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Re: Is It Bad To Be Good To People? by merieam16(f): 8:06pm On Jul 11, 2020
donbachi:
Keep doing,ur reward is in heaven.
op ur reward is nt only in heaven buh here on earth nd ur generation will likely benefit frm it. so, pls dont stop doin wat is right.
Re: Is It Bad To Be Good To People? by helinues: 8:11pm On Jul 11, 2020
We have professional beggars in Nigeria..

So no matter how generous you are, they will still frustrate
Re: Is It Bad To Be Good To People? by YourCoffin: 9:00pm On Jul 11, 2020
Don't continue any kindness. You better give yourself brain. Be good to good people and be bad to bad people.

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