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| At 38 No Urge To Get Married by Emuf(op): 4:05pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
A friend of mine want to know if it is normal. He's close to 38years and doesn't feel anything about getting married. He has enough resources to get married, but he's just indifferent. What could be responsible for this? Thanks for your inputs. |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by kestolove95(m): 4:11pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Cox u have not seen someone your heart desire 4 Likes |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by Emuf(op): 4:12pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
kestolove95:Maybe |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by dawnomike(m): 4:13pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
I agree with @kestolove95... Till you find that person; do not marry out of necessity. 5 Likes |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by JustBeingFrank(m): 4:13pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Your day never break, when it does, nobody go tell you. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by Righteousness89(m): 4:15pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Emuf:Thats Deep bro... Is there anyone you are sponsoring or taking care of or something of that Nature? Send me a pm let's talk 1 Like |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by Oldoinyolengai(m): 4:29pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Not interested in getting married? Seems like you have genes for longer life  7 Likes |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by Valoa432: 4:41pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
It's is life,it's is passion and all you got to do is advise him. |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by Orubebe01: 4:44pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
He has a spiritual wife, should go for deliverance 2 Likes |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by VenusEAGLE: 4:50pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
It's a life of choices. There is nothing wrong with him but how does he handle seeing his friends with their wife/wives ? For me I would like to have as soon as possible |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by Hardtalk: 5:03pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Is either he has been keeping too many relationships and cannot see himself been married to just one or he missed his calling of being a Reverend father. 1 Like |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by GboyegaD(m): 5:07pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
That's his choice. He might not see the value marriage would add to him and most importantly, marriage isn't meant for everyone thus, he's fine. |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by xynerise: 5:08pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Everybody must not get married. Even the Bible said it 4 Likes |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by bukatyne(f): 5:35pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by bukatyne(f): 5:39pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Emuf:1. He has no desire for female companionship/warmth 2. He is very dedicated to his calling and thinks marriage is a hindrance 3. He has women already performing the duties of a wife without marrying him. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?  4. He is an homosexual 5. He has phobia for commitment; refer to number 3 6. He has an impediment stopping him from getting married 7. He has seen too many things go wrong hence not interested in marriage 6 Likes |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by Orubebe01: 5:39pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Righteousness89:He said his friend |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by Liposure: 7:38pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
He may have suffered many heartbreaks in the past. Or doesnt trust women. Who knows 1 Like |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by merieam16(f): 10:14pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Wen d time comes he will, mayb wen his 50 or so |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by Hathor5(f): 10:59pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Maybe he is simply content with his life the way it is. 1 Like |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by faithfull18(f): 11:11pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
There are people like that. 2 Likes |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by Emuf(op): 11:29pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
faithfull18:Really.... what become of them? |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by Petyr1: 11:31pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
he might be asexual |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by Emuf(op): 11:50pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by Nobody: 10:40am On Jul 19, 2020 |
That your friend is a very rare kind. He is one not cowed by societal pressure for marriage. And he should remain that way except when he believes within his spirit that the time to settle has come. Else he goes into what he is not prepared for and rush out like a raging dog. 2 Likes |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by StubbornGENIUS: 10:42am On Jul 19, 2020 |
Nothing is responsible.Marriage is not a must for everyone. 3 Likes |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by Nobody: 10:51am On Jul 19, 2020 |
Emuf:The issue is usually the older you get, you need people around you. All the best to him sha , Marriage is not for everyone 1 Like |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by StPete: 11:04am On Jul 19, 2020 |
Your guy has had too many fvcks with lots of ladies at his beck and call, so there's no immediate need to settle down. Besides, most ladies are leeches, so he's already imagining the burden of harbouring a leech for the rest of his life. 1 Like |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by frozen70(f): 9:13pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Emuf:If he still have a woman he makes love to when the urge comes up, then he is the one delaying himself Why won't he have urge for marriage, even baby mama, what is he afraid of ? Is he afraid of women or having children making noise in the house Well he can remain the way he choses to be, then marry when he gets double of his present age |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by BigSarah(f): 9:15pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
He doesn’t want to share his personal space 1 Like |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by cooooooks(m): 10:52pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
He hasn't met someone or decided on being with someone forever. If or when he does, it'll happen in a flash. 1 Like |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by We4all: 11:24pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
I know a lady who is about the same age and doesn't feel the urge to get married or even have kids. I guess it all boils down to priorities, and according to her, marriage is not one of her priorities. 1 Like |
| Re: At 38 No Urge To Get Married by Takotsubo: 11:43pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
You don't have to marry,it's perfectly alright.. Nothing abnormal here. 1 Like |
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