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Christiano25:
Thanks. I don’t know what’s the next step after collecting a girls number and want us to meet and so on

If you collect a girls number next thing is just to kind of know each other and do some fun talk.... becareful avoid chat that leads to friendzone o...... That one is another field of its own.

Secondly you must know how to do quality chat and not the interviewer type of chat, you must also understand how much of what to say at each point of the chat.

The format to get a hangout is like “I will like to see you”. Then it shouldn’t be like a real date but a causal hook up is okay.

But truth is any girl who hands you her number is ready to vibe, hangout is okay when you fear she may refuse a date. And it also helps when you have mixed feeling about the person. Hangout exist in many format. I have food and a nice movies I think we can watch it during the weekend is another format.
But before this stage you must have won her trust one kin through chat o. Except she would not come. Meet at an event you too may be attending.

The only importance of chat at the beginning is to build a rapport between you too After this you must get a bit physical except it may die down. The talk plenty jare

Wow � you see that friend zone I have been getting it. Do you mind me reaching your on your number when I have problem on this same issue . Or you can drop me your telegram

stanliwise:
If you collect a girls number next thing is just to kind of know each other and do some fun talk.... becareful avoid chat that leads to friendzone o...... That one is another field of its own.

Secondly you must know how to do quality chat and not the interviewer type of chat, you must also understand how much of what to say at each point of the chat.

The format to get a hangout is like “I will like to see you”. Then it shouldn’t be like a real date but a causal hook up is okay.

But truth is any girl who hands you her number is ready to vibe, hangout is okay when you fear she may refuse a date. And it also helps when you have mixed feeling about the person. Hangout exist in many format. I have food and a nice movies I think we can watch it during the weekend is another format.
But before this stage you must have won her trust one kin through chat o. Except she would not come. Meet at an event you too may be attending.

The only importance of chat at the beginning is to build a rapport between you too After this you must get a bit physical except it may die down. The talk plenty jare

heisdvrkskinned:
You missed out the part of socializing in school.

what do you understand by socializing? you think socializing means partying or being around ladies?

Na wa o! Ontop women matter, well i get my own problem with them too, what i know is that the ones who likes u will never give u problem or prolong thing.









Aye lo maye le.

heisdvrkskinned:
Hi, guys! Please, I need you'll to be matured with this.... it's no news that the guys ( playas, cassanovas, ladies man, Bleep boys) have their own trick/ways or methods of getting any lady that they meet on the streets, in the bank, on the buss, in lecture hall, your lodge ... pretty much anywhere!
I'm not gonna lie, I envy those of you who makes approaching any girl, lady/woman you see or bedding them. Like, how do you do it? I'm an introvert, 21 years of age and I have never had a girl or anything of such because I'm shy and lack how to be smooth with the ladies. All thanks to my mum's elder sister for always camping me indoors from when I was a child till when I turned a teenager and now an adult. Like it sucks! My social life is ruined. Please help, guys! My department has the hottest girls in the whole school but I the dull them, base on say I fine but I no get game. Please help a brother out. How do I become that guy that's smooth with them ladies, wanted by every lady. And , no! This isn't about just getting sex from them, but I want to be that friend that some can't just get enough of him. Would always want to be around him. Yk? that irresistible friend. Plus being irresistible for anyone of them, both the ones I have flings with and don't. And how to never run out of things to say to any stranger nor them. Thanks.

I remember asking this question to one of the smoothest dudes I knew back in high school... turns out that I didn't know any better... I grew up, and realized there's nothing better than being yourself.

Be yourself bruv, and be extremely good at being yourself. What ever you say or do, be comfortable under your skin.

I am not sure how many ladies may be attracted to you, but I know for sure, any lady that will be attracted to you, is due to the fact that she loves you for being you.

daewoorazer:
I’ve replied ur mail since....

Ha! Fr? man. sorry. don't really know how naira land work that much

stanliwise:
you don’t. A perfect figure will likely never give you such attention because hundreds of guy have reached out to her just like you and have put her on the pedestal and now she is a crowned princess.
To get her attention you must show value in something, some how, just like how a prince behaves. And when you make the approach it should be like a causal approach but with a different shade. Someone who seem not so impressed by her beauty but just wanna vibe with her. You act so comfortable and confident around her and leave when your statement is made. Except she is a runs girl, this sort of girls need patient and time to crack o. It could be fast and it could be slow. You just have to appear like a prince(not by being rich o) but by personalities and she should think you are as good as her or maybe better. The rules for all this are complex o and doesn’t have specific details. The mindset matters most.

Your eye should always be on red alert that you never and should never enter her friendzone. It is better to her enemy that enter a pretty girl frindzone that you like. Na graveyard be that o.

Lmao! How's or what is the best way not to get friendzoned?

Raymeskey:
Op what you are seeking for is deadly if care is not taken

See, its better to be running away from ladies than having them all around I'm talking from experience. Just man up and approach one don't think of being a play boy it will cost you not only money but your life.

Lmao! So, true. My cuz was a playa in his 100 lvl days. 2 , sorry * During his 100, he was just one dull boy. When he got to 200 , he became a bad ass somehow and guess what..? Dude became lean due to much looting and all that. Look, I just wanna know how this whole lady thing works, so I get to make the right choice of copping me one. The worst thing that can happen to anyman would be leaving game aside and getting burned by that you truly luv. Why? Because you never took the game seriously. Believe it or not, game helps a lot in finding that best relationship and know how to improve or keeping a relationship.

stanliwise:
day go dark o. But really there is no particular words or steps. As much as you understand what we call social awareness. Any of your behavior are right.
Few of them are.

Talk to girl you like as you would discuss with any random person you are not attracted to.

Don’t ever pretend you don’t like her, show it when necessary.

Give her only things she has earn

Don’t ever show a sign of desperation.

Understand social etiquette both for you and her.

Respect yourself as much as you do for her.

Keep an impression of what you want her to see you like and stick to it. Not what you think she likes to see you like.

Do quality talk and not an interview

Do what you think is appropriate and not what you think she likes.

Lastly: Girls can tell from ten miles if your are a novince so don’t act up too much. Do as your body reach

That's the problem. Most introverts don't know how to or what to discuss with strangers any one they know. Reason you see some dudes dodging or taking another route when they sight someone familiar.

stanliwise:
If you collect a girls number next thing is just to kind of know each other and do some fun talk.... becareful avoid chat that leads to friendzone o...... That one is another field of its own.

Secondly you must know how to do quality chat and not the interviewer type of chat, you must also understand how much of what to say at each point of the chat.

The format to get a hangout is like “I will like to see you”. Then it shouldn’t be like a real date but a causal hook up is okay.

But truth is any girl who hands you her number is ready to vibe, hangout is okay when you fear she may refuse a date. And it also helps when you have mixed feeling about the person. Hangout exist in many format. I have food and a nice movies I think we can watch it during the weekend is another format.
But before this stage you must have won her trust one kin through chat o. Except she would not come. Meet at an event you too may be attending.

The only importance of chat at the beginning is to build a rapport between you too After this you must get a bit physical except it may die down. The talk plenty jare

How do we build rapport via chats? And which creates attraction more, texts or calls? And moreso, could you give drills on how to not bore her ass off when she comes over, and you both are just chilling? Both with what to say, like the conversations or talks and how to sweep her off her feet whilst you guys are together.

stanliwise:
The only importance of chat at the beginning is to build a rapport between you too After this you must get a bit physical except it may die down. The talk plenty jare

How do we get physical and not come out as a creep or how do we know how to get physical?

Freestainworld:
what do you understand by socializing? you think socializing means partying or being around ladies?

Dude. I've got no strength to explain what I mean by that. BTW, don't you think that everyone's got the right to do whatever they want? And look, you taking this all left with your unnecessary assumptions. Nobody wan dey go parties . I just wanna learn game, dude. All my life, I've been a good boy. Now wey I don't enter uni, I wan learn game and still be a good boy. If only yk how many girls feels like choking me because of waving them of, when I really don't know how to go about anything.

Volkswagen90:
Na wa o! Ontop women matter, well i get my own problem with them too, what i know is that the ones who likes u will never give u problem or prolong thing.









Aye lo maye le.

True. But dude, don't you think itd get boring and them getting fed up? And don't you think you'd be heartbroken when another dude come sweeping her off her two feets? Think about that for a second or two. Guys wey sabi game knows how to keep a girl on her feet and never run after another man. Girls wants adventures and all of those extra good stuff, too. Unless you're a boring muhfacka, you won't last with girls that luv a bad boy. Not the literal bad boy, though.

optimusprime2:
I remember asking this question to one of the smoothest dudes I knew back in high school... turns out that I didn't know any better... I grew up, and realized there's nothing better than being yourself.

Be yourself bruv, and be extremely good at being yourself. What ever you say or do, be comfortable under your skin.

I am not sure how many ladies may be attracted to you, but I know for sure, any lady that will be attracted to you, is due to the fact that she loves you for being you.

To some point, this is true. But what do you do when you want to meet other people?

heisdvrkskinned:
To some point, this is true. But what do you do when you want to meet other people?

I just do my "me thing" ... find out your own "me thing"

heisdvrkskinned:
Lmao! How's or what is the best way not to get friendzoned?

Dont do things that friends do with her. Like gisting anyhow or becoming the counselor boy. This doesn’t mean you don’t do some of this things but the major things is that the atmosphere should not be so casual that it loss a romantic touch. This is a bit different when you two are already in relationships

heisdvrkskinned:
How do we get physical and not come out as a creep or how do we know how to get physical?

I mean physical hangout and spending some time together. It could be just casual at first, then it could be a plan event later, based on the amount of comfortability between you guys.

heisdvrkskinned:
How do we build rapport via chats? And which creates attraction more, texts or calls? And moreso, could you give drills on how to not bore her ass off when she comes over, and you both are just chilling? Both with what to say, like the conversations or talks and how to sweep her off her feet whilst you guys are together.

On that rapport of a thing some girls can be very stubborn o and some intentionally keep a stupid padlock not to build such. How to discuss with a girl is quite technical but always make sure you don’t turn chat to an interview by asking unnecessary questions.
I don’t know how to describe this part though one thing I can tell you is when you chat you with your guys you know how you guys talk nah, by talking about past events and some recent issues you heard, same logic goes for every chat. It shouldn’t be everytime, just how are you doing is ok most time.

heisdvrkskinned:
How do we get physical and not come out as a creep or how do we know how to get physical?

dm bro, I used to be exactly like you lol same age
Send me a pm

paste007:
dm bro, I used to be exactly like you lol same age
Send me a pm

haha! dmed you already.

stanliwise:
On that rapport of a thing some girls can be very stubborn o and some intentionally keep a stupid padlock not to build such. How to discuss with a girl is quite technical but always make sure you don’t turn chat to an interview by asking unnecessary questions.
I don’t know how to describe this part though one thing I can tell you is when you chat you with your guys you know how you guys talk nah, by talking about past events and some recent issues you heard, same logic goes for every chat. It shouldn’t be everytime, just how are you doing is ok most time.

I understand. What other crucial thing must I know about?

heisdvrkskinned:
I understand. What other crucial thing must I know about?

dont play by her rules. Always act like a prince of Uja kingdom anytime around her .
It doesn’t mean to be arrogant o, but by being a prince.
Infact just assume your are a prince but you’re kingdom isn’t here

stanliwise:
dont play by her rules. Always act like a prince of Uja kingdom anytime around her .
It doesn’t mean to be arrogant o, but by being a prince.
Infact just assume your are a prince but you’re kingdom isn’t here

Lol. Thanks, bro. What about on calls? Like, some dude can be talking over the phone with any lady for long hours.

heisdvrkskinned:
Lol. Thanks, bro. What about on calls? Like, some dude can be talking over the phone with any lady for long hours.

long hour talk can only happen with the amount of comfort btw you too. In most cases it is always short.

And more so, how do I gather / have the natural confidence/balls to go approach that girl around the corner or walking my way without chickening out of it or talking myself out of it?

More so, how do I know true love when I finally get to meet the girl who says she loves me? Not all girls mean what they say.




This is what should concern you most

stanliwise:
long hour talk can only happen with the amount of comfort btw you too. In most cases it is always short.

Oh! So we'd have stuff to talk about if we're comfortable with each other?

ZINIBANKS:
More so, how do I know true love when I finally get to meet the girl who says she loves me? Not all girls mean what they say.




This is what should concern you most

Huh? OK. You should have answer to this.

stanliwise:
when it comes to runs girl. They are after your money and they know why they are with you. They give you the lamba your give them the money. No time for long talk and wooing. They are not loyal.

Baddest you don old for game
Niggar where you dey stay

Freestainworld:
school passing through you means you should be going after ladies ? common man, women see potentials, when you have it in you, they will naturally be drawn to you introvert or extrovert, school passing through you means you should be engaged in other school extra curriculum activities like sports, religious and any school public activities that could impact your life.

Even if he focus on that he will still have problem when girl woe him and his unable to strike a convo let's discuss it with him and advice him,back then when I was still otondo in the game a girl once woe me and I don't know what to say i got back to school the following day and I noticed all her friends were looking at me I was like what's the problem so my mind was telling me maybe she told her friends what happened ahhh omo disgrace catch me that day break Time I no fit stand up cause Na their role I go pass go outside,, now look at it supposing am already a bad guy in the dating and toasting stuff I will know what to say and what to do am saying an event of 2012
But now zini don become pro
Although I still dey tingasa now O especially if the babe is porch but not like before whereby even my two ears will be shaking
I like some encouraging comments am seeing thanks guys let encourage our fellow niggar ✌️

heisdvrkskinned:
Huh? OK. You should have answer to this.

From my own little knowledge
1. Her behaviour towards you
2. she won't stress or pester you too much for things
3. She will always talk to you about your career how you're walking towards it and how to achieve it
4. She will give you the little stipend she have
Have experience this before
5. Lastly she will shun her friends or peer group telling her not to marry or settle down with you
Note: from my own baby knowledge let wait for the elders

ZINIBANKS:
Baddest you don old for game
Niggar where you dey stay

I be lag boy o.
But I dey Kwara now