Norano:

I have seen married women cheating and nothing happens, same as married men. Absolutely nothing, they still live the same way with their husbands/wifes, nobody is monitoring anybody.

Only single men keep ranting on the internet about how they would chase out their wives immediately, in reality most married men forgive their wives.
Look around you, have all cheating wives been chased out of their matrimonial home.

P.S don't quote me again, I don't have the time for useless arguments

What exactly is the point you're trying to cross? If your wife cheats on you, will you be like those "realistic" men and take her back?

Righteousness89:
Personally, it may be Difficult but if she Genuinely repents, I have no Choice than to take Here back!





I don't see myself having that anyway! I have got a Heavenly Virtuous Wife...

I am so Privileged to have such a woman..

Exactly...
its hard to imagine myself in such situation. i just dont see that happening to me.

but for the purpose of this post, absolutely No...
sleeping with another ma? im so done

These mamas will settle the matter

I can't take a cheating husband back because I know I can't cheat on my husband, I can't even cheat on my boyfriend talk more of my husband�

as long as your wife can take you back when she catches you cheating on her, u should also take her back when the case is reverse.

Johntemmy:
On top the matter can you take your wife back after you caught her cheating on you?

Please I need advice and sincere reply thanks everyone.

I think this your post is something personal to you and it hits home so I understand where you are coming from.

But to be honest with you- no amount of advice you get here will change how you really feel because of what happened. You have to decide for yourself if you can live with it and you need to be matured about it. Cheers

Kaaaiiii woman wey another man don knack confirm preek wey don make,am moan and sweat as she dey enjoy am .. Gord4bid Badt Tins

Well some men will, we are wired differently.
But me personally i can't unless she agrees to live with me as a sex slave.

But if the man cheat the wife will stay with him hmmmm

Some men may and some may not.

mysticwarrior:
my dear you won't understand.

Lol.

NO NO NO

GboyegaD:
I don't pray it happens but I will if and only I can reason genuinely why it is my fault.

How is someone cheating your fault?

Johntemmy:
On top the matter can you take your wife back after you caught her cheating on you?

Please I need advice and sincere reply thanks everyone.

I can't take back a cheating girlfriend talk of wife, hell no. Once I found out she is cheating na packing be that

Yes, I will forgive, but she must be punished.

The only penalty is marrying an additional wife, and such new wife has to be more beautiful than her and the opposite of her, character-wise.

It not easy thing o

I don't think so

Righteousness89:
Personally, it may be Difficult but if she Genuinely repents, I have no Choice than to take Here back!





I don't see myself having that anyway! I have got a Heavenly Virtuous Wife...

I am so Privileged to have such a woman..

E go shock u

for me I will take her back..after all I have been cheating on her too even though she has never caught me....

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I don't know

Nope!

Truth be told, its no big deal, it would hurt but who am i not to forgive

Is that a big deal??

I will gladly take her back and then divorce her!!

valentineuwakwe:
for me I will take her back..after all I have been cheating on her too even though she has never caught me....

You are a great moral mind.

Always willing to share while also not minding being shared.

I don't pray to be in that situation. God forbid!

Until everyone is faced with this situation, no one knows exactly how he'd handle it. And there are many who take back cheating wives, but they won't say so in a public forum. Perhaps your thread should have been: "how many men took back cheating wives and how was the relationship afterwards?". I bet you won't get half a page of comments but you'd get more than 60k views.

Once woman cheats, she can never respect her husband again. For many men, they prefer respect to love, and if they feel disrespected, that's it.

If you take her back after she cheat on you whether she repent or not, fine!

If you refuse to take her back after she cheat on you, whether she repent or not, fine!

It all depends on the individual's decision.

A man has the right to divorce her for that. The woman also has the right to divorce her husband who cheat on her. And you also have the right to forgive and take her back.

As for me, If she genuinely repent, I will take her back. It is nobody's business, but mine.


The questions we fail to ask ourselves and objectively answer when a spouse cheat are:

Do I cause her to cheat directly or indirectly? by my attitude and conduct? Like: Do I deprive her of her conjugal rights? Do I disrespect her or abuse her? Do I cheat myself? Do I make the home "hot" for her? Do I . . . ?

Seriously it all depends. If she foot most of our bills "YES I will take her back. Buh if she's a house wife or she doesn't contribute anything financially I go send her go her Papa house sharperly. I no come world to breed local dog n goat.

I can't even take a girlfriend back not to talk of wife

Missyajoke:
OP if you cheat what would your wife do. Stop making feel as if women are the reason why men cheat.
OP abeg balance it.
Marriage is meant for matured adults not babies if you know you're not emotionally mature don't get married.
Couples should be able to bear each others yoke and forgive each other easily if you can't forgive your wife or husband then don't get married.

Thanks

He who pay the bride price and sponsor the marriage has the higher say!!!

Righteousness89:
Personally, it may be Difficult but if she Genuinely repents, I have no Choice than to take Here back!





I don't see myself having that anyway! I have got a Heavenly Virtuous Wife...

I am so Privileged to have such a woman..

Always Watch and Pray.
Thank God for what you have.
It might not be good but thank God.