it depends on the circumstance. its very easy to be carried away emotionally when these things happen,but the truth is serious thoughts have to be put into the decision. once made no going back.

When a woman cheats on you it means she doesn't love you anymore...
But I think I can

Johntemmy:


lols

What is funny now??

emmnprince:
If you take her back after she cheat on you whether she repent or not, fine!

If you refuse to take her back after she cheat on you, whether she repent or not, fine!

It all depends on the individual's decision.

A man has the right to divorce her for that. The woman also has the right to divorce her husband who cheat on her. And you also have the right to forgive and take her back.

As for me, If she genuinely repent, I will take her back. It is my nobody's business, but mine.


The questions we fail to ask ourselves and objectively answer when a spouse cheat are:

Do I cause her to cheat directly or indirectly? by my attitude and conduct? Like: Do I deprive her of her conjugal rights? Do I disrespect her or abuse her? Do I cheat myself? Do I make the home "hot" for her? Do I . . . ?

Dis one well so??

Oladayo12:
Stop saying all these please, adultery and fornication is wrong for both parties. Dont take this your mentality to marriage pls, except you are so lucky to have a woman that can take those shit from you.

Stop derailing this thread

Johntemmy:


hummmmm
can any woman ever take that..
except she's pretending

You mean, marrying a second wife is better??

YES

Oladayo12:
Kiss the truth and respect every woman, shikena!

As a true Knight

Vyolet:
Men take cheating wives back, e get reason.

at that wife become rich enough to marry a second wife tho (Amen)

Righteousness89:
Personally, it may be Difficult but if she Genuinely repents, I have no Choice than to take Here back!





I don't see myself having that anyway! I have got a Heavenly Virtuous Wife...

I am so Privileged to have such a woman..

ur something else

100% sure I won't take her back.

I don't forgive a cheating partner in a relationship not to talk of marriage


living with a cheating partner is like endangering one life, if she's not planning anything evil with her concubine, the concubine will be planning to end your life to allow free flow of the pussy


some men can do anything to have a pussy to themselves

If I am also cheating on her I would take her back but if I am not there is no way for me to take her back.

If ever catch a wife cheating, OP two things are involved..
1.if she has contributed so much to my life as a partner, i mean we've had our kids life is moving on happily,she will stay with me,but i'll not c her as my wife but as a friend,very good friend but, it will b difficult for me to have sex again,it will take long,i mean years before May b one day something sexually can happen.

2.I may also have to cheat on her...The rationale behind point 2 is to pacify ur superior feelings of innocent making it hard for u 2 forgive her thereby holding it against her while feeling like a saint. but if u cheat,the animal side to u will acknowledge that "u do me i do u"..making them equal..

"Forgivness is not for the weak is for the strong"

[[s]quote author=Missyajoke if you cheat what would your wife do. Stop making feel as if women are the reason why men cheat.
OP abeg balance it.
Marriage is meant for matured adults not babies if you know you're not emotionally mature don't get married.
Couples should be able to bear each others yoke and forgive each other easily if you can't forgive your wife or husband then don't get married.

Thanks[/quote][/s] I hope you are fucking your prophet behind your husband's back. Divorce any cheating wife, so says the Bible. #Never wife a HOE in the first place.

eni4real:
Stop derailing this thread

Biko who teach u english?

Oladayo12:
Biko who teach u english?

Hollywood movies

All these NOs answers I swear are from small boys. In real life, when u consider how much u both have gone with each other I am sure u won't be in a hurry to say NO!


What do you think it's means when u make that vow, "4 better, 4 worse"?

The best is to pray God make u a good husband so u won't have a cheating wife.

Before I divorce my wife, she see me finish reach the level wey if I catch her sex chatting with a guy, she go still insult me on top. She go even talk say na only sex chat I see, when I catch them fucking her, wetin I wan do? Guys do not marrry, all you will loose is your peace of mind, money, years and your sanity!

U guys are just saying rubish ..infact u dont experience it.....
1....when u catch ur woman cheating bros abeg send her packing.....no amount of beg should makebu leave her...ooooo..because a cheating woman is likely to kill her husband...
2....men are men in a sense dat a make will cheat n still love his wife at home...i swear...because d man might just want to feel d pussssy taste..n d babe mourning while naking d puuusssy... N still go back home n cherish his beloveth wife..

For the fact i paid her bride price its a No logically....

But if am dating Otedola or dangotes daughter and she is the one funding the relationship.........then i will gladly take her back over and over again

Forgiving is easier than forgetting. There would always be a reminder. Trust might disappear

A gf possibly, A wife? That’s a hard question. I wud however say it depends on how it happened a one off, error in judgement or a well planned and ongoing act. For the former there is no solution.

77Craze:
Lolz for me never!

Good answer.

will you cheat on your wife if opportunity presents itself?

hmm. dis One is strong.

Johntemmy:
On top the matter can you take your wife back after you caught her cheating on you?

Please I need advice and sincere reply thanks everyone.

Never

Whats d meaning of 4 better 4 worse....ehhhh....abegii pack...well..abeg
1 woman 1 dick..
1 man many entitled pussyyy

Munzy14:

No.

Even in relationship it is a deal breaker in addition to stealing for me. If you are my woman, and u do this two, or even one, Game over..

Reasons;
1. If she cheat, I am no longer enough for her. In fact if the new man is hitting her on center of gravity where e deh sweet her pass, I av automatically become an Impedance for her.

2. Due to me becoming an impedance, she can eliminate me easily,because she cooks my family meal.

3. I am likely going to commit murder, I knw what i can do. I really don't want anyone to awake the demon in me..

4. A lot of beauty and cool headed with brain ladies out there, so I really don't need to keep a time bomb(cheating wife) under my roof..

5. She will corrupt my kids, especially the females. Because mother goat weh deh chop yam, the pikin go copy am.

6. Its difficult for a woman to cheat, but ones she does, she has crossed..

Lastly, there are tendencies of a woman to bleep easily for material things, Just like we have the tendencies of a man to bleep just to release konji wit no strings attached.

And cheating is a choice.

Lol! So, guys gets hurt when their wives cheats on them too? So, it hurts right?
If it's so painful to have a cheating wife, then no good woman deserves to be cheated upon. Guys repent o. Ladies, am i communicating?

Aksnoopy:
[[s]quote author=Missyajoke if you cheat what would your wife do. Stop making feel as if women are the reason why men cheat.
OP abeg balance it.
Marriage is meant for matured adults not babies if you know you're not emotionally mature don't get married.
Couples should be able to bear each others yoke and forgive each other easily if you can't forgive your wife or husband then don't get married.

Thanks[/s] I hope you are fucking your prophet behind your husband's back. Divorce any cheating wife, so says the Bible. #Never wife a HOE in the first place.

Very nice point you have made.

But please one question, do you think you can stay married without cheating as a man? Just a harmless question.

cuteFAM:
Before I divorce my wife, she see me finish reach the level wey if I catch her sex chatting with a guy, she go still insult me on top. She go even talk say na only sex chat I see, when I catch them fucking her, wetin I wan do? Guys do not marrry, all you will loose is your peace of mind, money, years and your sanity!

Depends on who u marry and how well u got down to know them and judge their character. A lot of men of poor judges of character. They see danger sign and still marry instead of leaving it at just dating or ending it.

This is the problem of many. Very few people change after marriage. It was always there all along u just refused to see it.

stanliwise:
Very nice point you have made.

But please one question, do you think you can stay married without cheating as a man? Just a harmless question.

Yes! I make sure I date my spec and I always resist the temptation to cheat. When am on the verge of cheating, I often ask myself what do I intend to gain thereafter. Asking myself this question kills every form of cheating urge in me.