So, this will be the most absurd thing you will read today or perhaps this year.
I am married presently; nonetheless, I have decided to come out this way in search of a life partner. I made a mistake some years ago, and in order not to continue in that mistake, waste my time, and resources, it has become necessary that for the sake of my sanity I walk away and restart. The woman I'm looking for is peaceful. I do not care if you’re ugly or beautiful. All I care about is you are ready to set up a peaceful home, and grow and support your husband.
A brief introduction: I am in my mid-thirties, a pharmacist/entrepreneur (doing fine), and a reader. Add to that, modesty prevents me from boasting about my intelligence (So the kids will be safe. Lol ). I have a great sense of humor and very caring. I am not rich, neither am I poor. However, being hardworking I have dreams and plans towards reaching that upper echelon where we all desire. A few years back, I infected with a bout of foolishness, plunged head-on into the murky waters of marriage, and that has proved to be my greatest uppance. My wife, beautiful and sweet as she is, is the devils angel. There is no peace with her. She is the bane of my very existence. I have lost count of the numbers of time I left the house while she was shouting at me. In her weak defence, she’s not the problem. The problem is neither her nor me. The problem is, two strange bedfellows said ‘I do’ for very wrong reasons. It has taken us a few years to notice this incompatibility, and as I don’t want to live the rest of my life with constant headaches, I’m sure she is tired of complaining about every inconsequential thing. Make I no go kill pesin pikin, or run mad. I done tire.
Let’s keep it short. We are getting a divorce, to the Glory of God.
So if you are a good lady, preferably in her thirties and sincerely want to build a happy and healthy home, please send me a mail at sparks0200@gmail.com, and then we can take it from there. No disrespectful materialistic cum slay unserious women, please. Thank you. No druggist nightclub trolls either, I’m sorry. Wherever you are in Nigeria. Preferably a woman who reads, and has that entrepreneur spirit, or at least is ready to build the business together. No sex before marriage. God knows I'm not looking for that. I do not philander; else, I would not be doing this. I do not have the time to do boyfriend and girlfriend. I kept no options, as it is not in my nature to have extramarital affairs. I need a woman to pray, grow and take on this world with. It’s a shot in the dark, perhaps I’ll meet a great woman.
Thank you for reading.

from frying pan to fire

If you need a good wife, better go to one village and get one,not all this money striving aunties we have here ohhh

@sparks0200
As much as I don’t believe your story but you should have spot someone around you, not here online, and not someone who knows that you are desperate for a peaceful person as a wife. You have to hide such desperation else it will always magnet pretenders.

Sparks0200:
So, this will be the most absurd thing you will read today or perhaps this year.
I am married presently; nonetheless, I have decided to come out this way in search of a life partner. I made a mistake some years ago, and in order not to continue in that mistake, waste my time, and resources, it has become necessary that for the sake of my sanity I walk away and restart. The woman I'm looking for is peaceful. I do not care if you’re ugly or beautiful. All I care about is you are ready to set up a peaceful home, and grow and support your husband.
A brief introduction: I am in my mid-thirties, a pharmacist/entrepreneur (doing fine), and a reader. Add to that, modesty prevents me from boasting about my intelligence (So the kids will be safe. Lol ). I have a great sense of humor and very caring. I am not rich, neither am I poor. However, being hardworking I have dreams and plans towards reaching that upper echelon where we all desire. A few years back, I infected with a bout of foolishness, plunged head-on into the murky waters of marriage, and that has proved to be my greatest uppance. My wife, beautiful and sweet as she is, is the devils angel. There is no peace with her. She is the bane of my very existence. I have lost count of the numbers of time I left the house while she was shouting at me. In her weak defence, she’s not the problem. The problem is neither her nor me. The problem is, two strange bedfellows said ‘I do’ for very wrong reasons. It has taken us a few years to notice this incompatibility, and as I don’t want to live the rest of my life with constant headaches, I’m sure she is tired of complaining about every inconsequential thing. Make I no go kill pesin pikin, or run mad. I done tire.
Let’s keep it short. We are getting a divorce, to the Glory of God.
So if you are a good lady, preferably in her thirties and sincerely want to build a happy and healthy home, please send me a mail at sparks0200@gmail.com, and then we can take it from there. No disrespectful materialistic cum slay unserious women, please. Thank you. No druggist nightclub trolls either, I’m sorry. Wherever you are in Nigeria. Preferably a woman who reads, and has that entrepreneur spirit, or at least is ready to build the business together. No sex before marriage. God knows I'm not looking for that. I do not philander; else, I would not be doing this. I do not have the time to do boyfriend and girlfriend. I kept no options, as it is not in my nature to have extramarital affairs. I need a woman to pray, grow and take on this world with. It’s a shot in the dark, perhaps I’ll meet a great woman.
Thank you for reading.

OP,

I dont want to be pessimistic. But i need to tell you this

Are you not about repeating your mistakes

You said you got married to a strange bed fellow. U are about doing the same again.

Going online, stating your intentions, and saying anywhere in Nigeria, seems to me to mean u will repeat your mistake

You can only get what u are looking for by being friends with someone first, someone close to you. In that way, you get to know the person, and see if your values are similar.

During that period of friendship, there should be no target of marriage. You are just friends. If after knowing each other very well, two of you are willing, you can then take it to the next level

The problem is that most Nigerian girls at the age range you mentioned are desperate to get married, and will play along to get the ring

So i suggest you say clearly to the person you have no plans to get married again. In that way, ordinary friendship will develop, and u get to know each other well