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Why Do Parents Like Blaming Their Children For Any Mistake...? by Kranediggy(m): 8:50pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
Why do parents prefer blame games? Rather than seeking solution to a problem or solving it instantly if possible, in the family; this is most especially when it involves their children. Nigerian parents are perfect at this, most times the fault could be their's but they'll keep blaming and focusing on the mistake rather than focusing on solutions. Let's talk. What do you think about this? 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: Why Do Parents Like Blaming Their Children For Any Mistake...? by DICKstractor: 9:00pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
That's how it is here. In Nigeria, parents are demigods. They can do no wrong and they are always right. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do Parents Like Blaming Their Children For Any Mistake...? by Kranediggy(m): 9:03pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
DICKstractor:Sadly bro, it sucks bro... 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Parents Like Blaming Their Children For Any Mistake...? by ecolime(m): 9:25pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
That's how most Nigerians and blacks are wired. We are gifted when it comes to buck passing. Parents blame their kids and the Kids blame their parents too when their lives turn out badly. Go to South Africa and Ghana, they are blaming Nigerians. In the US, U.K, France etc. our black brothers are blaming the whites. Na so Buhari/APC sef take blame Jonathan/PDP for good 5 years. The blame just recently shifted to Corona virus this 2020. GEJ can rest now. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Parents Like Blaming Their Children For Any Mistake...? by DICKstractor: 9:25pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
Kranediggy:That's the society we find ourselves in. Children are trained not to question the actions of their parents. They should just take whatever is thrown at them that's why Nigeria is filled with citizens that can't question the government and hold them accountable for their actions 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do Parents Like Blaming Their Children For Any Mistake...? by frozen70(f): 9:30pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
Apportioning blames are part of our system in this part of the World We blame each other for any failure from one side But I believe it is to make you a better person Our parents expect good deeds and conducts from us, so once there is any mistake, they will blame you and if their is success, they will use you to judge others They don't want to know that we are doing the same exam in the same subject but different question arrangement All they want is good result But the good thing is that, because of the fear of getting blamed, we put in more effort and get a better result 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Parents Like Blaming Their Children For Any Mistake...? by merieam16(f): 9:39pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
Its an african tin, so we just av to deal with it.Dont forget dat wen we are also in dat stage or position,consciously or unconsciously we will also start blaming our kids 4 some certain tinz. |
Re: Why Do Parents Like Blaming Their Children For Any Mistake...? by taiwosamwell(m): 9:47pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
Just like one Mom that her grown up daughter feel down while coming down the stairs at GTBank and she was just shouting 'what happened, can't you see' I was surprised it was I and other people that helped the lady pick her phone, bag and got her up. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Parents Like Blaming Their Children For Any Mistake...? by Kranediggy(m): 9:50pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
ecolime:They'll still blame satan join sef 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Parents Like Blaming Their Children For Any Mistake...? by Nobody: 3:26am On Aug 03, 2020 |
Kranediggy: It's so fucking pathetic..... When they make the same mistake, they won't shout at themselves.....they will only give excuse..... Alot of parents really need psychological check up and training ..... Any little thing they beat the child ....meanwhile it's easier to hold the child close and point out and teach the child the right thing 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Parents Like Blaming Their Children For Any Mistake...? by Nobody: 3:28am On Aug 03, 2020 |
DICKstractor: It's pathetic..... Well, I questioned everything..... I needed good reasons to do something and not because you're an elder that's why I should do it |
Re: Why Do Parents Like Blaming Their Children For Any Mistake...? by Nobody: 3:29am On Aug 03, 2020 |
merieam16: That's the essence of talking about it....so that we won't make the same mistakes ...... 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Parents Like Blaming Their Children For Any Mistake...? by Kranediggy(m): 5:15am On Aug 03, 2020 |
merieam16:Wow! 're you for real? |
Re: Why Do Parents Like Blaming Their Children For Any Mistake...? by Kranediggy(m): 5:19am On Aug 03, 2020 |
Xavfra:We need to better parenting this 21st century. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Parents Like Blaming Their Children For Any Mistake...? by Nobody: 7:12am On Aug 03, 2020 |
Kranediggy: Yeah..... Before a person becomes a parent, he or she must sign some undertaking and run some psychological test to ensure they don't abuse their children.... In no way does assault on the children help....it only makes the children more secretive and they hide more |
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