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frozen70:
That's her privacy and pls respect that aspect

I didn't mean to disrespect her.
I don't know why you guy's have decided to attack me.

Brandonx:
I didn't mean to disrespect her.
I don't know why you guy's have decided to attack me.

We feel its her privacy and if you hook up to her privately she can open up to you

Somethings are best kept within us due to the way the society places values on people

frozen70:
I think its too early for you to start searching for a husband at this age

Don't make it look as if you are desperate for marriage and that was what made you had your child

I will suggest you train yourself to be a strong woman with vision

Get something reasonable doing

Men will line up to get your approval if you upgrade your present status

You still have less than 7yrs to achieve success that will upgrade you to a better status

Calm down and set your goals going while the search continues in a seemless way

There is nothing wrong in her getting married even at 19.

A good marriage isn't a mutually exclusive event. She can get married tomorrow and still be the most powerful woman to ever step foot on earth.

AfroKnight:


Sorry it’s typographical error. I meant your humble self ma.

I give you one week to deflate that pot.belly or I will put you up for sale on Alibaba

CsRockefeller:
There is nothing wrong in her getting married even at 19.

A good marriage isn't a mutually exclusive event. She can get married tomorrow and still be the most powerful woman to ever step foot on earth.

Since you are not married, it will be a good idea to hook her up and you guys will be married at early twenties

By the time you get to 45yrs, you already have graduates

call or text me at your convenience with my digit below:

Faithfulnse don't allow anyone discourage you or make you feel bad at your decision.

See! I have seen this life to an extent to tell you that there is no rule. Yes, no rule.

We keep on getting miserable because we have been taught or subconsciously aligned to think life is has a particular straight road which everyone must follow to get to their destination.

I don't want to bore you with stories of people who took a different path not just with regards marriage but life generally and were success.

A Philosopher/Poet once wrote "two roads diverged into the woods, I took the one less taken/travelled and that has made all the difference"

Leave those who are following the band and don't know why they are on the wagon.

Know what you want from life, write it out,set it out on motion, ask the Lord to direct you, lead you.

Don't be scared, do not cower, God gives grace to all, including those who had a child at 18 and those who had at 38.

Life is not a one cap fits all. Goodluck.

Faithfulnse,
I will warn you like a sister. Online dating is very risky and NL dating is risky times 10. There are many psychos here. Please be very careful. It would be much better to ask your family and friends to introduce you to potential suitors.

CsRockefeller:
Faithfulnse don't allow anyone discourage you or make you feel bad at your decision.

See! I have seen this life to an extent to tell you that there is no rule. Yes, no rule.

We keep on getting miserable because we have been taught or subconsciously aligned to think life is has a particular straight road which everyone must follow to get to their destination.

I don't want to bore you with stories of people who took a different path not just with regards marriage but life generally and were success.

A Philosopher/Poet once wrote "two roads diverged into the woods, I took the one less taken/travelled and that has made all the difference"

Leave those who are following the band and don't know why they are on the wagon.

Know what you want from life, write it out,set it out on motion, ask the Lord to direct you, lead you.

Don't be scared, do not cower, God gives grace to all, including those who had a child at 18 and those who had at 38.

Life is not a one cap fits all. Goodluck.

Very very true and very very nicely written. I love love love this!

CsRockefeller:
I think I'm interested but how about your schooling and education?

Is Your child a male or female?

Lol. Ask her if she can cook stew for you o. As you say your wife suppose sabi pass you.

Hathor5:
Faithfulnse,
I will warn you like a sister. Online dating is very risky and NL dating is risky times 10. There are many psychos here. Please be very careful. It would be much better to ask your family and friends to introduce you to potential suitors.

What if she is the psycho?

CsRockefeller:
There is nothing wrong in her getting married even at 19.

A good marriage isn't a mutually exclusive event. She can get married tomorrow and still be the most powerful woman to ever step foot on earth.

I agree with this. Some people are very pro marriage and want it ASAP. While we can advise them to get some bit of stability first, we really can’t say it is such a bad thing to do.

CsRockefeller:
Faithfulnse don't allow anyone discourage you or make you feel bad at your decision.

See! I have seen this life to an extent to tell you that there is no rule. Yes, no rule.

We keep on getting miserable because we have been taught or subconsciously aligned to think life is has a particular straight road which everyone must follow to get to their destination.

I don't want to bore you with stories of people who took a different path not just with regards marriage but life generally and were success.

A Philosopher/Poet once wrote "two roads diverged into the woods, I took the one less taken/travelled and that has made all the difference"

Leave those who are following the band and don't know why they are on the wagon.

Know what you want from life, write it out,set it out on motion, ask the Lord to direct you, lead you.

Don't be scared, do not cower, God gives grace to all, including those who had a child at 18 and those who had at 38.

Life is not a one cap fits all. Goodluck.

Actually there are rules. In spite of the seeming chaos, there is an exactitude to life. There is a divine pattern that can be followed to get predictable results. Most people are just in the dark and stumble through life.
Believe me there are people who have the keys and play life like chess.

pocohantas:
What if she is the psycho?

In this case, I have a husband for her. In fact, I have several potential husbands for her. I have met them here. They are psycho-proved.

Hathor5:
In this case, I have a husband for her. In fact, I have several potential husbands for her. I have met them here. They are psycho-proved.

My hand no dey for that one o. I think the best way is actually to blend in and observe. I can imagine her getting tonnes of PMs and answering multiple interview questions before she starts shortlisting. Pretty stressful, physically and emotionally.

pocohantas:
My hand no dey for that one o. I think the best way is actually to blend in and observe. I can imagine her getting tonnes of PMs and answering multiple interview questions before she starts shortlisting. Pretty stressful, physically and emotionally.

Maybe she is willing to make the effort to find love.

I just don't want her to have her pictures and chat convos splattered all over NL.

pocohantas:
My hand no dey for that one o. I think the best way is actually to blend in and observe. I can imagine her getting tonnes of PMs and answering multiple interview questions before she starts shortlisting. Pretty stressful, physically and emotionally.

What I find funny in all of this, are the Attroneys General fighting for her privacy, like say even if she release information offline they can't get here. Lol No be Nls?


I dey observe.

Hathor5:
Maybe she is willing to make the effort to find love. I just don't want her to have her pictures and chat convos splattered all over NL.

Lol. Hopefully she doesn’t meet them pyschos. Even if she does, she is just another alternate and such act wouldn’t make good headline.

You're wasting your time.

Why are you looking for a husband at 21 yrs? You are young. Don't let your single motherhood pressure you into thinking that you won't find a man later on. At this instance, you might end up with a person with negative intentions. Wait for God's time or at least wait till you are much older and wiser so that you don't become a mother to a child with abnormal father.

Palema007:
What I find funny in all of this, are the General Attroneys fighting for her privacy, like say even if she release information offline they can't get here. Lol No be Nls? I dey observe.

That is why I said her best bet is to observe. There is always the good and bad in every, NL is not an exception. Let’s not even act like its only her privacy at risk. Na two way thing.

pocohantas:
That is why I said her best bet is to observe. There is always the good and bad in every, NL is not an exception. Let’s not even act like its only her privacy at risk. Na two way thing.

You are right about that. She/He could be the Hunter.

frozen70:
I think its too early for you to start searching for a husband at this age

Don't make it look as if you are desperate for marriage and that was what made you had your child

I will suggest you train yourself to be a strong woman with vision

Get something reasonable doing

Men will line up to get your approval if you upgrade your present status

You still have less than 7yrs to achieve success that will upgrade you to a better status

Calm down and set your goals going while the search continues in a seemless way

I know all these,you don't know my reasons for wanting to settle down. Thank you regardless.❤

Faithfulnse:
I know all these,you don't know my reasons for wanting to settle down. Thank you regardless.❤

I wish you good luck

Nice input CsRockefeller

CsRockefeller:
Faithfulnse don't allow anyone discourage you or make you feel bad at your decision.

See! I have seen this life to an extent to tell you that there is no rule. Yes, no rule.

We keep on getting miserable because we have been taught or subconsciously aligned to think life is has a particular straight road which everyone must follow to get to their destination.

I don't want to bore you with stories of people who took a different path not just with regards marriage but life generally and were success.

A Philosopher/Poet once wrote "two roads diverged into the woods, I took the one less taken/travelled and that has made all the difference"

Leave those who are following the band and don't know why they are on the wagon.

Know what you want from life, write it out,set it out on motion, ask the Lord to direct you, lead you.

Don't be scared, do not cower, God gives grace to all, including those who had a child at 18 and those who had at 38.

Life is not a one cap fits all. Goodluck.

Thank you so much. I'm not desperate for a husband. I just want to get married and bear my kids early enough. I have one kid rn. I just want to get married because of this urge to have more kids. At 30. I want to rest and continue my baby girl lifestyle. Its not too early to find the LOML. I'm 21 but I don't act 21. I can cook and I'm very homely and reserved. Please let me do me. Thanks for this. I'm happy someone is seeing from my own perspective.

@Op wish you the best. Please don't entertain guys with long story o. Shine your eyes if he has nothing going for him, don't let him waste your time.

Blissquare:
Why are you looking for a husband at 21 yrs? You are young. Don't let your single motherhood pressure you into thinking that you won't find a man later on. At this instance, you might end up with a person with negative intentions. Wait for God's time or at least wait till you are much older and wiser so that you don't become a mother to a child with abnormal father.

Nothing is pressuring me. I meet guys daily but I just want to be plain about my intentions on here. I know what I want and it's a husband. Everything must not be negative. I won't meet anyone with negative intentions. Is there any age that comes with wisdom? What if this is God's time?

Palema007:
I give you one week to deflate that pot.belly or I will put you up for sale on Alibaba

Lol. Abeg, I need extension o. One of my padi wan host me to small get together. We go chop meat and drink small beer. Bear with me abeg. I will repent immediately after.

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Hathor5:
Faithfulnse,
I will warn you like a sister. Online dating is very risky and NL dating is risky times 10. There are many psychos here. Please be very careful. It would be much better to ask your family and friends to introduce you to potential suitors.

Thank you,I'll be careful.

frozen70:
I think its too early for you to start searching for a husband at this age

Don't make it look as if you are desperate for marriage and that was what made you had your child

I will suggest you train yourself to be a strong woman with vision

Get something reasonable doing

Men will line up to get your approval if you upgrade your present status

You still have less than 7yrs to achieve success that will upgrade you to a better status

Calm down and set your goals going while the search continues in a seemless way

7years? Really? People's decisions are never respected. Now everyone thinks I'm pressured or influenced. Maybe I'm high on something. I still need a husband. Thanks regardless❤

Palema007:
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Take it easy. Na just ordinary view I dey view.

Martinez39s:
Take it easy. Na just ordinary view I dey view.

I no kuku mention name. But it's like you like The Monk compared to Nairaland Alpha Male Lawyer I gave you yesterday.

The Monk! See as you quickly claim it. . Monk!