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Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by Tygrathris(m): 5:56pm On Aug 25, 2020
I winder how a grow man can be forced to get married. Are you a man or are you a child? Marriage is a very important part of life and you canot just let your parents make the decison for you unless you deserve it because you may have got some girl pregnat. If that is the case then get married or else stand up like a man.
Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by Alimzy20(m): 11:04pm On Aug 25, 2020
Tygrathris:
I wonder how a grow man can be forced to get married. Are you a man or are you a child? Marriage is a very important part of life and you canot just let your parents make the decison for you unless you deserve it because you may have got some girl pregnat. If that is the case then get married or else stand up like a man.
Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by Nelly4you: 10:08pm On Aug 27, 2020
hmm nah so.. u marry nag
Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by Olarewaju89: 10:08pm On Aug 27, 2020
I can smile lie here undecided

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Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by Luxurydriverng: 10:09pm On Aug 27, 2020
Alimzy20:
Good evening my fellow nairalanders i need your strong advices.my parents are forcing me to get married !! I'm just 21.I've tried all possible ways to change their mind. it ended in vain.

I'm not in relationship either. What should i do now? I'm still schooling and unemployed too..

Guy just play def ear
Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by victorogundepo0(m): 10:09pm On Aug 27, 2020
Are you a man or a child ?
Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by baby124: 10:09pm On Aug 27, 2020
Try and find a small job that can pay rent so you can leave their house. Leeches can only leech when their hosts allow it.

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Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by Dagger79(m): 10:09pm On Aug 27, 2020
Ogbeni why the lies now undecided undecided

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Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by Nobody: 10:10pm On Aug 27, 2020
Chii59:

Are you their only child? Even at 21, you're still so young. Stand your ground, even if you give person pikin belle, you're too young to be straddled in marriage, though, you should man up and care for your child.
If you were my younger brother, I'll never let you get married at this age.
wink
Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by millionboi2: 10:10pm On Aug 27, 2020
Alimzy20:
Good evening my fellow nairalanders i need your strong advices.my parents are forcing me to get married !! I'm just 21.I've tried all possible ways to change their mind. it ended in vain.

I'm not in relationship either. What should i do now? I'm still schooling and unemployed too..
u don't need money to get married but u may need it to sustain d marriage.

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Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by UDUJ(m): 10:10pm On Aug 27, 2020
Alimzy20:
Good evening my fellow nairalanders i need your strong advices.my parents are forcing me to get married !! I'm just 21.I've tried all possible ways to change their mind. it ended in vain.

I'm not in relationship either. What should i do now? I'm still schooling and unemployed too..

Apologies if I sound harsh but your parents don't mean well for you. At 21 you are still too immature to take on the challenges of married life. This is rubbish.

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Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by inumidun2010(m): 10:12pm On Aug 27, 2020
Better go and ask them why.. Maybe they have been told by all these CONFUSED SPIRITUALISTS that you won't live long...

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Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by merits(m): 10:12pm On Aug 27, 2020
Brother calm down marriage is a blessing,is the will of God and is for your own good.


NB: nobody can never be financially stable, even though bill gate dangote and otedola etc with their billions they are still looking for more money.so therefore just wed and put everything in the hand of God and see wonders in your life.

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Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by UDUJ(m): 10:13pm On Aug 27, 2020
Dagger79:
Ogbeni why the lies now undecided undecided

I think the op is telling lies. I doubt parents can be that irresponsible. I just cannot comprehend it.

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Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by mkpologwu(m): 10:13pm On Aug 27, 2020
You can as well force them to unborn you....
Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by Uzomacharles: 10:14pm On Aug 27, 2020
Looks like something is wrong somewhere or they are afraid of loosing you...
I'm also the only son of my parents with two sister and I'm the eldest....
Sometimes my mum talks about that but she's not taking it serious just fun...
Think Well(Family Issues?)
Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by Ken26(m): 10:15pm On Aug 27, 2020
I guess ur d only son
Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by jericco1(m): 10:15pm On Aug 27, 2020
Sorry oh but it is inane though, seems they want an heir to their numerous inheritance cool

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Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by Kennitrust(m): 10:15pm On Aug 27, 2020
Getting married early is not bad at all.

If your parents want it that way, they must have been prepared for it . so go for it.

You
Can
Create
The
Relationship.

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Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by Nobody: 10:16pm On Aug 27, 2020
1beat:

if you are not SS & if you're not cult member

clear them you're not ready for marriage but if you're one of this above guy listen to them they might hv see far
Even if he's SS and so?
I'm SS and older than he is and unmarried.
I know much more older men who are SS and are either married or single.
Na God dey preserve life.

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Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by jamalnation(m): 10:17pm On Aug 27, 2020
No mind them
Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by ipobarethieves: 10:17pm On Aug 27, 2020
sad
Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by DNA4ALL(m): 10:18pm On Aug 27, 2020
Are they literate or otherwise?
Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by Arizonaz: 10:18pm On Aug 27, 2020
Marriage ke.. na so easy.. everyone with their priorities sha. I don't follow the trend of this world when I don't know how I came into existence. As a man before you start thinking about marriage you must have a steady stream of income. If not, na long thing you enter.

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Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by hassymo5(m): 10:19pm On Aug 27, 2020
Obey ur parents so that ur days may be long.


But on this case even God will support you if you go against them...

AFRICAN Parents wetin now..

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Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by jumper524(m): 10:19pm On Aug 27, 2020
Alimzy20:
Good evening my fellow nairalanders i need your strong advices.my parents are forcing me to get married !! I'm just 21.I've tried all possible ways to change their mind. it ended in vain.

I'm not in relationship either. What should i do now? I'm still schooling and unemployed too..
my guy your associating with them that's why they keep pressuring you.
assimilate with them and see changes.
while its important to respect your parents, its also important for them to respect your opinion..
Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by Ghostmode2two(m): 10:19pm On Aug 27, 2020
Are you their only child? Are your parents doing okay? If not the only child why are they forcing or putting undue pressure to get married?
Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by humilitypays(m): 10:21pm On Aug 27, 2020
When Nigerian parents should even be telling their sons to stop getting married or making babies until Nigeria is fixed, wonderful shocked

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Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by merieam16(f): 10:21pm On Aug 27, 2020
Guess ure d only son and I tink dey just want a child frm u nw nt necessarily mean marriage.So do d needful dey will deffinately help u take care of d child

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