Guys, what could happen if you tell a Nigerian girl she will foot her own bills on the first date?

Please tell us your experience, if you have witnessed such.

Lol...are you trying to start a NL riot?!

Nigerian women don't pay for food and/or transport..they want us to think like in the old days when it comes to food and transport, but treated as 21st century babe for anything else.
Asking her to pay for food will.make her refuse to let you in her honeypot (yes, many sell their toto to men upon how much you spend on them) and/or will quickly try to shame you by calling you STINGY, lol!

Thus they believe A) if you guys are dating then going out means automatically going to an eatery, B) if you guys eat, YOU must always pay, C) if you want her to come to your house (and possibly have the pleasure of her presence) you MUST pay for transport.... and sadly, D) the belief that you may taste her sweet honeypot (that she is dangling like a carrot on a stick) will make many deluded men pay for transport/food.

You don't need to go to any place where you need to spend money, on the 1st date... just ask her to eat at home before you guys meet. Et voilà!

make I hear!

daviddext:
Guys, what could happen if you tell a Nigerian girl she will foot her own bills on the first date?

Please tell us your experience, if you have witnessed such.

If guys do this, I mean ask ladies to pay for their transport and bills, seriously no one will put a gun to their heads. But These guys will rather pay up, create the "big man" image, try to satisfy the women but will come online to wail and cry. No one is forcing them to do more than they can, but trust the guys who needs validation from women to do more than they are capable of then cry in silent in their rooms and openly on anonymous forums.

That said, ladies don't ask Men out, it hardly ever happen. So if guys want ladies to pay bills on first date, then they should wait till ladies ask them out and wish to spend time with them. Very simple!

Op no not again we've already settled this In the morning

Interested? Pay up, they belong to the streets. Even reasonable ones will bill you if you be mugu.

Palema007:
If guys do this, I mean ask ladies to pay for their transport and bills, seriously no one will put a gun to their heads. But These guys will rather pay up, create the "big man" image, try to satisfy the women but will come online to wail and cry. No one is forcing them to do more than they can, but trust the guys who needs validation from women to do more than they are capable of then cry in silent in their rooms and openly on anonymous forums.

That said, ladies don't ask Men out, it hardly ever happen. So if guys want ladies to pay bills on first date, then they should wait till ladies ask them out and wish to spend time with them. Very simple!

Ladies have asked me out before, but somehow, I would end up paying for the dates.

Nigerian ladies no get shame. Now, me too I no come get shame again. Shameless jam shameless.

We move!

daviddext:
Guys, what could happen if you tell a Nigerian girl she will foot her own bills on the first date?

Please tell us your experience, if you have witnessed such.

Depending on the host. Never had a date

Palema007:
If guys do this, I mean ask ladies to pay for their transport and bills, seriously no one will put a gun to their heads. But These guys will rather pay up, create the "big man" image, try to satisfy the women but will come online to wail and cry. No one is forcing them to do more than they can, but trust the guys who needs validation from women to do more than they are capable of then cry in silent in their rooms and openly on anonymous forums.

That said, ladies don't ask Men out, it hardly ever happen. So if guys want ladies to pay bills on first date, then they should wait till ladies ask them out and wish to spend time with them. Very simple!

1st paragraph is you tryin to be sensible
2nd paragraph is the nigerian girl curse in u finally showing itself no matter how hard u tried to cover it

Hungry leeches

MrBrownJay1:
Lol...are trying to start a NL riot?!

Nigerian women don't pay for food and/or transport..they want us to think like in the old days when it comes to food and transport, but treated as 21st century babe for anything else.
Asking her to pay for food will.make her refuse to let you in her honeypot (yes, many sell their toto to men upon how much you spend on them) and/or will quickly try to shame you by calling you STINGY, lol!

Thus they believe A) if you guys are dating then going out means automatically going to an eatery, B) if you guys eat, YOU must always pay, C) if you want her to come to your house (and possibly have the pleasure of her presence) you MUST pay for transport.... and sadly, D) the belief that you may taste her sweet honeypot (that she is dangling like a carrot on a stick) will make many deluded men pay for transport/food.

You don't need to go to any place where you need to spend money, on the 1st date... just ask her to eat at home before you guys meet. Et voilà!

Why so evul

Palema007:
If guys do this, I mean ask ladies to pay for their transport and bills, seriously no one will put a gun to their heads. But These guys will rather pay up, create the "big man" image, try to satisfy the women but will come online to wail and cry. No one is forcing them to do more than they can, but trust the guys who needs validation from women to do more than they are capable of then cry in silent in their rooms and openly on anonymous forums.

That said, ladies don't ask Men out, it hardly ever happen. So if guys want ladies to pay bills on first date, then they should wait till ladies ask them out and wish to spend time with them. Very simple!

I think I agree with them because of your second paragraph. Its a "Nigerian" or "African" mentality. In most European countries where the culture of 'dating' started, whenever someone (even a friend or neighbour) invites you for coffee or dinner, they expect you to pay for portion or at least try to. They'll invite you to celebrate their own birthday party with them and you'll end-up paying for your meals. Our cultures are entirely different. Its not fair to retain just the part of a culture that favours you and disregard the rest (because of 21st century "wokeness".

Palema007:
If guys do this, I mean ask ladies to pay for their transport and bills, seriously no one will put a gun to their heads. But These guys will rather pay up, create the "big man" image, try to satisfy the women but will come online to wail and cry. No one is forcing them to do more than they can, but trust the guys who needs validation from women to do more than they are capable of then cry in silent in their rooms and openly on anonymous forums.

That said, ladies don't ask Men out, it hardly ever happen. So if guys want ladies to pay bills on first date, then they should wait till ladies ask them out and wish to spend time with them. Very simple!

Whenever some ladies try to reason logically they always ended it with their emotion not their brain.

Imagine @ the bolded awon Jazebel parading in human form, I knw she will ended it with trash nd she didnt disappoint me...

Once I ask a girl out on a first date I try to get to the venue (very expensive one), order my food and start eating for her to come in. She will watch me eat until maybe she summon courage to ask me where's her food jokingly. I will just say you can meet the guys on the counter. It's now left for her to either ask for my debit card or use hers while I enjoy my food.

several girls I have met pay for there transport while visiting me at my place, any babe that is really into you will break rules just to get your attention, girls only make rules for guys that they are not into..

and as for going out. on the first date with babe is always at my place whatever I can afford to cook is final, no time to impress .. after reaching promise land and she paying her due then I can reciprocate..

TOMSY:
I think I agree with them because of your second paragraph. Its a "Nigerian" or "African" mentality. In most European countries where the culture of 'dating' started, whenever someone (even a friend or neighbour) invites you for coffee or dinner, they expect you to pay for portion or at least try to. They'll invite you to celebrate their own birthday party with them and you'll end-up paying for your meals. Our cultures are entirely different. Its not fair to retain just the part of a culture that favours you and disregard the rest (because of 21st century "wokeness".

Lol... Here with the rate at which guys ask ladies out, I believe it is only fair for whoever initiate the "First date" take responsibility. So I repeat if guys want ladies to pay for "First date" they should wait until ladies initiate it. Very simple!

Unless she's not the one proposing the date or else it'd be foolish to ask a guy out and expect him to foot the bills. What is good for the goose is good for uganda. Take responsibility

MrBrownJay1:
Lol...are you trying to start a NL riot?!

Nigerian women don't pay for food and/or transport..they want us to think like in the old days when it comes to food and transport, but treated as 21st century babe for anything else.
Asking her to pay for food will.make her refuse to let you in her honeypot (yes, many sell their toto to men upon how much you spend on them) and/or will quickly try to shame you by calling you STINGY, lol!

Thus they believe A) if you guys are dating then going out means automatically going to an eatery, B) if you guys eat, YOU must always pay, C) if you want her to come to your house (and possibly have the pleasure of her presence) you MUST pay for transport.... and sadly, D) the belief that you may taste her sweet honeypot (that she is dangling like a carrot on a stick) will make many deluded men pay for transport/food.

You don't need to go to any place where you need to spend money, on the 1st date... just ask her to eat at home before you guys meet. Et voilà!

must they even go to eatery? she could prepare along some foodstuff and come along wit it and both she and they guy could go to a nice place and have a picnic.I dont know why picnic is an alien thing amongst nigerians.everything must be mister biggs or chicken republic.over here u can invite a girl over and both go for picnic.she could bring along some food or u prepare some and u both go for some nice picnic besides the sea or around the gardens around here.

daviddext:
Guys, what could happen if you tell a Nigerian girl she will foot her own bills on the first date?

Please tell us your experience, if you have witnessed such.

if the guy is desperate to stick it inside her i pray say he would insist she pay for her transport .When a lady knows u damm desperate then she knows she"s the boss and can manipulate u at her whim

Blackmoran:
several girls I have met pay for there transport while visiting me at my place, any babe that is really into you will break rules just to get your attention, girls only make rules for guys that they are not into..

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gbam! gbam! gbam! gbam!
plenty oil dey ur head

daviddext:
Guys, what could happen if you tell a Nigerian girl she will foot her own bills on the first date?

Please tell us your experience, if you have witnessed such.

Let's go on a date and watch me pay for everything..
it makes me proud and happy.

Preshieben:

Let's go on a date and watch me pay for everything..
it makes me proud and happy.

Okay

lefulefu:
must they even go to eatery? she could prepare along some foodstuff and come along wit it and both she and they guy could go to a nice place and have a picnic.I dont know why picnic is an alien thing amongst nigerians.everything must be mister biggs or chicken republic.over here u can invite a girl over and both go for picnic.she could bring along some food or u prepare some and u both go for some nice picnic besides the sea or around the gardens around here.

How are they gonna trade their totos (aka you pay for food and can enjoy the toto) if they now have to prepare or pay for the meal during the date?!

Foot her bills or foot the bills for both of you?

There's nothing wrong with that but I'm sure most ladies will see the guy as a stingy person

While I was single, I went on a first date with a guy. After ordering for our snacks, he was dipping his heart in his pocket to pay but I paid instead, heaven did not fall. I still paid my way back.

However, if he told me beforehand that I will foot the bills, maybe I would have felt somehow but I would have still accepted as far as I have the money that can cover the bills.

It's absurd for a girl to leave her house to go on a date without carrying her own money, what if things go south?

ggirl4real:
Foot her bills or foot the bills for both of you?

There's nothing wrong with that but I'm sure most ladies will see the guy as a stingy person

While I was single, I went on a first date with a guy. After ordering for our snacks, he was dipping his heart in his pocket to pay but I paid instead, heaven did not fall. I still paid my way back.

However, if he told me beforehand that I will foot the bills, maybe I would have felt somehow but I would have still accepted as far as I have the money that can cover the bills.

It's absurd for a girl to leave her house to go on a date without carrying her own money, what if things go south?

You may be the last of your kind in Nigeria
Are you single??

daviddext:
Guys, what could happen if you tell a Nigerian girl she will foot her own bills on the first date?

Please tell us your experience, if you have witnessed such.

Dates are mostly reserved for men that women don't like deeply. They are reserved for men that would provide money, free food, vacations and other bills.

ggirl4real:
Foot her bills or foot the bills for both of you?

There's nothing wrong with that but I'm sure most ladies will see the guy as a stingy person

While I was single, I went on a first date with a guy. After ordering for our snacks, he was dipping his heart in his pocket to pay but I paid instead, heaven did not fall. I still paid my way back.

However, if he told me beforehand that I will foot the bills, maybe I would have felt somehow but I would have still accepted as far as I have the money that can cover the bills.

It's absurd for a girl to leave her house to go on a date without carrying her own money, what if things go south?

Normally a man does not have to say it in advance because most SANE women will know the script... and it's a very simple script:
You both go out to have some dinner, each eat what they CAN AFFORD. when the check comes, you "both" reach for your wallet to pay your own share, and if you had a great time, the man or the woman will offer to pay the whole bill. If you DIDNT have a great time, then you will indeed pay your share while you let the other person pay theirs.when paying for the meal becomes a "requirement" for dating, then the whole dating experience is flawed.

Actually these things has a lot to do with age. I don't ask any Nigerian girl out unless they're above 26. At that age, they're just very tired of the entire heartbreaks and disappointments and wants to "settle down". One actually said from all her experience, she has concluded that all men from a particular tribe which I won't mention are not serious. I asked her out, very pretty lady, it was easy, I got to her location, she hopped in and we went to a restaurant. Being the good woman she has become over time who just wants to settle down, she asked for malt drink only.

I requested for fish peppersoup, a bottle of hero and water. Then I felt maybe she's regretting her choice or something, we talked while I enjoyed my treat and then it's time to go. I took all the bills and when we got to the parking lot, she said she would just watch my back as I reverse and she can trek to her junction, she will be okay. I said nope, I have a reverse camera here and I will take her back to where I picked her up. U see, no stress.

I'm certain if to say na these small girls, haba na problem oo. She will even request for take away to some gluttons at home.

Unfortunately for this one sha, I am not that prince charming, and she's just about to get played once more.

proclinician:
Actually these things has a lot to do with age. I don't ask any Nigerian girl out unless they're above 26. At that age, they're just very tired of the entire heartbreaks and disappointments and wants to "settle down". One actually said from all her experience, she has concluded that all men from a particular tribe which I won't mention are not serious. I asked her out, very pretty lady, it was easy, I got to her location, she hopped in and we went to a restaurant. Being the good woman she has become over time who just wants to settle down, she asked for malt drink only.

So what you are saying is that, due to your own insecurities, you only want leftover women?!?!?!