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[color=deeppink]There is a story of a young man who used to maltreat his siblings. They were raised by a single mother and the father was deceased. Older brother was a decade older than his younger brother and sister. Their older brother would call them names like “bastard”, “slowpoke”. He would hit them for every little reason.

Even after they grew up, he told their mother to kick them out of her house. What could bring such hatred for his siblings?[/color]

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]There is a story of a young man who used to maltreat his siblings. They were raised by a single mother and the father was deceased. Older brother was a decade older than his younger brother and sister. Their older brother would call them names like “bastard”, “slowpoke”. He would hit them for every little reason.

Even after they grew up, he told their mother to kick them out of her house. What could bring such hatred for his siblings?[/color]

you really need to let go of those memories

olamide0147:
you really need to let go of those memories

[color=deeppink]I cannot let go.[/color]

lolz! This one is serious o! Closure is needed. Let the hurt one explain to the siblings how what they did hurt and if they don't apologize. free them. Also how are we sure it's not the person that claims to be hurt that did the siblings wrong or lived a bad life, hence he provoked them to insult him. I have a younger brother that keeps misbehaving, and I have told him I will get him locked up one day especially if I catch him disrespecting our mother beyond acceptable ever again.

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]I cannot let go.[/color]

pls can we chat on whatsapp, so we can talk better...09034601088

insecurity is one

baralatie:
insecurity is one

this is not matter of insecurity, child bully or child abuse memories ain't easy to get rid off, several years after such experience the memories still comes fresh but one has to learn to let it go if not it could damage or destroy the child's future and makes it hard to love and trust opposite gender

some people here don't care to listen or understand people who make angry post or makes complaints posts, it not easy for them it takes lots of courages for her to makes several posts, she's been bullied as a child and that has be much effective in her and all she needs now is love and someone to listen to her, she's not doing all this for attention. I've gone through many of her posts and I can say she's a nice lady but victim of child bully.

olamide0147:
this is not matter of insecurity, child bully or child abuse memories ain't easy to get rid off, several years after such experience the memories still comes fresh but one has to learn to let it go if not it could damage or destroy the child's future and makes it hard to love and trust opposite gender

I am not even talking about the abused.
all bullies suffer from insecurities that is their weakness.on their inside they are scared shit

olamide0147:
some people here don't care to listen or understand people who make angry post or makes complaints posts, it not easy for them it takes lots of courages for her to makes several posts, she's been bullied as a child and that has be much effective in her and all she needs now is love and someone to listen to her, she's not doing all this for attention. I've gone through many of her posts and I can say she's a nice lady but victim of child bully.

what the abused child is to break the mental shackles of the memories.not easy but it is very possible

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]There is a story of a young man who used to maltreat his siblings. They were raised by a single mother and the father was deceased. Older brother was a decade older than his younger brother and sister. Their older brother would call them names like “bastard”, “slowpoke”. He would hit them for every little reason.

Even after they grew up, he told their mother to kick them out of her house. What could bring such hatred for his siblings?[/color]

You need to see a psychiatrist if you don't want to hit the streets soon.