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The troll had to involve names just to make a needless point.
Why disturb my mentions?

Sehindemi:
She's probably lost her phone.

Collegenews:
Maman no news still.
Like Demi said, I think she lost her phone.
We can only keep hoping she's fine.

Hopefully.

lirusehn:
Lmao, No stress bro.
I full ground.
Stay safe.


Correct!

Boss!
Shey make I burn that level up ni? E be like say you don forget o. You remember the safe talk?

lirusehn:
Stalker as in?
Who's she stalking? You?

That smallie is freaking stalking me.

xcemidasett:
your talk about endsars shit is still proof that you don't know who I am. I have never made any endsars comment here. That's okay shaa you can mistake me for someone else. That persons problem.
That post was not targeted to you, it was targeted for collegenews. The fact that you are mentioning the money he has given women just proves how desperate you are to defend him. Lovely.
The fact that you still went ahead to describe women as 'worthy' and 'farmtool' proves that you are no better. Just more subtle. A worthy woman, to you idiots, is a virgin who has never been touched by any man before, and I can assure you that hateful creep CN only started saying that because of May and liru. You can notice how jealous he is of lieu and how he wants to be like the man. He cant have May so he wants a woman like May, thereby meaning any woman who has been touched by another man is a toilet and not worthy of his misogynistic love. You can tell his wealth has bleeped with his head and he thinks the world is his foot stool. He calls ladies all sorts of despicable names and even though there are women who do dishonorable things, are men not also guilty of the same evil acts? Oh, it's okay when it's a man. The world is theirs.
I don't even care. It's his opinion and this is my own opinion and I must air it.
Who the fucck are you to categorize women as worthy and unworthy? Who gave you the right, because of money that you have that we have never seen before okwia? Tell him to come online. I have you people time.

Hi.
Please allow me to contribute to this.
I do not give a Bleep about CN until recently, you just have to like him for who he is. I have been following this thread since the beginning of it all. Even when CN and others haven't come at all so I know enough to conclude. If your basis for calling CN a misogynist is because of his posts in his diary then you are very wrong. Wrong because 1) His diary is strictly his opinion and you can always ignore if it doesn't go well with you rather than dragging him 2) He was very misogynistic but on this thread not in his diary, nothing about his diary even shows he is that. Immediately you talked about Liru and May and said he decided to come up with virginity as a measure of his standard then I know you have been following this thread for a very long time. CN used to be a very misogynistic, a pathetic woman-hating arsehole and he has been countered many times here. Mzra has dragged him, I even read the various times he dragged him recently when Drfariu started quoting posts from way back. Queen, Liru have countered him too until they talked about ladies dating men because of their money and they dragged May into it. That Maami made one very beautiful contribution that day that I even decided to keep the screenshots in my phone even Mzrapp had to share the contribution in her diary too. She addressed everything from the beginning and I think she successfully stopped CN from airing his misogynistic inclinations because ever since then, they stopped having discussions that could spark up woman-hating arguments and CN at least changed for better too. In those days, I used to hate CN too because honestly he did come off as a very pathetic and arrogant misogynist which he is still arrogant by the way.
Now these are what I think about him.
He is an old single guy already over due for marriage. It is normal if he gets too worked up over his inability to find a wife yet. Regardless of how unbothered he wants to make himself look, the truth remains that a part of him his deeply frustrated and embittered because of the unavailability of his choice of woman.
Secondly, he is a very wealthy guy. You and I know that for a fact. EG said something one time in his diary which even made me accept this CN guy. He said street brothers to him would only have to lie to girls that they are his brothers, and that was enough reason to win them over. If what EG said is true coupled with some other things he went on to say. Then you should not even blame CN. His wealth has attracted fake lovers and this is the reason he finds it very hard to not just pick some random girls. If you are truly a lady, you should know how desperate most of us are to end up with a rich man that can put and end to our financial woes now imagine how many persons would be running after him. It is a known fact that when a man is rich he automatically has a lot of girls dying after him. You should rather address the girls who are selling themselves short rather than coming after a man trying to find a wife. In fact I will be plain with you, I have a some friends I do gist about this guy CN and even May and Liru and almost everyone on this thread, because to be sincere me I like the people here. You people are all doing well individually and you all still hang around here to laugh and celebrate each other. I won't lie, especially as you all accepted EG and restore his lost hopes not to talk of the number of souls May has put a smile on their various faces. She is the main reason I am following this thread. Now back to our discussion, I stalk CN a lot and yesterday while gisting my friends about May's last update. I talked about CN's readiness to give her 500k and instantly, they said they would come and join Nairaland so that they can find their ways into his life. I am not even lying because I have the same thoughts too. In fact, yesterday when he was talking to one person in diary section and he dropped a number, I copied the number and called the number only for one hausa guy to pick it. I didn't know he was only joking, that is to tell you how desperate I am to know him more. I am not saying everyone is desperate to lust after him but I will be sincere enough to let you know I do and my friends do. Do I know him apart from reading his posts on Nairaland? Now how about people that know him in reality? How many of such fake love do you think he would be gaining on a steady? Your denial of this point means you are not being truthful.
Then again, like May once said, whatever it is CN may have said or would say, they are all out of his personal experience and you can't fight him to change that. His encounter is what you should pray change. Since you didn't know and you haven't felt what he has felt, you can't question his life perspective. He addresses the ladies in his life in a way you do not like but yet, he has managed to appreciate Lady B and now Pinky, that shows he is only interested in women that he sees qualities in. At least he hasn't categorically said he likes Pinky because she is a virgin, he instead only slightly talked about how he met her when she was returning from evangelism and even after she connected back to her years later, she is 29 and just lost a job but she is still positive about life. Maybe you didn't notice but to be sincere with you, when I read that updte to my friends they all appreciated the reasons he loves the Pinky lady. It goes beyond virginity. The major issue is just that, CN himself is a pathetic playboy that is not supposed to put any lady on high pedestal. But that is what the community has turned us into and that is what most ladies have made happen. It has nothing to do with being misogynistic. I enjoy reading his diary a lot, he makes a lot of sense and he is very blunt with saying the truth. This doesn't mean all he has said or will say are true or correct. He is human and prone to imperfection.
Then about Egoat, don't even involve that guy.
I love everything about him myself and it's obvious everyone here loves him. No post of his has shown he is towing the path of misogynism. You only think he is because he defends CN and the people here steadily, this is a man who has been blessed by all the people here, do you expect him to turn his back on them and attack them for you? It will never happen right or wrong. Even you will never do that. So please let that guy be. Besides, he once addressed CN here over the issue of Lady B's lack of education. He gave his voice even though it contradicted CN's stand on it and CN and everyone was forced to appreciate him for his meaningful contribution, this means if necessity demands he shares a counter opinion he will. He has only learnt to know when to or not to which is expected of everyone on earth. Knowing when to lend a voice. Don't mistake that for asslicking his masters or anyone.
That guy is an awesome fellow same with everyone else here.
Thanks.

What the furck

Collegenews right now

Pinkbite:
Hi.
Please allow me to contribute to this.
I promise to not make my kicks too deep? You got that code?
I do not give a Bleep about CN until recently, you just have to like him for who he is. I have been following this thread since the beginning of it all. Even when CN and others haven't come at all so I know enough to conclude. If your basis for calling CN a misogynist is because of his posts in his diary then you are very wrong. Wrong because 1) His diary is strictly his opinion and you can always ignore if it doesn't go well with you rather than dragging him 2) He was very misogynistic but on this thread not in his diary, nothing about his diary even shows he is that. Immediately you talked about Liru and May and said he decided to come up with virginity as a measure of his standard then I know you have been following this thread for a very long time. CN used to be a very misogynistic, a pathetic woman-hating arsehole and he has been countered many times here. Mzra has dragged him, I even read the various times he dragged him recently when Drfariu started quoting posts from way back. Queen, Liru have countered him too until they talked about ladies dating men because of their money and they dragged May into it. That Maami made one very beautiful contribution that day that I even decided to keep the screenshots in my phone even Mzrapp had to share the contribution in her diary too. She addressed everything from the beginning and I think she successfully stopped CN from airing his misogynistic inclinations because ever since then, they stopped having discussions that could spark up woman-hating arguments and CN at least changed for better too. In those days, I used to hate CN too because honestly he did come off as a very pathetic and arrogant misogynist which he is still arrogant by the way.
Now these are what I think about him.
He is an old single guy already over due for marriage. It is normal if he gets too worked up over his inability to find a wife yet. Regardless of how unbothered he wants to make himself look, the truth remains that a part of him his deeply frustrated and embittered because of the unavailability of his choice of woman.
Secondly, he is a very wealthy guy. You and I know that for a fact. EG said something one time in his diary which even made me accept this CN guy. He said street brothers to him would only have to lie to girls that they are his brothers, and that was enough reason to win them over. If what EG said is true coupled with some other things he went on to say. Then you should not even blame CN. His wealth has attracted fake lovers and this is the reason he finds it very hard to not just pick some random girls. If you are truly a lady, you should know how desperate most of us are to end up with a rich man that can put and end to our financial woes now imagine how many persons would be running after him. It is a known fact that when a man is rich he automatically has a lot of girls dying after him. You should rather address the girls who are selling themselves short rather than coming after a man trying to find a wife. In fact I will be plain with you, I have a some friends I do gist about this guy CN and even May and Liru and almost everyone on this thread, because to be sincere me I like the people here. You people are all doing well individually and you all still hang around here to laugh and celebrate each other. I won't lie, especially as you all accepted EG and restore his lost hopes not to talk of the number of souls May has put a smile on their various faces. She is the main reason I am following this thread. Now back to our discussion, I stalk CN a lot and yesterday while gisting my friends about May's last update. I talked about CN's readiness to give her 500k and instantly, they said they would come and join Nairaland so that they can find their ways into his life. I am not even lying because I have the same thoughts too. In fact, yesterday when he was talking to one person in diary section and he dropped a number, I copied the number and called the number only for one hausa guy to pick it. I didn't know he was only joking, that is to tell you how desperate I am to know him more. I am not saying everyone is desperate to lust after him but I will be sincere enough to let you know I do and my friends do. Do I know him apart from reading his posts on Nairaland? Now how about people that know him in reality? How many of such fake love do you think he would be gaining on a steady? Your denial of this point means you are not being truthful.
Then again, like May once said, whatever it is CN may have said or would say, they are all out of his personal experience and you can't fight him to change that. His encounter is what you should pray change. Since you didn't know and you haven't felt what he has felt, you can't question his life perspective. He addresses the ladies in his life in a way you do not like but yet, he has managed to appreciate Lady B and now Pinky, that shows he is only interested in women that he sees qualities in. At least he hasn't categorically said he likes Pinky because she is a virgin, he instead only slightly talked about how he met her when she was returning from evangelism and even after she connected back to her years later, she is 29 and just lost a job but she is still positive about life. Maybe you didn't notice but to be sincere with you, when I read that updte to my friends they are appreciated the reasons he loves the Pinky lady. It goes beyond virginity. The major issue is just that, CN himself is a pathetic playboy that is not supposed to put any lady on high pedestal. But that is what the community has turned us into and that is what most ladies have made happen. It has nothing to do with being misogynistic. I enjoy reading his diary a lot, he makes a lot of sense and he is very blunt with saying the truth. This doesn't mean all he has said or will say are true or correct. He is human and prone to imperfection.
Then about Egoat, don't even involve that guy.
I love everything about him myself and it's obvious everyone here loves him. No post of his has shown he is towing the path of misogynism. You only think he is because he defends CN and the people here steadily, this is a man who has been blessed by all the people here, do you expect him to turn his back on them and attack them for you? It will never happen right or wrong. Even you will never do that. So please let that guy be. Besides, he once addressed CN here over the issue of Lady B's lack of education. He gave his voice even though it contradicted CN's stand on it and CN and everyone was forced to appreciate him for his meaningful contribution, this means if necessity demands he shares a counter opinion he will. He has only learnt to know when to or not to which is expected of everyone on earth. Knowing when to lend a voice. Don't mistake that for asslicking his masters or anyone.
That guy is an awesome fellow same with everyone else here.
Thanks.

Good morning Pinkbite. I totally agree with everything you've written and it shows you follow this space well. However, you have succeeded In speaking from both side of your mouth, as though you love collegenews and want to defend him but you can't deny his mindset for women is a terrible thing to behold.

However, the only thing your getting wrong is my motivation for my note yesterday and CN's motivation for arrant misogyny. Thank you for agreeing that he is a very powerful and undeniable misogynist. First of all, this is is a public space. Brother keeps a public dairy and nothing can stop me from countering his opinions and checking him when he spews trash. Simple. I speak facts and I cannot deny that CN dairy is very interesting. He writes well but I often feel infuriated after reading his update because of his terrible prejudice against women. Your blindsided if you do not see the misogyny that oozes from his dairy. Also, nobody, regardless of your situation is life has the right to engage in misogyny or misandry (women hating men). Whether fake love is choking you or you are frustrated from lack of virgin spouse, you cannot and cannot and cannot, come onto a public space, display immense hatred for women and expect to go unchecked. No no, Wrong asf
I read all those updates from past pages, CN made one powerfully hateful and misogynistic post that even the gentle Lirusehn had to call him out. Rapper was so upset she called him out very angrily. If you follow this thread well you must notice how he is rather willing to give everything for a May kinda woman, that's why all his babes became bland and useless to him. There is no problem in someone wanting a virgin, even though its rather stupid cos you are the opposite of virgin yourself as a man. A worthy woman is one who has never been touched by another man, all the rest are pigs na. He got this idea because he misunderstood one of Lirusehn posts, (Lirusehn also shares the same virgin mindset). That's why he went for that Pinky girl nothing more. That his description of over 14 babes is the most shameful, patriarchal and disgusting thing I've ever seen. Imagine if it's a woman that did that. Guys like CN will insult her till the day she dies.
I don't even care. I must talk when I want to talk.

xcemidasett:
Good morning Pinkbite. I totally agree with everything you've written and it shows you follow this space well. However, you have succeeded In speaking from both side of your mouth, as though you love collegenews and want to defend him but you can't deny his mindset for women is a terrible thing to behold.

However, the only thing your getting wrong is my motivation for my note yesterday and CN's motivation for arrant misogyny. Thank you for agreeing that he is a very powerful and undeniable misogynist. First of all, this is is a public space. Brother keeps a public dairy and nothing can stop me from countering his opinions and checking him when he spews trash. Simple. I speak facts and I cannot deny that CN dairy is very interesting. He writes well but I often feel infuriated after reading his update because of his terrible prejudice against women. Your blindsided if you do not see the misogyny that oozes from his dairy. Also, nobody, regardless of your situation is life has the right to engage in misogyny or misandry (women hating men). Whether fake love is choking you or you are frustrated from lack of virgin spouse, you cannot and cannot and cannot, come onto a public space, display immense hatred for women and expect to go unchecked. No no, Wrong asf
I read all those updates from past pages, CN made one powerfully hateful and misogynistic post that even the gentle Lirusehn had to call him out. Rapper was so upset she called him out very angrily. If you follow this thread well you must notice how he is rather willing to give everything for a May kinda woman, that's why all his babes became bland and useless to him. There is no problem in someone wanting a virgin, even though its rather stupid cos you are the opposite of virgin yourself as a man. A worthy woman is one who has never been touched by another man, all the rest are pigs na. He got this idea because he misunderstood one of Lirusehn posts, (Lirusehn also shares the same virgin mindset). That's why he went for that Pinky girl nothing more. That his description of over 14 babes is the most shameful, patriarchal and disgusting thing I've ever seen. Imagine if it's a woman that did that. Guys like CN will insult her till the day she dies.
I don't even care. I must talk when I want to talk.

It is well dear but you sounded like I was trying to silence you. You can always accept an opinion or reject it, it's no wahala.

Anyway, we all tend to see things differently maybe that is why I do not see anything wrong in the diary.
If say I ask you to truthfully describe your past relationships, won't there be some men you have been with that remembering them alone can make you spit in disgust? Won't there be some that you will start smiling and also regret why it didn't work out? Does the former make you a misandrist ?
He described the ladies in his life, emphasis on in his life. Not the entire female gender.
Doubt I can have anything against that.

Collegenews:
Kai man.
I just dey red man.
Laz laz na worthiness, no two ways about it.
I love love tho, all I have ever asked for is a reasonable and decent lady that will up my taste or at least fit in. But for where? Na scam them be. This 21st century offers us ladies that will only pretend and starts getting fat when they got the ring, not all of them. I know there are ladies like May out there but it's fucking hard to get one.
It is very painful I swear to God.
I think it's easier to find a woman as an hustling guy, when you are made all you will ever get are hoes. Permit me to use that word.
You are lucky man.
I know wetin I dey talk.

1)

liru.sehn:
I perfectly understand all that you are saying and I can relate. I have had my share of these 21st century offers. You see them everywhere you go but both sexes can be found in this category, it isn't limited to the ladies. I think you should work on your perspectives first, or should I say your unrealistic expectations from these ladies? Most times what is stopping us is surprisingly in our own head, even when you see a good lady you already harbour those ill perspectives about her. And when she gives you her best, all you will see is a lady that is is not enough. The problem isn't with the lady, the problem is the inability of the man to acknowledge the lady's threshold. Just maybe when you learn to appreciate the little they offer then they may be indirectly forced to up their personal bests. Then again, your expectations can't be met within a very short while, compatibility takes time and dedications. It doesn't just sprout up suddenly or just because you want it to. You both have to mutually make it work and it takes time. I have known her for almost seven years and we have dated for 5 plus years, what do you think we were doing all through? Throwing flowers or throwing jabs? Be ready to manage your woman till she becomes your dream woman.
I am not good at giving advice tho, I just think we should work on ourselves as men first before drawing up unrealistic expectations.

Dopest response ever.

Collegenews:
Nice contribution my man.
There are some ladies that even if you manage them, and invest all your energies on them they will rather take every bit of it for granted rather than upping their best. I am glad you acknowledged you are lucky, to have a woman who puts in her best and believe me it isn't beans. That alone is enough encouragement to tolerate, invest your time on her and accommodate her threshold.
A man isn't asking for too much by demanding for an encouraging and impressive beginning and again, as much as I will like to admit that all ladies can be managed I still will like to let you know some ladies do not have sense and from their very beginning you know where all the trials will end. It will end in shambles.

Please pardon me to say this, your woman has only been with you all her life, do you know how much respect that has earned her? I'm not saying a successful relationship all borders on the virginity of a woman or her body count but to be sincere, all these little things that people take for nothing are what sum up the core values of a woman.
You may want to treat her unfairly but when you consider what she is worth -the worthiness which is a sum total of very hard to find qualities in this century- you just have to cut her some slacks.
Let me borrow Mz.rapper's line, a city's sperm bank can't even earn the least consideration to be treated as a queen, same with a woman with very foul attitude not to talk of her gold digging tendencies and a bunch of other unsuitabilities. How do you plan to manage these kind of women?
I won't jump from thread to thread shaming women but I love to let a man who has found a good woman know he has found one. It is not easy.

2)

Pinkbite:
It is well dear but you sounded like I was trying to silence you. You can always accept an opinion or reject it, it's no wahala.

Anyway, we all tend to see things differently maybe that is why I do not see anything wrong in the diary.
If say I ask you to truthfully describe your past relationships, won't there be some men you have been with that remembering them alone can make you spit in disgust? Won't there be some that you will start smiling and also regret why it didn't work out? Does the former make you a misandrist ?
He described the ladies in his life, emphasis on in his life. Not the entire female gender.
Doubt I can have anything against that.

He cant have interaction with the entire female gender. His expression of his interaction with a few women is a representation of how he feels toward the entire gender. The fact that he has been playing so many women all at the same time toward a selfish agenda and dumped them because them no be virgin is sick asf
That is my opinion dear. And true, we cant all see things the same way

MZrapper:
Sincerely most of the skirmish disputes I have been involved in on this forum are provocations born out of the misogynistic nature of NL guys.
CN concluded his disgusting posts by saying he won't jump from thread to thread shaming women but he would let a man who has found a good woman know he's found one. That line is a total deviation from your assertions.
You weren't appreciating anyone for finding a good woman, you were making your misogynistic inclinations known. Your true identity was being put on display.
There is a difference between, hey man! You got a good woman, treat her right... blah blah blah.
And

All what women do is pretend and get fat once they get the ring. Amidst many other pejorative and belittling claims all in the name of being dyslogistic.
You are entitled to your opinion but then again there is a limit to the level of trash I can condone.
We have all had our unjust share of these maltreatment being birthed by humanity, how could you tie the whole thing to a particular sex? Don't even tell me it's because you date women not men. Your woman is a direct reflection of whom you are and we always attract our type.
If the ladies in your life aren't treating you rightly, how is it easier to blame them all rather than blaming yourself? They all can't be evil, the most possible logic is that you are the evil one. Work on yourself chale and see how the cards play in your favour.
It takes a good, reasonable and decent man to raise a lovely queen.
I have said this before and I will say it again, May is every reasonable thing a woman should be, no doubt. There are a lot of factors making this work this way. She is cool,meek and gentle, if she was with a demon, she'd have been demoralized and turned into a demon. If she was with a man who doesn't tolerate her to the max, no one would see these sweet radiations of hers.
You can't treat a woman like trash and expect her not to run you like LAWMA. I don't even make other's life a basis of assessment for mine but if you want to do that, endeavor to consider all the possible factors involved and be unbiased. Someone just said he bought his woman a PC of #420k, you asked if it wasn't too expensive. He told you no and he said "not like she can't afford it herself, and that means she deserves more". How did you not see that line? Did you intentionally ignore that line? Did you not also notice how he addressed her as her woman when you labelled yours girlfriend?? They may mean nothing to you, but that is respect. Every thing counts, we ladies pay attention to details and every simple gesture. We could play and joke around, but once it gets to that line of seriousness, every little thing matters.
You saw when I jokingly addressed them as 'modafokas' weeks back, she didn't fight for herself, she warned me never to refer to her man in that manner ever and ever again. That was the first time I would read her go hard on anyone, myself especially. It was for her man, she won't let any shits get to him and it's vise versa. Pay attention to undisclosed details and learn to respect the ladies in your life first before you "bring up unrealistic impossibilities".
Be the man and quit your very laughable narratives.
Leave nagging for women.

Counter counter.
Nice

DrNefarius, good one bringing up those misogynistic post. Pinkbite, now that you have a new perspective, re-read those postsand enjoy. Lirusehn is a gentle guy but you can tell he was acutely disgusted by CN backward mentality. For him to have written such long msg, he felt CN have a long way to go. What is, "a city's sperm bank can't even earn the least consideration to be treated as a queen, same with a woman with very foul attitude not to talk of her gold digging tendencies", "when you are made all you will ever get are hoes."
That man needs a reform.

But last last, CN made very good points too.

Collegenews:
I know she is going to see this and I need her to know she is the best.
She is a total break from the usual Nigerian ladies we are used to. Take Poco for instance, she seems to be okay financially but she is on every thread fighting and insulting guys for reasons I am not intereted in.
A Nigerian lady is either a slay queen or a feminist. She either tries to steal from you or she makes her own money and she is trying to 'man' you. Seeing a lady who drives a good car, living a good life, touching lives and still manage to act normal, is the rearest combination ever.
She doesn't get involved in the usual Nairaland banters, I can imagine how peaceful she is in real life. Her reaction to the woman she said slapped her in her former diary was another eye opener.
I respect and love everything about her, she is funny, intelligent and passionate about her interests too. Not to talk about the rough beginning she underwent as a baby, I am the happiest everything is working for her good.
May is Bae.

Obsession.

MZrapper:
Firstly, I could have brought this up on whatsap but I don't want it to seem like it was initiated here and I went all the way behind to contribute.

I understand the basis of your assessment, using May and all. I know she is humble, sweet, calm, not rude and all, but you need to acknowledge the male factor here. Most ladies are what they are because of what the men in their lives have turned them into.
I don't have issues with the slay queens as you put it, as we have them so we have slay kings or better still gigolos. But tagging the offshoot as feminist is a bit off.
Take May for instance, the way she paints her man. A man who doesn't stress her nor impose those African masculine mentality on her nor limit her to the kitchen as most dusty men do, despite that he earns three times of what she earns (as she put it herself) means the man is doing the right thing.
You don't expect ladies like that to not bring out their best.
It's a GAGO kinda thing, you get the exact or more of what you put in. Treat her like trash and watch her turn you to LAWMA, treat her like a queen and watch her build a long lasting empire with you.
When next you are taking your time to analyze these ladies, endeavor not to rule out how much demons these dusty Nigerian men have become.
No hard feelings.

Harsh and making sense.

Collegenews:
As it were for Abraham so it were for Sarah.
Naija guys are dusty, demonic yada yada yada.
I don't date Nigerian guys, I date the ladies.
Whatever assertion I might have drawn up was out of personal experience and encounter.
I don't follow hearsays, I judge by what I have seen and experienced.
My story is the best template for comparative assessment. I have met tons of these slay queens and low budget Linda Ikejis, was I supposed to pretend they aren't what they are?
If every other man deserves to be treated illy, I do not deserve it because to the best of my knowledge I have treated all the ladies in my life well, yet they came out poorly as expected
So no, from my end Nigerian ladies aren't what they are because of their male counterparts, they are what they are because they are Eve the apple eater.

Oya everyone should free CN, las las na from experience. He has been through a lot to conclude.
He is majorly making sense too and I enjoy reading his diary a lot.

Queenyprinxex:
Very true.
The male factors should not be overemphasized but I think most ladies need a total mental revamping. I have always detested the slay queen tags regardless of whatever meaning is made out of it. And again, feminism has been misconstrued. A lot of people do not get the meaning of it anymore, I am a lady king, a feminist but I won't be caught dead fighting for equality with my husband or any man.
Feminism is a push for the betterment of women, to stop them from being treated as second class fiddles not war against men nor a movement meant to challenge their values. It differs individually tho.

The best thing is to be sensible, make your own money and know to do the right thing while also lessening or totally abolishing toxicity towards your partner humanity.
The reason anyone thinks slayqueens only steal from men is the poverty factor. There is a level of independence you attain that no man born of a woman can shame you even when you ask them (male partner) for money.
Most of these lowlives called slay queens rubbishing their own names do not even get more than fare and money for recharge cards. Whereas some other ladies are receiving gifts of 200,300,400k from their men, yet people take it as being romantic.
Laz laz, if you are with the right man, you can choose to be a slay queen, a feminist or be indifferent about the both and still be appreciated and loved.
Make your own money and be independent and watch how rules will be broken for you.
Golddigging a man or Manning a man would not even matter when you both understand each other.
But I repeat, a woman stands to gain and enjoy a lot when she makes her own money.

End of discussion.
Party is over.

DrNefarius:
But last last, CN made very good points too.

The post may see good to you because he's narrating the mind of every patriarchal man in modern society, the type that sees women as entities to be displayed, scrutinised, selected or discarded according to some very stupid criteria. His obsession with may is just legit disrespectful. Guys like him hate girls like that poco because alaye, them go check you. He's one of those men who cant stand successful women despite what he claim in his dairy. He wants you to be hard working but to an extent. He cant come near a girl like poco because she go fold you and your patriarchy into the ground. That is fragile masculinity. You need to lord over a woman before you feel like a man.

xcemidasett:
The post may see good to you because he's narrating the mind of every patriarchal man in modern society, the type that sees women as entities to be displayed, scrutinised, selected or discarded according to some very stupid criteria. His obsession with may is just legit disrespectful. Guys like him hate girls like that poco because alaye, them go check you. He's one of those men who cant stand successful women despite what he claim in his dairy. He wants you to be hard working but to an extent. He cant came near a girl like poco because she go fold you and your patriarchy into the ground. That is fragile masculinity. You need to lord over a woman before you feel like a man.

I don't even know anything about the Poco but from what I read she is successful but foul mouthed which is the reason he doesn't like her. What woman goes from thread to thread insulting men? It is not about what she has but what she is. No one wants a bitter woman so trust me the Poco and anywoman who does such are not ladies I will advice anyone to settle down for.
Don't come after me, you seem so biased yourself. One minute you prasised me for reviving your memories next minute i am a potential disaster and a misogynist in the making? Where do you belong na?
What is wrong with having to scrutinize a lady or in short a partner before deciding to marry them? When did that become a crime?
What man who lords over a woman would agree to pound yam for her and even publicly write about it? I can not even do that as broke I am.

I have made my little contributions.
Bye everyone.

DrNefarius:
I don't even know anything about the Poco but from what I read she is successful but foul mouthed which is the reason he doesn't like her. What woman goes from thread to thread insulting men? It is not about what she has but what she is. No one wants a bitter woman so trust me the Poco and anywoman who does such are not ladies I will advice anyone to settle down for.
Don't come after me, you seem so biased yourself. One minute you prasised me for reviving your memories next minute i am a potential disaster and a misogynist in the making? Where do you belong na?
What is wrong with having to scrutinize a lady or in short a partner before deciding to marry them? When did that become a crime?
What man who lords over a woman would agree to pound yam for her and even publicly write about it? I can not even do that as broke I am.

Always have your facts straight Bro and never take anyones words for it. Poco is not on every thread insulting men, actually. I follow her bumper to bumper and she engages I'm arguments about misogyny, gender equality, and any man who makes a statement of slander against women, maybe by calling a single mother "hoe" or "farmtool" or shaming a lady for her sexuality, Poco will drag you to the mud where you belong. That is why I said CN has fragile masculinity because that is the only way you can see poco's posts as insulting to men. she argues a lot which will threaten several members of your gender, cos no one likes a woman with opinions. They see her as stubborn and know she wont be one you can control.
Read her posts and see how intelligent her points are. Guys like CN won't appreciate that aspect. They will chalk it up to insulting men because she argued with them.

xcemidasett:
Always have your facts straight Bro and never take anyones words for it. Poco is not on every thread insulting men, actually. I follow her bumper to bumper and she engages I'm arguments about misogyny, gender equality, and any many who makes a statement of slander against women, maybe by calling a single mother how or farmtool or shaming a lady for her sexuality, Poco will drag you to the mud where you belong. That is why I said CN has fragile masculinity because that is the only way you can see poco's post as insulting to men, she argues a lot which will threaten several members of your gender, cos no one likes a woman with opinions.
Read her posts and see how intelligent her points are. Guys like CN won't appreciate that aspect. They will chalk it up to insulting men because she argued with them

To each is own. If the Poco is only defending the female gender then she is good and I like her already. Sorry I judged wrong, I only judged based on what I read on this thread..that is that.
What is wrong with scrutinizing a potential partner?

DrNefarius:
To each is own. If the Poco is only defending the female gender then she is good and I like her already. Sorry I judged wrong, I only judged based on what I read on this thread..that is that.
What is wrong with scrutinizing a potential partner?

Nothing is wrong with that. At all. But keeping a large harem of women and picking them off like beans while using derogatory words to describe them, as one would describe clothes in a boutique, is madness. Not even factoring im their feelings, you play them and kick them off as though they are dogs that cannot argue with your choices. You claim you never had anything serious to do with each, but you should know how women are. They definitely placed their Hope's in you, you had the heart to take a woman to your mother and still kick her to the curb to satisfy your own selfish interests. When a woman meets a guys mom, she feels she has already arrived. Imagine how many women he shattered their hearts by taking them to see his mom when he fully well knew he had no interest. That guy is selfish, wicked, and just sees women as commodities in the market you take home to your mom and she examines before you pay or trash. This is the effect of wealth making you feel like you are a high priced piece of gold.

Swear om your life that this is not true.

xcemidasett:
Nothing is wrong with that. At all. But keeping a large harem of women and picking them off like beans while using derogatory words to describe them, as one would describe clothes in a boutique, is madness. Not even factoring im their feelings, you play them and kick them off as though they are dogs that cannot argue with your choices. You claim you never had anything serious to do with each, but you should know how women are. They definitely placed their Hope's in you, you had the heart to take a woman to your mother and still kick her to the curb to satisfy your own selfish interests. When a woman meets a guys mom, she feels she has already arrived. Imagine how many women he shattered their hearts by taking them to see his mom when he fully well knew he had no interest. That guy is selfish, wicked, and just sees women as commodities in the market you take home to your mom and she examines before you pay or trash. This is the effect of wealth making you feel like you are a high priced piece of gold.

Swear om your life that this is not true.

I swear on my life and that of my entire generation that this is true. Oboy.
But on the other hand, it all boils down to worthiness. A woman who has no value shouldn't expect to be taken serious. Its not new to see a mans parent and still end up not getting married. Its not new although I admit it's bad.
But see for instance the one he said he took home and he branched her parents house only for her to start fighting her own mother. Is that a good one or not?

I will do the honors .

cc Pocohantas Let everybody kuku craze together

Queenyprinxex:
That smallie is freaking stalking me.

How old are you sef?

Collegenews:
How old are you sef?

Oga how far?

Dear TemitopeJnr.
I just hope you know someone like Auntie Mercy as you are fond of calling her can't be ridiculed nor taken for a weightless piece of option.
Regardless of how uncouth I may have seemed and regardless of the misconceptions my posts might have birthed, the only persons I am ever concerned about are those who genuinely and worthily have something to offer either as a man or a woman. There is a level you get to that no one on earth can drag you through inconsequential muds or get you involved in irrelevant diatribes about some imaginary self worth. When you are worth a gold you will be treated and seen as one without having to fight for it just like Auntie Mercy whom you claim to want to be like. Build yourself and the universe will adore and revere you.
I mentioned you purposely because all other ladies here are so grown and they have all outgrown every possibility of being subjected to mental manipulations birthed by laziness, boredom and messed up priorities.
You are a Princess and a Queen in the making and I admonish you to never settle for anything else.
Today is Tuesday, I have businesses to attend to.
See you later sweetie.

Mehn. that was deep.