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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by ojantelle: 10:58am On Oct 16, 2020
princessKF:


Congratulations teamie, God bless your LO

Amen! Thank you teamie
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by ojantelle: 10:59am On Oct 16, 2020
sunbestie:
congrats mama

Thank you ma'am
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 11:06am On Oct 16, 2020
So dz is d knocked up section of nl. I literally can see big bellies around me. Safe deliveries to all u in advance. I'm out, cnt stand pregnant women(no pun intended)

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Naslow08(m): 11:47am On Oct 16, 2020
So fucking disrespectful! You have no respect, a pregnant woman gave birth to you! If you had nothing meaningful to say, you didn’t have to say anything at all! Coming from a male parent!
PrinceofAgoAre:
So dz is d knocked up section of nl. I literally can see big bellies around me. Safe deliveries to all u in advance. I'm out, cnt stand pregnant women(no pun intended)

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 12:08pm On Oct 16, 2020
Naslow08:
So fucking disrespectful! You have no respect, a pregnant woman gave birth to you! If you had nothing meaningful to say, you didn’t have to say anything at all! Coming from a male parent!
D only reason i'm replyn u is bcuz i want u 2 show me what part of my post is targeted at disrespecting anybody here.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Krak(m): 12:28pm On Oct 16, 2020
sunbestie:
This is very high oo. Abeg talk to d doctor for elective CS once it is a little bit lower.

Ok
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sweetlady4real(f): 1:20pm On Oct 16, 2020
ojantelle:
[/b]B A[b]
My patter of tiny feet is herr grin
Edd- 27/10/2020
DOB- 14/10/2020
Weight- 3.1kg
Time- 9:08pm
Normal birth with small tear.
Is a girl, God indeed is God.
Cappo pls take note, birth story soon.

Congratulations mama, God bless your princess.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Anistef: 2:31pm On Oct 16, 2020
Hello
gudafternoon my fellow mama's, hope we are pushing fine the Lord is our strength.
Reporting for my second missionary journey, term June welcome me. I pray our journey goes smoothly and successful in Jesus name amen �

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Tinudesi(f): 2:34pm On Oct 16, 2020
Anistef:
Hello
gudafternoon my fellow mama's, hope we are pushing fine the Lord is our strength.
Reporting for my second missionary journey, term June welcome me. I pray our journey goes smoothly and successful in Jesus name amen �

Welcome mama happy journey ahead

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Anistef: 2:42pm On Oct 16, 2020
Tinudesi:
Welcome mama happy journey ahead
thank you so much ma�
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by ayommyjay(f): 4:39pm On Oct 16, 2020
BS BS
DH and I have agreed that we hang boot after 2 DSs. For the past seven years we have been playing safe with withdrawal method and moreso we stayed in different locations, I don't see any reason for me to go for any FP. Many occasions people asked why I stopped giving birth bla bla which I always laughed over it, some even said try and get a girl but am never moved because pregnancy was the last thing on mind. I fear pregnancy oooo.
I had my period January 2020 and a week to my next period, DH was around and we had a very nice time without protection and after the whole show we both laughed over it and reminded ourselves that we need to get postinor 2 to avoid story. So the next day afternoon he got me the Postinor 2 and I used in his front and our normal life continues and he left for his base. I waited for my period as it has passed one day, then I decided to check but one mind was telling me that am already pregnant. Lo and behold I saw two red lines staring at me, I don't know where that joy came from I was so happy as if I have been TTC before. I looked at the mirror in my toilet and started praying to my stomach, talking to the foetus how happy and ready I am to love cherish him or her. My Joy knows no bounds, I wasn't thinking about anything whether DH will be happy with the news or not, whether this will come with the pain I do experienced in my first trimester. All I know was am happy and I kept telling myself God will make this easy for me. When DH came back on Val day I told him I missed my period and he was like how come and there and there I knew he was not happy that was how we slept without talking to each other. He woke me up early in the morning begging that the news really shock him as he was not expecting such and we decided to keep it.That was how my preg journey started.

I fear first trimester because I do look like someone with deadly diseases with my two previous birth.My fear increased because it has been seven years I passed through this journey. First trimester package wasn't bad, though I depended mostly on iced water to relieve morning sickness,and its a most i brushed if I want my day to be good. Second trimester was nice too not until I started having pains when doing bowel, mehn the pain no be here, I tried so many things to ease the pain but na it followed me reach final stage. Started buying baby things as I don't have any left over from previous birth. I practically dashed out everything except baby stroller��.
Third trimester
I was still nursing my anus due to the pressure on my waist.At this junction i kept speaking to my baby to pls have mercy on me, my older DSs joined in the prayer,helped in robbing my Belle and back. During this period I started treating malaria almost every 3weeks, sometimes with drips and injections but that doesn't stop me from doing exercise and hoping that this pregnancy will be like the two previous that i ended at 38 weeks.
At 38weeks I started having sharp pain at my right lower back for some days, at this time I found it difficult to walk around, I do more of lying down and started having fear for tears and all that comes along with labour but I didn't stop talking to my baby. My DH came back from his base on Friday 2nd October and we sex on Saturday morning been my new week I e 39week, later in the evening he asked that we all visit his friend and I agreed but as I was getting dressed I felt abdominal cramp and I taught to myself why this pain now but it keeps coming and going, so I told him on our way coming back that it seems this baby want to come before you leave for your base o.On our way home I bought kunu geda and akara, on getting home I prepare Amala and we all ate dinner after sometime I still downloaded the kunu and akara, DH was just looking at me asking do we need to go to the hospital and I declined but was so sure it's labour sign. I told him we will try and go in the morning, he kept robbing my back for me till I slept off. At exactly 2am Sunday 4th, I woke up to a more serious pain and I started timing it then I told Him am having contractions. I went to ease myself and I saw show. There is this thing called Fatima finger sold at Islamic medicine shops, I heard it helps when one is already in labour. I just soak it immediately in water and I was walking up and down in my room to ease the pain, oga still want us to go to the hospital I told him not yet time as I can manage the situation. I slept back around 3:30am and woke up gently by 5am, proceeded to the kitchen, I removed chicken from the freezer, washed it and cooked, fried it and also prepared big pot of fried rice, I was cutting the carrot and greens when my first son came in and asked mummy are we doing party and I answered him it's for breakfast, I was just doing all this to ease the pain. I called my client care midwife around past 7am to inform her I will be in the hospital by 8. When 8 reached I called it will be 10am and she was like hope am sure it's not serious labour.so when it was 10, DH and I decided to just go and get me checked. Before leaving home I drank from the water I soaked and packed the remaining inside a bottle. On getting to the labour room I met a heavily pregnant midwife on duty and I told myself God pls give her strength to help me through this. I was checked 10minutes to 11 and she said am 5cm and I should lie on my left side, I asked if I can walk around she said no way. I drank more of the water and I kept praying and talking to my baby. I was told I will be check by 3pm but mehn before half past 1, I couldn't take this pain again, it was back to back, oh my God my lower abdomen and my caudal bone was on fire, whenever the contractions comes I will be hitting my buttocks, I started shouting nurse it seems this baby is ready to come out ,am feeling the pressure on vagina, she kept saying wait till 3pm so my client care met her to pls check me that was around 1:40pm, immediately she checked she said 9cm but let me help you,she just used her hand to turn my lower abdomen, I died and came back. Lets move her to next stage, to stand up I can't, No more strength and I was helped to the final stage, immediately oxytocin was passed into the drip water, not up to 5mins it entered my system, my stomach changed shaped and I kept saying you ask me not to push but my baby is coming ,she said see the head, God pls I don't want tear for her, she ruptured my water sac ,madam push now when you contract, that's how I pushed , the second push my DS came out screaming his lung out at 2pm dot, she cut the cord and he pee on them��� . Placental refused to descent, it took almost 10mins before I birth it. After clean up I put him to breast see rushing and grabbing of the breast,the boy shock me. All in all am happy I experienced this God's goodness, it was indeed a supernatural birth, God came through for me on 4th October. I wish you all safe delivery, you will experience this joy and it shall be permanent.To all TTC don't worry God has answered your secret prayers. Meet my IREoluwa, Ryan.He has been melting my heart with his lovely smile.
October Cappo threegees
BS submitted.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Anna20(f): 4:50pm On Oct 16, 2020
ayommyjay:
BS BS
DH and I have agreed that we hang boot after 2 DSs. For the past seven years we have been playing safe with withdrawal method and moreso we stayed in different locations, I don't see any reason for me to go for any FP. Many occasions people asked why I stopped giving birth bla bla which I always laughed over it, some even said try and get a girl but am never moved because pregnancy was the last thing on mind. I fear pregnancy oooo.
I had my period January 2020 and a week to my next period, DH was around and we had a very nice time without protection and after the whole show we both laughed over it and reminded ourselves that we need to get postinor 2 to avoid story. So the next day afternoon he got me the Postinor 2 and I used in his front and our normal life continues and he left for his base. I waited for my period as it has passed one day, then I decided to check but one mind was telling me that am already pregnant. Lo and behold I saw two red lines staring at me, I don't know where that joy came from I was so happy as if I have been TTC before. I looked at the mirror in my toilet and started praying to my stomach, talking to the foetus how happy and ready I am to love cherish him or her. My Joy knows no bounds, I wasn't thinking about anything whether DH will be happy with the news or not, whether this will come with the pain I do experienced in my first trimester. All I know was am happy and I kept telling myself God will make this easy for me. When DH came back on Val day I told him I missed my period and he was like how come and there and there I knew he was not happy that was how we slept without talking to each other. He woke me up early in the morning begging that the news really shock him as he was not expecting such and we decided to keep it.That was how my preg journey started.

I fear first trimester because I do look like someone with deadly diseases with my two previous birth.My fear increased because it has been seven years I passed through this journey. First trimester package wasn't bad, though I depended mostly on iced water to relieve morning sickness,and its a most i brushed if I want my day to be good. Second trimester was nice too not until I started having pains when doing bowel, mehn the pain no be here, I tried so many things to ease the pain but na it followed me reach final stage. Started buying baby things as I don't have any left over from previous birth. I practically dashed out everything except baby stroller��.
Third trimester
I was still nursing my anus due to the pressure on my waist.At this junction i kept speaking to my baby to pls have mercy on me, my older DSs joined in the prayer,helped in robbing my Belle and back. During this period I started treating malaria almost every 3weeks, sometimes with drips and injections but that doesn't stop me from doing exercise and hoping that this pregnancy will be like the two previous that i ended at 38 weeks.
At 38weeks I started having sharp pain at my right lower back for some days, at this time I found it difficult to walk around, I do more of lying down and started having fear for tears and all that comes along with labour but I didn't stop talking to my baby. My DH came back from his base on Friday 2nd October and we sex on Saturday morning been my new week I e 39week, later in the evening he asked that we all visit his friend and I agreed but as I was getting dressed I felt abdominal cramp and I taught to myself why this pain now but it keeps coming and going, so I told him on our way coming back that it seems this baby want to come before you leave for your base o.On our way home I bought kunu geda and akara, on getting home I prepare Amala and we all ate dinner after sometime I still downloaded the kunu and akara, DH was just looking at me asking do we need to go to the hospital and I declined but was so sure it's labour sign. I told him we will try and go in the morning, he kept robbing my back for me till I slept off. At exactly 2am Sunday 4th, I woke up to a more serious pain and I started timing it then I told Him am having contractions. I went to ease myself and I saw show. There is this thing called Fatima finger sold at Islamic medicine shops, I heard it helps when one is already in labour. I just soak it immediately in water and I was walking up and down in my room to ease the pain, oga still want us to go to the hospital I told him not yet time as I can manage the situation. I slept back around 3:30am and woke up gently by 5am, proceeded to the kitchen, I removed chicken from the freezer, washed it and cooked, fried it and also prepared big pot of fried rice, I was cutting the carrot and greens when my first son came in and asked mummy are we doing party and I answered him it's for breakfast, I was just doing all this to ease the pain. I called my client care midwife around past 7am to inform her I will be in the hospital by 8. When 8 reached I called it will be 10am and she was like hope am sure it's not serious labour.so when it was 10, DH and I decided to just go and get me checked. Before leaving home I drank from the water I soaked and packed the remaining inside a bottle. On getting to the labour room I met a heavily pregnant midwife on duty and I told myself God pls give her strength to help me through this. I was checked 10minutes to 11 and she said am 5cm and I should lie on my left side, I asked if I can walk around she said no way. I drank more of the water and I kept praying and talking to my baby. I was told I will be check by 3pm but mehn before half past 1, I couldn't take this pain again, it was back to back, oh my God my lower abdomen and my caudal bone was on fire, whenever the contractions comes I will be hitting my buttocks, I started shouting nurse it seems this baby is ready to come out ,am feeling the pressure on vagina, she kept saying wait till 3pm so my client care met her to pls check me that was around 1:40pm, immediately she checked she said 9cm but let me help you,she just used her hand to turn my lower abdomen, I died and came back. Lets move her to next stage, to stand up I can't, No more strength and I was helped to the final stage, immediately oxytocin was passed into the drip water, not up to 5mins it entered my system, my stomach changed shaped and I kept saying you ask me not to push but my baby is coming ,she said see the head, God pls I don't want tear for her, she ruptured my water sac ,madam push now when you contract, that's how I pushed , the second push my DS came out screaming his lung out at 2pm dot, she cut the cord and he pee on them��� . Placental refused to descent, it took almost 10mins before I birth it. After clean up I put him to breast see rushing and grabbing of the breast,the boy shock me. All in all am happy I experienced this God's goodness, it was indeed a supernatural birth, God came through for me on 4th October. I wish you all safe delivery, you will experience this joy and it shall be permanent.To all TTC don't worry God has answered your secret prayers. Meet my IREoluwa, Ryan.He has been melting my heart with his lovely smile.

Awwwn
Your BS sef melt my heart, was smiling all through
Congratulations ma'am
Regards to Ire and his elder Brothers

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by threegees(f): 6:20pm On Oct 16, 2020
ayommyjay:
BS BS
Meet my IREoluwa, Ryan.He has been melting my heart with his lovely smile.
October Cappo threegees
BS submitted.
His smile made me shed a tear. Many things I can relate to in your BS. The 7 years gap, the withdrawal method of contraceptive, the unplanned and surprise red lines, the joy that sweeps you off your feet...many things.
Happy for you. God bless Ireoluwa

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by africaflozy(f): 6:20pm On Oct 16, 2020
ayommyjay:
BS BS
DH and I have agreed that we hang boot after 2 DSs. For the past seven years we have been playing safe with withdrawal method and moreso we stayed in different locations, I don't see any reason for me to go for any FP. Many occasions people asked why I stopped giving birth bla bla which I always laughed over it, some even said try and get a girl but am never moved because pregnancy was the last thing on mind. I fear pregnancy oooo.
I had my period January 2020 and a week to my next period, DH was around and we had a very nice time without protection and after the whole show we both laughed over it and reminded ourselves that we need to get postinor 2 to avoid story. So the next day afternoon he got me the Postinor 2 and I used in his front and our normal life continues and he left for his base. I waited for my period as it has passed one day, then I decided to check but one mind was telling me that am already pregnant. Lo and behold I saw two red lines staring at me, I don't know where that joy came from I was so happy as if I have been TTC before. I looked at the mirror in my toilet and started praying to my stomach, talking to the foetus how happy and ready I am to love cherish him or her. My Joy knows no bounds, I wasn't thinking about anything whether DH will be happy with the news or not, whether this will come with the pain I do experienced in my first trimester. All I know was am happy and I kept telling myself God will make this easy for me. When DH came back on Val day I told him I missed my period and he was like how come and there and there I knew he was not happy that was how we slept without talking to each other. He woke me up early in the morning begging that the news really shock him as he was not expecting such and we decided to keep it.That was how my preg journey started.

I fear first trimester because I do look like someone with deadly diseases with my two previous birth.My fear increased because it has been seven years I passed through this journey. First trimester package wasn't bad, though I depended mostly on iced water to relieve morning sickness,and its a most i brushed if I want my day to be good. Second trimester was nice too not until I started having pains when doing bowel, mehn the pain no be here, I tried so many things to ease the pain but na it followed me reach final stage. Started buying baby things as I don't have any left over from previous birth. I practically dashed out everything except baby stroller��.
Third trimester
I was still nursing my anus due to the pressure on my waist.At this junction i kept speaking to my baby to pls have mercy on me, my older DSs joined in the prayer,helped in robbing my Belle and back. During this period I started treating malaria almost every 3weeks, sometimes with drips and injections but that doesn't stop me from doing exercise and hoping that this pregnancy will be like the two previous that i ended at 38 weeks.
At 38weeks I started having sharp pain at my right lower back for some days, at this time I found it difficult to walk around, I do more of lying down and started having fear for tears and all that comes along with labour but I didn't stop talking to my baby. My DH came back from his base on Friday 2nd October and we sex on Saturday morning been my new week I e 39week, later in the evening he asked that we all visit his friend and I agreed but as I was getting dressed I felt abdominal cramp and I taught to myself why this pain now but it keeps coming and going, so I told him on our way coming back that it seems this baby want to come before you leave for your base o.On our way home I bought kunu geda and akara, on getting home I prepare Amala and we all ate dinner after sometime I still downloaded the kunu and akara, DH was just looking at me asking do we need to go to the hospital and I declined but was so sure it's labour sign. I told him we will try and go in the morning, he kept robbing my back for me till I slept off. At exactly 2am Sunday 4th, I woke up to a more serious pain and I started timing it then I told Him am having contractions. I went to ease myself and I saw show. There is this thing called Fatima finger sold at Islamic medicine shops, I heard it helps when one is already in labour. I just soak it immediately in water and I was walking up and down in my room to ease the pain, oga still want us to go to the hospital I told him not yet time as I can manage the situation. I slept back around 3:30am and woke up gently by 5am, proceeded to the kitchen, I removed chicken from the freezer, washed it and cooked, fried it and also prepared big pot of fried rice, I was cutting the carrot and greens when my first son came in and asked mummy are we doing party and I answered him it's for breakfast, I was just doing all this to ease the pain. I called my client care midwife around past 7am to inform her I will be in the hospital by 8. When 8 reached I called it will be 10am and she was like hope am sure it's not serious labour.so when it was 10, DH and I decided to just go and get me checked. Before leaving home I drank from the water I soaked and packed the remaining inside a bottle. On getting to the labour room I met a heavily pregnant midwife on duty and I told myself God pls give her strength to help me through this. I was checked 10minutes to 11 and she said am 5cm and I should lie on my left side, I asked if I can walk around she said no way. I drank more of the water and I kept praying and talking to my baby. I was told I will be check by 3pm but mehn before half past 1, I couldn't take this pain again, it was back to back, oh my God my lower abdomen and my caudal bone was on fire, whenever the contractions comes I will be hitting my buttocks, I started shouting nurse it seems this baby is ready to come out ,am feeling the pressure on vagina, she kept saying wait till 3pm so my client care met her to pls check me that was around 1:40pm, immediately she checked she said 9cm but let me help you,she just used her hand to turn my lower abdomen, I died and came back. Lets move her to next stage, to stand up I can't, No more strength and I was helped to the final stage, immediately oxytocin was passed into the drip water, not up to 5mins it entered my system, my stomach changed shaped and I kept saying you ask me not to push but my baby is coming ,she said see the head, God pls I don't want tear for her, she ruptured my water sac ,madam push now when you contract, that's how I pushed , the second push my DS came out screaming his lung out at 2pm dot, she cut the cord and he pee on them��� . Placental refused to descent, it took almost 10mins before I birth it. After clean up I put him to breast see rushing and grabbing of the breast,the boy shock me. All in all am happy I experienced this God's goodness, it was indeed a supernatural birth, God came through for me on 4th October. I wish you all safe delivery, you will experience this joy and it shall be permanent.To all TTC don't worry God has answered your secret prayers. Meet my IREoluwa, Ryan.He has been melting my heart with his lovely smile.
October Cappo threegees
BS submitted.

Awww! Cute smilling baby. Congratulations ma'am.
BS will just be making someone emotional anyhow wink

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sweetlady4real(f): 6:26pm On Oct 16, 2020
@ayommyjay, I enjoyed reading your BS and Ire' s cute smile is so beautiful. God bless him and brothers, Amen.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sweetlady4real(f): 6:30pm On Oct 16, 2020
MummyD2020:
Good morning beautiful mamas! Pls I want to ask oh. Do I have to divide all the delivery items into two? My sister inlaw that practically 'dragged 'me to the mkt said I have to buy small qty for the hospital. Does that mean they dont return some things they take out back to me? I use general hospital. I appreciate the feedbacks.

Hello mama, I used General Hospital for my deliveries. From my personal experience, they don't return what you give them. Anything you are buying for hospital use, just give them the small pack.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Anistef: 6:55pm On Oct 16, 2020
ayommyjay:
BS BS
DH and I have agreed that we hang boot after 2 DSs. For the past seven years we have been playing safe with withdrawal method and moreso we stayed in different locations, I don't see any reason for me to go for any FP. Many occasions people asked why I stopped giving birth bla bla which I always laughed over it, some even said try and get a girl but am never moved because pregnancy was the last thing on mind. I fear pregnancy oooo.
I had my period January 2020 and a week to my next period, DH was around and we had a very nice time without protection and after the whole show we both laughed over it and reminded ourselves that we need to get postinor 2 to avoid story. So the next day afternoon he got me the Postinor 2 and I used in his front and our normal life continues and he left for his base. I waited for my period as it has passed one day, then I decided to check but one mind was telling me that am already pregnant. Lo and behold I saw two red lines staring at me, I don't know where that joy came from I was so happy as if I have been TTC before. I looked at the mirror in my toilet and started praying to my stomach, talking to the foetus how happy and ready I am to love cherish him or her. My Joy knows no bounds, I wasn't thinking about anything whether DH will be happy with the news or not, whether this will come with the pain I do experienced in my first trimester. All I know was am happy and I kept telling myself God will make this easy for me. When DH came back on Val day I told him I missed my period and he was like how come and there and there I knew he was not happy that was how we slept without talking to each other. He woke me up early in the morning begging that the news really shock him as he was not expecting such and we decided to keep it.That was how my preg journey started.

I fear first trimester because I do look like someone with deadly diseases with my two previous birth.My fear increased because it has been seven years I passed through this journey. First trimester package wasn't bad, though I depended mostly on iced water to relieve morning sickness,and its a most i brushed if I want my day to be good. Second trimester was nice too not until I started having pains when doing bowel, mehn the pain no be here, I tried so many things to ease the pain but na it followed me reach final stage. Started buying baby things as I don't have any left over from previous birth. I practically dashed out everything except baby stroller��.
Third trimester
I was still nursing my anus due to the pressure on my waist.At this junction i kept speaking to my baby to pls have mercy on me, my older DSs joined in the prayer,helped in robbing my Belle and back. During this period I started treating malaria almost every 3weeks, sometimes with drips and injections but that doesn't stop me from doing exercise and hoping that this pregnancy will be like the two previous that i ended at 38 weeks.
At 38weeks I started having sharp pain at my right lower back for some days, at this time I found it difficult to walk around, I do more of lying down and started having fear for tears and all that comes along with labour but I didn't stop talking to my baby. My DH came back from his base on Friday 2nd October and we sex on Saturday morning been my new week I e 39week, later in the evening he asked that we all visit his friend and I agreed but as I was getting dressed I felt abdominal cramp and I taught to myself why this pain now but it keeps coming and going, so I told him on our way coming back that it seems this baby want to come before you leave for your base o.On our way home I bought kunu geda and akara, on getting home I prepare Amala and we all ate dinner after sometime I still downloaded the kunu and akara, DH was just looking at me asking do we need to go to the hospital and I declined but was so sure it's labour sign. I told him we will try and go in the morning, he kept robbing my back for me till I slept off. At exactly 2am Sunday 4th, I woke up to a more serious pain and I started timing it then I told Him am having contractions. I went to ease myself and I saw show. There is this thing called Fatima finger sold at Islamic medicine shops, I heard it helps when one is already in labour. I just soak it immediately in water and I was walking up and down in my room to ease the pain, oga still want us to go to the hospital I told him not yet time as I can manage the situation. I slept back around 3:30am and woke up gently by 5am, proceeded to the kitchen, I removed chicken from the freezer, washed it and cooked, fried it and also prepared big pot of fried rice, I was cutting the carrot and greens when my first son came in and asked mummy are we doing party and I answered him it's for breakfast, I was just doing all this to ease the pain. I called my client care midwife around past 7am to inform her I will be in the hospital by 8. When 8 reached I called it will be 10am and she was like hope am sure it's not serious labour.so when it was 10, DH and I decided to just go and get me checked. Before leaving home I drank from the water I soaked and packed the remaining inside a bottle. On getting to the labour room I met a heavily pregnant midwife on duty and I told myself God pls give her strength to help me through this. I was checked 10minutes to 11 and she said am 5cm and I should lie on my left side, I asked if I can walk around she said no way. I drank more of the water and I kept praying and talking to my baby. I was told I will be check by 3pm but mehn before half past 1, I couldn't take this pain again, it was back to back, oh my God my lower abdomen and my caudal bone was on fire, whenever the contractions comes I will be hitting my buttocks, I started shouting nurse it seems this baby is ready to come out ,am feeling the pressure on vagina, she kept saying wait till 3pm so my client care met her to pls check me that was around 1:40pm, immediately she checked she said 9cm but let me help you,she just used her hand to turn my lower abdomen, I died and came back. Lets move her to next stage, to stand up I can't, No more strength and I was helped to the final stage, immediately oxytocin was passed into the drip water, not up to 5mins it entered my system, my stomach changed shaped and I kept saying you ask me not to push but my baby is coming ,she said see the head, God pls I don't want tear for her, she ruptured my water sac ,madam push now when you contract, that's how I pushed , the second push my DS came out screaming his lung out at 2pm dot, she cut the cord and he pee on them��� . Placental refused to descent, it took almost 10mins before I birth it. After clean up I put him to breast see rushing and grabbing of the breast,the boy shock me. All in all am happy I experienced this God's goodness, it was indeed a supernatural birth, God came through for me on 4th October. I wish you all safe delivery, you will experience this joy and it shall be permanent.To all TTC don't worry God has answered your secret prayers. Meet my IREoluwa, Ryan.He has been melting my heart with his lovely smile.
October Cappo threegees
BS submitted.
Congratulations his so cute

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mayornmn(f): 7:09pm On Oct 16, 2020
Just when I thought I will escape this stretch mark thing, I just saw plenty stretch marks on my tommy this evening and my tommy is not big oo chai cry cry cry
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by dunpredictable: 8:55pm On Oct 16, 2020
Anna20:


Awwwn
Your BS sef melt my heart, was smiling all through
Congratulations ma'am
Regards to Ire and his elder Brothers

Still smiling as i type. Such a beautiful smile. He's happy to come. Glory be to God. Congratulations to your family.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by omah1(f): 10:04pm On Oct 16, 2020
mayornmn:
Just when I thought I will escape this stretch mark thing, I just saw plenty stretch marks on my tommy this evening and my tommy is not big oo chai cry cry cry

Do you use moisturizer?

Try Shea butter popularly known as ori.

It helps.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by oke22(f): 10:06pm On Oct 16, 2020
Palmers tummy cream helps
mayornmn:
Just when I thought I will escape this stretch mark thing, I just saw plenty stretch marks on my tommy this evening and my tommy is not big oo chai cry cry cry

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by omah1(f): 10:10pm On Oct 16, 2020
Krak:


OK. I will be there today. But I hope the CS is not too early at 36 weeks?


Good day sir; were you able to make it to the clinic today?

What's the Dr's verdict?

Speedy reovery.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by ayommyjay(f): 10:18pm On Oct 16, 2020
[quote author=threegees post=95008149]
His smile made me shed a tear. Many things I can relate to in your BS. The 7 years gap, the withdrawal method of contraceptive, the unplanned and surprise red lines, the joy that sweeps you off your feet...many things.
Happy for you. God bless Ireoluwa[/quote
Amen. God will make yours and others easy.Congrats in advance ma'am

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by ayommyjay(f): 10:23pm On Oct 16, 2020
sweetlady4real:
@ayommyjay, I enjoyed reading your BS and Ire' s cute smile is so beautiful. God bless him and brothers, Amen.

Amen ma'am. Thanks

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by ayommyjay(f): 10:35pm On Oct 16, 2020
dunpredictable:


Still smiling as i type. Such a beautiful smile. He's happy to come. Glory be to God. Congratulations to your family.


Am telling you, we are also happy to have him, it's really a goodness to behold. God bless your family too ma'am

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by suilois(f): 5:40am On Oct 17, 2020
Congratulations momma.. So interesting and detailed BS.. Thanks so much for sharing...God bless and preserve the baby boy...I'm here blushing at the pictures
ayommyjay:
BS BS
DH and I have agreed that we hang boot after 2 DSs. For the past seven years we have been playing safe with withdrawal method and moreso we stayed in different locations, I don't see any reason for me to go for any FP. Many occasions people asked why I stopped giving birth bla bla which I always laughed over it, some even said try and get a girl but am never moved because pregnancy was the last thing on mind. I fear pregnancy oooo.
I had my period January 2020 and a week to my next period, DH was around and we had a very nice time without protection and after the whole show we both laughed over it and reminded ourselves that we need to get postinor 2 to avoid story. So the next day afternoon he got me the Postinor 2 and I used in his front and our normal life continues and he left for his base. I waited for my period as it has passed one day, then I decided to check but one mind was telling me that am already pregnant. Lo and behold I saw two red lines staring at me, I don't know where that joy came from I was so happy as if I have been TTC before. I looked at the mirror in my toilet and started praying to my stomach, talking to the foetus how happy and ready I am to love cherish him or her. My Joy knows no bounds, I wasn't thinking about anything whether DH will be happy with the news or not, whether this will come with the pain I do experienced in my first trimester. All I know was am happy and I kept telling myself God will make this easy for me. When DH came back on Val day I told him I missed my period and he was like how come and there and there I knew he was not happy that was how we slept without talking to each other. He woke me up early in the morning begging that the news really shock him as he was not expecting such and we decided to keep it.That was how my preg journey started.

I fear first trimester because I do look like someone with deadly diseases with my two previous birth.My fear increased because it has been seven years I passed through this journey. First trimester package wasn't bad, though I depended mostly on iced water to relieve morning sickness,and its a most i brushed if I want my day to be good. Second trimester was nice too not until I started having pains when doing bowel, mehn the pain no be here, I tried so many things to ease the pain but na it followed me reach final stage. Started buying baby things as I don't have any left over from previous birth. I practically dashed out everything except baby stroller��.
Third trimester
I was still nursing my anus due to the pressure on my waist.At this junction i kept speaking to my baby to pls have mercy on me, my older DSs joined in the prayer,helped in robbing my Belle and back. During this period I started treating malaria almost every 3weeks, sometimes with drips and injections but that doesn't stop me from doing exercise and hoping that this pregnancy will be like the two previous that i ended at 38 weeks.
At 38weeks I started having sharp pain at my right lower back for some days, at this time I found it difficult to walk around, I do more of lying down and started having fear for tears and all that comes along with labour but I didn't stop talking to my baby. My DH came back from his base on Friday 2nd October and we sex on Saturday morning been my new week I e 39week, later in the evening he asked that we all visit his friend and I agreed but as I was getting dressed I felt abdominal cramp and I taught to myself why this pain now but it keeps coming and going, so I told him on our way coming back that it seems this baby want to come before you leave for your base o.On our way home I bought kunu geda and akara, on getting home I prepare Amala and we all ate dinner after sometime I still downloaded the kunu and akara, DH was just looking at me asking do we need to go to the hospital and I declined but was so sure it's labour sign. I told him we will try and go in the morning, he kept robbing my back for me till I slept off. At exactly 2am Sunday 4th, I woke up to a more serious pain and I started timing it then I told Him am having contractions. I went to ease myself and I saw show. There is this thing called Fatima finger sold at Islamic medicine shops, I heard it helps when one is already in labour. I just soak it immediately in water and I was walking up and down in my room to ease the pain, oga still want us to go to the hospital I told him not yet time as I can manage the situation. I slept back around 3:30am and woke up gently by 5am, proceeded to the kitchen, I removed chicken from the freezer, washed it and cooked, fried it and also prepared big pot of fried rice, I was cutting the carrot and greens when my first son came in and asked mummy are we doing party and I answered him it's for breakfast, I was just doing all this to ease the pain. I called my client care midwife around past 7am to inform her I will be in the hospital by 8. When 8 reached I called it will be 10am and she was like hope am sure it's not serious labour.so when it was 10, DH and I decided to just go and get me checked. Before leaving home I drank from the water I soaked and packed the remaining inside a bottle. On getting to the labour room I met a heavily pregnant midwife on duty and I told myself God pls give her strength to help me through this. I was checked 10minutes to 11 and she said am 5cm and I should lie on my left side, I asked if I can walk around she said no way. I drank more of the water and I kept praying and talking to my baby. I was told I will be check by 3pm but mehn before half past 1, I couldn't take this pain again, it was back to back, oh my God my lower abdomen and my caudal bone was on fire, whenever the contractions comes I will be hitting my buttocks, I started shouting nurse it seems this baby is ready to come out ,am feeling the pressure on vagina, she kept saying wait till 3pm so my client care met her to pls check me that was around 1:40pm, immediately she checked she said 9cm but let me help you,she just used her hand to turn my lower abdomen, I died and came back. Lets move her to next stage, to stand up I can't, No more strength and I was helped to the final stage, immediately oxytocin was passed into the drip water, not up to 5mins it entered my system, my stomach changed shaped and I kept saying you ask me not to push but my baby is coming ,she said see the head, God pls I don't want tear for her, she ruptured my water sac ,madam push now when you contract, that's how I pushed , the second push my DS came out screaming his lung out at 2pm dot, she cut the cord and he pee on them��� . Placental refused to descent, it took almost 10mins before I birth it. After clean up I put him to breast see rushing and grabbing of the breast,the boy shock me. All in all am happy I experienced this God's goodness, it was indeed a supernatural birth, God came through for me on 4th October. I wish you all safe delivery, you will experience this joy and it shall be permanent.To all TTC don't worry God has answered your secret prayers. Meet my IREoluwa, Ryan.He has been melting my heart with his lovely smile.
October Cappo threegees
BS submitted.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by shawrygal(f): 5:58am On Oct 17, 2020
Good morning to you all. I wrote about the bleeding I had and was told to come back for scan after two weeks. Two weeks haven't reached but anxiety won't let me be. I went for the scan yesterday and my God had perfected his work. Everything is now normal. Praise master Jesus . I thank God for delivery Me from threatened abortion.

Am now officially team May.
Edd may 18. My first child will be 5years on may 31st. Have been TTC all this while.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by africaflozy(f): 7:14am On Oct 17, 2020
[quote author=shawrygal post=95018201]Good morning to you all. I wrote about the bleeding I had and was told to come back for scan after two weeks. Two weeks haven't reached but anxiety won't let me be. I went for the scan yesterday and my God had perfected his work. Everything is now normal. Praise master Jesus . I thank God for delivery Me from threatened abortion.

Am now officially team May.
Edd may 18. My first child will be 5years on may 31st. Have been TTC all this while. [/quot

Congratulations mama. Safe delivery and continue to rest well.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by soulmate19: 8:35am On Oct 17, 2020
BA Alert
With gratitude in our hearts, we are excited to announce the arrival of our princess through Emergency CS.
God is too faithful to fail to us.

EDD: 14/10/2020
DOB: 15/10/2020
Weight: 4.3kg

BS coming later
Cappo @threegees

Thanks to all mommas for the advise to start heading to the hospital straight away, it ended in praise....

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by ayommyjay(f): 9:35am On Oct 17, 2020
soulmate19:
BA Alert
With gratitude in our hearts, we are excited to announce the arrival of our princess through Emergency CS.
God is too faithful to fail to us.

EDD: 14/10/2020
DOB: 15/10/2020
Weight: 4.3kg

BS coming later
Cappo @threegees

Thanks to all mommas for the advise to start heading to the hospital straight away, it ended in praise....


Congrats mama, welcome beautiful princess. Speed recovery to you.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sunbestie(f): 10:53am On Oct 17, 2020
soulmate19:
BA Alert
With gratitude in our hearts, we are excited to announce the arrival of our princess through Emergency CS.
God is too faithful to fail to us.

EDD: 14/10/2020
DOB: 15/10/2020
Weight: 4.3kg

BS coming later
Cappo

Thanks to all mommas for the advise to start heading to the hospital straight away, it ended in praise....
congrats mama... Quick recovery.

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