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When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" / I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets / Sometimes I Regret Marrying My Wife (2) (3) (4)
.... by pozehnani(f): 11:10am On Oct 28, 2020 |
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Re: .... by Abbeytherabbit: 11:16am On Oct 28, 2020 |
Chill till the next Payment b4 u do anything 11 Likes |
Re: .... by pozehnani(f): 11:18am On Oct 28, 2020 |
Abbeytherabbit: Ok. God bless you for this. Thought as much. just that I don't want it to look like I'm down with it. Thanks. |
Re: .... by Holumhidey(m): 11:44am On Oct 28, 2020 |
just drop her number; she'll send you the balance by tomorrow |
Re: .... by Portifar: 11:53am On Oct 28, 2020 |
Look it's better you ask her now. Even if she eventually didn't honour the agreement now, she will put it at the back of her mind till next month end. All the best. 1 Like |
Re: .... by pozehnani(f): 12:06pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
Portifar: Thanks. But I'm thinking she might see me as an ingrate plus I don't want to get her upset now that we are approaching Xmas period. Also getting a school that pays as at when due these days is by the grace of God because most of my colleagues are still battling their money from before the lockdown and the competition for my kind of job (partime) is also high at this period. partimers are on the lookout for good schools. So I don't want to spoil my chances. Therefore thinking of leaving it for next month. I'm just at crossroads right now. Thank you so much. |
Re: .... by Entrepreneurrr: 12:11pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
Just call her and tell her about your agreement in a polite manner. Sometimes Human beings are like that they will do something just to test u and see if u will talk, if u talk they will correct it subsequently, if u no talk they will take u for granted and continue doing it. So its better u called and tell her that u want to remind her about your agreement. 1 Like |
Re: .... by NUJABEZ: 12:13pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
It is better you send her a polite text message thanking her for sending you this payment You should then go ahead to say "I am thankful for receiving so and so pay under this agreement. I look forward to receiving the promised increase with my next pay" 6 Likes |
Re: .... by pozehnani(f): 12:15pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
Entrepreneurrr: Hmm... I'm in a fix right now. Ok, thanks. |
Re: .... by pozehnani(f): 12:20pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
NUJABEZ: Will this not make it sound like I'm being unappreciative? You know with all that's happening plus I didn't go this week and it's only once a week thing. So she won't say she didn't deduct it and I'm still complaining.. I Know this woman even though I've only worked a few months with her. |
Re: .... by Oizee(f): 12:30pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
Op calm down and wait for next payment, if she repeat it again then notify her, tell her u thought it was an error for the first time and u didn't want to bother her. 4 Likes |
Re: .... by pozehnani(f): 12:32pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
Oizee: Oh.. great! Thanks sis. 1 Like |
Re: .... by Blissquare(f): 12:40pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
Don't bother to ask. She did not forget. Schools made a lot of losses due to the cancelled term. Like you said, you might get Xmas bonus that would compensate for it. She is not taking you for granted but hoping that you understand. Since she pays when she, kindly accept it even if it seems unfair. You won't regret it. I'm 45 yrs old and not the average troll talking from lack of experience. I don't think even when structures organizations would be giving promotions this year. Be glad that you still have a job then raise it next term. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: .... by pozehnani(f): 1:00pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
Blissquare: Wow! This is awesome Ma. I really appreciate. Amen to the bonus part. I'm grateful to God, no doubts. God bless you with more wisdom Ma. 1 Like |
Re: .... by mylander(m): 2:06pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
pozehnani: Thank God you know all these. Your matter is resolved already. 1 Like |
Re: .... by pozehnani(f): 2:25pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
mylander: Yeah, I do but I also don't want to settle for what we didn't agree. Thanks |
Re: .... by jieta: 3:01pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
Blissquare:Lol, you don't need to add your age you already speak wisdom. @op, i think you have to consider this opinion, you already stated your disadvantages and i think this advice suit you best. 1 Like |
Re: .... by pozehnani(f): 3:03pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
jieta: Ok. I will Thanks. |
Re: .... by Nobody: 4:12pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
I won't tell you what to do, because deep down you've already made up your mind. so, just follow your heart.. |
Re: .... by Chujor1634(m): 4:24pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
So happy to see that you are doing everything possible to engage yourself meaningfully. God has ways of making everything Alright, i'll advice you chill a little. receive the next pay and see, then you can approach her. 1 Like |
Re: .... by Foodqueen(f): 5:30pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
Take it easy. Cos schools owners are not finding it funny this year at all. Alot of schools in my area have closed up. I will advise you give her till next year. 1 Like |
Re: .... by pozehnani(f): 5:32pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
Foodqueen: Ok. Thanks. |
Re: .... by pozehnani(f): 7:04pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
Chujor1634: Ok. Thanks. |
Re: .... by faithfull18(f): 9:08pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
Holumhidey: |
Re: .... by frozen70(f): 1:37am On Oct 29, 2020 |
pozehnani: You have to be considerate in this situation because some parents may not have paid school fees and the effects of lock down with end SARS are still on Don't talk about it yet till you receive next month's salary then you will be able to ask her questions if the increase was not reflected in it This is where the gentle man in you is required and neeeded 1 Like |
Re: .... by pozehnani(f): 1:46am On Oct 29, 2020 |
frozen70: Hmm.. ok. Thanks dear. |
Re: .... by uchman(m): 9:55pm On Oct 31, 2020 |
Dont just rush her for now, so that you won't end up losing everything and regrets will now come in... 1 Like |
Re: .... by pozehnani(f): 9:56pm On Oct 31, 2020 |
uchman: Ok. Thanks so much. |
Re: .... by Nobody: 11:06am On Nov 03, 2020 |
pozehnani:Demand for your salary. |
Re: .... by pozehnani(f): 3:15pm On Nov 03, 2020 |
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