perrydolla:
Am dating a guy who is older than me but I feel he is the best for me now because he gives me attention and cares for me but the has someone whom he has been dating for 5yrs now and I know about it. I feel he has plans on settling down with the lady because his family knows about his relationship with the lady. Pls I need your advice.

OcVoice:
Don't put all your heart there. Just play along since he takes care of you. If you see a promising one, you can give him a chance, but don't go and open legs so early....just play along with the 2.

coolsegun2002:
I’m confused....
Are u in love....??
Is it the pen!s..??
Or is just becos of the money he’s giving you that’s making you belittle yourself like this.....

OcVoice:
Don't put all your heart there. Just play along since he takes care of you. If you see a promising one, you can give him a chance, [s]but don't go and open legs so early....just play along with the 2. [/s]

MissEfe:
Hope say no be my guy sha. Wait i dey come

MissEfe:
Hope say no be my guy sha. Wait i dey come

MissEfe:
Hope say no be my guy sha. Wait i dey come

JovialJune:




Lmao so you're in a 5year relationship/marriage, issokay....

perrydolla:
Am dating a guy who is older than me but I feel he is the best for me now because he gives me attention and cares for me but the has someone whom he has been dating for 5yrs now and I know about it. I feel he has plans on settling down with the lady because his family knows about his relationship with the lady. Pls I need your advice.

Kalatium:


Before i give you advice, let me make a little correction
Its actually called two timing not double dating.

Back to the topic.

You are the side gf and you know it.
I thinks its your choice to either leave or continue to remain a side babe.

Except he changes his mind on not marrying the other lady.

Gakinola:
You are the side chick and he can dump you at any moment, forget the attention he is giving you, the other lady might not know about his relationship with you yet. I'm sure he is hiding you from her. Same thing happened in my relationship, my man started seeing another girl in July and I've been with him for six years. He diverted all the attention to her and was even sending money to her daughter, I got to know in August through his non chalant attitude towards me. We had a big fight and spat on each other's face. Luckily, the other girl has nothing to offer than sex styles, there was a day she texted me saying "I am fucking your man and he is fucking me and he has the right to Bleep me however he likes, so tell me your problem so I can solve it for you". I didn't know the matter can be settled..lol his family intervened and that was it.
Back to you, you can continue..hoping he will change his mind towards the other girl because of you or opt out before he disgrace you because of the girl

perrydolla:
Am dating a guy who is older than me but I feel he is the best for me now because he gives me attention and cares for me but the has someone whom he has been dating for 5yrs now and I know about it. I feel he has plans on settling down with the lady because his family knows about his relationship with the lady. Pls I need your advice.

frozen70:



My advice is don't give inn all the love you have into this relationship because he already has a lady and the tendency is there that for staying up to 5 yrs it's either a play boy or he doesn't want to settle down

His type may pin you down yet have another relationship with a woman

Be wise use your brain he is already using his own brain