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Re: The Hate For Single Moms by Nobody: 9:48am On Oct 27, 2020
Hmmm
Re: The Hate For Single Moms by DenreleDave(m): 3:55pm On Oct 27, 2020
grin angry grin grin

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Myrage2:
Unlike Reno, I'd like to help single moms But If you need my help, you have to open those legs wide, since you know how to open it wella grin grin grin
without thinking of the after effect.
Re: The Hate For Single Moms by Shortyy(f): 4:27pm On Oct 27, 2020
PuZZyNegro:
When they are tear rubber, their shakara is to high heavens.

It's only when they become after one that you will see that all those shakara are for nothing but just emptiness.

Fuckinggg irresponsible guys and turning around to expect pity and help.
So vile. Humanity is lost.
Re: The Hate For Single Moms by CaptMarvel(m): 4:49pm On Oct 27, 2020
I only pity them because no husband for most of them. If you are a single mother and above 30, it's better you dropped your kid to your mom to raise as your sibling, don't come and disturb a gentle single man with your baggage which he knows nothing about, it's unfair and wicked, can you take that yourself if you were in his shoes? One can only imagine the kind of maltreatment this women will give to that child if the child is not theirs in the first place.
Re: The Hate For Single Moms by PuZZyNegro: 4:50pm On Oct 27, 2020
Shortyy:
So vile. Humanity is lost.
Middle finger �
Re: The Hate For Single Moms by PuZZyNegro: 4:53pm On Oct 27, 2020
Myrage2:
Unlike Reno, I'd like to help single moms But If you need my help, you have to open those legs wide, since you know how to open it wella grin grin grin
without thinking of the after effect.
One is on my fuckinggg roll now.

Nothing goes for nothing.

If you can give it to your irresponsible baby daddy, why would you deny me that?
Re: The Hate For Single Moms by Smile4mee01: 5:25pm On Oct 27, 2020
Many Men dont hate single mums, we just dont love you enough to have you in our lives.

You are better off dealing with the father of your child. And see if we providing support and helping single mothers, then what benefit does the single young girl have for not having a child.

It just too much drama dealing with a single mother. I wish you well from Afar.

Women need to understand that regardless of how well read and rich you are. You derive your value from how Men value you and not other way around.
Re: The Hate For Single Moms by DenreleDave(m): 6:20pm On Oct 27, 2020
CaptMarvel:
I only pity them because no husband for most of them. If you are a single mother and above 30, it's better you dropped your kid to your mom to raise as your sibling, don't come and disturb a gentle single man with your baggage which he knows nothing about, it's unfair and wicked, can you take that yourself if you were in his shoes? One can only imagine the kind of maltreatment this women will give to that child if the child is not theirs in the first place.
My niggarrr... Been a while grin grin

I get one single mama for u oo grin grin
Re: The Hate For Single Moms by CaptMarvel(m): 6:53pm On Oct 27, 2020
DenreleDave:
My niggarrr... Been a while grin grin

I get one single mama for u oo grin grin
hahaha! I don't do single mama! I'm happily married bro.
Re: The Hate For Single Moms by DenreleDave(m): 7:02pm On Oct 27, 2020
CaptMarvel:
hahaha! I don't do single mama! I'm happily married bro.
Really?


U r married... Wow, I'm glad to hear that.


I hope to be married too someday
Re: The Hate For Single Moms by CaptMarvel(m): 7:07pm On Oct 27, 2020
DenreleDave:
Really?


U r married... Wow, I'm glad to hear that.


I hope to be married too someday
yeah! All the best bro! Sha open ur eyes and use your head and get the right woman lolz grin
Re: The Hate For Single Moms by DenreleDave(m): 7:13pm On Oct 27, 2020
CaptMarvel:
yeah! All the best bro! Sha open ur eyes and use your head and get the right woman lolz grin
Thanks ooo..


Hope marital life is sweet sha
Re: The Hate For Single Moms by CaptMarvel(m): 7:14pm On Oct 27, 2020
cheesy very sweeeeeet
DenreleDave:
Thanks ooo..


Hope marital life is sweet sha
Re: The Hate For Single Moms by DenreleDave(m): 7:15pm On Oct 27, 2020
CaptMarvel:
cheesy very sweeeeeet
My time go reach by God grace
Re: The Hate For Single Moms by Priam:
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Re: The Hate For Single Moms by Ifyyy25: 6:40pm On Oct 28, 2020
Karleb:
I'm tired oh!

Close your legs, they say no.

Keep one guy so we can easily trace the pregnancy, they say no.

Use contraceptives, they say no.

Do abortion, they say over their dead body.

Now they want them to be seen as "symbol of strength"?

Abeg!
Some took morning after pills and it failed..Abortion can cause future problems like infertility.
Re: The Hate For Single Moms by Ifyyy25: 6:44pm On Oct 28, 2020
Smile4mee01:
Many Men dont hate single mums, we just dont love you enough to have you in our lives.

You are better off dealing with the father of your child. And see if we providing support and helping single mothers, then what benefit does the single young girl have for not having a child.

It just too much drama dealing with a single mother. I wish you well from Afar.

Women need to understand that regardless of how well read and rich you are. You derive your value from how Men value you and not other way around.
Chai!!nothing wey I no go see for nairaland, a woman’s value lies in a man’s subjective judgment and not her achievements and goals? It is well.
Re: The Hate For Single Moms by Phantomhilz: 8:58pm On Oct 28, 2020
See fellas let's face the reality, the real world isn't the ideal world.

Let's be honest to ourselves,there is actually no hate on single mums rather,an obvious bias or preference that favours a lady without child.

Marriage comes with a lot of baggages and no one wants an extra burden. Right from childhood, watching nollywood movies, there is always that wicked stepmother.

One wonders why the wicked stepfather hardly exists. Some men wouldn't mind having a single mum as a partner, but then society plays a major role in this.No one wants "after one" ladies,it doesn't look nice.

Women should understand nature, that no matter what you'lld be the person with the baby bump. That should always be reverberating. The Man could decide to leave, and you bear the brunt of the deeds of two people.

Abstinence is key, know that no one can identify an expectant father Physically. We are humans and we sometimes fall into temptations but know this, for every action there's a reaction.

This reaction brings in a human being into the world so before you lay down with that guy whether irresponsible or not, have a rethink. It would be of great help.

Abortion isn't an option!!!!
You both knew the possible outcome and allowed few minutes of "lust" to get you carried away.

If e hard you, orphanage still dey.

Helping a lady because she's a single mum doesn't cut it for me, rather help her because she's in need.


Ladies be wise.
Re: The Hate For Single Moms by CHoccolaTE: 9:38pm On Oct 28, 2020
Oh its "nature" for men to dislike single mums but it's wrong for women to dislike poor men?

Ok o
Re: The Hate For Single Moms by CHoccolaTE: 9:40pm On Oct 28, 2020
Ifyyy25:
Chai!!nothing wey I no go see for nairaland, a woman’s value lies in a man’s subjective judgment and not her achievements and goals? It is well.
Can you see the rubbish these deluded creatures tell themselves?
Re: The Hate For Single Moms by Hathor5(f): 9:44pm On Oct 28, 2020
CHoccolaTE:
Oh its "nature" for men to dislike single mums but it's wrong for women to dislike poor men?

Ok o
Don't mind them. They say one thing online, do another thing offline and completely different thing abroad where they don't mind marrying single mothers of two or three. That's how quickly they can forget nature. cheesy
Re: The Hate For Single Moms by CHoccolaTE: 9:57pm On Oct 28, 2020
Hathor5:
Don't mind them. They say one thing online, do another thing offline and completely different thing abroad where they don't mind marrying single mothers of two or three. That's how quickly they can forget nature. cheesy
Honestly but why do these fools love lying to themselves online? Because what I see offline is very different.
Re: The Hate For Single Moms by Ifyyy25: 10:44pm On Oct 28, 2020
My sister ooo...I don laugh tire since...I’m marveled
CHoccolaTE:
Can you see the rubbish these deluded creatures tell themselves?
Re: The Hate For Single Moms by AfroKnight: 10:57pm On Oct 28, 2020
It is instructive to note that a good number of single mothers decided to remove the fathers from the picture. They demonise the fathers, reject their money when it is not up to the amount they expect and they make it extremely difficult for them to be a part of the lives of their children.
Re: The Hate For Single Moms by cococandy(f): 11:40pm On Oct 28, 2020
Stupid and unbelievable when people who are not celibate have things to say about women who get pregnant from having sex. The same things they do all the time. undecided
Marvelous
Re: The Hate For Single Moms by Martinez39s(m): 1:05am On Oct 29, 2020
Dear single moms,
You need to understand that no body owes you a date or marriage, and people are entitled to their preferences. Smart men don't prefer women with kids just as women, single mom or not, don't prefer broke men. Don't conflate our preference with hatred. You should be happy that smart men just don't want to commit to you, we could have taken it a step further to treat you with the same disdain, contempt and rudeness that women mete out to broke men, both in public (sometimes), and especially (always) when they discuss these men in private among themselves.

Deal with your child(ren) and go work it out with your babydaddy. Smart men don't want you. If your babydaddy is dead or he is incorrigible in not fulfilling his responsibility, get a job. Men want to raise their own seeds and they don't want to deal with the baggages that comes with being in a relationship with you.



When smart men discover that their gf/wife is a single mother.

Re: The Hate For Single Moms by Hathor5(f): 3:52am On Oct 29, 2020
CHoccolaTE:
Honestly but why do these fools love lying to themselves online? Because what I see offline is very different.
It's to keep gullible women in check. wink
Re: The Hate For Single Moms by Petyprincess(f): 6:33am On Oct 29, 2020
Hathor5:
Don't mind them. They say one thing online, do another thing offline and completely different thing abroad where they don't mind marrying single mothers of two or three. That's how quickly they can forget nature. cheesy
Don't also forget they claim they can't date single Nigerian woman yet they go for obese AA with multiple baby daddies nd take care of her 12 kids for green card wink

The same Nigerian men that claim they can't marry 30 years and above because they are evening newspaper yet they go for obese white great grandma.

These same men that they can do anything for green card will still come online to bash Nigerian women,call them names but after the logging out they go back to their granny to lick her ass to maintain their status cheesy

The ones in Nigeria is their dream to marry a 90 years old granny with multiple great grand children in America yet will still come online to claim they can't date a single woman grin

To understand Nigerian men is an impossible mission grin

Re: The Hate For Single Moms by mutter(f): 6:47am On Oct 29, 2020
No matter the circumstances a child has a father and a mother.
Where the father can be identified it is true the mother might be single but the child is not a single parent child.
Men have be to live up to thier responsibility to their children no matter the relationship with the mother.
The should cater for their kids and actively involve themselves on raising their children.
The truth is that we don't have so many irresponsible single mothers. Any woman that takes a decision to keep a child and raise the child is not irresponsible.
What we have is allot of irresponsible fathers who abandon thier responsibilities.
Truth be told many women are even single mothers in their marriage.
And one more advise
..ladies please don't join in pulling men down.
Re: The Hate For Single Moms by KevinDein: 8:14am On Oct 29, 2020
Martinez39s:
Dear single moms,
You need to understand that no body owes you a date or marriage, and people are entitled to their preferences. Smart men don't prefer women with kids just as women, single mom or not, don't prefer broke men. Don't conflate our preference with hatred. You should be happy that smart men just don't want to commit to you, we could have taken it a step further to treat you with the same disdain, contempt and rudeness that women mete out to broke men, both in public (sometimes), and especially (always) when they discuss these men in private among themselves

Deal with your child(ren) and go work it out with your babydaddy. Smart men don't want you. If your babydaddy is dead or he is incorrigible in not fulfilling his responsibility, get a job. Men want to raise their own seeds and they don't want to deal with the baggages that comes with being in a relationship with you.



When smart men discover that their gf/wife is a single mother.
Trust the ladies on here to pretend like the emboldened isn't what they do on a regular basis. Another day, and women still can't take what they dish out.

Re: The Hate For Single Moms by Martinez39s(m): 10:53am On Oct 29, 2020
KevinDein:
Trust the ladies on here to pretend like the emboldened isn't what they do on a regular basis. Another day, and women still can't take what they dish out.
Not just broke men, men below (especially way below) them financially and socially.
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