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Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by Nobody: 10:14am On Nov 03, 2020
I believe in freedom of choice and I would never impose my views on anyone that doesn't agree. However, in my opinion I think women should be more attracted to men that can provide financial stability for them. As women I think we should focus more on different aspects of the relationship such as taking care of house,health and eventually children while you can still work and strive to be successful in your career. Women should never have to worry about finances because it is the duty of the man to take the financial stability responsibility upon himself, it is a masculine trait (safety and making provisions) and this helps women to be more successful in their feminine traits. If a man is a masculine man, he will want a feminine woman, he enjoys having the opposite energy in his life, masculine men loves to be the hero, provider and protector. Avoid men that will want to engage you with financial obligations by simply and cunningly asking you what you will be bringing to the table, you should only render assistance when necessary, it is abnormal for a woman to be the bread winner, you are not a gold digger by wanting a masculine man, don't be afraid to be tagged such, you are only being a woman. We are in the era of insanity, men are becoming too lazy by asking women to be providers, I can't understand how any man can sit back and watch his wife struggle financially and expect the home to be to his expectations, clean, do laundry, good food on the table, turn 360 degrees for him in the bedroom and all others, if all these, why be married then? not fair. Every woman out there should be very careful with these modern men, do your best and dont go overboard for anyone, we all have one life to live.

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Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by Nobody: 10:16am On Nov 03, 2020
After "copy and paste" try to proof read it one more time to see if you made some mistakes and atleast give a little space so that the man below your financial status can comprehend.

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Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by Acekidc4(m): 10:16am On Nov 03, 2020
What Nonsense are you saying Sef
But you will be the one to be shouting upandan Feminism, Gender Equality rights, What a man can do a Woman can do better mentality......
Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by Nobody: 10:17am On Nov 03, 2020
Acekidc4:
What Nonsense are you saying Sef
You didn't read it,i made so much sense and all masculine Men will agree with me
Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by Acekidc4(m): 10:22am On Nov 03, 2020
Zzor:
You didn't read it,i made so much sense and all masculine Men will agree with me

Women too can do what a man can do even far better isn't it??
Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by Madibahisback: 10:23am On Nov 03, 2020
Folorunsho alakija is 2000 times richer than her husband
Funke akindele is richer than her husband
Okonjo iweala is richer than her husband
More successful women are more richer than her husband
You might earn much than your boyfriend but as long as he earn good money you're good to go
But Nigerian girls with fucken sense of entitlement is damn crazy

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Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by HotPoundedYam(m): 10:24am On Nov 03, 2020
Zzor:
You didn't read it,i made so much sense and all masculine Men will agree with me
the fool will always think it has spoken words of wisdom

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Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by Madibahisback: 10:24am On Nov 03, 2020
Acekidc4:
What Nonsense are you saying Sef
But you will be the one to be shouting upandan Feminism, Gender Equality rights, What a man can do a Woman can do better mentality......

You're talking Sense bro
Sense of entitlement is the major problem with Nigerian girls
Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by Nobody: 10:25am On Nov 03, 2020
JidennaJason:
After "copy and paste" try to proof read it one more time and atleast give a little space so that the man below your financial status can comprehend.
What problems do you have with the post,its spaced enough (not a good writer)no copy and paste too.
Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by Nobody: 10:27am On Nov 03, 2020
HotPoundedYam:

the fool will always think it has spoken words of wisdom
No need for insults, which part of the post do you have problems with

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Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by microlincoln: 10:27am On Nov 03, 2020
I must say your piece is good but it seemingly advice women to go for money in a relationship or marriage. Of course I hate to see women struggle or suffer in relationship/marriage and I know quite know well that a man should be the sole provider in the home but I'd rather you advice your fellow women to get a man who is hardworking, ready to share and committed.

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Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by LagosAirport: 10:28am On Nov 03, 2020
Zzor:
Women should never have to worry about finances because it is the duty of the man to take the financial stability responsibility upon himself

it is a masculine trait(safety and making provisions) and this helps women to be more successful in their feminine traits.
you were making alot of sense here

if I may ask you, what exactly do you mean by "being successful in their feminine" traits
Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by Nobody: 10:30am On Nov 03, 2020
Zzor:
What problems do you have with the post,its spaced enough (not a good writer)no copy and paste too.
Spaced enough?



Lol... You can do better young girl.

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Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by YoonSung54: 10:30am On Nov 03, 2020
Zzor how many times I call you? Be careful
Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by Nobody: 10:30am On Nov 03, 2020
Madibahisback:
Folorunsho alakija is 2000 times richer than her husband
Funke akindele is richer than her husband
Okonjo iweala is richer than her husband
More successful women are more richer than her husband
You might earn much than your boyfriend but as long as he earn good money you're good to go
But Nigerian girls with fucken sense of entitlement is damn crazy
Alot is happening in their homes because of the exchange of responsibilities,recently someone addressed funkes husband as "Wife" and called him a gold digger

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Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by Nobody: 10:32am On Nov 03, 2020
JidennaJason:
Spaced enough?


Lol.
Masculine men won't have problems with my post
Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by Madibahisback: 10:32am On Nov 03, 2020
Zzor:
Alot is happening in their homes because of the exchange of responsibilities,recently someone addressed funkes husband as "Wife" and called him a gold digger

That's because , he is a celebrity

Jjc skillz isn't poor he as investment and he has earned a lot during his reign
Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by LagosAirport: 10:34am On Nov 03, 2020
she is saying feminine traits is living in the kitchen and washing .
in this life it's good to know your place
Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by Nobody: 10:35am On Nov 03, 2020
microlincoln:
I must say your piece is good but it seemingly advice women to go for money in a relationship or marriage. Of course I hate to see women struggle or suffer in relationship/marriage and I know quite know well that a man should be the sole provider in the home but I'd rather you advice your fellow women to get a man who is hardworking, ready to share and committed.
We are somehow on the same page then.But remember money is the driving force for any relationship to thrive.Bitter truth
Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by Nobody: 10:36am On Nov 03, 2020
Zzor:
Masculine men won't have problems with my post
Your own "masculine men" can be translated to "extremely rich men" which you and many other ladies jump to for poverty alleviation..



You can do better young girl.

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Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by bukatyne(f): 10:38am On Nov 03, 2020
microlincoln:
I must say your piece is good but it seemingly advice women to go for money in a relationship or marriage. Of course I hate to see women struggle or suffer in relationship/marriage and I know quite know well that a man should be the sole provider in the home but I'd rather you advice your fellow women to get a man who is hardworking, ready to share and committed.

@bold:

100%

A man earning more is not constant, can change. A man also earning more doesn't mean he is financially intelligent or willing/committed towards his wife/family.

I also don't agree or believe that a man should be the 'sole provider'.

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Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by Nobody: 10:39am On Nov 03, 2020
Madibahisback:


That's because , he is a celebrity

Jjc skillz isn't poor he as investment and he has earned a lot during his reign
Ask around,we all know funke calls the shot in their home,its unbibilical and not normal for a woman to be the provider,its part of the reason marriage hardly work these days.
Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by Nobody: 10:41am On Nov 03, 2020
JidennaJason:
Your own "masculine men" can be translated to "extremely rich men" which you and many other ladies jump to for poverty alleviation..



You can do better young girl.
Like I said,just my opinion and not imposed.What makes you think I'm poor
Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by Nobody: 10:47am On Nov 03, 2020
Zzor:
Like I said,just my opinion and not imposed.What makes you think I'm poor
Alright, I respect your opinion..


Enjoy your day.

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Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by Nobody: 10:50am On Nov 03, 2020
LagosAirport:
she is saying feminine traits is living in the kitchen and washing .
in this life it's good to know your place
no,you didnt understand that part,its part of feminine traits and I also included working and striving hard to become successful in your career.I just don't agree with women to be financial providers,financial responsibity should be strictly for the men,i talked about rendering assistance as well.
Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by Nobody: 10:51am On Nov 03, 2020
JidennaJason:
Alright, I respect your opinion..


Enjoy your day.
Hope you don't have eyes on your wife's money
Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by Nobody: 10:52am On Nov 03, 2020
YoonSung54:
Zzor how many times I call you? Be careful
Be a masculine man
Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by crackhaus: 10:55am On Nov 03, 2020
Zzor:
I believe in freedom of choice and I would never impose my views on anyone that doesn't agree.However,in my opinion I think women should be more attracted to men that can provide financial stability for them.As women, I think we should focus more on different aspects of the relationship such as taking care of house,health and eventually children while you can still work and strive to be successful in your career.Women should never have to worry about finances because it is the duty of the man to take the financial stability responsibility upon himself,it is a masculine trait(safety and making provisions) and this helps women to be more successful in their feminine traits.If a man is a masculine man, he will want a feminine woman,he enjoys having the opposite energy in his life,masculine men loves to be the hero,provider and protector.Avoid men that will want to engage you with financial obligations by simply and cunningly asking you what you will be bringing to the table,you should only render assistance when necessary,it is abnormal for a woman to be the bread winner,you are not a gold digger by wanting a masculine man,dont be afraid to be tagged such,you are only being a woman.We are in the era of insanity,men are becoming too lazy by asking women to be a provider,i can't understand how any man can sit back and watch his wife struggle financially and expect the home to be to his expectations,clean,do laundry,good food on the table,turn 360 degrees for him in the bedroom and all others ,if so why be married then? not fair.Every woman out there should be very careful with this modern men,we all have one life to live.

How hard could it have been for you to insert some paragraphs in this copy & paste for better reading eh?

Well, I totally agree with this 'philosophy' and I like the fact that you're not pretending that finances isn't one of the most, if not the most important factor you consider before choosing a man.

If you were one of our resident pseudo-feminists and you held this view, then it would have been comical.

I love it when a woman knows her place and is aware that she does NOT have an equal standing with her husband in a marriage where he is the one providing the bulk of the finances.
A simple case of he who pays the piper dictates the tune...

Lovely piece cool

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Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by Nobody: 10:55am On Nov 03, 2020
It's Not Abnormal 4 Women To Be D Breadwinner. It's Good, A Plus & An Advantage Too.
Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by YoonSung54: 10:56am On Nov 03, 2020
Zzor:
Be a masculine man
I'm already, and its enough to beat you hands down in a one on one fist wink
Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by Nobody: 10:58am On Nov 03, 2020
Zzor:
Hope you don't have eyes on your wife's money
Lol, very funny.


I am happy with my son Jason.

Marriage is not for everyone.

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Re: Women, Never Date Or Marry A Man Below Your Financial Status by Nobody: 10:59am On Nov 03, 2020
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