Zzor:
The insults have started coming in,i don't want to fight anyone again

Young woman,

You have to learn to stand for what you believe in

Not everyone would agree with you.

And like an E-Aunty told me, you don't have to E-fight anyone that comes to your thread to say nonsense.

Ignore them and engage those you feel like.

If you were offline and people tried to bully you for your beliefs, would you backtrack to please them?

bukatyne:


It is RE....

RE.... means it has been deleted?

angelfallz:


RE.... means it has been deleted?

Can you tell what the topic was?

bukatyne:


Can you tell what the topic was?

No.

bukatyne:

Can you tell what the topic was?

the topic is back

Zzor:
I believe in freedom of choice and I would never impose my views on anyone that doesn't agree. However, in my opinion I think women should be more attracted to men that can provide financial stability for them. As women I think we should focus more on different aspects of the relationship such as taking care of house,health and eventually children while you can still work and strive to be successful in your career. Women should never have to worry about finances because it is the duty of the man to take the financial stability responsibility upon himself, it is a masculine trait (safety and making provisions) and this helps women to be more successful in their feminine traits. If a man is a masculine man, he will want a feminine woman, he enjoys having the opposite energy in his life, masculine men loves to be the hero, provider and protector. Avoid men that will want to engage you with financial obligations by simply and cunningly asking you what you will be bringing to the table, you should only render assistance when necessary, it is abnormal for a woman to be the bread winner, you are not a gold digger by wanting a masculine man, don't be afraid to be tagged such, you are only being a woman. We are in the era of insanity, men are becoming too lazy by asking women to be providers, I can't understand how any man can sit back and watch his wife struggle financially and expect the home to be to his expectations, clean, do laundry, good food on the table, turn 360 degrees for him in the bedroom and all others, if all these, why be married then? not fair. Every woman out there should be very careful with these modern men, do your best and dont go overboard for anyone, we all have one life to live.

Men don't like to hear the truth.

Madibahisback:
Folorunsho alakija is 2000 times richer than her husband
Funke akindele is richer than her husband
Okonjo iweala is richer than her husband
More successful women are more richer than her husband
You might earn much than your boyfriend but as long as he earn good money you're good to go
But Nigerian girls with fucken sense of entitlement is damn crazy

Obviously there are always exceptions.

Besides I don't think those women you are mentioning started out richer than their husbands. Most of them probably had their husbands support to get to where they are now, that's a completely different situation.

But men who intentionally seek out richer women to date or marry and only making things worse for themselves in the future. No woman likes being the head of a home financially.

UjuJoan2:

Men don't like to hear the truth.

Exactly

Zzor:
he will want a feminine woman, he enjoys having the opposite energy in his life, masculine men loves to be the hero, provider and protector. Avoid men that will want to engage you with financial obligations by simply and cunningly asking you what you will be bringing to the table, you should only render assistance when necessary, it is abnormal for a woman to be the bread winner

UjuJoan2:

But men who intentionally seek out richer women to date or marry and only making things worse for themselves in the future. No woman likes being the head of a home financially.

I only have two questions to ask.

Does every woman in this Family section or on this post agree with this statements above?
By this: It means I have to consistently make sure my Wife never prospers by hook, crook or Juju & try to belittle every thing she does, Else I am doomed.

Is this what I should look forward to achieving?

cc: UjuJoan2, Zzor, bukatyne, mariahAngel

Zzor:
No need for insults, which part of the post do you have problems with

Well, for starters, you said "when Men ask what are you bringing to the table, it means they want to leave you to struggle alone for the family and be the breadwinner".

Please Aunty, who told you that? When Men ask a woman what she brings to the table, they want to know how she will contribute to the upkeep of the family and provide assistance too or if they are just the entitled, liability-inclined bunch that want the man to do everything in the family.

Then you added it with "women should only render assistance when necessary". Who determines when it is "necessary"?

The same women that say "Your money is our money and my money is MY MONEY"? Those same women?

Yes o, there's nothing wrong in having a man that is responsible and can provide for the family but you as the wife, what can you contribute to the family also apart from cooking and sex?