CanadianNaija:


Very pretentious lot. Them full abroad, they suddenly remember all the home training they didn’t have when it’s an oyibo.

A poor woman is overworked and the only thing this hegoat can think of he’s not getting enough sex, not how to fix the problem and reduce the woman’s stress.

That is why the “virtuous women” among these wives end up looking 15years older in their 20 years anniversary pictures, while Oga looks like a baby.

smithclito:


I remember asking politely not to insult. other couples can learn from this thread. do u know I bath my children ,fetch water for the house, sweep at time, run errands just to relieve my wife yet we still have problem. so pls temper r comments with respect. I believe u will not want someone calling r father or brother he goat because of his own wife Will u? . afterall this forum is for adults I believed.

Kriss216:


Your first and second options are void.

Married women always complain that cleaning the house and taking care of the children are too much for them, while they did more than all that for their boyfriends before getting married.
An average Nigerian girlfriend will clean the house, wash plates, cook, serve the boyfriend and still engage him with marathon sex.
But, once she’s married, complains and naggings of too much work sets in.

Mindlog:


Paying bride price is not a receipt of purchase of another human being. You don't cut the nose to spite the face.

Octopusssy:

Come back and comment when you are married. I don't know why it is single people that are the most vocal in marital issues. You guys come online and yammer 'authoritatively' about things you know nothing of.

Argue with your keypad.

CanadianNaija:


You do it at times while it’s her permanent job and yet you do not know the solution to this problem you have?

Don’t go and hire help, be looking for Work horse that you’ll pound after working at least two jobs all day long.

Inconsiderate man!

CanadianNaija:


You do it at times while it’s her permanent job and yet you do not know the solution to this problem you have?

Don’t go and hire help, be looking for Work horse that you’ll pound after working at least two jobs all day long.

Inconsiderate man!

VEXT:


Sir/ma,u r mad... Very mad for insulting the op..

smithclito:

I remember asking politely not to insult. other couples can learn from this thread. do u know I bath my children ,fetch water for the house, sweep at time, run errands just to relieve my wife yet we still have problem. so pls temper r comments with respect. I believe u will not want someone calling r father or brother he goat because of his own wife Will u? . afterall this forum is for adults I believed.

– You didnt take her side in an argument/fight with another person because you knew she was the one at fault - problem oo, she can starve you of sex..
– You didn't let her watch her favourite programme - okay na, she can withhold sex that night..
– You didn't buy her something she asked for - she can reduce or even eliminate sex for one week
– You didn't drive/take her to a place she asked you to - get ready for sulking, and no sex...for two weeks if she remembers and adds the previous issue when you didn't buy her what she needed...
– You decided not to accompany her to her friend's wedding because you would rather do more important things - ohh dear, you have embarrassed her outside, so no sex for one month..

Etc. Etc.

smithclito:
Pls I need your own though .
My wife since after our first child , she got dedicated to house work, cooking, then the children, and almost no time for me .
I almost beg anything I want to make love to her and always have the fear of her reply of tiredness before I try my luck anyway . this have been going on for 5yrs,it was not like that before we got married. am a believer so issue of side chick is not an.option though would have settle it .
I have talk to her several time but she always go back to it
am actually thinking of separation but on the other hand am thinking I might b the one selfish. though am tired of all this already but I love my wife and my children.
pls no abuse just tell me your plain though without sentiment or emotion.
Thanks.

Kriss216:


Your first and second options are void.

Married women always complain that cleaning the house and taking care of the children are too much for them, while they did more than all that for their boyfriends before getting married.
An average Nigerian girlfriend will clean the house, wash plates, cook, serve the boyfriend and still engage him with marathon sex.
But, once she’s married, complains and naggings of too much work sets in.

Kriss216:

Lol

Past memories mean nothing to a Nigerian girl.

Cutehector:
Wahala for husband wey marry Nigerian girl at this time.

mariahAngel:


Wahala yapa for women wey marry insensitively selfish Nigerian men ooo

smithclito:
the thread is open for insult now pls bring it up. mouth ranticees

Cutehector:
why you come dey quote me? You see say i dey my lane jejely, post my comment without quoting anybody, instead of you to do same, you carry you aproko fingers take quote me. Dey your lane o make wahala no follow you for nairaland.

mariahAngel:


Dem no born wahala papa well!

pocohantas:


I think you should divorce her. Since she won’t change and you can’t cheat as a believer- just divorce her, okay?

mariahAngel:


I actually feel sorry for you!

Your comments show you've never truly been loved by a woman. So sad.
Dude, being loved by a woman is the best thing that could ever happen to a man.

pocohantas:


I think you should divorce her. Since she won’t change and you can’t cheat as a believer- just divorce her, okay?

Kriss216:

Mariah, you can’t deny you don’t love me. Swallow your pride and accept the fact.

Make I kuku love all the men wey dey Nairaland...I go soon create list of all the Nairaland men wey I love

CanadianNaija:


You do it at times while it’s her permanent job and yet you do not know the solution to this problem you have?

Don’t go and hire help, be looking for Work horse that you’ll pound after working at least two jobs all day long.

Inconsiderate man!

smithclito:
u people succeeded in turning my anger into laughter. well thanks for all meaningful and respectful contributions. I believed this thread will help other couples. as for me I will consider all meaningful advice here and conclude what my next action will be .My wife is a wonderful home maker and an excellent mother, she use to be a good love making person but she lost it along the way I tried talking to her but highest after apology she go straight back at it .well I dey one Change now only

Kriss216:

Mariah, you can’t deny you don’t love me. Swallow your pride and accept the fact.

mariahAngel:


Reignite your love.
Make her fall in love with you afresh. Awaken the passion in her.
Do things that you haven't done for her before. You love her, don't you?
Start with little things. Buy her romantic gifts: skincare sets, perfume... surprise her
Take her out spontaneously. Make her feel beautiful and special again, and I swear, she'll be killing herself to please you in no time.

Psych412:
babe, I don't understand


all this list for his wife to have sex with him.

mariahAngel:


Reignite your love.
Make her fall in love with you afresh. Awaken the passion in her.
Do things that you haven't done for her before. You love her, don't you?
Start with little things. Buy her romantic gifts: skincare sets, perfume... surprise her
Take her out spontaneously. Make her feel beautiful and special again, and I swear, she'll be killing herself to please you in no time.

smithclito:
u people succeeded in turning my anger into laughter. well thanks for all meaningful and respectful contributions. I believed this thread will help other couples. as for me I will consider all meaningful advice here and conclude what my next action will be .My wife is a wonderful home maker and an excellent mother, she use to be a good love making person but she lost it along the way I tried talking to her but highest after apology she go straight back at it .well I dey one Change now only

tosinhtml:


I really wanted to write something very long, but mehn I just erased every thing as I don't have strength. Just Kindly watch this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Na6fHABGK44

It's a couple having a discussion about about Women losing their sex drive, due to all kinds of situations. EG: Loss of Interest in sex, process of childbirth, complications, taking care of children etc.

In this video, his Wife was able to have a sit-down discussion & be honest about these issues. You see ehn, you cannot force a horse to drink water, If she isn't willing to change, nothing can change her.