Mindlog:


Paying bride price is not a receipt of purchase of another human being. You don't cut the nose to spite the face.

CanadianNaija:


Very pretentious lot. Them full abroad, they suddenly remember all the home training they didn’t have when it’s an oyibo.

A poor woman is overworked and the only thing this hegoat can think of he’s not getting enough sex, not how to fix the problem and reduce the woman’s stress.

That is why the “virtuous women” among these wives end up looking 15years older in their 20 years anniversary pictures, while Oga looks like a baby.

Twoclans:



Haaaaaaaaaaaa POCO

Kriss216:


Your first and second options are void.

Married women always complain that cleaning the house and taking care of the children are too much for them, while they did more than all that for their boyfriends before getting married.
An average Nigerian girlfriend will clean the house, wash plates, cook, serve the boyfriend and still engage him with marathon sex.
But, once she’s married, complains and naggings of too much work sets in.

HarunaWest:

Then why did they collect the yam, bags of clothes and other stuff?Dude ,its his right to have sex with his wife.

pocohantas:


No need to dey beg them, make e divorce am. All of us will rest. How you see am?

Twoclans:


I did not want to tell him that if his penising game is poor even if he likes he should marry 100 women it will still end in tears.

Why will I as a wife be tired to chop better prick.If I hear. Which mumu house chores excuse is everybody talking about.

Anyway I hope he considers your suggestion.

smithclito:
Pls I need your own though .
My wife since after our first child , she got dedicated to house work, cooking, then the children, and almost no time for me .
I almost beg anything I want to make love to her and always have the fear of her reply of tiredness before I try my luck anyway . this have been going on for 5yrs,it was not like that before we got married. am a believer so issue of side chick is not an.option though would have settle it .
I have talk to her several time but she always go back to it
am actually thinking of separation but on the other hand am thinking I might b the one selfish. though am tired of all this already but I love my wife and my children.
pls no abuse just tell me your plain though without sentiment or emotion.
Thanks.

Kriss216:


Your first and second options are void.

Married women always complain that cleaning the house and taking care of the children are too much for them, while they did more than all that for their boyfriends before getting married.
An average Nigerian girlfriend will clean the house, wash plates, cook, serve the boyfriend and still engage him with marathon sex.
But, once she’s married, complains and naggings of too much work sets in.

smithclito:


I remember asking politely not to insult. other couples can learn from this thread. do u know I bath my children ,fetch water for the house, sweep at time, run errands just to relieve my wife yet we still have problem. so pls temper r comments with respect. I believe u will not want someone calling r father or brother he goat because of his own wife Will u? . afterall this forum is for adults I believed.

smithclito:
the thread is open for insult now pls bring it up. mouth ranticees

mariahAngel:


Reignite your love.
Make her fall in love with you afresh. Awaken the passion in her.
Do things that you haven't done for her before. You love her, don't you?
Start with little things. Buy her romantic gifts: skincare sets, perfume... surprise her
Take her out spontaneously. Make her feel beautiful and special again, and I swear, she'll be killing herself to please you in no time.

Psych412:
babe, I don't understand

all this list for his wife to have sex with him.

smithclito:
Pls I need your own though .
My wife since after our first child , she got dedicated to house work, cooking, then the children, and almost no time for me .
I almost beg anything I want to make love to her and always have the fear of her reply of tiredness before I try my luck anyway . this have been going on for 5yrs,it was not like that before we got married. am a believer so issue of side chick is not an.option though would have settle it .
I have talk to her several time but she always go back to it
am actually thinking of separation but on the other hand am thinking I might b the one selfish. though am tired of all this already but I love my wife and my children.
pls no abuse just tell me your plain though without sentiment or emotion.
Thanks.

Munzy14:

na so!


Road weh don close don close, Oga don try...

mariahAngel:


That's not true

A woman who once loved you can love you again

Munzy14:

We are talking sex, not love o...


OP's wife love him, but he isn't getting sex which is part of conjugal rights.

mariahAngel:


There's a difference between loving and being in love with a person.
The passion part of their relationship is dying out, which needs reigniting.

Munzy14:

I modified the comment.


U see y I said something about naija couples, and ignoring ones in a while getaways..All those things count...And rejuvenate things...Despite the fact, the one weh go cut, go cut.


Marriage no be beans sha, see finish can birth withdrawal very easy easy...

mariahAngel:


It's not easy being a woman o!
The demands can be overwhelming... from husband to children to chores to everything
The worst part is that most men don't seem to understand.... even women find it hard to understand themselves and what they're feeling most times

There are so many issues about women that should be addressed.

Munzy14:

To be a man is not a day job o...

But wait, y this our generation the complain alot, and our mothers did everything, and still enjoyed marital life...smh
Are our mothers different from nowadays women?
Because most of us had either working class mom or business minded ones..yet discharged their duties, even pride in it.


At this stage, only God knows what year 3000 and above ladies will be like...

mariahAngel:

That is why couples need to carry each other along, supporting each other.




Uwa mmebi

Men within that time probably had one thing or the other to complain about and compared their time with the time before, and I believe men of the future will say men of now had it good.

Munzy14:

lol, smh same time...We talking women, u deh change am to men..

Men of those days enjoyed, very free to marry many, imagine op at liberty to marry many, he won't create this kind thread.

He will be praying for strength to discharge his duties
.. ume ka eji afu oku

belcom10:
You said you are a believer. You also said she was not like that before you get married. Did you taste or have been eating the cookie before marriage. Or your own believer is different from the one we know.

Let's know before I summit my advice.

Munzy14:

We are talking sex, not love o...


OP's wife love him, but he isn't getting sex which is part of conjugal rights.

And all this domestic chores no be excuse for a woman weh want to bleep, even she flew in from a long journey, she will bleep hell out of the man.


For this case, I think crackhaus made more sense with the detailed narratives.....The problem must be in that comment.

Nwoke mmadu a di go frustrated.

Na y i no like nice guy, them go use u deh tie wood anyhow..
If OP na bad guy, wify go respect herself.

Munzy14:

lol, smh same time...We talking women, u deh change am to men..

Men of those days enjoyed, very free to marry many, imagine op at liberty to marry many, he won't create this kind thread.

He will be praying for strength to discharge his duties
.. ume ka eji afu oku

Na now you come!

I kwuola ihe nu gi n'obi...make una come dey marry many na, ka anyi lewenu anya

Sixfeetbelle:


You always talk out of point that I wonder how you get so many likes. Which lady took care of children when she was dating her boyfriend? Or do you think taking care of children is like watching a soccer match?

smithclito:
u people succeeded in turning my anger into laughter. well thanks for all meaningful and respectful contributions. I believed this thread will help other couples. as for me I will consider all meaningful advice here and conclude what my next action will be .My wife is a wonderful home maker and an excellent mother, she use to be a good love making person but she lost it along the way I tried talking to her but highest after apology she go straight back at it .well I dey one Change now only

ImaIma1:


You are taking him seriously

Sixfeetbelle:


I tire ooh.

But I also worry for the people that will take him serious