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Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Sixfeetbelle: 12:22am On Nov 09, 2020
ImaIma1:


I don't think any wise person will.

Don't be too sure ooh. Nairalanders are that weird grin grin
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Martin0(m): 1:11am On Nov 09, 2020
Twoclans:


I did not want to tell him that if his penising game is poor even if he likes he should marry 100 women it will still end in tears.

Why will I as a wife be tired to chop better prick.If I hear.Which mumu house chores excuse is everybody talking about.

Anyway I hope he considers your suggestion.
u be wan kind crazy girl oooo;d
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by belcom10(m): 5:27am On Nov 09, 2020
My advice now, Always appreciate her for been your wife and acknowledge her effort in keeping the home and taking care of the children.
Anytime you're opportune assist her in some of the chores.
Get her a surprise gift at times. Peace to your home.




smithclito:



nobody was born a born again Christian. I use to very social then with lots if club girl who don't give u headache. u have them and u go r way. during and after my marriage I met Christ proper and I dont intend turning back
Note I dated my wife for 5 yrs before marriage.
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by UjuJoan2: 5:46am On Nov 09, 2020
CanadianNaija:


Very pretentious lot. Them full abroad, they suddenly remember all the home training they didn’t have when it’s an oyibo.

A poor woman is overworked and the only thing this hegoat can think of he’s not getting enough sex, not how to fix the problem and reduce the woman’s stress.

That is why the “virtuous women” among these wives end up looking 15years older in their 20 years anniversary pictures, while Oga looks like a baby.

It's so so annoying.

I know other women will even advice her to have sex with him everyday, despite her exhaustion, just so he doesn't cheat.

A lot of married Nigerian women are suffering from Stockholm syndrome. It's very pitiful to see.

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Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Twoclans(f): 5:58am On Nov 09, 2020
Martin0:
u be wan kind crazy girl oooo;d

Chimooooo abeg were u commot from .I assumed one chikito has finally reset your brain and cured you philandering lifestyle. tongue

Martin nwannem how christmas go be.Agulu things abi you don finally japa from naija undecided

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Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Munzy14(m): 6:38am On Nov 09, 2020
mariahAngel:


Na now you come! cheesy

I kwuola ihe nu gi n'obi...make una come dey marry many na, ka anyi lewenu anya grin
hahahahaha, for where....


I no be polygamous guy biko, nsogbu kariri ihe uto di na ya...


All we pray na wife weh go follow us hold body, as we age in it.....And not the one weh go starve us like OP own.

One good and understanding wife, is better than a 5ladies in a polygamous setting..cheesy
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Munzy14(m): 6:52am On Nov 09, 2020
crackhaus:

That's a fact!
And if I didn't know, I would think you were making it up cheesy

I believe I've mentioned this sometime here before, and I expect that most men (married or single or player) would already know it by now – Women nor get any other thing wey dem fit use manipulate/control their men pass sex, NOTHING else...no jokes grin
Although some may go further to use the kid(s), some might use food if they know the man is the type that it will work for... but overall, their most basic/go-to/first choice tool of control and manipulation is always sex.

However, the moment a man has successfully freed himself from this eternal curse of always needing/desiring pünny like it's the next best thing after oxygen, more than half of his problems with women (whether wife or girlfriend) go disappear especially when they know he is that type of person that can't be bothered to grovel for it.

That one nor mean say we nor go make them feel like the most important people in our lives, but at the same time, a man who values his peace of mind needs to have a body language that makes his partner/wife understand he is not TOTALLY dependent/tied to that feeling of pleasure she can provide for 30mins once she opens her legs... even though she is the queen of his world.

Meaning if she carry dey do anyhow, she go still see anyhow. grin
Life is never complex, na just understanding the logics.. And u will enjoy it.

You are right, the moment a man see sex like food, madam go use am as tool.

The rich, their wife beg them for sex, the poor beg their wife for sex...Irony of life..grin

Nothing beats striking a balance, with resources and care for each other...But then, no excuse for denying a partner conjugal rights...Except sickness.

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Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Kriss216: 7:22am On Nov 09, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


You always talk out of point that I wonder how you get so many likes. Which lady took care of children when she was dating her boyfriend? Or do you think taking care of children is like watching a soccer match?
Ask any Arsenal fan what it takes to watch Arsenal match, maybe you’ll understand that watching a soccer match ain’t a child’s play.
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by angelfallz(m): 7:23am On Nov 09, 2020
Munzy14:

We are talking sex, not love o...cheesy


OP's wife love him, but he isn't getting sex which is part of conjugal rights.

And all this domestic chores no be excuse for a woman weh want to bleep, even she flew in from a long journey, she will bleep hell out of the man.


For this case, I think crackhaus made more sense with the detailed narratives.....The problem must be in that comment.

Nwoke mmadu a di go frustrated.

Na y i no like nice guy, them go use u deh tie wood anyhow..grin
If OP na bad guy, wify go respect herself.

Well said.
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by angelfallz(m): 7:32am On Nov 09, 2020
Kekereekun123:
women are evil and manipulative things. no wonder Islam no allow them freedom along with other ancient cultures. A woman can travel from kogi to Lagos and still give you mind-blowing sex. if as a married man she is giving excuse marry another wife or get side chick. nonsense

I agree with you. Although i don't advocate adultery. But sometimes that is the best solution. People that have been advising that the husband should help her reduce stress, i just dey laugh. Although i am not counting out the fact that stress levels can play a role reducing her want for sex.

please note:
If a woman wants to have sex with you, she would have sex with you, when a woman does not want to have sex with you, she would be giving you excuses.
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by angelfallz(m): 7:34am On Nov 09, 2020
smithclito:


I see the reason y r men hardly stay faithful to you women. my apologise to r life
u even call someone u dont even know inconsiderate man . u the biggest fool the thread has recorded. are u even married ? do u even have what it takes to keep a partner. Buffalo.

Ignore such women please.

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Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by mariahAngel(f): 8:33am On Nov 09, 2020
Munzy14:

hahahahaha, for where....


I no be polygamous guy biko, nsogbu kariri ihe uto di na ya...


All we pray na wife weh go follow us hold body, as we age in it.....And not the one weh go starve us like OP own.

One good and understanding wife, is better than a 5ladies in a polygamous setting..cheesy

Ngwanu... cheesy

Happy new week
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by bukatyne(f): 8:51am On Nov 09, 2020
Psych412:
babe, I don't understand


all this list for his wife to have sex with him.



Hahahahahahaha!

Let me go on reading.
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Munzy14(m): 2:44pm On Nov 09, 2020
mariahAngel:

Ngwanu... cheesy
Happy new week
ooh!! same here..

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Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by crackhaus: 8:30pm On Nov 09, 2020
Munzy14:

Life is never complex, na just understanding the logics.. And u will enjoy it.

You are right, the moment a man see sex like food, madam go use am as tool.

The rich, their wife beg them for sex, the poor beg their wife for sex...Irony of life..grin

Nothing beats striking a balance, with resources and care for each other...But then, no excuse for denying a partner conjugal rights...Except sickness.
True that...
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Nobody: 8:36pm On Nov 09, 2020
smithclito:


I remember asking politely not to insult. other couples can learn from this thread. do u know I bath my children ,fetch water for the house, sweep at time, run errands just to relieve my wife yet we still have problem. so pls temper r comments with respect. I believe u will not want someone calling r father or brother he goat because of his own wife Will u? . afterall this forum is for adults I believed.
Please and please get her a house help, even if its two. If you actually do all these, then you are a good man, but come to think of it, are there not women who work full time and also take care of the kids? I have seen a couple of super women like that, I feel your wife is being inconsiderate and lazy,
what does she do when the kids go to school? Maybe she is no longer attracted to you. Mid-life crises setting in.
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Martin0(m): 4:11pm On Nov 14, 2020
Twoclans:


Chimooooo abeg were u commot from .I assumed one chikito has finally reset your brain and cured you philandering lifestyle. tongue

Martin nwannem how christmas go be.Agulu things abi you don finally japa from naija undecided




Omo Nne many things don change oooo, I no dey naija again for a long time now..... I never secure ground well so I never even know when person go come naija again, grin
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Martin0(m): 4:12pm On Nov 14, 2020
Twoclans:


Chimooooo abeg were u commot from .I assumed one chikito has finally reset your brain and cured you philandering lifestyle. tongue

Martin nwannem how christmas go be.Agulu things abi you don finally japa from naija undecided

. You too dey play play grin so you go visit home this December grin
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Twoclans(f): 4:31pm On Nov 14, 2020
Martin0:




Omo Nne many things don change oooo, I no dey naija again for a long time now..... I never secure ground well so I never even know when person go come naija again, grin


That is good.Dont worry with time you will get to settle down and ground go secure well.

Just be focused .

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Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Martin0(m): 4:48pm On Nov 14, 2020
Twoclans:



That is good.Dont worry with time you will get to settle down and ground go secure well.

Just be focused .
. So how far na, where u come dey since, wait u still dey strong head dey follow me abi, u no wan give me weitin we go take dey talk abi
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Twoclans(f): 4:58pm On Nov 14, 2020
Martin0:
. So how far na, where u come dey since, wait u still dey strong head dey follow me abi, u no wan give me weitin we go take dey talk abi

Martin biko leave me alone ,my head is too hot for you.my way no pure .Dont allow your family to start fasting and prayer ontop your case . grin grin grin

Stay focused .The Main reason you are outside naija is to make money. Make all the money you can. cool

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Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Martin0(m): 5:00pm On Nov 14, 2020
Twoclans:


Martin biko leave me alone ,my head is too hot for you.my way no pure .Dont allow your family to start fasting and prayer ontop your case . grin grin grin

Stay focused .The Main reason you are outside naija is to make money. Make all the money you can. cool




Hahahahahahahaha na yeye girl grin I tell you say I dey fear you abi u don dey do juju levels grin
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Martin0(m): 5:02pm On Nov 14, 2020
Twoclans:


Martin biko leave me alone ,my head is too hot for you.my way no pure .Dont allow your family to start fasting and prayer ontop your case . grin grin grin

Stay focused .The Main reason you are outside naija is to make money. Make all the money you can. cool

come ook u know how long we don dey talk for this nairaland sha, u go stingy ooo, u Sabi come disturb me for Emil but you no Sabi to give person number grin abi u be lesbian grin talk oooo
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Twoclans(f): 5:09pm On Nov 14, 2020
Martin0:
come ook u know how long we don dey talk for this nairaland sha, u go stingy ooo, u Sabi come disturb me for Emil but you no Sabi to give person number grin abi u be lesbian grin talk oooo

I know exactly how long we have been talking.Martin you are a good boy and a mummy's boy.You cant handle craze people like me.

Lesbian ke? angry Naaaahhhhh .You know I like better odogwu to be a lesbian grin

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Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Martin0(m): 5:14pm On Nov 14, 2020
Twoclans:


I know exactly how long we have been talking.Martin you are a good boy and a mummy's boy.You cant handle craze people like me.

Lesbian ke? angry Naaaahhhhh .You know I like better odogwu to be a lesbian grin


Weitin dey worry you sef eh grin come u think say I dey play with you grin grin
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Martin0(m): 5:16pm On Nov 14, 2020
Twoclans:


I know exactly how long we have been talking.Martin you are a good boy and a mummy's boy.You cant handle craze people like me. Bia no dey tell me this thing oo my no run enter you ooo gringrin

Lesbian ke? angry Naaaahhhhh .You know I like better odogwu to be a lesbian grin
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Twoclans(f): 5:18pm On Nov 14, 2020
Martin0:



Weitin dey worry you sef eh grin come u think say I dey play with you grin grin

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Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Martin0(m): 5:23pm On Nov 14, 2020
[quote author=Twoclans post=96039395][/quote
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I ask you for this last time, you go give me or you no go give me?
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Twoclans(f): 5:28pm On Nov 14, 2020
[quote author=Martin0 post=96039569][/quote]

I WILL NOT.

Focus on the reason you are offshore.

Blows kiss kiss

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Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by djon78(m): 6:00pm On Nov 14, 2020
crackhaus:

That's a fact!
And if I didn't know, I would think you were making it up cheesy

I believe I've mentioned this sometime here before, and I expect that most men (married or single or player) would already know it by now – Women nor get any other thing wey dem fit use manipulate/control their men pass sex, NOTHING else...no jokes grin
Although some may go further to use the kid(s), some might use food if they know the man is the type that it will work for... but overall, their most basic/go-to/first choice tool of control and manipulation is always sex.

However, the moment a man has successfully freed himself from this eternal curse of always needing/desiring pünny like it's the next best thing after oxygen, more than half of his problems with women (whether wife or girlfriend) go disappear especially when they know he is that type of person that can't be bothered to grovel for it.

That one nor mean say we nor go make them feel like the most important people in our lives, but at the same time, a man who values his peace of mind needs to have a body language that makes his partner/wife understand he is not TOTALLY dependent/tied to that feeling of pleasure she can provide for 30mins once she opens her legs... even though she is the queen of his world.

Meaning if she carry dey do anyhow, she go still see anyhow. grin
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Martin0(m): 7:09pm On Nov 14, 2020
Twoclans:


I WILL NOT.

Focus on the reason you are offshore.

Blows kiss kiss
hahahahahahah see wahala oooo e no get weitin musa no go see for gate ooo grin

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