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Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by bukatyne(op): 12:17am On Jul 13, 2020
Gosh, I low key like wahala sha.

Bring it on!
Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by eazzzy1(m): 12:33am On Jul 13, 2020
Alexaonfleek:
You can't compare a thug to a sex freak.
One is bad,and the other..not so.
You can bring out her freaky nature,how?
Expose her yourself in both theory and practical...if you know what I mean lol grin
Be a good and patient teacher while at it too.
Except your girl naturally has low libido or she's a deeper life extremist,I don't see why she wouldn't turn freaky for you wink
Lol maybe I used the wrong word, let’s say tough guy like you said. If you date a gentle guy and try to make him a tough guy it may not work out well for both of you.

For example, when I broke up with a freak ex some years ago, I got a decent girl and I tried to buy her short dresses, she was totally uncomfortable with showing her legs, fixing her nail, heavy makeup etc I found myself complaining occasionally about it. Till I found out people are the best version of themselves when you let them be themselves.

In the bedroom she wasn’t as free and adventurous as my ex, so I stopped waiting for her to initiate sex, be dominant in bed etc I just took charge of sex totally. At first I thought she didn’t like me enough to initiate sex or want to eat me up during sex. Till I accepted her for who she was and loved her for it, the relationship was not enjoyable.
Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by eazzzy1(m): 12:37am On Jul 13, 2020
[quote author=bukatyne post=91655666][/quote]grin buka wahala. If fleek is still in school in 2022 she may be too young for me. I finished school in 2011. Although at quite an early age. If I do the maths she’s still a baby. I no be Oga Ned Nwokwo o.
Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by bukatyne(op): 3:41pm On Aug 24, 2020
Mariangeles:
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

E don be!
Laslas, na for dis nairaland we go help you settle the matter
No be here we dey ?
grin
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Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by bukatyne(op): 3:42pm On Aug 24, 2020
eazzzy1:
grin buka wahala. If fleek is still in school in 2022 she may be too young for me. I finished school in 2011. Although at quite an early age. If I do the maths she’s still a baby. I no be Oga Ned Nwokwo o.
grin
Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by bukatyne(op): 11:50am On Nov 03, 2020
Since I have caught the outlander bug, I must say Jamie Fraser is now a favorite male character.

Whoever would displace him must be 'perfect'. grin

I am content with Jamie Fraser sha cheesy
Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by bukatyne(op): 11:41am On Nov 17, 2020
@mariahAngel,

Have you watched Gran Hotel? A Spanish series.

And Outlander? A Scottish series.

I have caught your series bug much means little time for any other form of recreation.

I guess watching on my phone makes it easier to follow.
Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by mariahAngel(f): 5:18pm On Nov 17, 2020
bukatyne:
@mariahAngel,

Have you watched Gran Hotel? A Spanish series.

And Outlander? A Scottish series.
No, I haven't.
How interesting are they? I'll check them out.

I have caught your series bug much means little time for any other form of recreation.

I guess watching on my phone makes it easier to follow.
You're the give-it -all-to-me-at-once type! cheesy
Me, I patiently take it slow and let the characters and romance grow on me.
I'm usually nostalgic whenever any of my favourite series is coming to an end.
Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by bukatyne(op): 10:32pm On Nov 18, 2020
mariahAngel:
No, I haven't.
How interesting are they? I'll check them out.



You're the give-it -all-to-me-at-once type! cheesy
Me, I patiently take it slow and let the characters and romance grow on me.
I'm usually nostalgic whenever any of my favourite series is coming to an end.
They are very interesting.

Just finished Gran Hotel smiling at the end.

Hahahahahahahaha @ give it all to me. I actually watch movies to see the 'how' and not 'what'.

I read reviews, spoilers, character analysis, plot on Wikipedia before watching. grin

I find iconic European movies/series know how to build up anticipation, romance and character depth that even when you binge on them, you still feel the nostalgia.

I find American movies very PC and stark. More like sex vs. love making or mama put vs buffet.

I suspect they write their movies, bring out dictionary of political correctness and modify the plot to suit it.

Let me know your thoughts when you are done watching. smiley
Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by Queenserah26(f): 10:55pm On Nov 18, 2020
One cold bottle of wine for you for this grin

eazzzy1:
Lol freaky like, she takes charge in bed, wear lingerie with stockings, introduce hand cuffs, twerks and other bad things. My priorities has changed. I would rather a mother/wife material than a twerker/clubber aka freak.
Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by Queenserah26(f): 10:57pm On Nov 18, 2020
Apt

Kenplay:
Naturally am an introver who doesnt relate much with people except it involves intelligent discussions, business, politics and world affairs. I also have anger issue.

So definately, the kind of woman I know I will need in a wife is one who is very very calm and dont take things personality, atleast this will help not to ignite my anger as her calmness will be like a water to my fire nature.

Secondly, I am not the religious type but I will love my woman to be a little religious with moral, a lady that upholds religion, conservative and traditional values is more likely to believe in family and marriage.(this is where I personally like you)

Thirdly, I am the type that act out of my impulse before thinking so I will love someone who is the opposite, she should be one who can advice me like; “Honey I dont think you should fight him, just forgive him because you might hurt him and put yourself in trouble."
Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by bukatyne(op): 10:57pm On Nov 18, 2020
Queenserah26:
One cold bottle of wine for you for this grin
Na wa o!

We might have #Sereazzzy2022 afterall grin
Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by Queenserah26(f): 10:58pm On Nov 18, 2020
shocked
bukatyne:
Na wa o!

We might have #Sereazzzy2022 afterall grin
Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by bukatyne(op): 10:58pm On Nov 18, 2020
Toor, you haff spoilt the magic angry
Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by omooba969(m): 11:53pm On Nov 18, 2020
Kenplay:
Naturally am an introver who doesnt relate much with people except it involves intelligent discussions, business, politics and world affairs. I also have anger issue.

So definately, the kind of woman I know I will need in a wife is one who is very very calm and dont take things personality, atleast this will help not to ignite my anger as her calmness will be like a water to my fire nature.

Secondly, I am not the religious type but I will love my woman to be a little religious with moral, a lady that upholds religion, conservative and traditional values is more likely to believe in family and marriage.(this is where I personally like you)

Thirdly, I am the type that act out of my impulse before thinking so I will love someone who is the opposite, she should be one who can advice me like; “Honey I dont think you should fight him, just forgive him because you might hurt him and put yourself in trouble."
You don't need a wife yet but a mum to re-train you.

Nigga, go work on yasef! angry angry angry angry
Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by omooba969(m): 11:58pm On Nov 18, 2020
eazzzy1:
Lol maybe I used the wrong word, let’s say tough guy like you said. If you date a gentle guy and try to make him a tough guy it may not work out well for both of you.

For example, when I broke up with a freak ex some years ago, I got a decent girl and I tried to buy her short dresses, she was totally uncomfortable with showing her legs, fixing her nail, heavy makeup etc I found myself complaining occasionally about it. Till I found out people are the best version of themselves when you let them be themselves.

In the bedroom she wasn’t as free and adventurous as my ex, so I stopped waiting for her to initiate sex, be dominant in bed etc I just took charge of sex totally. At first I thought she didn’t like me enough to initiate sex or want to eat me up during sex. Till I accepted her for who she was and loved her for it, the relationship was not enjoyable.
I can relate.
Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by Nobody:
omooba969:
You don't need a wife yet but a mum to re-train you.

Nigga, go work on yasef! angry angry angry angry
..
Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by bukatyne(op): 7:10am On Nov 19, 2020
Who are the peeps attempting to spoil my thread?

Biko, this is lovers zone. undecided

No fighting.
Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by mariahAngel(f): 7:18am On Nov 19, 2020
bukatyne:
Who are the peeps attempting to spoil my thread?

Biko, this is lovers zone. undecided

No fighting.
Eyin le fa wahala grin
Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by mariahAngel(f): 7:22am On Nov 19, 2020
Kenplay:
You are a bastard, who is this slowpoke?
“Honey I dont think you should fight him, just forgive him because you might hurt him and put yourself in trouble."

Let me help awa future wife grin
Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by mariahAngel(f): 7:27am On Nov 19, 2020
bukatyne:
They are very interesting.

Just finished Gran Hotel smiling at the end.

Hahahahahahahaha @ give it all to me. I actually watch movies to see the 'how' and not 'what'.

I read reviews, spoilers, character analysis, plot on Wikipedia before watching. grin
Smh! grin
Especially @bolded grin

I find iconic European movies/series know how to build up anticipation, romance and character depth that even when you binge on them, you still feel the nostalgia.

I find American movies very PC and stark. More like sex vs. love making or mama put vs buffet.

I suspect they write their movies, bring out dictionary of political correctness and modify the plot to suit it.
I don't think Americans are even patient enough to fall in love in their real life.
I hate how they build love stories in their series.

Let me know your thoughts when you are done watching. smiley
I will. smiley
Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by bukatyne(op): 7:47am On Nov 19, 2020
mariahAngel:
Smh! grin
Especially @bolded grin



I don't think Americans are even patient enough to fall in love in their real life.
I hate how they build love stories in their series.



I will. smiley
I stumbled on The Hookup Plan and in 4mths, the girl was soooooo in love with the guy. Moved in, had sex uncountable times etc etc.

One of the series I mentioned, it took them almost a year to make love which took several hours.

Romance movies/ human relations is certainly not their strong suit.

European Period Pieces are my new fave.
Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by Nobody: 8:58am On Nov 19, 2020
mariahAngel:
“Honey I dont think you should fight him, just forgive him because you might hurt him and put yourself in trouble."

Let me help awa future wife grin
hahaha….I love your sense of homor baby
Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by mariahAngel(f): 10:46am On Nov 19, 2020
bukatyne:
I stumbled on The Hookup Plan and in 4mths, the girl was soooooo in love with the guy. Moved in, had sex uncountable times etc etc.
Nigerian relationships in reality takes even shorter time grin
I know of a couple who met, got pregnant and married within 6months grin

One of the series I mentioned, it took them almost a year to make love which took several hours.

Romance movies/ human relations is certainly not their strong suit.
It seems like my kind of series.
Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by omooba969(m): 11:11am On Nov 19, 2020
Kenplay:
I am a bastard and a möron?
I agree 100% but you need to enrol for an Anger Management course - for your own good. It will also guarantee the safety of any girl you deceptively persuade to marry you.

My 2kobo ✌️
Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by omooba969(m): 11:19am On Nov 19, 2020
bukatyne:
Who are the peeps attempting to spoil my thread?

Biko, this is lovers zone. undecided

No fighting.
There's need to point out to some who have Anger Management issues so they can realise there's a problem and summarily work on themselves.

A step to safeguarding our sisters who may unfortunately marry this category of time-bombs parading as potential suitors.
Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by Magnoliaa(f): 2:16am On Dec 14, 2020
to be crazily rich like Jeff Bezos and still give me 100% of his time, love, attention.

Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by Liposure: 12:33pm On Jan 01, 2021
bukatyne:
Toor, you haff spoilt the magic angry
happy new year
Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by bukatyne(op): 12:46pm On Jan 01, 2021
Magnoliaa:
to be crazily rich like Jeff Bezos and still give me 100% of his time, love, attention.
Hahahahahaha

Goodluck. kiss

On second thoughts, it is very possible.

Jeff Bezos with his crazy schedule was able to nurture an affair.
Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by bukatyne(op): 12:46pm On Jan 01, 2021
Liposure:
happy new year
I wish you same.
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